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Alexaduggal
02-02-2014, 10:55 AM
I posted earlier in the week about how excited/nervous I was about going out dressed. Well last night was it.

I started in the afternoon by shaving everything I could reach. I took my time pampering myself. Moisturizing a smooth body is really nice.

I went through outfit options, mixing and matching anticipating what I may look like.

When the time came to leave for the makeup artist session, I almost got cold feet. Even up until I rang her doorbell I was questioning myself about whether or not I really wanted to go through with it. But I rang her doorbell and there was no going back at that point.

As soon as I got there we went through outfit options together. I am tall and thin with long legs. We chose comfortable 4" heels, black thigh highs and garter, very short tight faux leather skirt & a leopard print long sleeve scoop neck top.

She did my makeup and I'm sure she could tell how nervous I was, but she made me feel very comfortable. I felt bad though because I don't talk much as it is and I was so nervous I may have uttered about 10 words the whole time I was there. I loved how she made me look and I certainly loved the girly attention of a makeup session. When I looked in the mirror I was not this lanky awkward man, I was a sexy confident beautiful woman. It was really amazing. It did take a lot longer than I thought it would, but it was well worth it.

Then came time to leave. Wow talk about nervous. I was in a very crowded part of manhattan and my car was a few blocks away. I was very self conscious at first, thinking everyone was looking at me. That quickly passed when I realized, nobody was looking at a man who looked silly wearing women's clothes. Anyone who was looking saw a hot woman walking down the street. So much so that when I reached the car, I dropped the giant bag I was lugging with me in the trunk and went for a walk for a few blocks. I did get a lot of looks, but in a good way. First of all I'm not sure anyone saw my face because I caught a ton of people flat out staring at my legs. It felt really good.

Then it was time to go to the CD party I was going to. I drove out there observing all traffic laws, because the last thing I wanted to do was be pulled over en femme. When I got to the party it was fun. There were a bunch of other girls who all looked fabulous and a nice assortment of guys. They all made me feel welcome. I was really nervous and wasn't so good at conversation, I'm sure they found me a little boring I'm afraid. But I looked damn good.

There was one guy who was sweet, but a little lecherous and he was putting the hard sell on me I think. He kept touching my legs and asking questions about my sexual orientation. I'm told it was a very slow night for this place, that is usually more crowded. I guess I'll have to go back soon to find out.

After the party I drove back into manhattan because I wanted to walk around on the streets a few more times. It was great.

The only bad part of the whole night was the painful and slow removal of the makeup at 4am totally exhausted.

Overall it was a blast. I cannot wait to do it again with a little more comfort and confidence. Hopefully with friends.

rachaelsloane
02-02-2014, 11:43 AM
Alexa,
Overall sounds like you had a good time and I'm sure you will go out again, it's habit forming. Just to let you know, you are not alone, my first time out was similar walking across the hotel parking lot to the makeup artist and then walking across again to the ballroom where the gala was being held. What I took away from that night is that all the worry went away less than 5 minutes talking to people and even forgot that I was wearing a dress.
Rach

Jenniferathome
02-02-2014, 11:55 AM
Alexa, happy to read that you had fun and Rachel is right, the fear drops instantly once you are "out and social." I do want to warn you that women do not walk alone at night or in the early morning. Maybe hookers, but not "women." You put yourself at great risk in doing so.

TXRobin
02-02-2014, 12:03 PM
I have to agree with Rachel. my first few times out I was nervous wreck, but after the first 5 or 10 minutes I get distracted by something else and time speeds away. It really makes you feel like CInderella hearing the clock strike 12! But congrats on a huge step Alexa!!

~Robin

Jesse Six
02-02-2014, 12:06 PM
Hi Alexa,
Thanks for that wonderful story! You just described what I'm dreaming of doing.
:hugs:

Kristy 56
02-02-2014, 12:40 PM
Alexa,thanks for sharing your Manhattan Story. I'm glad that you had so much fun. :)

Katey888
02-02-2014, 01:12 PM
Alexa,

Great story and great experience - sounds like you had an absolute high... :cheer:

Interesting being hit on..? Can't imagine I would have been as calm as you seem to have been about it... After approach #1 from Mr Lech it would have been: " You toucha my leg again - I smasha your face..." :eek: - but how did you handle it..?

And Jennifer has very serious but good advice - you may have been on a high but in the future please be safe... :hugs: it's not worth putting yourself at risk. :)

Look forward to your next outing - enjoy the buzz for a while... Katey x

Alexaduggal
02-02-2014, 03:42 PM
You're right about wanting to do it again. I'm sitting here in pantyhose and shorts wishing I had a friend to get dressed with and grab a glass of wine.

As far as walking around last night. I was walking in midtown manhattan. On a normal late night weekend it's crowded and safe. On Super Bowl weekend it's jam packed with people and cops. I appreciate the warning, but want to reassure you that I was very safe.

My only regret last night is not having any pictures.

ArleneRaquel
02-02-2014, 03:46 PM
Alexa,
Thank you for sharing your experience and Best Wishes on your journey.

Jennifer Kelly
02-02-2014, 03:54 PM
I just had my first time out last weekend (but in LA not NYC) and now I'm addicted. Can't wait to do it again. Glad you had fun.

Beverley Sims
02-02-2014, 03:56 PM
I agree the worst time is when a great night reaches a conclusion.

Alice_2014_B
02-02-2014, 03:59 PM
I agree about going out en femme with a fellow CD; that's what I want to do next time.
It was fun out alone, but would much more fun with someone else.

Marcelle
02-02-2014, 04:06 PM
Hi Alexa,

It sounds like you had a great time and lots of fun. It is amazing how nervous we get when out but once out there you realize there are not torches and angry mobs . . . just people who for the most part are good about it. Of course, as you have found out now that you have done it once you are hooked.

Hugs

Isha

Wanna be Heather
02-02-2014, 04:24 PM
Good for you girl. It will be my first time on Feb 15, can't wait. Your story really put me at ease for my first time out. Wish me luck

Kisses

Kim_Bitzflick
02-02-2014, 05:12 PM
You're right about wanting to do it again......

My only regret last night is not having any pictures.

I'm glad you had a good time. I know from experience that once the cat is out of the bag, it's really hard to get her back in.

NO PICTURES!!!??? So sad. In this realm, that means it didn't happen but I'll give you a pass on this being your first time.

Adriana Moretti
02-02-2014, 05:54 PM
good for you girl....we need to head in to nyc soon together!!!!

Alexaduggal
02-02-2014, 05:58 PM
Yes we do Adriana. Absolutely. Two hot girls out painting the town pink. Just tell me when and I'm in.