When You Dress, do you feel empowered or submissive?

[brassieres]

I guess that I am more on the submissive/passive side myself.

[PatChick]

I'm usually submissive either way. It's actually a role reversal when I'm the dominant one with my GF

[kimdl93]

I would say this. As I have come to grips with my gender identity, my self image has greatly improved. I have always done reasonably well, made a respectable living, Etc, but I had a deeply ingrained sense of inadequacy and self loathing. That's gone and I'm more confident as I approach what life serves up. Also, after you've spent a few days out in public dressed as a woman, other challenges seem relatively manageable!

[vallerie lacy]

I'm too busy feeling girlie to know.

[Alberta_Pat]

I am me. Makes no difference, but my Bride suggests that I am a bit "softer".

[Anneliese]

I am a submissive, without question. When my last girlfriend said she was a submissive and wanted me to act tough and studly, I knew things weren't going to work out, although we continued to date and hang out for another six months or so. She was a bisexual submissive, not that that makes any difference. She kept an online diary, which I only discovered a couple of months ago (we broke up seven years ago). Although events are mentioned which took place during my time with her, as well as other boyfriends, I am not so much as mentioned, positively or negatively. I guess I didn't make much of an impression. One thing for sure, she wouldn't have batted an eye if I dressed around her.

[sweetshauna]

This is an easy one for me....Submissive.

[Kate Simmons]

Let's just put it this way Hon. Kate is a liberated woman. :battingeyelashes::)

[Marcelle]

Neither . . . I am just me. Isha tends to be a little less in your face especially when it comes to rude stares. However that is not her being submissive but ignoring what is obviously ignorance or curiosity on the part of the other person as nothing good can be gained but getting up their business. Now if someone was outwardly rude or violent then submissive would not be a word that comes to mind.

Hugs

Isha

[Rachael Leigh]

I do know when I'm dressed I do have this different energy about me, not sure how to describe it more than that. I do feel good about my image but of course have yet to go out there in public in full fem with that image. Maybe someday

[jaye_cd]

I tend to be even more empowered and dominant when dressed. I am rarely submissive to others these days.

[jenni_xx]

When I dress, I feel exactly the same as I do wearing male clothing.

It's just more fun to select from the feminine side of the wardrobe.

[carhill2mn]

I don't think of myself as either. I know that when I am en femme that I am more patient and a better listener but I do not think that is being submissive.

[Valarie]

I just feel happy :) sometimes I feel a bit more confident than I usually do in men's close, but other than that I never feel submissive. Unless I am wearing a cute nighty and my wife is frisky. ;)

[gautier_nikolai]

When i dress up en femme i always put in the effort.So i tend to feel more confident and maybe empowered therefore.

However, i guess you have to have an air of confidence and laissez-faire about you en femme en public.

Same when i have put the effort in satorially en drab, sports jacket, nice jeans or trousers and polished shoes.

Although, by nature, without the clothes i am much more and feel much more submissive to virtually all and sundry.

[heellover]

I want to be the submissive one when I become Natasha,but my wife is naturally the submissive type,so its hard.

[Rachel Morley]

When I first started dressing I used to feel very submissive but these days I feel less so. I would say that I feel relaxed, happy, confident, more attractive, and generally more easy going in my attitude.

[rocval2001]

I would have to say that when I am dressed it feels like me - But if I had to label it I would be a bit on the submissive side.

[Adriana Moretti]

I am TOTALLY submissive....

[Jason+]

I usually feel content and happy, but it doesn't seem to change the level of submissiveness in me one way or the other.

[Cheryl T]

Both actually.
If I'm going out I feel totally in control now, no hesitations, no qualms.
If we're home and ... then I do feel somewhat submissive and love it.

[Cynthia Anne]

I think I'm empowered enough to be submissive!:doh:

[Tristessa]

Both. I find it empowering to be submissive!

[irene9999]

I feel softer and girlier when dressed, so I'd say submissive

[Alice B]

I've never had the opportunity to be submissive, but it might be fun.

[Lacyfem]

I think it depends on who I'm with as with men I like to be submissive but another gurl I kind of like to be more aggressive...

[Ressie]

I don't know if this question is sexual or whether or not I have the ability to be assertive dealing with people. Could you clarify?

[LaraPeterson]

I was bred to be an alpha male; being assertive and in charge has never been a challenge for me. But when I get all dressed up and spray on a little perfume, I like giving first chair to the guy I'm with on occasion. Having a door opened for me or a wine selection made on my behalf is quite nice.

And when a guy reaches across the car seat and runs his hand up my leg and under my dress, I just shiver and smile--if that's being submissive then, yep, that's me!

[Jenniferathome]

I feel it is quite empowering to own up to my cross dressing by cross dressing. No hiding once dressed.

[AmandaM]

Neither. Unless it's dressing for bed, then definitely submissive.

[Beverley Sims]

I feela bit of both, under different situations.

[S. Lisa Smith]

I feel proud and empowered!

[Richelle423]

When I'm dressed I feel empowered.I keep repeating to mysself " you're a woman you can do anything you want to do. Don't let anyone bring you down damnit!!"

[Stephanie Morgan]

Definitely submissive.

[Stephanie Sometimes]

Definitely more empowered. At the same time much more at peace with myself and more calm.

[lisagurl]

both i think, it depends....

[Adrienna]

Interesting question. I am normally kind of dominant by nature so naturally it carries over to my femme side especially when I CD. It's just an extension of who I am so being what it is I have fully accepted that element of myself either way.

[krissy]

I'm empowered I'm more bold than normal mode

[Penny2325]

A little of both. Empowered because I get to be "me" but submissive because thats just how I am!

[Christina Kay]

Submissive, but whole lot better sense of humor ,, :). Lol

[kristy321ca]

Hmm, never thought about it 'till now. Don't really think either! I just feel good ;)

[laciewhite]

100% submissive

[Pandys]

Actually I think I am finding I dress when I am feeling vulnerable or "submissive"

[JennyLynn]

I also find myself quietly submissive, but still quietly strong. I know who I am, but like to be sweet.

[reb.femme]

I do as my wife says. Therefore, I dominate my submissive position.......possibly? :doh:

I don't think I change too much when dressed and I'm not empowered by it either, to be honest. I love being dressed....that's about it really!

Rebecca

[Karmen]

Definitely submissive.

[jennloves55]

I am submissive whether dressed or not. Even more so though when in girl mode.

[LadyInRed]

I'll say that when in my dainties I'm a lot more confident, but I just started over so I'll see where it goes

[Lexi Moralas]

Kind of both if that makes any seance

[suchacutie]

The simple answer is that Tina is NOT submissive. Having said that, my wife explained that Tina is sweet, and needed lessons about how women are socialized to NOT be sweet on occasion, or sweet in an agressive way, or simply b*t*hy!

P .S. those lessons seem to have been successful. Although I don't expect to be in the situation, Tina is fully educated as to how to handle herself. ..if you see what I mean.

[Laura28]

I am submissive when dressed but dominate when in drab, although there are many time i wish i could be more submissive when in drab.

[Leyna]

I'm pretty submissive in drab. But when I dress, I just feel comfortable and confident. I mean, what could be more empowering than cute pair of ankle boots?

[Stephanie Julianna]

It all depends on who I'm with even when not en femme. There's a nurse I work with that makes me very submissive. It's not because she's dominant, it's more like she can look into my soul and senses my girl inner being. With some CD admirers that I have dated it all depends on the man.

[Anneliese]

I am submissive, but one thing I've never been into is S&M stuff, receiving or giving.

[Dawn Gurl]

Empowered because I am "Me"... the inner girl....... but, I do have a submissive side that I find enjoyable,

[michelle45]

Never realized it but my significant other easily makes me feel submissive! For some reason it's kind of a relief!!!

[valerieg]

Empowered and happier. However, I also realize that is an escape for me. Not really sure how life would be if I were able to dress full time, though I do know that I would be a full-time CD rather than venturing farther along the spectrum towards TS.

[JessicaKasey]

I love the feeling of being submissive! The thought of being tied and taken advantage of is quite delicious!

[robindee36]

I am submitting to my desires to embrace feminine empowerment. There, one confused girl I guess ;)

Hugs, Robin

[Dianne S]

Until last week, I would have said "submissive". Then last week, I went out to my first major outing: A CD support group XMAS party at a local hotel. At that party, I got to dance en femme for the first time. When I was dancing, I felt free, empowered, exhilarated and accepted. I was quite surprised by the strength of the feeling.

[emilamb]

I can be either dominant or submissive, though I tend more towards the submissive side, whether dressed or not.


She kept an online diary, which I only discovered a couple of months ago (we broke up seven years ago). Although events are mentioned which took place during my time with her, as well as other boyfriends, I am not so much as mentioned, positively or negatively. I guess I didn't make much of an impression.

I've kept an online diary through a few relationships, and she could have easily written about you only to make those entries private after the relationship. Especially if the breakup was particularly bad, or if she just didn't want your relationship to be visible to her next interest.

[autogirl]

submissive

[MissTee]

Both and neither. For me, the mood drives the feeling not the dress.

[Lacy PJs]

Submissive in that I'm more laid back and relaxed. The question reminds me of a post I made quite some time ago about feeling vulnerable when dressed. I guess that is probably a more submissive than empowered.

Lacy PJs

[PatriciaC]

I have noticed that I am more aware of how I present when dressed, especially in the evening
Usually try to tread softly and walk as though carrying a big stick, so as not to look like victim looking for somewhere to happen.
But have you noticed how difficult it is to tread softly while wearing heels.

Patricia

[Crissy Kay]

I am more of the sub side, while dressed.

[felix.samora]

When I get to dress up I feel totally submissive. I think its because most of girl clothing tends to show off parts of my body I am not used to showing. For example, legs, upper chest, belly, etc.

[Luna Nyx]

im very submissive when im en fem.

[Jaymees22]

I find it empowering to be the woman I really want to be!

[EllieOPKS]

I am somewhat of a pleaser when dressed so I would say I'm submissive.

[sperow2003]

Definitely submissive. When dressed in my finery at the instigation of my wife she can get me to do anything from washing her, giving her a facial to painting her toe nails. I am usually the coffee girl for the duration as well. Not that i'm complaining.

[AngelaKelly<3]

Personally, I feel kind of empowered...letting this side of myself out and expressing it is a great feeling! :)

[Emily CD]

I mirror the same thoughts as Leigh on this one. The feeling I get from being dressed as Emily gives me a totally different perspective. I feel so much more natural and comfortable that way. Far more so than I could ever be when not en femme. If I was in a position to really pursue this lifestyle I would definitely be submissive but simply to the point of being as much of a woman to a man as is natural. Hopefully that makes some sense!


I do know when I'm dressed I do have this different energy about me, not sure how to describe it more than that. I do feel good about my image but of course have yet to go out there in public in full fem with that image. Maybe someday

[JennyLynn]

Totally sweet and submissive here. I spend my life as a man being direct, opinionated (not in a bad way, I just speak my mind), strong and in control. When I'm Jenny, I'm sweet, soft and much more fluffy. I still cry during movies as a guy.. guess you can't take the girl out of the guy, but you can take the guy out of the girl!!

[Suzanne F]

I feel empowered to be nurturing when dressed. I am
able to be more loving and softer when I am Suzanne. This is happening more and more even when I am not dressed now. Although I may seem submissive, since I am free and being myself I feel stronger. Does this make sense to anyone?
Suzanne

[LilSissyStevie]

If they can pin me down, they can have their way with me.:devil:

[Susan L]

Oh my god, submissive! Not in a perverted way, it's just I love to feel like the women in the house. When dressed I cook my wife breakfast, do the dishes and wash the clothes, may seem odd but it really makes me feel like the women I want to be. The best part is my wife loves me the way I am and she gets to be pampered in the deal, win win.

This is exactly how I feel, you hit it right on the head

I feel empowered to be nurturing when dressed. I am
able to be more loving and softer when I am Suzanne. This is happening more and more even when I am not dressed now. Although I may seem submissive, since I am free and being myself I feel stronger. Does this make sense to anyone?
Suzanne

[Brooklyn]

I do feel empowered and much more confident when I dress fully. I don't think I become more submissive, nurturing, domestic, soft or any other stereotypical female gender role. What's up with that? Reading the responses, I wonder if those feeling more submissive have an image of women that aligns with that emotion. And perhaps those of us feeling empowered might feel dis-empowered by female beauty? Do we reinforce or insulate ourselves by re-creating that which otherwise renders us weak? Just some late-night thoughts... :rose:

[Susan.]

Submissive...

[prene]

I am submissive.... but I did get empowered ... once and got me in a little trouble, but OK since I was the girl. LOL

[Christa Race]

When I first started crossdressing I felt submissive, but now I feel more confident and have matured that I can say that am empowered and waiting for whatever challenges come my way. I guess it's like my guy self dressed as a woman. lol!

[adrienner99]

Like a number who have responded, I can be either dominant or submissive when dressed. The apparent contradiction is not unlike being male yet having an overpowering urge to dress up like a girl. So many opposite genres in one body...maybe we're all just really fouled up. LOL!

[nervedisc]

Sub definitely....;)

[Marsha My Dear]

I think I'm empowered enough to be submissive!:doh:

Spot on for me, too!

[Stephanie47]

I think many guys have submissive fantasies whether or not they're cross dressers. It seems decades ago most women would always defer to their husband. I know it is still prevalent, especially with some religious sects. I went through a period of wanting to be submissive sexually, but, I chalk that up to wanting to be punished for doing something that was not "manly." As I matured any sexuality in cross dressing disappeared. Now? I love being en femme, even though I cannot share it with anyone. I love baking, cooking, vacuuming, do the laundry, ironing, gardening totally en femme. As a retiree with a working wife I would do all those chores even if I was not a cross dresser. It would not be right for my wife to come home after a day at work and start doing domestic chores. Over the years that attitude by a man seems to induce marital disharmony. I would love to continue the day totally en femme when my wife gets home, but, alas, it will never be!

I fondly remember my grandparents' attitude. "Pop" went to work and took care of the outside of the house and basement. She took care of the upstair living quarters and domestic chores. When grandpa got in the way, she kicked him aside. It was nothing more than a delineation of the chores of a marriage, and, it had nothing to do with one spouse being submissive to the other.

When en femme I consider myself to be confident single women. That's how I view my DADT situation. I really don't have anyone to be submissive to.

[Krosstina]

When I dress in panties, garters and stockings I feel sexy. When I want to be submissive I ask the wife, but she has no interest in sex if I am wearing panties, garters/stockings.

[(Sara)]

I feel empowered, as I am dressed how I always want to be and I feel better for it. I am probably more submissive when in male clothes if anything, I don't feel I belong in that arena.

[natcrys]

When I'm dressed up.. I feel pretty, cute, sweet and like a bad-ass chick. Don't know if any of that is considered submissive.. :P

[MascStilettoBoy]

Dressing up definitely makes me feel submissive - that's what motivates me to dress up to begin with!

[Daphne Renee]

I dont think I am more submissive but I am not that aggressive to begin with.

[anna36b]

Submissive girl here :)

[Rarity]

I don't know, because I get feelings of both at different times.

[Lysie]

Probably lean towards submissive. I'm naturally someone who doesn't feel to empowered most of the time, though there are moments.

[Viconia]

I feel more dominant and empowered when dressed.

[Brandi1980]

I think submissive. I like to do laundry and household chores and I like to please when I'm dressed.

[StephanieDragg]

definitely empowered !

[effemin8]

Always submissive-but then I always dress in a submissive manner with my pinny being the most important item of clothing I wear.

[lovetobedani]

Hello to all..............

When I dress fem an eery feeling of calm comes over me. All of a sudden all is right with the world especially my world, i get a strong sence of belonging. I'm sure that most of us understand this.

With this said. It empowers me and validates that deep inside me there is that female. I'm not aware of any submissive feelings. I just feel like me.

[Tina955]

I think for me to feel empowered, I need to be able to walk out my front door wearing anything I want just like GG's. And to the world I would just appear to be another pretty girl. No hint of manliness.

Tina

[PaulaQ]

Empowered. The male version of me was terrified of the world. (With good reason, really.) The girl me always got called on to deal with the scary stuff the guy couldn't handle. It's hard not to be defensive, though, when your only job is to hide something from the world.

[Madilyn A.]

The only other person I have been around when dressed is my wife and I do feel more submissive. This probably comes from my 50's mentality, the 50's housewife always was the submissive partner. Of course I long to be that person in my next life.....But, prior to my retirement when dressed on "headquarters days" at home conducting business, I seemed to gain power and acted empowered, more to the point as many of my female associates might act. Being myself, male mode, I was much more of a push over in negotiations and more wiling to settle, when dressed I seemed to be more ruthless, more focused, more apt to go for the juggler. Crazy how we act when dressed !

[grace7777]

Definitely submissive. This is a part of my personality and has nothing to do with how I am dressed.

[cdintraining25]

Definitely submissive but I become much more confident in my receptiveness en femme. I have an easier time bringing out my girly girl side around men when dressed too.

[Claire Cook]

Love this thread! I feel definitely empowered. Claire does things and gets things done that I would not do when en drab (and I don't mean sex.) I'm more confident and more me. It's interesting that more I'm me, the more confident I feel when I'm not en femme.

[DonnaA]

With regard to people, I definitely become more submissive when dressed. But, with regard to situations, I become more empowered. There are things that I will easily do when dressed that I would never even think of doing while not dressed.

[Lorileah]

Depends on my plans for the evening...and if I am going to the dungeon

[Jane G]

Can't say I've ever noticed any change wrt being submisive. I'm just little old me. I do feel more content & happy though. :daydreaming:

[MWCMDarlene]

This is just my opinion, and you take my opinion and $0.25 and you still can't buy a decent cup of coffee, but I just wonder.....how can someone, like myself, who is closeted, be able to determine if they are submissive or empowered when dressed, when by definition of being closeted, they aren't around anyone when dressed? I am thinking that in order to be able to make the determination of being empowered or submissive, you need someone to compare yourself to while you are dressed. Am I right? Just asking.

[MascStilettoBoy]

Definitely submissive but I become much more confident in my receptiveness en femme. I have an easier time bringing out my girly girl side around men when dressed too.

this is a really good way of putting it... I feel much less inhibited and more powerful in my expression of submissiveness. so, the best of both worlds!

[dmbrocks]

Submissive, but I don't know that is any different than in male mode

[chessdragon]

It depends on who I'm talking to. I like to take on the submissive role when talking to men, and often with females, too. But when I'm dressed and I'm talking about my life outside of dressing, or my history with dressing, and how I feel about it, rather than filling a role, I feel very empowered. That's the wonderful thing about crossdressingfor me: it is the empowering action of donning a submissive role.

[Launa]

Empowered like being an unstoppable force!

[Gerrylee]

Very submissive,love being watched

[mirima1992]

soooo submissive

[Jennifer S]

Empowered! It's the only time I really feel comfortable in my skin... I feel like I can do anything

[Caden Lane]

Depends on what im wearing. Some things make me feel empowered, while others make we wish to be dominated a little. Although my dressing no longer has the sexual leanings it on cd did.

[miss ali]

It all depends on mood ....normally actually always as a man I am very dominant and she is submissive .....but if another female is involved my wife likes to take on the dominant role .....though I am strictly againt being submissive as a man with her ......but when I am en femme to my surprise I very much enjoy being submissive ..... I am enpowered though if I go out ......very strange I think and my wife and I even brought it up to her and she was as intrigued with this whole role reversal as I was ...... And like I said it all depends on mood or role lol

[Bethany_Anne_Fae]

Like Miss Ali above said... "It depends on mood", As a male, Im nothing but Dominant, and enjoy the realms of kink as much as the next person. As Beth, I am empowered by the ability to be submissive if I choose to be. ;)

[CONSUELO]

Definitely submissive.

[Francine]

As 'Francine' a bit submissive, definitely.. but don't get my red-hair fired up...;)
Francine

[Vanessa Rose]

Hmmmmm


submissive is preferred...


Yep... interesting.. mostly all submissive..


Vanny

[Brea Lynn]

I wouldn't say I'm more submissive, but definitely more receptive and more able to emote. When I'm in "guy mode" I'm very withdrawn, in terms of emotions, only able to put a few out on the table, so to speak. When in "girl mode" I'm able to express myself more, which my SO actually likes, which I think helps her be so supportive.

[mirima1992]

Not only submissive, but I have a major damsel in distress fantasy when dressed up!:o

[sonialexis]

I would have to say very submissive. I'm not dominant either way, but yes when dressed i'm even more passive.

[jessiejess112]

I'd never thought about that, why is it that I feel very submissive when dressed. But tend to have more dominant tendencies when in drab, interesting thread.

[maya1love]

I love feeling submissive and dressing helps with that!

[Barbie Anne]

I feel neither more or less dominant or submissive........I feel normal :)

However like others have stated........My wife tells me I'm softer, sweeter and more lovable when I'm in Barbie mode.

[Nicolesmyth]

I'm pretty passive to begin with, so when dressed I guess it's accentuated.

[Christen]

When I'm dressed I'm submissive, but then that's me pretty much whatever I'm wearing. The one thing I really notice with a nice dress on is vulnerability, and I really like that too.

Christen x

[JamieQ]

Very empowered! Like I am unstoppable...

[TeresaCD]

Both really, much more myself in many ways, but also, particularly when out, quite vulnerable, and definitely more quiet/gentle/passive.
(Confidence?)
Overall though, what I feel is sublime

[justcurious411]

My wife caught me, now I feel extremely defensive. Is this normal? Empowering is NOT what I'm feeling

[Audrey Sis]

Short answer: Both, sometimes at the same moment. :) Mostly though I just feel sexy and sensual. Plus, to go more in depth, my submissiveness can be described as Topping from the bottom, I've heard. OK, then, basically I'm empowered, lol.

[Isabella77]

That's an interesting question for me. I'm more of a submissive person in general so when I go femme it definitely comes out. I too have a bit of a damsel in distress fantasy. However, When I've got my body rocked out in some thigh highs and a mini skirt, I just feel like beautiful sexy woman. This is a feeling I know a lot of girls enjoy. It is empowering. When I do have a guy over I like to walk sexy in my heels and drive him crazy. This is a powerful feeling. It's a girl power feeling. :battingeyelashes:

[Sarah21]

Being submissive is natural to me, I've tried not to be so that I can fit in but I failed miserably.
Dressing empowers me in a way in that it gives me a license to be myself, without having to pretend that I am someone else.

[Eryn]

Is there an in-between?

While dressed I no longer have to conform to the male role of being the "guy in charge" of the situation. I am therefore empowered to enjoy myself.

[Devi is here]

Empowered and confident.

[scarletcd]

Definitely empowered. Being Charlotte for more and more has given me a much more positive outlook on life. Confident and friendly but can still pack a mean punch if someone gets on the wrong side of me :P

[anaissa]

I feel empowered and confident when properly dressed

[suzanne]

When I put on a really great outfit, my confidence goes through the roof! I feel bullet proof and Teflon coated. The odd thing is that, in male mode, most of the time I am the alpha. No one would guess what I have in my wardrobe!

[rah]

Idk about about confidence or empowered since I'm a guy with low self confidence & being an introvert. When I wear women cloths I don't feel like when I'm a guy idk why I do feel submissive although I never crossdressed outside my house however since I rarely do it, I feel good for a change

[Annaliese2010]

I am empowered and much more determined and confident than my male self.

[Laurenlovecd]

It depends on who I am with. I am very confident and not the submissive type, I feel very empowered when I am with a man who can't take his eyes off of me.

[trisha11]

Always submissive :)

[Barbara Dugan]

I am submissive by nature, when I dress I feel empowered to be submissive

[FemPossible]

I feel empowered yet I yearn to be submissive. Pretty crazy, huh?

[Aeslyn]

Wow, a complex question. As stated I think you are presuming that empowerment and submissiveness are directionally oppositional to one another which really is untrue especially with the openness of the question (do you mean sexually, personality wise in social interaction/relations, domestically, etc...). The truth is I think I feel both empowered and submissive. If dressing en fem is something you desire then being dressed is freedom which is in itself empowerment. You are empowered to be the woman you feel yourself to be. This is how dressing in itself is for me empowerment. However, domestically I would say I am a bit on the sub side while sexually/romantically I am very submissive. So the answer would be both without even the slightest form of conflict.

[Manwithabra]

When I'm in my bra I'm probably a bit more wary of my movements, and even a little horny. I'd say I would probably be even more dominant, because it makes me feel more at ease with myself.

[Pamela Thomas]

i am softer in my attitude but not submissive.

[Ressie]

Why do people start threads and never come back to answer questions or add to the conversation?

I don't like the word submissive. It has an S&M/B&D sound to it. I don't like it when someone asks me if I'm sub or dom. The way I see it there are personality types that are leaders and those that are followers. So does that really change when dressing en femme? If it does, it's a game, role play or a personality disorder.

I'd say I feel both passive and empowered at the same time. Kind of passive aggressive maybe?

[JeanVigo1905]

Wearing stockings and lipstick makes me feel more confident, and empowered. I can't imagine why. Maybe because I'm more true. I'm just a pantyhose and guy-jeans-wearing kind of guy.

[RebeccaRachel]

I feel more delicate and girly when dressed, just like a kitten.

[Nadina]

I think its a combination, Empowered in the way that I feel that I would be all eyes on me (I feel sexier than I look and since we're talking about feeling) and submissive because if I am dressed I suddenly feel like I want to be submissive and be taken over if that makes sense.

[sabrinaedwards]

I would not say I feel submissive, but I am definitely not aggressive. I have on high heels, pantyhose, makeup and long hair. This puts me in a feminine state of mind. I drive a car much more conservatively for example. I love feeling this way.

[kiwidownunder]

Just feel normal at peace

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Brassieres , I really feel the same I just look a lot prettier.

[Sarah Smith]

I feel empowered to a point, I think I am more confident in my self(image) when dressed, though that may be because I spend a lot more time working on my dressed image, picking clothes and doing makeup, than my male self, just throwing on some clothes.

[katherin28]

When I get the chance to dress and go out, which doesn't seem to happen nearly enough, I feel empowered and free. I must admit, I do get nervous about being spotted but for the most part I have fun.

[rita63]

So far I'm the same person dressed or not dressed , so far anyhow.

[Steffani]

I feel both. Empowered that I am dressed like a woman but submissive at the same time

[TessInJxn]

Both, absolutely. I so relish being treated as my female self that I love some of the submissive rolls. I love having a door opened for me, a chair pulled out, a compliment from a gentlemen. All of those things. I feel empowered in that I am living as myself. Living the life that I so wish I'd been born into.

[Sweetsandra]

I feel submissive. I enjoy giving up that power. To my gf mainly, but I still enjoy when she treats me like the lady I am

[MarisaRose.]

I feel alive, empowered, independent, most of all I feel attractive. Maybe not to everyone else, but I still feel it!!!

[Nataliye]

I feel empowered to a point, I think I am more confident in my self(image) when dressed, though that may be because I spend a lot more time working on my dressed image, picking clothes and doing makeup, than my male self, just throwing on some clothes.

That is exactly how I feel! Empowered but just to a point, and when being male, I can't be asked to bother about the clothes I'm wearing. I'll wear the most comfortable acceptable pieces. :<3: :)

[GeminaRenee]

Both, because I don't really see the two choices as opposites. I absolutely feel empowered when dressed. I feel liberated and empowered, and generally more free. But to say that it makes me dominant (really the polar opposite of submissive) would be incorrect.

At the same time, I've always had a bit of a submissive streak. Not all the time, but for the right people, I'm certainly willing to follow some orders. It takes a special person to earn that privilege, though. If someone assumes I'm going to be submissive without really earning the requisite trust, they're likely to find me a prickly ******* - no matter what I'm wearing.

[Sarah Smith]

Everquix : Nice to know there is someone else like me! :) Its odd how much more effort i put into girl mode! It is a lot more fun though!

[Felicia Dee]

Hmm. Never really considered this before... I was raised a pretty devoted "grrl power" feminist by an intimidating horde of progressive italian women... It feeds the punk chick within. However, she is often tempered by the slightly more vocal, bubbly housewife that rooms with her. THAT one loves twirling about in crinoline and being fawned over by her admirers. Soooooo empowered??

[Wildruler]

I have always had a submissive personality regardless of en femme of guy mode

[Carol Elizabeth]

When dressed - I feel

Normal?

However, I enjoy the "feel" of my fem clothes so much more than my guy clothes, and
the only real difference is personal comfort but no real change in personality.

[Krisi]

Honestly, I don't feel any different when I dress. I'm aware that I'm dressed so I don't answer the door or go outside in the yard but I don't feel submissive or empowered.

[Roberta TS]

Feminine and submissive.

[stephannietv]

I feel very submissive when dressed fem but feel sooooooooooo wonderful

[TomboyBecca]

Im empowered. My feminine side is finally getting to come out. I love it!

[CynthiaD]

Definitely empowered. When I'm en femme I'm superwoman!

[bridget01]

Submissive to women in a very feminine way

[Anna Abwaerts]

Nice question. I think I feel empowered. Imagine those drag queens and their confident below waist jokes ... partly this is how I feel =)