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Nigella
02-05-2014, 04:20 PM
18th May 10 - I was seen by the Leeds Gender Identity clinic to be assessed for a confirmation diagnosis of Transsexualism, this assessment continued to 14th Sep 10, the result of which was a confirmation of “primary” transsexualism and Gender Identity Disorder. During this 4 month period it was basically therapy sessions, there was not even a confirmed place for me on the care pathway. I was fortunate that there was only 3 sessions required to confirm the diagnosis, the Leeds clinic usually undertake at least 6 sessions, my saving grace was that I had already begun my social transition.

15th Oct 10 - I was accepted onto the Gender Clinic Care pathway and I was able, on my first appointment, to confirm the 3 elements of social gender transition. These elements are :

Legal change of name
Living in gender role, female in my case :p , in every aspect
Evidence of meaningful activity in gender, this could be paid employment or voluntary work

Until these 3 elements are evidenced, there is no progress along the care pathway with regards to hormone treatment and surgery.

21st Dec 10 - My first appointment with the Endocrinologist. Not a happy one for me :sad:, after assessment and discussion regarding ongoing medical issues, the advice was that I needed to sort out these issues before Hormones would be prescribed. Away I went, both unhappy :sad: but happy :), at least I knew that I was eligible for hormone therapy.

22nd Mar 11 -  I received my first prescription for Hormones, I had gone away with the advice about my medical issues and dealt with them. Hormone treatment continues but I hit a benchmark in Mar 12, at this time I was eligible for a first medical opinion for vaginoplasty, I’m not sure when this first opinion was done, but the 2nd opinion was done 19th Nov 11.

08th Jan 13 - I got my appointment with my surgeon of choice, Mr Oliver Fenton at Methley Park. This appointment went so well, that if I wished I could have booked my surgery date that day. Unfortunately, Mr Fenton’s technique requires some genital hair removal on the scrotal sack, so a surgery date was delayed. I started the hair removal regime.

08th Aug 13 – Surgery, as I said to Sandra as I came out of the anaesthesia :bday2: to Me, 

So why the reference to Meatloaf, well as a result of my time line, I have hit 2 out of 3 milestones, which ain’t bad :p

09th Dec 13 – Discharged by Hormone prescribing clinic to GP care and prescribing
21st Jan 14 – Discharged by Leeds Gender Identity Service
?? – 6 month post op check up complete, Mr Fenton has a policy of seeing SRS patients at 12 month post op, that is set for late Jul 14.

I am expecting, especially as there have been no complications, that this is going to be a formality and the final phase of my physical/mental transition will be complete.

Vanessa Rose
02-05-2014, 04:26 PM
Nice...and yes, two out of three ain't bad. I can almost sing that song word for word...


V

Angela Campbell
02-05-2014, 04:35 PM
Well it will be three out of three in time, no question about that. It is good to see things like this. It can let others know what kind of things are involved.

Nigella
02-05-2014, 04:49 PM
I guess that's one of the reasons I posted it the way I did. It actually lays down a time line, at least for the NHS care pathway, that may help others in their planning :). It is by no means definitive, I had done a lot of preparatory work in that I was living as Nigella for nearly 4 years before I sought any medical assistance.

Marleena
02-05-2014, 05:45 PM
Nicely done and informative. 3 out of 3 soon for you .:)

gonegirl
02-05-2014, 06:04 PM
You've got fortitude Girl, and for that you have my utmost respect.

So what's next? Paradise By The Dashboard Light?, or Bat Out Of Hell? ;-)

Jorja
02-05-2014, 08:10 PM
And what are you going to do when Mr Fenton says, I am not happy with it, we must return you to your former self? ;)

Barbara Ella
02-05-2014, 10:46 PM
Kudos to you Nigella, things will go swimmingly for you. If not, I assume you will be scouring Ohio for a woman named Jorja...

Barbara

Sandra
02-06-2014, 03:24 AM
And what are you going to do when Mr Fenton says, I am not happy with it, we must return you to your former self? ;)

Mr Fenton will have to get past me first :lol:

Nigella
02-06-2014, 01:18 PM
...So what's next? Paradise By The Dashboard Light?, or Bat Out Of Hell? ;-)

If I forget my hormone patch change, it'll be "Bitch Out Of Hell" :D


And what are you going to do when Mr Fenton says, I am not happy with it, we must return you to your former self? ;)

Think I might have to recall a few cans of dog food first :lol:

Ann Louise
02-08-2014, 01:17 AM
Congratulations Nigella! It looks arduous, but so wonderful, too, that your persistence in slogging through that medical bureaucracy paid off. And, I'm pleased to see, in good health, too :)

All the best to you dear. Step 3 of 3 is right around your corner.

)*( Ann )*(

PretzelGirl
02-08-2014, 03:34 PM
And a 6 month Happy Birthday! It is tough waiting for each step, but all worth it in the end.