cross dress confusion

[nicole/cd]

Hi girls,

I muss firstly say this a great website and some great discussions and i need help and advice.I need some personal advice if possible!!! I have been cdressing now for some time im a30 yr old and since younger years was trying on my sister clothes and make up and then relieving myself while dressed and got a great sexual experinece out of it.Ive dated many ggs and my cdressing seems to come and go. Im however feeling more and more tempted to be with another cd/tv sexually at this stage of my life, i get easily aroused looking at tg photos etc etc. While i still like my male side i dont feel the need to always dress fem, as mentioned above it goes for six months then comes , then goes agian and now its back .The thing is that i am single and not in any relationship.
I have strong urges to go through with this sexual desire to be with another cd but am not sure if im really bi or what and im confused.Im thinking well maybe if i keep it fantasy then its okay then my other thoughts are wow shes sexy cd i would love to be with her!!!! anyone with a similiar situation or whom has been in my situation can you please get back to me.I also have no intention of being with a male as such dressed as a male, my fantsy is when im dressed and with another cd.I ve recently started chatting to another cd online here in australia and we are talking of meeting for the fabtasy to come true but mmmm i have invisiged what will happen but back of my mind says im straight but who knows.


kisses

nicole

[TGMarla]

There is an old saying: The soup is never eaten as hot as it is cooked. You know yourself best. Only you can really answer your questions. But it may be a slippery slope you travel down. You may feel like you want to be with a man while you are dressed, but remember, clothing usually comes off when engaging in sex, and when the robes are off, you will be two men in a homosexual liason. You may not feel quite so feminine once you get there.

[nicole/cd]

yes i understand that but i invisage this only with another cd/tv and i wouldnt want all the clothes to come off, if you know what i mean?

kisses

[CharleneCD]

Nicole, you are not the only one to wonder. If you do a search you will find many threads dealing with this issue. Most of the threads deal with being with a man while dressed but in them there are always gals who say they want to be with another CD. I myself do not find myself attracted to men, but other CD's are a different story. The overall feminine appearance of many Tgirls is enough to make me want to forget they are guys underneath. As Marla said though when the clothes come off it is just two guys, I know it could only work as a one night stand because I need a GG for the long term.

In my case though I will probobly never have a chance to try the experience out, as I am married and plan to stay that way.I refuse to ruin a good marriage to go for a simple fantasy.

For you though being single, I say why not. You will either enjoy it or you wont. But you wont know unless you try. Just use protection for yourself and anyone else in your future.

[Jillian310]

I understand the fantasy since I share it. But I have found after spending a wonderful morning with Mandi that it was just being with another CD in a private relaxed situation without sex comes pretty close to fulfilling the fantasy. We spent the morning trying on each others clothes while having a terrific conversation about CDing and wardrobe strategies while killing a nice bottle of chablis. We were down to our panties and bras several times during the morning, but that did not impel any sexual overatures. Mandi is extremely sexy but she made it clear at the outset that that was not in the cards that morning. I relearned from her a mantra that the gg's used in high school. Not on the first date. No heavy kissing or 'petting'. We did gently kiss a few pecks on our lips, mouth closed. Once when she came in, and once or twice as we departed. Mandi's schedule is so at odds with mine that I don't know when we will repeat the experience again. The great lesson I learned from that experience is I now consider Mandi to be a girlfriend, not a sexual object or a potential lover. I just hope I can find other girls that also just want to be girl or girly friends. It was that wonderful.

One is never too old to learn. I found that experience so fullfilling that I have changed my profile on other boards to make it crystal clear that I will only meet others in very public places, such as coffee shops, etc., and it is unlikely that nothing will go further until or unless there are subsequent contacts. Moreover, the sexual component is so secondary in my mind to meeting other CD's as to have become a non-issue. I just want some quality time with other girls. My guess is that is so similar to how gg's behave, just having the interaction and comfort of others in what we used to call hen parties.