KayleeTaylor
12-16-2013, 11:37 AM
I have never been happy with myself I have always felt lost, scared and alone.
Up until recently, I have never accepted myself. I felt like there was something wrong with me. Thoughts going through my head, I never understood why I have those thoughts and feelings. I couldn't escape the thoughts I had of dreaming what my life would have been if I was born a girl. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't run away from these feelings. I tried my best to live what I thought a normal life was supposed to be. I got married, had my daughter and tried to be a good husband and father. But I couldn't escape these feelings that I had, so I would escape reality the only way that I knew how to, was to drink. I would drink heavily, daily, every chance I got. I felt I needed that escape. Several times my wife called the paramedics because she thought that I wouldn't wake back up. I wish that I didn't wake up. I hated myself and I hated my life because it didn't feel like it was my life. I felt like I am looking out through somebody else's eyes looking at a life that wasn't mine. I couldn't take it anymore, something needed to change. Something has needed to change for a long time now, but I couldn't accept that.
It was after joining this forum and reading posts from others and meeting people face to face and joining a transgender support group that I have accepted myself.
I have started to take the steps toward the road ahead of me, to be the person I was supposed to be, to find happiness, to finally be myself. Yes, I am going to come out to my family, my daughter, but it is going to be much later rather than sooner. I still have more soul searching to do.
I have always known that I am transgender, but I had to accept who I am to be able to deal with it. It's do or die time now, I am not turning back now.
To all of you on this forum, thank you for helping me to understand and accept myself :)
:gh:
Kaylee
Up until recently, I have never accepted myself. I felt like there was something wrong with me. Thoughts going through my head, I never understood why I have those thoughts and feelings. I couldn't escape the thoughts I had of dreaming what my life would have been if I was born a girl. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't run away from these feelings. I tried my best to live what I thought a normal life was supposed to be. I got married, had my daughter and tried to be a good husband and father. But I couldn't escape these feelings that I had, so I would escape reality the only way that I knew how to, was to drink. I would drink heavily, daily, every chance I got. I felt I needed that escape. Several times my wife called the paramedics because she thought that I wouldn't wake back up. I wish that I didn't wake up. I hated myself and I hated my life because it didn't feel like it was my life. I felt like I am looking out through somebody else's eyes looking at a life that wasn't mine. I couldn't take it anymore, something needed to change. Something has needed to change for a long time now, but I couldn't accept that.
It was after joining this forum and reading posts from others and meeting people face to face and joining a transgender support group that I have accepted myself.
I have started to take the steps toward the road ahead of me, to be the person I was supposed to be, to find happiness, to finally be myself. Yes, I am going to come out to my family, my daughter, but it is going to be much later rather than sooner. I still have more soul searching to do.
I have always known that I am transgender, but I had to accept who I am to be able to deal with it. It's do or die time now, I am not turning back now.
To all of you on this forum, thank you for helping me to understand and accept myself :)
:gh:
Kaylee