Men are such......

[weyburn]

As I sat in the food court of a mall tonight enjoying a coffee a fellow joined me at my table.and started a conversation.I had ladies clothes on but no make up or wig.(I find the mall too warm for that)and admittedly wore a v neck top which showed off some cleavage.All I could think of was Hey buddy my eyes are up here.Men are such pigs!!!

[Maria in heels]

funny story!

[Shari]

Hey, you gave him something to look at and enjoy. It's not his fault for looking.
There had to be a part of you that felt wonderfully satisfied that you were attractive enough to draw the attention.
Come on, admit it.
You loved it!

[Kate Simmons]

I understand what you are saying Hon but I have a somewhat different outlook. If you've got it, flaunt it I say. :battingeyelashes::)

[Beverley Sims]

Why dress to attract men if you are not that way inclined.
Wear a flower sack with holes cut out for your head and arms.

You would be equally as appealing. :)

[linda allen]

Were there no other empty seats? Do you look female with no makeup and wig or do you look like a dude in a dress?

You have "meavage"? (I first saw that word yesterday in a magazine at the nail salon.)

[5150 Girl]

Hey, you gave him something to look at and enjoy. It's not his fault for looking.
There had to be a part of you that felt wonderfully satisfied that you were attractive enough to draw the attention.
Come on, admit it.
You loved it!
Yea, what she said!
I will grant you, men are pigs, but, when I attract unwanted attention, I inform them I'm a lesbian. I know we like to feel pretty, but you can't take the Mustang out of the garage and expect that nobody is going to wanna look at it!
Look all you want, but don't touch I say!

[Nadine Spirit]

You have "meavage"?

No not another word like that!!

[GaleWarning]

If you have the right to wear revealing clothes, does that trump the right of an admirer to appreciate the view?

[Amanda M]

So men are pigs? Do you mind? I'm a man, and I am NOT a pig.

[Marcelle]

I am going to go with Amanda on this one . . . as a guy I really hate when people use the term "men are pigs". That "guy" may have been a pig but it certainly does not condemn the whole gender. I am sure some people will look at one of us and think "CDers are all a bunch of perverts". I don't know about you but I am not and don't wish to be lumped into a stereotype "en femme" or "en boy".

Hugs

Isha

[suzy1]

.Men are such pigs!!!

Yes, such pigs!:eek:........cute pigs:heehee:.......but yes, they are such pigs.:eek:

[Zylia]

Stereotyping can be very helpful, prejudice not so much.

What's wrong with "en homme"?

[Hell on Heels]

Hey Weyburn, Some are full blown, rollin' in the mud, slop eatin', vulgar pigs. Some are influenced by others when formed in a group. The wandering eyes of the "pig" at mall I would consider normal male behavior. The way you dressed may have made him wonder exactly what was going on with you.
Curiosity kills cats, not pigs. Unless your getting this type of encounters all the time, you should just enjoy it

[Jenny Gurl]

So if men are pigs, does that make the ladies who look at other women's cleavage piglets? If you paint a picture, don't be surprised if someone stops to admire it. If they take a longer look than normal, you either painted it very well, or so bad they are looking at it saying Wow, just Wow. Women check each other out as much as men do, especially if the one they are checking out have the goods on display. A girl wears a low cut top and I am going to look. I may not stare, but I am going to look. Most here who have been noticed have taken pleasure in the fact that someone was "Checking them out". Kind of validates that we haven't lost it all together.

[Ressie]

I understand women feeling this way that aren't showing cleavage but still get stares. But intentionally showing cleavage is inviting men to take a look.

[vallerie lacy]

I hope that statement was meant to be funny. Otherwise mark me down as a pig too. I love the female form, and will always look at what's out there. But than again, I am a man.

[Eryn]

Hey, if I am male mode and someone takes me to the scenic overlook I am going to enjoy the view! There's a reason why women wear low necklines!

[weyburn]

Hey girls Thanks for your input and Probably that was my first encounter of such nature it took me back but in hindsight I take it as a compliment,it really was a cool feeling and your right if you got it flaunt it

[stephNE]

I too have a few low cut tops. I like seeing my cleavage, but I am dressing for me. A couple times when I have worn these, and noticed eyes looking in the wrong location, I sort of feel violated. So most of my low cut things are only for home.

[Lynn Marie]

Like most babies, one of my very first instincts was to find a warm boob and suck on it. That was a long, long time ago and nothing seems to have changed much!

[Ressie]

I used to get in trouble for staring at beautiful women. It taught me to be more subtle. Men tend to become unconscious at the sight of cleavage (or other lovely curves), and gape with a slight drool. It would be embarrassing if they were aware of their stare.

[Sabrina133]

I understand what you are saying Hon but I have a somewhat different outlook. If you've got it, flaunt it I say. :battingeyelashes::)

Well said Kate. I admit i dress to impress. When i go out and guys look, i feel good that they do.

Bree

[Roli F]

Me I've started to tell unwanted male attention that I am Transbian and as a girl I like Girls thankyou it seems to work since my last time out when I got unwelcome attention from a drunk with beer goggles on and reacted in a very unladylike way

[Beverley Sims]

I am pleased to see you can see the other sde of the coin as well.
Unless it is a total sleaze, think of it as a compliment.
To use that term.... "You must have the ability to pass". :)

[geek]

"meavage" :lol: I bet you won't find that on a word a day calendar!

[Majella St Gerard]

Men are pigs and I include myself in that, I just don't act like one in public. Men are visual and LOVE to LOOK at anything flashy, usually women. I don't think most men would care if the object of their affection was a hot cross dressed man. I love a compliment as much as the next person but some guys can get a little creepy. Men have said to me "Wow! I'd hit that!", "Stay away from me when I'm drunk", weird stuff like that, kind of un-nerves ya. If you want to tell me I look nice then just tell me, if you want to flirt and stuff, then that's ok too, just don't be a jerk. I've been hit on by men when I'm in drab, so I know how to handle it, I don't play for that team but it's nice to hit on no matter what sex they are, as long as they are cool about it.

[CarlaWestin]

I've always liked the expression, "You can't put lipstick on a pig."

Yes you can!

[Seana Summer]

Oink Oink


Sorry, couldn't resist...... I like to look........at scenery:D

I do make it a point not to litter or go around carving my initials in trees though:heehee:

[Jessica giovanna]

I personally think it's hot to be admired by any gender...that's why I dress en femme as that is what I am. But then again, I do want both....;)

[Wildaboutheels]

...slaves to their VISION which is why so many CD. [They just don't join Forums to discuss it]

IF one needs to blame someone, blame Mother Nature. Good Ol' Evolution at work.

[lingerieLiz]

I find it fun to listen to women talk about the guys that looked down their cleavage. Many have great lines they have used to embarrass them.

[LaraPeterson]

Cleavage, gotta love it, gotta want it--this little piggy certainly does