JamieOH
03-10-2014, 09:53 PM
So I was reading Sara's post about beimg open. And I really wanted to share my experiences lately without hijacking her thread. So I came out toy wofe a while back, some will remember. And now finally I started dressing at home all the time. Even in front of my 16 yo son. They have become very accepting of it. I now even go shopping (groceries, clothes, gas station etc) dressed in what I am wearing, usually push up bra and thong under leggings lace tank and a fiitted henly.. etc. Always though very female clothing and I dont usually wear makeup sometimes have stubble.
The one thing I have noticed is people really truly dont seem to mind. Now if I was going. Clubbing say, might be different. As people are going to mix. It up and date. I'm not looking for that. Not I onto clubbing. But I am happy being femme. I love everything about the lace the soft fabric the feeling of my hips swaying when I walk in heels. I did wear makeup the other day.. I had to go to michigan which is a. 4ish hour drive. Coming back I was full on femme. Anyway I had to pee, stopped at a roadside rest, used the ladies room. Another lady smiled at me said she loved my leggings and my necklace. Asked if I had far to go, I said about 3 hours, in my husky man voice, iou have no femme voice. She said " well be careful", (smiled), touched my arm and said "you look. Lovely"
So, as Sara said it does seem to be we pose more of a threat to ourselves than any perceived by others. Most will accept you if you accept yourself. And if they dont F'm.
Sorry the pic is sideways. Lol.. This one is probably sideways too. But it's with no makeup
The one thing I have noticed is people really truly dont seem to mind. Now if I was going. Clubbing say, might be different. As people are going to mix. It up and date. I'm not looking for that. Not I onto clubbing. But I am happy being femme. I love everything about the lace the soft fabric the feeling of my hips swaying when I walk in heels. I did wear makeup the other day.. I had to go to michigan which is a. 4ish hour drive. Coming back I was full on femme. Anyway I had to pee, stopped at a roadside rest, used the ladies room. Another lady smiled at me said she loved my leggings and my necklace. Asked if I had far to go, I said about 3 hours, in my husky man voice, iou have no femme voice. She said " well be careful", (smiled), touched my arm and said "you look. Lovely"
So, as Sara said it does seem to be we pose more of a threat to ourselves than any perceived by others. Most will accept you if you accept yourself. And if they dont F'm.
Sorry the pic is sideways. Lol.. This one is probably sideways too. But it's with no makeup