Is dressing sexual or not for you?

[randi_789]

Since I discovered the internet ten years ago and found that I was not alone in my desires, I also have found, from viewing many personal page profiles, that crossdressers seem to be separated into three main categories.

There are those that dress because they have an inner woman in them and love the feel of women's clothes. They may or may not have the desire to someday become a woman. And they really have no interest in men.

Then there are those who dress because it feels sexy and they always have to have a sexual experience when they dress, ending in an orgasm, and sometimes guilt. This can be alone or with someone else. And that someone else may sometimes be a man because they do have the desire to be with one.

And the last group would be a combination of the two, which is where I fall. I dress because i love how it feels, but also because of the sexuality revolving around it. And when dressed I do fantasize about men, and have even followed through on it.

Where are you in this, or have I got it all wrong? I think I am looking for validation in some sort of way.

[Lissa Stevens]

When I was younger and more confused about everything dressing and sex were mixed. Since my 20's things changed. Dressing was just a part of me as much as music or reading or any other normal activity. I don't know if the studies are right but most seem to say that as far as crossdressers go my experiences are typical.
I just feel like wearing women's clothes is the right thing for me to be doing. I still have some sexual thoughts while dressed but most center on being a woman and having sex as a woman not as a man.

[Nikki Dee]

Can't see how you possibly can be who/what we are and NOT have a sexual element involved...to some degree or bias...I've always thought..despite the denials I read...that there can't be a Tgirl out there that at some time hasn't fantasised/desired about being treated like a real girl by a real guy. I accept that "Tgirl to Tgirl" is a common theme..and thats o.k....but it is not at all uncommon to find ... and feel...an attraction to guys as well. Me included.!!!
Love Nikki. xx

[TGMarla]

Yes. There's a part of it that is sexual, sensual, intimate, and all about the pleasure. But there's another part of it that's just different. It's the part that brings peace of mind, contentment, relaxation, and appreciation for beauty. It's the part that makes me whole.

[suanne]

Ok...here's how it is for me. I love to dress. Always have, no doubt always will. I have not thought about having sex with a man while dressed or not dressed. I am into GG's only. I don't always have a sexual experience when dressed, but would like to. I am a loner except for the cd forums (just 2).
Not interested in getting together with other cder's cause I ain't pretty:confused: and not matter what I do I look like a dude in a dress. Well silly atfter all thats what I am:D


Suanne

[Gemma Rhodes]

Can't see how you possibly can be who/what we are and NOT have a sexual element involved...to some degree or bias...I've always thought..despite the denials I read...that there can't be a Tgirl out there that at some time hasn't fantasised/desired about being treated like a real girl by a real guy. I accept that "Tgirl to Tgirl" is a common theme..and thats o.k....but it is not at all uncommon to find ... and feel...an attraction to guys as well. Me included.!!!
Love Nikki. xx

Hi Nikki,

I disagree. :eek:


I have never fantasised about being with a man, I suppose Gemma must be a lesbian. When I was younger I admit the sexual part was there but when I look back now I realise it was more the fact of being caught by my mum that was giving me the buzz and not the actual dressing.

I do still get an incredible buzz when I dress fully now but it is not sexual, just the relief of being able to express my femme side. Anyway Im sure we shall talk about this next Friday. I will see you then.

Gemma xx

[easyWendy]

I find that Wendy is attracted to men, but my male self only looks at real girls. It seems kinda natural that way, if you see what I mean.

Wendy

[Nikki Dee]

Hi. Gemma....I know your personal thoughts on this as I have heard/seen them before..and I respect your opinion....be interesting to know what the general thoughts are in our group...but not sure that the Belles is ready for that.!!!!!!!!...and how honest would people be.?...see you next week...(p.s. still think I'm right.!!!)LOL
Love Nikki. xx

[MsJanessa]

I'm in the last catagory---a combination of the two---there was a time when it was primarily sexual but as I dressed more and more, the sexual part of it diminished and the femme part increased---now its about a 40--60 split with the femme part being 60 and the sexual part being 40--go figure:dom:

[Midnight_Minx]

For me, dressing had started out as a sexual desire, but has since moved beyond that. It is now a way for me to embrace my feminine side, becoming more caring, sensual, and mysterious. I have come to know that my spirit is neither male nor female, but a mixture of both, while my outlook continues to focus on females, not finding any interest in the male form.

xoxo
~Minx~

[Aileen]

I don't get turned on when I dress. I remember once at a Halloween party I was in a short French Maid's dress, and a woman in a long gown brushed her long skirt right against my legs and it felt great. I got turned on, which was strange in a girdle.

But when I'm not dressed I think about being dressed to get turned on, and I read my crossdressing porno. I'm into fantasizing about humiliation, even though I wouldn't want to actually be humiliated.

[Gemma Rhodes]

Hi. Gemma....I know your personal thoughts on this as I have heard/seen them before...be interesting to know what the general thoughts are in our group...but not sure that the Belles is ready for that.!!!!!!!!...and how honest would people be.?...see you next week...(p.s. still think I'm right.!!!)LOL
Love Nikki. xx

Maybe I should dress down a bit to the next meeting then. Don't want you developing a crush on me now do we? :D :p :)

[sherri]

The sexuality of dressing hasn't diminished one whit for me. How can anyone wear a flimsy skirt over smooth legs and not be turned on?!? But other aspects of my feminine personality have surfaced, much to my delight.

And being sexual en femme does not have to be about other men, does it? It can be, but doesn't have to be. What I find is that at my age, there are definitely chunks of time, life, interaction, etc where as a male I'm not necessarily feeling sexual or being preoccupied with sex, but when I'm dressed and otherwise expressing my feminine and more complete self, there is always a sense of myself as a sexual being in terms of both self-identity and how I'm being perceived by other people. Sometimes that feeling is on the surface, sometimes it's simmering quietly underneath, but it's always there.

For me, that feminine sexuality has come to include an attraction to both sexes, but I do find that as an enthusiastic heterosexual and lover of women all my life, I'm as powerfully attracted as ever, but I am far more choosy when it comes to men. The older I get the more important chemistry is, but with women it can just be "close" and be good enough, whereas with men it has to be just exactly right. Of course, all this is academic most of the time. :p

[DonnaT]

When I first started, it was the feeling of the material and of satisfying some urge I couldn't figure out. This was well before puberty, thus had no sexual connotations.

Later, when I did discover sexual satisfaction, I integrated the dressing with fantasies and sexual release.

Now, however, I am back to where I first started, and dressing isn't used to satisfy my sexual needs.

[petticoatlisa]

well i've been dressing since i was 13 and of course then it was completely sexual...i'd just put on a skirt and panties and have at it!:D Now here we are almost 20 years later and i still get a huge sexual thrill out of dressing. that being said, i can say it does simply feel good to dress in women's clothes. Now i take my time dressing, applying make-up, etc and go about my day. I tend to be aroused the whole time i am dressed though and it always ends up in "relieving myself":rolleyes: Never had any desire to be with a man while dressed though, only GGs and other CDs...

[susan howard]

Yes. I have been dressing for many years now and i still find the experience very sexy.

Even more so now because I know how to get the look and know how to use it.

luv,

Susan Howard:dom:

[shyfellow]

Dressing is very sexual for me. I think of being with men, women, or other cds when dressed. I'm very submissive.

[Nikki Dee]

Gemma...steady on old girl.!!!!...you are assuming that I prefer Tgirls to guys.???or RG's.??...perhaps that's just not the case.????...my views are not necessarily about WHO you might find attractive etc....merely the thought that there is a sexual element to being TG for many of us....in whatever form it takes ...as many of the replies to this thread will suggest.
Love Nikki. xx

[MsJanessa]

Funny when I'm dressed and get turned on I feel very dominant, but I'venoticed many others feel sexy but submissive---Lucky Me I guess:dom:

[KathrynW]

Is dressing sexual or not for you?

Used to be. Not so much anymore.
Can still be if I really want it to be. ;)

[insearchofme]

Dressing started out being sexual for me and like many others it still is. Often times when I dress it makes me fell good in a non-sexual way, kind of relaxing and comforting.

I have never been turned on by men so having sex with a man while dressed is out. I am attracted to other CDs and Tgirls but I have taken a vow so their out. Guess all I have are pics and stories to help me get releif when the sexual urge has come upon me.

[Ms. Laura]

Dressing was definitely sexual and still is. However, now that I'm older, there is more of a feeling of "completion" maybe. I feel like I'm who I want to be, for a while anyway. I think my wife looks at it as sexual and OK with that. I don't think she understands the non-sexual part. Anybody else there?

[Gemma Rhodes]

Gemma...steady on old girl.!!!!...you are assuming that I prefer Tgirls to guys.???or RG's.??...perhaps that's just not the case.????...my views are not necessarily about WHO you might find attractive etc....merely the thought that there is a sexual element to being TG for many of us....in whatever form it takes ...as many of the replies to this thread will suggest.
Love Nikki. xx

OLD GIRL !! You can go off people very quickly you know. :lol2:

Will be having strong words with you next Friday :lol:

Gemma xx

[Helen MC]

Definitely sexual and autoerotic although I also find panties far more comfortable than any male underwear.

[JocelynG]

I feel I am closer to the first one but still have a bit of the 3rd in there as well. I dress because it is exciting yet comforting,arousing yet relaxing. I don't fantasize about men constantly while dressed but the thought does come from time to time

[FionaAlexis]

Hi Randi,

First I think that is a pretty fair summation of the types - though it may be a bit more complex and fluid.

I am probably in the last group. I say probably because I'm not autoerotic and I don't like autosexual stuff. In fact I detested getting an erection when dressed when I was a teen and fortunately that stopped happening around age 15.

I mainly dress to present as a female and I definitely do not dress for sexual reasons. My sexuality, what there is of it, has changed markedly over the years. Currently I do enjoy being sexually attractive to men and I do find other t-girls sexually attractive.

Fiona xx

[Sweet Susan]

I love talking about sex, so I'm glad to see this thread. I've always been attracted to the idea of having sex while dressed, and I have found that having sex while dressed is one of the most erotic experiences I've ever had. Naturally, being the hetero guy that I am, I prefer having sex while dressed with women, and since I've been married to the same woman for many, many years, I super enjoy it with my wife. On the other hand, the idea of having sex with another crossdresser while en femme or not is very exciting to me. As a somewhat straight youth (somewhat meaning I was young and ready for sexual adventure) I had sex with a "female impersonator" when I was 16. It was more than fantastic and left me wanting it always. As a young adult (26) I had sex with a transvestite, not sure that he was a she initially but figured it out before it was too late, and that was breathtaking. I had sex with my first wife often while in various forms of dress and actually preferred having it with her that way, though she wasn't all that hopped up about it. With my current wife we have dabbled, and it has always been great, but she would rather not. I dont' have an attraction for men, whether I'm dressed or not. I find men totally unappealing, but I can't deny that oral sex (both ways) with a man is quite pleasing. For the life of me I don't understand the reticence men have about a penis.
Anybody that has been around this forum for awhile knows about my teen years, so the foundation had been laid, to say nothing of myself. I was quite laid, quite often. As I said, I'm a ****.

[Rikki Elisabeth]

I don't know if there are only three groups. I started out very young and liked the look and feel of my mother's clothes. I had no clue about sex. I continued down the path, and, yes, it was orgasmic. I went farther down the path to discover that the way I felt about things, my senses, my thinking - were becoming more feminine. I went still farther down the path and discovered that my inner being finds it easier to be with both men and women as a woman. That goes for just being friends, just "fooling around", or just sharing an intimate moment.

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[Nanci]

I, too, express myself as a combination, closer to 3 but not entirely. . .



There are those that dress because they have an inner woman in them and love the feel of women's clothes. They may or may not have the desire to someday become a woman. And they really have no interest in men.

Then there are those who dress because it feels sexy and they always have to have a sexual experience when they dress, ending in an orgasm, and sometimes guilt. This can be alone or with someone else. And that someone else may sometimes be a man because they do have the desire to be with one.

And the last group would be a combination of the two, which is where I fall. I dress because i love how it feels, but also because of the sexuality revolving around it. And when dressed I do fantasize about men, and have even followed through on it.

Where are you in this, or have I got it all wrong? I think I am looking for validation in some sort of way.

I don't know that I would say I have "an inner woman" in me but I do definitely love the feel of women's clothes! However, I don't have the desire to someday become a woman and am not attracted in any way to men.

That doesn't mean that I don't fantasize when I'm dressed. I think I am, what Marla GG colorfully described some time ago as "penetration curious". But I don't think I could ever take it outside the privacy of my own home. As I recall, her suggestion was to satisfy that curiosity with your SO. Someday soon I hope to do just that. I think my SO is adventurous enough that we might try that, even though she knows nothing about the full extent of my dressing, and has made it clear that she would not approve, based on the little hints I've dropped.

And so, in combination with the intense love of the feel and look of women's clothes is the sexual part. I dress in ways that I find sexy and always have to have a sexual experience when I dress. This is where the fantasy part comes in. I try to create images in the mirror or on the camera that I find sexy. I wrestle constantly with the seeming contradiction -- (1) that I love to put on women's clothes, love everything about it, love to see myself looking like a woman, love to feel what it is like to wear all things feminine, and occasionally love to be seen by others dressed as a woman, but (2) that it is also intensely a sexual experience, and I know that once I take my pleasure that the desire to dress fades away pretty quickly, and that fact saddens me in a way.

[Nikki Dee]

Hi. Gemma...thought that might get your attention.!!!!!...just a phrase...and said with affection.!!!!...when you get to my age it's something you say quite naturally.!!!..See you soon.
Love Nikki. xx

[pattied]

And the last group would be a combination of the two, which is where I fall. I dress because i love how it feels, but also because of the sexuality revolving around it. And when dressed I do fantasize about men, and have even followed through on it.

Where are you in this, or have I got it all wrong? I think I am looking for validation in some sort of way.

You maybe looking fo validation in some sort of way. I think you are truly looking to reaffirm what you already know: you are not alone.

My case is similar to yours. I have no desire to become completely woman. Still, I wish that I could be one completely and totally from time to time. That said, I do enjoy my male side, and am happy to be a part time crossdresser, as I can explore both sides of gender.

I am attracted to women, though I do have sexual thoughts about men from time to time. I have acted on them in the past. I am married now, adore my wife, and as such, would dare act on those thoughts now.

Hope this helps.:confused:

[pattied]

And I meant to add that dressing for me in not sexual, though it can be. I dress because I am far more comfortable in women's clothes than I am in mens. I can't leave the house unless I have panties on. And even then I feel like something is missing!

I do my nails, hands and feet, and I wear outer clothes that people wonder about, as they accentuate my femme side, but are not necessarily women's clothes (like the old navy jeans I am wearing today, they are mens, but boot cut, and show off my bubbly rump). Again, I do this not with the anticipation of sex, but out of being comfortable within my identity.

Hope this helps!!!

[fionablack]

It was a sexual turn on for me when i first started 22 years ago and it is still as much of a turn on now, if not more. Although I do find women's clothes relaxing, comfortable, and easy to wear, my main reason for wearing them to this day is the sexual thrill it gives me.

[heather_nouveau]

Randi:

Hi! I'm probably with you in the last group; it's such a thrill to dress and look sexy! I love how it feels and how it makes me feel!

Hugs,

Heather

[gennee]

When I started dressing, it was very sexual! As time has passed, I find that I love to wear women's clothing. It is another part of my life and I love being in touch with my feminine side.

Gennee:rose2:

[Melinda G]

Of course it's sexual for me. That's the whole reason for doing it. An hour in the tub, shaving completely. Putting on the makup, and wig. Perfume, all over. Putting on new stockings over shaved legs. Putting on the high heels, and buckling the slim strap around my ankles. Putting on the ankle chain. A glass of wine. A short dress, several inches above my knees. Put on a light coat, and out I go. The breeze up under my dress. Admiring myself in lighted store windows at night. The ultimate sexual turnon!
Several times I was just going out the door, and I thought, let's be daring. So I took off the dress, and went out in sheer to the waist pantyhose, heels, and a slip, under the coat. Huge thrill.

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[Janet99cd]

Definately number two for me. A lot of different thoughts go thru my mind when i am dressed that aren't there when i wear regular clothes. Dressing has an intoxicating affect on me.:rolleyes:

[Bonnie D]

I have an inner woman in me and do enjoy being dressed, both for how it feels and for how sexy it makes me feel. I do not plan on becoming a woman, even though I would love to be a woman. If I wasn't in the closet I would prefer to spend most of my time dressed as a woman. I also love having sex with men.

So I'm not sure exactly which category that would put me in.

Bonnie

[Andi-Girl]

When I first started dressing it was purley sexual. Now, I am finding that there is something else. I love how I feel when get dressed and assume my female persona.
While I have no desire to become a woman. I find myself wishing that I could be one completely and totally from time to time.
I am attracted to women, and in a way envious too.
Andi

[Donna tv]

Hi Randi, great thread by the way and put me into your #3 catagory as well. I seem to be a little different than most here, about the time of when I first became interested in feminine things, I was kind of young for it to be a sexual thing, at the age of either 7 or 8 which is about as far back that I can recall slipping my bare feet into a pair of my Mom's high heels and not necessarily being aroused ,but experiencing an overall feeling of just how wonderful this felt. Now thinking back even younger than that I always had a fasination with that little piece of satin that was at the edge of a blanket, back then my Mom knew I had to always be touching it. I eventually in my early teens as I explored my new found delight became more sexual with it and always had a climax before undressing. I am 52 now and it has not been until I would say the last 5 years that I have become sexually attracted to men , not other Cder's but masculine type men. I could go on and on on this topic but I know long reply's get boring

[Daphne Renee]

For me it would be sort of a combination of the 2. I really do like the way the clothes look and feel. I have the occasional fantasy of what it would be like to be a woman and that is somewhat exciting. I am still very attracted to women and sometimes I wish I could be more like them.

[dontay155]

Like a subset here, I rush to my ample box of lingerie when I have the need. Then afterward, I generally can't get undressed fast enough...now there are the times when I like to catch my breath, lay back and gaze at the stuffed bra cups on my chest, and the short skirt on my legs, and marvel at how far I've come from a typically pantyboy, which is were I began.

I don't think there is any inner woman in me. I like being a guy, but I'm a feminized guy when dressed, and I'm very happy to have my male bits on display and at attention when dressed. So the word we have for this pecular type of CDing is being a male sissy, I think. Interestingly, when I'm dressed, I may daydream of being a bit submissive, but in fact I'm all DRIVE and GO GO and happy to lead the way. My wife likes that about me. I most always initiate the action, and given that she is a traditionalist, that seems to work just fine by her. I have gently encouraged her to take a firm position on what she wants...and I always tell her I love it when she tells me exactly what to do, but we both know that I'd be doing it anyway. So its a bit funny. But it still works. Sorry I got off topic!

[Sakura Kinomoto]

Well,I have to admit that it all started some years ago,and yes,it was for a sexual desire....I am still triying to understand what happened the first day I ever wore women s clothes....The first time I had something on,it really felt very good,I looked at myself in the mirror and thought, "THIS IS DEFINETLY ME"! So,after experienced something new and sexy,I decided to use more...

I began first with my mom s clothes and after that,I started to buy clothes on my own.It was another way to explore my sexuality,and the more I used the clothes,the more it felt right to do it.Now I dress from time to time or
whenever I can,but I have inside me,a beautiful girl struggling to get out.


Boy how I love female clothing and how I hate boy s clothes!

[Rachel Morley]

I'm not sure I agree with you Randi when you say that cders are separated into three categories. I for one identify with several ideas. I do feel a certain comfort and peace when dressed en femme when at home. When I go out en femme I get a little excited and nervous at the same time, which I enjoy but it's not the same as the feeling of peace at home. Then there are times (and I don't normally volunteer this information) that crossdressing, particularly when I think about being a feminized male I find erotic.


I've always thought..despite the denials I read...that there can't be a Tgirl out there that at some time hasn't fantasized/desired about being treated like a real girl by a real guy.
OOH NO Nikki ! I couldn't disagree with you more (at least from my perspective). I can honestly say (hand on heart) that I have NEVER EVER wanted to be the object of desire of a man when dressed or for that matter at any other time! Period! I have heard of people's fantasies about being romanced by a guy when dressed but that's not for me. There was one time I got some unwanted attention from a guy whilst at a costume party where I was completely en femme and it made me sh*t scared! However it doesn't bother me that others are into that. I know for a fact there are some things that I like that others just simply couldn't tolerate :eek:

[Julia Christiana]

Crossdressing for me provides a balance of both intellectual and physical stimulation very much like our ying-yang logo. When dressed en-femme I always find myself physically excited by the sight and feel of womens clothing on my body. In my mind I embrace my fantasy of being female, particularly the feelings of being desired by another person in a physical way.
Back in my younger days, I would not know what to do with myself after having release,the fear of being caught en femme would rush into my head, and I would quickly hide my things back in the closet.
I will not lie and say that this does not still happen sometimes...it does, but when I know that I am free from any time constraints, I will spend the day fully dressed from head to toe. During these times, I become more fully engaged in my femme persona and the thrill of dressing takes on another dimension. My situation does not allow me to practice my crossdressing in this manner as much as I might like, but I do find ways to squeeze in short times to myself on a pretty regular basis.
Sincerely
Julia Christiana

[randi_789]

Donna,
You described my childhood. I started walking around in my mother's heels and also loved the feel of the edge of the blanket, as well as carrying around an old nightgown of my mother's. Was it the internet that brought you to the realization that there was more to your dressing and becoming attracted to men?

[RenoDana]

I find that when I dress at home, with the doors locked and windows closed, it's always been a very sexual experience. I think it's the danger, and maybe even the association of being "locked in" with bondage.

But when I'm fully dressed and out in full Dana mode, there's almost nothing sexual about it. That's when the gender thing takes over and the whole atmosphere of the activity changes.

[KathrynW]

OOH NO Nikki ! I couldn't disagree with you more (at least from my perspective). I can honestly say (hand on heart) that I have NEVER EVER wanted to be the object of desire of a man when dressed or for that matter at any other time! Period! I have heard of people's fantasies about being romanced by a guy when dressed but that's not for me.
Angel:
I AGREE WITH YOU 110%. I want absolutely NOTHING to do with guys when dressed. For those who are into this...Hey, whatever floats your boat.
But please don't speak for me (and many others) if you say cd's want be the object of desire of a man. :-

[Melinda G]

I have been crossdressing since I was 14. But in recent years, as I get deeper into it, I have a conflict. In recent years, I have been shaving myself completely, and therein lies the conflict. I still like women, and i can't bring myself to come out to them. Much as I love CDing, it's a personal thing, that I have no intention of revealing to anyone. I did that years ago to my wife, and it was a big mistake.
But once I shave myself, I have to avoid women for 5 or 6 weeks, until it grows back a little. My last girlfriend may have picked up on it a little. She asked me one night in bed, "Why is your butt so smooth"? I told her hair doesn't grow much where clothes rub on it. She said its supposed to be "fuzzy". Anyway, I have never been able to mix CDing, with women. Many of you say their SO s are OK with it. But I cannot believe they see you in the same way, once they know.

[MelindaC]

In my younger days, the sexual satisfaction element was the strongest. But now that I've passed 60 y/o, I find the sexual element has dwindled a good bit, and now I'm just more comfortable dressed. Just feels more "right" now, atho I expect that element has always been there.

Yes, there is an inner woman in me and that feeling grows stronger as I grow older. And, no, I have never felt any attraction to men when dressed.

[Jillian310]

I wear panties 24/7, and just like the feel and wearing them makes me feel sexy. But when I start to put my thigh highs on, and the rest of my fem clothes, I must admit I become sexually aroused. In fact, that presents a problem, because you how that makes a skirt look. (I am searching for a gaff that will eliminate this.) This somewhat subsides after a bit, but I always feel mentally aroused when I am en femme. Being dressed make me a much more passionate lover. (I never am aroused 'to completion' while dressed. I save those wonderful experiences to when I am with a lover.)

[serinalynn]

Having started when I was 12 and in my mothers things, I loved the soft feel of nylon tricot and satin panties. I was able to dress a couple of nights a week when mom amd dad went out and I stayed home. After leaving my parents home my male self steped forward until about March of 1990 when the desire to dress femme resurfaced and Serina Lynn came out. Now in my mid 50's i just like the feel of wearing womens clothes. Women have such a wide varity of different things to wear, while guys wear a shirt and pants every day.:thumbsdn: I wear a panty and womens jeans every day. I also wear trouser socks everyday. Although as I write this I'm wearing a skirt and a top, half slip, panty, and a bra. I would say its more to just dress in womens clothes and feel good about it. I 've never considered my self passable, but after I did my avatar picture this morning maybe I could become passable. I have never been attracted to men though I would just like to have men and women accept the fact I like to dressing womens clothes.:thumbsup:

[eleventhdr]

What a very few of us do really want is just to fianlly be the girl we were intented to be al along from the very beginning. And to those of you who somehow think or have it confused somehow females are very sexual being as well. think you that this is some kind of male dominated way of being. From what i am now understanding females are much more sexual in all most always. They certainly do have the advantage in most always ovet the male sex No wonder a lot of us would want to experience this total aspect of escaping into being toatlly female in ever way possible females from the youngest age experience this jsut as males to I know having been in a male body so far in this incarnation i sure did from the younest of ages to still right now. So to be able to finally experience it as female oh wow oh wow I can scarely wait to be able to do so and then who really know's once i get there me thinks i would never really want to ever go back. And so be it. Just being a girl. Oh boy!.

[Donna tv]

That is an interesting question Randi when I first read it I did not think the internet had any thing to do with it but the more I think about it I would think that it most likely did. I think it is being able to communicate with men but from a some what safe and anonymous way.

[Emma Brownings]

First question........Do I love the feel of women's clothes. Yes, definitely but I do not have the desire to become a woman and I have no sexual interest in men as such. What I mean by that is that I have never looked at another man and found them atractive or desirable in any way. However, one of my fantasies is to be able to 'ballroom'dance and wear one of those fabulous dresses. Now that would require a partner, probably male, but he would be just an accessory necessary to achieve the fantasy ( a bit like wearing the right shoes or earings or carrying a handbag).:hmmm:

There is another 'maybe' to this aspect of my femme side. I do on occasions find TGirls attractive but whether in the right circumstances that could lead to a sexual relationship I really don't know. I haven't been in that situation yet and I may never be but I have to admit to myself that there is a degree of uncertainy there.

Next question......Do I feel sexy when dressed. Yes, although the need to relieve myself and the feelings of guilt afterwards are much less now than when I was younger, in fact I don't remember the last time I felt guilty (except about the amount of money I spend on femme things). Most of the time I dress fairly conventionally with modest heels, longer skirts and less than 2 kgs of makeup but occasionally the 'need' in me does emerge. Then....well watch out, you may be faced with the terrifying image of 'Emma the ****' or bemused by the submissive maid who wants to be of service or just wants to be bound up (in whatever takes your fancy). There is only ever one outcome is that situation and I will leave the rest to your imagination.
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[Donna tv]

Let me if you will, throw this out there to all of my sisters. I think it still pertains to the subject in this thread. For me, along with receiving pleasure whether sexual or whatever from cd'ing I have been the kind of person to always take something to "the next level" so to speak. Like for instance can you remember of how many times after that first initial time you either wore your 1st pair of panties, high heels, etc did it take to wear something else along with them, then something else again to the point wear you were completely en femm, then what next ? maybe a quick step outside in public and back. For me,that seems how things progressed always looking for that next rush. The strange part is that we all know we will be cd's forever and it makes me think about where my progressions will lead me