Dressing for my girlfriend.

[kaylyn]

So my girlfriend is 100% accepting of me cross dressing and actually thinks it's sexy. We go shopping together all the time for clothes and undies. However we have never gone lingerie shopping together and I have never dressed in lingerie for her. I want to surprise her next week when she comes home and be in bed waiting with a romantic mood set. I am torn between a matching pink lace bra and panty set with panty hose and heels or a green and black corset and thong with hose and heels. Which do you think would be best. She herself has corsets and matching sets so I'm assuming she thinks it's sexy. Which do you think I should do.

[ReineD]

As a GG I think I can tell you that if she is into you, it won't matter what you have on. :)

But, my personal preference would be the corset. It's really difficult to pull off pink convincingly.

[Beverley Sims]

You could try going naked in the world.

But that is not the theme is it?

The corset.
Like Reine says, no pink.

[Marcelle]

Hi Kaylyn,

When you say your wife is accepting of your cross dressing do you mean she is "fine" with "romantic fun" and you dressed accordingly (lingerie). Just asking as sometimes that can be a deal breaker unless you have discussed this portion of your relationship and CDing. While my wife is completely fine with me dressing and has no issue with me wearing girl shorts and a cami to sleep in from time to time, when it gets time to "get busy", she was adamant on boy me not girl me (we tried it once but it wasn't her thing and I have to respect that). If you have not had this discussion and are unsure, I would discuss it first. I would hate to hear that what was suppose to be a fun romantic night went south because she was a bit put off. If she is cool then surprise away and go the whole nine yards (corset, panties, nylons).

Hugs

Isha

Isha

[Teresa]

Hi Kaylyn,
I'm slightly confused, you say you go clothes shopping and your GF is OK with your CDing so has she seen you in your stuff? If she hasn't I certainly wouldn't present myself in bed as on opener, if you end up there great but don't try and start there.
I have a small confession to make, I did reveal myself in bed to my second GF wearing her black baby doll negligee set, let's just say it went well !

[Tinkerbell-GG]

I did reveal myself in bed to my second GF wearing her black baby doll negligee set, let's just say it went well !

Lol, Teresa, I think you said this went well? Lordy me, I hope so, as if my H had done this, the black negligee would have been tossed out the front door, and he immediately behind it. It did make me chuckle, though.

[Katey888]

Y' know, in a strange way, I'm with Tinks on this one...

It's great, Kaylyn, that you can totally share this with your GF and she's into it - fabulous... :)

Maybe it's just a Friday thing for me, but I just can't get my head around recommending one or the other thing, for you to be sharing this romantically... I suppose it's something I've never felt like doing with any of my SOs and so I have no frame of reference... Curious..! :thinking:

Enjoy anyway - whatever you decide..! :cheer:

Katey x

[Kate Simmons]

I guess that is okay if that is what you like to do Hon. As for myself, I don't dress for anyone but myself, GF included. :)

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Kaylyn, I think the corset would be best.

[~Joanne~]

I think the only one that has the answer to this question is the one that asked it. Personally, because My SO is who she is, I could do that but not really knowing how far along you are with your GF and your CDing, it's hard to call if you should be dressed at all.

[Tanya+]

I'm inclined to the corset, nice if you can give her enough of a hint so she can be wearing hers too? But to decide properly you really owe it to us to model them all for us and post the pics. Hope it goes well : )

[kaylyn]

Lol I can't model them because I am sporting a full beard and haven't shaved my leges or chest in a while. Lol plus I don't think y'all really wanna see that. Maybe later after I get her response to it but I'm problem just gonna go with the corset.

[Elizabeth36]

I think she will enjoy you in the corset very much.

[ClosetED]

I agree with Isha - moving the feminine you into bed is crossing a line. You need to be sure she wants that line crossed. Have you breached the subject already and she drooled at the thought? Or was cool to the idea? If she drooled, go with corset.

[darla_g]

i liked Reine's comment on this. i think that says it all

[Brandi Lesalle]

Tough call...if you have been fully dressed and then moved to bed and she was ok then I have to say go for the green! If not then don't even try it.

[Jeremie]

....

But, my personal preference would be the corset. It's really difficult to pull off pink convincingly.

What she said!

[mbmeen12]

I would pass on the surprise and do a date night and ask her so her work will be cleared from her head and so she will be mentally ready and able to anticipate the romantic mood i.e. flowers to communication. You both can dressed to the nines have some wine/ sexy and then.........................Rated "G" lol

[Vickie_CDTV]

The corset, but...

As teresa said, even if she says she is supportive, I would not spring this on her for the first time suddenly. "Supportive" can mean a lot of things (she might just be saying it is sexy to her because she wants you to be happy and she may or may not really like it), and support can change real quick. Plan a time to show her yourself en femme, when she is ready for it.

[Sabrina133]

As a GG I think I can tell you that if she is into you, it won't matter what you have on. :)

But, my personal preference would be the corset. It's really difficult to pull off pink convincingly.

Completely agree with Reine...corset, hose and heels.....works every time wink

[JenX]

If you are thinking bedtime.... I would go with thigh hi's or garter belt and stockings and not pantyhose.