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Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 08:51 AM
So-

It’s been a very long time since I’ve been on this site. I’m one who would take the “antidote” if there was one, but have managed to reduce my dressing to once or twice a year. But when I do, it’s all out! I go to a transformation service near me, a wonderful and very talented lady, who transforms me from the neck up into Julie, which I never thought possible.

Here's the whole story..it's quite long, but I wanted to share with people I know will understand!

I go to her studio around 10AM, dressed in my workout clothes. I wanted to get pics of several different looks , which I had never done. The pics are all on my cell phone, though she did edit the one glamour shot for me . The rest are unedited. After she worked her makeup magic, we went outside for the workout pic. Then inside for a quick change into a “business sexy” look for the couch and glam shot. Then another change into the jeans and peacoat (purple shirt in the selfie pic was underneath), and off we went to lunch. Small place, we were the only customers except a guy at the bar. 30-ish female waitress did not bat an eye (my fem voice is pretty convincing, and I was with a GG). She said, “can I start you ladies off with a drink?”, and so on throughout the meal. Nice lunch, after which, as we were walking back to the car, my GG friend and transformation genius said “mission accomplished, no way she read you”. True or not, it did seem that way, which was a thrill . We drove back to her studio, and I left about 2PM for the rest of the adventure.



When I left her shop , I realized I had to pee! So I went back downtown again to a small indoor mall and used the ladies room. Another woman was in there, no problem. One of the things I imagined doing was going in to the bakery/coffee shop that’s in that mall and ordering a coffee, but didn't know if I'd dare to..but, I went in there, no line and a young guy behind the counter. I stepped up, he said may I help you, I said “just a small coffee please”, he said here or to go, I said “to go thanks”, and voila..it was done. He appeared not to see anything amiss, nor did any of the patrons (it was pretty full) pay me any mind. Task one..success:-)!

Walking back to the car was fun, appeared to get checked out by an older guy.. lol. Then hit the highway back to my area about an hour away, but soon my nose was running, so I pulled off and stopped at a store for tissues. Middle aged lady cashier..again, no problem.

Back on the road, by the next rest area had to pee again..(Julie has to pee a lot..must be a girl thing..lol!). Or maybe all the water I was driking to keep my voice working! Went in to the ladies room, when done I primped at the mirror a sec, another woman came in..paid me no mind.

Back on the road , then stopped at the bank , had to hit the ATM for cash for the hotel room I had booked. Again, people in and out, no one appeared to notice anything.

Now..the big one was coming. I had booked a room at a hotel online, gave Julie's name and address (checked the box for Mrs. in case the clerk was a woman and noticed my “wedding” ring..lol!).You need ID to check in to most hotels. Knowing this, I got a fake drivers’ license on line (from the next state over from where I live, looks totally real), and a credit card in Julie’s name. Even when you pay cash you have to reserve with a card. Their web site was one that did not ask the zip code where the bill was sent, which is why I booked there,,license and card zip code would not have matched, not sure if that would have been any issue. Anyway, I figured by booking online and showing up with the matching documents, and paying cash, it would work out.
I had checked the lobby out in advance a few days ago, so I knew the setup and what to expect. Anyway, I walked on in with my suitcase rolling behind me and right up to the desk. The clerk was another young 20-something guy, kinda nerdy..perfect!(men are not observant, especially young men) A man came up right behind me waiting to check in also..wonder if he was checking out my butt..lol! Sorry, I can't help but find the humor in all this. Anyway, the clerk was on the phone, but got free in a couple minutes, during which time I tried to stay calm. Then he gets off and says, "may I help you Maam?" "Just checking in" I said. "Your name?" he said. "Julie Martin" I said, and offered him the printout of the email confirmation they had sent me. He found the reservation, went thru his spiel, and then asked for my ID and credit card, which I gave him, but told him I would pay cash. He said fine and took the license off to make a photocopy. He came back, said, " thank you Mrs. Martin", and gave me the key and directions to the room. I asked him what time breakfast was :-), he told me, I said thank you and headed to the elevator.
I must say that whole thing was a rush. There is no way that he or the other people in the lobby caught on, which felt pretty great!
So I get to the room, and 15 minutes later I am feeling like I want to risk a little more. So..I take off my coat and scarf, jack my boobs up a little to get the cleavage just right (thank you Nu Bra!), pull the purple shirt down to the danger line, and head back down to the lobby to get a drink and snack from the kiosk. I rummage around and find what I want, then ask the clerk "do I just pay for this here?" He said " sure I can do that for you". So I go up and give him a chance to get a good look, which he takes..lol..then he looks away. I pay him, say thanks, and start to walk away. He pipes up with "how are you finding everything so far?". I say, "wonderful, thanks", he says "anything at all I can do just let me know", I say "thank you I will", and head back to the room. Damn..I see why women get a charge out of flirting..not fair to the men folk :-). Another first, though quite funny given the real story!

So then it's about 5PM, and I decided to really take the plunge..I head for Uno. I walk in and the 20-something girl says, "one for dinner?". For some reason I was flustered (women are a harder sell!), and my voice got a little shaky..For some reason I thought it was more believable if I was going to meet my girlfriend, so I said so, but that she could seat me. She gave me a quizzical look, but said "right this way". At the booth I hung up my coat, and took off the scarf..another big step, as under close scrutiny the scarf gives me a sense of security..but I was on a roll.. The waitress showed up, I told her the same thing, she asked if I wanted a glass of wine or anything while I waited (if I was there as a guy she would have asked if I wanted a beer!), I yes, picked one off the menu, which she brought. When she checked back in with me, I told her my girlfriend had texted to cancel but I would go ahead and have a salad anyway. Ordered it, and while waiting for it had to pee again, so I hit the ladies room..uneventful. Made sure to arrange my shirt just so before going back to the table, figuring it could help pull the whole thing off if they saw some cleavage. Sashayed on back, no apparent suspicion from other customers at their booths. Anyway, ate 1/2 the salad and was full, waitress came with the bill, I took care of it and headed out to a "have a great night maam" from the hostess.

Then off to Kohl's at the suburban mall , where I tried on the low cut shirt in the other selfie pic. Then cruised through the mall doing the window shop thing (which I would NEVER do, but made the experience seem authentic). Went into Payless, tried on some purple sneakers, while I had them on and was looking at them in the full length mirror, the young clerk came by and said" those look great on you"..good salegirl lol. I said thanks, then tried on some other shoes that were way too tight, she came by again and said they looked great too..I bought the sneakers, had a bit of a conversation with her..so problem.

Back toward the hotel, stopped at Walgreens for some makeup remover and other un-Julie-ing supplies..again no problem..back to the hotel where the same clerk had a friendly greeting..and up to the room. 45 minutes later a 6' guy in a carhart jacket carrying a stuffed suitcase, walked out through the lobby without a word or glance at the clerk. Over to the truck dealership to leave the rental car and get my truck with my spare key..and home by 10.

Exhausting but exhilarating. Considering my M. O. and how complicated and time consuming the run-up to an outing is, the next one is probably Oct/Nov, which is just fine. I get lots of mileage out of this, and generally bury Julie for long periods anyway..it works!

Thanks for all who managed to read all this! Nice to have this forum to share. Best to you all.

Julie

PS. The purple shirt and glam shot did not upload..I'll try separately. Enjoy!


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Jamie Lynn
01-30-2014, 09:04 AM
Way to go, Julie! You're looking pretty and authentic! Glad it all went well! :)

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 09:05 AM
219072So here is the purple shirt I wore out, and the edited glam shot :-).

Best, Julie

Anna H
01-30-2014, 09:08 AM
Great story, Julie! Thanks for sharing!

With all the details I can imagine being there myself. And from
you Nice! pictures, it's pretty clear why no one would think
anything out of the ordinary! You're 100% passable! :happy:

~Kate~ ♥

MarisaRose.
01-30-2014, 09:13 AM
Great post, wonderful pictures, very lovely lady!!?,

tylia
01-30-2014, 09:24 AM
Don't take the "antidote" Julie......you look wonderful. The second shot shows a beautiful woman shape (love the hips) whats your secret???

Janet Doe
01-30-2014, 09:35 AM
All your pictures are beautiful, you look wonderful. I`m not surprised the waitress only saw you as a GG.

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 09:44 AM
Tylia, in the interest of performing a public service, I will answer here, happy to share. It's taken me many years to get this dialed in. The hips are foam pads I made myself. You can buy foam sheets from an upholstery shop, the density that they would use for a seat cushion, about 2" thick depending on how big you are and how hippy you want to be. You can mark it out with a sharpie, then cut and shape it with an electric carving knife, kind of an oval or teardrop shape that you leave full thickness at about the top of your femur, just in that spot, then taper it in all directions to a feather edge down your lower thigh, at your butt, the front edge of your quads, and just below your hip bone. It takes some experimenting to get the proportions right for your own body, you may ruin a couple of sheets before you get it right. I hold them in place with a pair of "biggest loser" stretch shorts (like bike shorts, Rite Aid sells them). The shorts are stretchy enough to go around your waist..I then just use a terrycloth belt from a bathrobe to cinch the waist, pull it tight and wrap it around and tuck the loose ends in behind the belt. Once you have a shirt and jeans on, the lines are smooth and the illusion is complete. In tight jeans when "tucked", it is totally believable and really helps pull off the whole illusion. There is more to this technique that makes it possible to use the ladies room quite easily without taking it off. I will provide that info privately if anyone's interested, unless the moderators give the OK to make it public :-).

Good luck!

Julie

tylia
01-30-2014, 10:10 AM
Thank you Julie
I currently have the hip and butt enhancer from Glamour Boutique and it does a pretty good job. But,i feel like i always have to add some "hip" to it just so it's proportionate with my wide shoulders (V neck tops help with that also). I would be happy to hear more from you privately if you have the time.
Not sure if these dots are a yes or no???? lol

robindee36
01-30-2014, 10:42 AM
Wow Julie, you have some awesome girl curves and a very pretty face. Totally feminine, IMO.

Hugs, Robin :bunny:

Julie Denier
01-30-2014, 10:43 AM
From one Julie to another, you look terrific! ;)

lesli
01-30-2014, 10:45 AM
Julie,
looks like you had fun. the blue top is a fantastic look on you!
hugs,
lesli

Julie Denier
01-30-2014, 10:46 AM
Awesome glamour shot! ;)

bridget thronton
01-30-2014, 11:12 AM
Nice post and very nice pics

Beverley Sims
01-30-2014, 11:26 AM
Julie,
Nice outing for you and the butt enhancer description will be helpful to those that like to experiment.

Lorileah
01-30-2014, 12:27 PM
we spend so much time here asking people to accept us as we are. Then we do things like get a fake driver's license. Not knowing the state or area you are from, I kind of wonder about this.

You didn't have to go through all that and you would have been treated the same.

You look good in the photos and you look happy. Glad you had a good time. I think you will have as good a time just being who you are and not worrying about little things.

teri g
01-30-2014, 12:32 PM
Wow! What a story and what a presentation you make. If you manage to get even close with your female voice there's no question that you can blend right in. You've got your proportions spot on. I did exactly as you did to create hips to counter my very wide shoulders. It was definitely a trial and error process but works pretty good now. I too would "take the antidote" but in your case, don't. Great job, great story.

Rachel292
01-30-2014, 12:38 PM
Great story, your smile says you really enjoyed it. Best wishes for your next adventure. You don't need to worry you look great.

Helen Grandeis
01-30-2014, 12:59 PM
You look great in all your pictures. A fake ID is a dangerous step to take.

Kristy 56
01-30-2014, 02:06 PM
For someone who only dresses twice a year you certainly had a pretty good adventure. You look great,thanks for sharing.

Melissa in SE Tn
01-30-2014, 03:18 PM
What a great , well written story! I certainly could "live through " your story account as I read it. Super photos attached . Are you sure that you only dabble in cding a few times per year ? Thanks for sharing. Peace , melissa

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 03:36 PM
Looks great!

J

Katey888
01-30-2014, 03:43 PM
Julie - that is a great story and very well told.:cheer:

And you do look absolutely convincing and passable in those pics - as well as glamorous too! A great smile that I'm sure was the one you use for flirting! :) Great pics :D

Thanks for sharing this - but do be careful with that fake ID... :facepalm: wouldn't want to see you thrown into the county jail women's section...

Katey x

lovetobedani
01-30-2014, 03:52 PM
WOW......What a great story. I don't know how anyone could argue with you about not being a GG with curves like yours. You're very cute and have a killer smile.

MsVal
01-30-2014, 03:57 PM
That's a great telling of an exciting adventure. Sufficiently detailed that I can imagine being there with you.
With outings as great as the one you wrote about, I cannot imagine only going out once or twice a year.

Best wishes

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 04:00 PM
we spend so much time here asking people to accept us as we are. Then we do things like get a fake driver's license. Not knowing the state or area you are from, I kind of wonder about this.

You didn't have to go through all that and you would have been treated the same.

You look good in the photos and you look happy. Glad you had a good time. I think you will have as good a time just being who you are and not worrying about little things.

Lorileah,

In the 40 years that this has been part of me, it's taken many forms, as I suspect it has with many others here. At this point in my life, Julie is a role, a character I play once or twice a year to the best of my ability...I also see some humor in it. I'm actually not looking to be accepted by anyone, though I respect those that do feel that way, and I understand it. This is very private for me, completely separate from my "real" life, and I like it that way. I'm impersonating a woman, and imagining what it might be like to be one and be treated as one...but only in make believe, and only once in a while. Trying to pass in public and interact as a woman is fun for me, a challenge that I enjoy. It's also a learning experience that helps me in other areas of my life, and possibly to understand women a little better? Hard to say.
I used to get read all the time, but have gotten better at it over the years..no doubt I am sometimes still read..you never know for sure...but I don't care, as long as no one makes a scene..and they don't. It's the little details that combined help complete the illusion, part of the role.
The fake license was purely for purposes of the hotel, part of playing the role. They destroy the copy the next day, no way to trace it anyway, a fictitious address from a different state. I would NEVER use it for anything else..always have my male ID with me when I go out en femme, should the need arise.
Best to you, and may you continue to enjoy this part of you on your own terms.

Hugs, Julie

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 04:17 PM
Julie - that is a great story and very well told.:cheer:

And you do look absolutely convincing and passable in those pics - as well as glamorous too! A great smile that I'm sure was the one you use for flirting! :) Great pics :D

Thanks for sharing this - but do be careful with that fake ID... :facepalm: wouldn't want to see you thrown into the county jail women's section...

Katey x


To those that have expressed concern about the fake ID..point noted. I want to make clear that the ONLY reason I got it was to be able to make the hotel reservation as Julie and have something to give them when I registered that identified me as Julie(many sources for these). It is from a different state than my own(you'd be crazy to get one from your own state), and a fictitious address. Hotels do not check this type of thing, they just make a copy that they destroy the next day if you incur no other charges..which I did not. In no way shape or form would I EVER use it for any other purpose, which I agree would be foolhardy. I always have my male ID with me. I am beyond the age where I would ever be asked for ID to buy a drink at a restaurant, so no worries there. I also don't advocate this practice, but in this circumstance it felt safe for me.

Peta-Downunder
01-30-2014, 04:53 PM
OK you have done a really fantastic job, would have never known you were a guy, I strive to that level of perfection!

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 05:42 PM
Thanks Peta, and to everyone for your kind comments. Hope the hip techniques shared below are helpful to some. There seems to be less info out there on that than on creating cleavage (that I do with Amazing Adhesive bra from Walmart, Nu Bra knock-off, and size 6 forms attached with the double stick tapes they sell, and full coverage underwire bra..push up bras mess up the flow from my pec tissue to the form in my case..lots of other methods I know). Always interested in others' experience and tricks! How's that joke go...you don't know the measure of a man till you've walked a mile in his pumps? Lol.

Stephanie Julianna
01-30-2014, 07:18 PM
Julie, You look great. It is just amazing how mant girls here look like women that I work with. You could pass anuwhere. greta look.

Marcelle
01-30-2014, 08:21 PM
Hi Julie,

What a great story and you seem to have had a great time. No wonder you had no problems you looked terrific. I hear you about the "pee" thing. No matter how little I drink I find myself always having to go to the bathroom . . . I think it is nerves.

Hugs

Isha

jamie-upstate
01-30-2014, 08:25 PM
Tylia, in the interest of performing a public service, I will answer here, happy to share. It's taken me many years to get this dialed in. The hips are foam pads I made myself. You can buy foam sheets from an upholstery shop, the density that they would use for a seat cushion, about 2" thick depending on how big you are and how hippy you want to be. You can mark it out with a sharpie, then cut and shape it with an electric carving knife, kind of an oval or teardrop shape that you leave full thickness at about the top of your femur, just in that spot, then taper it in all directions to a feather edge down your lower thigh, at your butt, the front edge of your quads, and just below your hip bone. It takes some experimenting to get the proportions right for your own body, you may ruin a couple of sheets before you get it right. I hold them in place with a pair of "biggest loser" stretch shorts (like bike shorts, Rite Aid sells them). The shorts are stretchy enough to go around your waist..I then just use a terrycloth belt from a bathrobe to cinch the waist, pull it tight and wrap it around and tuck the loose ends in behind the belt. Once you have a shirt and jeans on, the lines are smooth and the illusion is complete. In tight jeans when "tucked", it is totally believable and really helps pull off the whole illusion. There is more to this technique that makes it possible to use the ladies room quite easily without taking it off. I will provide that info privately if anyone's interested, unless the moderators give the OK to make it public :-).

Good luck!

Julie

There is a good video on you tube showing how to make the hip pads from foam

ChristinaK
01-30-2014, 08:32 PM
Amazing story! You absolutely look passable in your pics. Thank you so much for sharing!

Julie Martin
01-30-2014, 08:50 PM
Stephanie, your avatar pic is amazing..talk about pass anywhere!Wow. And you are a dead ringer for a woman I know! How weird is that?

Vanessa Rose
01-30-2014, 09:26 PM
Julie,

To say you are perfectly dressed and beautifully comfortable would be an understatement. Can I borrow your confidence and some curves. Lord my worlds gravity is apparently much stronger where I live than where you do because most of my body has sunk to about my ankles.

Seriously, You look smashing!

Vanny

kimdl93
01-30-2014, 09:34 PM
You looked every bit the attractive woman....why waste it by hiding out for most of the year?

Julie Martin
01-31-2014, 08:41 AM
Kim,

A reasonable question. In case others can relate, I'll explain why:

For me it doesn't feel like hiding out. Years ago, when the Julie I've learned how to present today was a pipe-dream and I did not dare to venture out in public, I did have the urge to dress more often and did so. Now that the present day Julie is possible, anything short of an outing like this doesn't interest me. And since there are many complicated and time consuming details, and expenses, involved in preparing for these outings, I happy that they are infrequent, as it would otherwise have a major impact on other areas of my life, which for me would be unworkable. So I let Julie bubble to the surface when the urge strikes, and embrace her full-bore. After an outing like this, the itch has been scratched, and all I want is to be a regular guy..and that guy has many interests and responsibilities, and people he loves who depend on him, and it feels good to me to be that guy most of the time. This really does last for 6 months to a year before Julie resurfaces, which works for me. Having been subject to much more frequent urges in the past, I totally get why my MO would not work for many others.
Best to you, and to all on whatever version of this road you must travel.

Hugs, Julie

teri g
01-31-2014, 06:45 PM
Looking forward to the story of your next outing.

juliana
02-23-2014, 10:33 AM
Nice post and very nice pics.

Barbie Anne
02-23-2014, 10:56 AM
Lovely story. Glady you had such a great day. The pics show why you passed hon; Quite beautiful.

Helen 2
02-23-2014, 11:02 AM
Julie...after admiring the pictures, of course Ms. Martin was completely believable....you look FANTASTIC.
Nicely done, gurl!