Anita Lynn
12-19-2013, 06:30 PM
Almost didn't post this, don't want anyone to feel like I'm talking about them... I'm not, I'm talking about me.
After reading the post “did you get my message” I’ve been thinking a lot about how people present themselves.
The first thing that came to mind was a young woman I saw last year. As tall as I am, young and tall, wow was she tall.
She was wearing a dress that came to about mid calf, long and flowing. The male part of me said “WOW”!, the Anita part of me said “where can I find that dress”!
The thing that was so attractive about her was the way she walked, with confidence! With a purpose.
Today while shopping I saw 2 other young ladies, one wore tights and a skirt and a sweater over a blouse, once again she walked with confidence, not like she was on a mission, but like she knew what she wanted. When she spoke it was polite and sweet, not like she came from a street gang.
The other one was wearing tights and a cardigan with boots, very well put together.
What these three had in common was that they were not dressed to “tease”, and seemed to be self confident. What I saw were young ladies that wanted to be treated like ladies and not objects. Like they wanted to be respected for who they were and not what they were.
In the same store I saw quite a few ladies that had the appearance that they didn’t care about how they looked and what anyone else thought, which is fine. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that.
What I took from these three ladies is this: I want to exude the same confidence, in girl mode and boy mode. With a little respect and dignity.
Anita
After reading the post “did you get my message” I’ve been thinking a lot about how people present themselves.
The first thing that came to mind was a young woman I saw last year. As tall as I am, young and tall, wow was she tall.
She was wearing a dress that came to about mid calf, long and flowing. The male part of me said “WOW”!, the Anita part of me said “where can I find that dress”!
The thing that was so attractive about her was the way she walked, with confidence! With a purpose.
Today while shopping I saw 2 other young ladies, one wore tights and a skirt and a sweater over a blouse, once again she walked with confidence, not like she was on a mission, but like she knew what she wanted. When she spoke it was polite and sweet, not like she came from a street gang.
The other one was wearing tights and a cardigan with boots, very well put together.
What these three had in common was that they were not dressed to “tease”, and seemed to be self confident. What I saw were young ladies that wanted to be treated like ladies and not objects. Like they wanted to be respected for who they were and not what they were.
In the same store I saw quite a few ladies that had the appearance that they didn’t care about how they looked and what anyone else thought, which is fine. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that.
What I took from these three ladies is this: I want to exude the same confidence, in girl mode and boy mode. With a little respect and dignity.
Anita