First Time Out to a Club

[Rhonda Ann]

It was a very exciting moment for me, it was a long time past due. I had driven by this particular bar several times, about a week or so ago I drove by and I swore I saw a CD walking in. This built me up to call the bar and ask, "Are CDs welcome in your club and will I be safe?" The man assured me it would be fine and no problems would arise. So I made the short drive and walked in, not nearly as nervous as I thought I would be. Being a Monday night not much was going on, but the bartender (that answered the phone) said, "You just called?" I said, "Yes, and I'm a little bit nervous." He reassured me all would be fine and asked me if I needed anything. I said, "A scotch on the rocks for a nerve builder please." He laughed and told me to relax, and it's funny that all first time CDs sit exactly where you're sitting." I laughed we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while (super nice guy). I had a few drinks, mostly checked my FB and text a my daughter-in-law. It was amazing how fast I relaxed, a return trip is in order.
The only scary part was I think I saw a lady I know, not for sure, she was sitting at the far end of the bar. I asked the bartender if he knew her and he said "no, but relax, she won't recognize you in dress." Still not for sure if it was her, and OH WELL. It was fun

[Eryn]

Sounds like a great first outing! First times nerves are always on edge, but pretty soon you will relax and enjoy being you!

[Lynn Marie]

Well done Rhonda. So now that you're sure other CDs frequent the place, how about meeting one or two? The bartender knows when they congregate, or flock together! Have fun girl. I love CD girlfriends.

[Marcelle]

Hi Rhonda,

The first time out can be very nerve wrecking and you handled it well. It will get easier and more natural with each time you do it.

Hugs

Isha

[Adriana Moretti]

hey glad you made it out....how many scOtches did you have LOL !

[Jess Marie]

Sounds like quite the time :)

I agree with Lynn, ask the bar tender when the best time to catch a cd is or even leave a way to contact you so he can give it to other cd's. It would be pretty cool if you could do a weekly or bi-weekly meet up at that bar.

[Beverley Sims]

Rhonda,
I hope it leads to more interesting things for you.

[Rhonda Ann]

hey glad you made it out....how many scOtches did you have LOL !

I had a few, almost too many LOL, that was the main reason I left. I'll be more cautious next time, drink a little slower and maybe have a little water added the next time.

Thanks to others for the advice, I will talk to the bartender and see if there is a good time to meet other CDs. He did mention they come and go, but we'll see.

[kimdl93]

Yeah she won't know you in a dress. Glad you broke the ice and got out there!