Princess Grandpa
04-21-2014, 12:30 PM
I have noticed many of us think we see other crossdressers out ALL the time. Maybe sometimes we do but most of us could go our whole lives without seeing another crossdresser. This could be no more than something like that. Or maybe there's a sister in the family.
My daughter in law took my granddaughters to visit her father, step mother and other grandparents. I was a topic of conversation all day long. "Why does he paint his nails? What would make a man want to paint his nails?" And many other variations of that same question. Having not received a satisfactory answer they kept coming back to this topic.
I don't know these people well. I see them occasionally for things like the girls birthdays. My impression of them and the stories I have heard suggest they are very conservative. I would not expect them to be at all understanding of alternative lifestyles. That they would grill her for an explanation is not surprising at all.
At some point the grandfather suggests "maybe he was born a man but with female hormones". That this gentleman could wrap his head around such a concept surprised me. That he could suggest it without being filled with judgement and scorn shocked me.
As I said I don't know this man that well. As frequently happens when you make a judgement about someone, I misjudged him. It seems very out of character though. I pondered this for sometime. Eventually I mention to my son how astounded I am that he could express such a though. My son also was surprised. He says his wife is equally flabbergasted. Suddenly I remembered hearing a story about this man. The family believes he's been having an affair for years. I had to ask about that story. Grandma knows but pretends she doesn't they say. Here is why they think he's having an affair.
For years there have been times when "it's Grandpa's time". Everyone had to leave the house for several hours. One day my son's mother in law arrived unannounced. When she came in she saw a woman with longish brown hair running towards the back of the house. Another time Grandma came out holding a tube of a Mac lipstick. She wanted to know who it belonged to. Eventually Uncle told Neice to say it was hers "covering for grandpas affair. My initial reaction was to laugh and say "He's not having an affair. He's one of my sisters.
The more I think about it the more I have to recognize that possibility. I can't imagine how a man kicks his wife out of the house to bring his mistress over but I can totally envision a couple in a DADT relationship having such an arrangement. I don't know how often I have read "my daughter dropped by" threads or "my wife found my lipstick". And I just can't get over how out of character that suggestion seems from him.
Maybe he's really just a prick cheating on his wife. Maybe he is a sister. I will never know and in the end it doesn't affect me one way or the other. If your out here my friend and recognize yourself in this story *waves*
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Rita
My daughter in law took my granddaughters to visit her father, step mother and other grandparents. I was a topic of conversation all day long. "Why does he paint his nails? What would make a man want to paint his nails?" And many other variations of that same question. Having not received a satisfactory answer they kept coming back to this topic.
I don't know these people well. I see them occasionally for things like the girls birthdays. My impression of them and the stories I have heard suggest they are very conservative. I would not expect them to be at all understanding of alternative lifestyles. That they would grill her for an explanation is not surprising at all.
At some point the grandfather suggests "maybe he was born a man but with female hormones". That this gentleman could wrap his head around such a concept surprised me. That he could suggest it without being filled with judgement and scorn shocked me.
As I said I don't know this man that well. As frequently happens when you make a judgement about someone, I misjudged him. It seems very out of character though. I pondered this for sometime. Eventually I mention to my son how astounded I am that he could express such a though. My son also was surprised. He says his wife is equally flabbergasted. Suddenly I remembered hearing a story about this man. The family believes he's been having an affair for years. I had to ask about that story. Grandma knows but pretends she doesn't they say. Here is why they think he's having an affair.
For years there have been times when "it's Grandpa's time". Everyone had to leave the house for several hours. One day my son's mother in law arrived unannounced. When she came in she saw a woman with longish brown hair running towards the back of the house. Another time Grandma came out holding a tube of a Mac lipstick. She wanted to know who it belonged to. Eventually Uncle told Neice to say it was hers "covering for grandpas affair. My initial reaction was to laugh and say "He's not having an affair. He's one of my sisters.
The more I think about it the more I have to recognize that possibility. I can't imagine how a man kicks his wife out of the house to bring his mistress over but I can totally envision a couple in a DADT relationship having such an arrangement. I don't know how often I have read "my daughter dropped by" threads or "my wife found my lipstick". And I just can't get over how out of character that suggestion seems from him.
Maybe he's really just a prick cheating on his wife. Maybe he is a sister. I will never know and in the end it doesn't affect me one way or the other. If your out here my friend and recognize yourself in this story *waves*
Hug
Rita