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Allison_Leslie
05-09-2014, 11:53 AM
it's not easy when your family who has always been there for you ends up not grasping this ONE thing of all things.. and so you supress is to please them and you go for about a month or so as I did.. but you can't hide it. ... I still am at this point, at least to my family now.. they don't know I've gone back.. well I still am in therapy as well so I'll get to talk to my therapist on tuesday.. I don't want this backlash but I also would like very much to be free again
PamelaMiller
05-09-2014, 01:37 PM
Be free, be happy. Find a way to make it fit in your life. There is no suppressing it. Close to 100% of us have tried, yet here we are. The people that truly love and care about you do so unconditionally.
NathalieX66
05-09-2014, 05:10 PM
Hi Allison.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer. There is no guarantee that this will work out for the better. Sorry if I sound like a pessimist, however you need to be you. I have gender identity & transgender issues too, and my family knows it. So far so great. I am lucky in that sense, I guess.
I wish you the best........peace & love!
Alice Torn
05-09-2014, 07:32 PM
I have to hide it all from my dad, brothers and sister, too. I they found out, it would be ugly. I have never had a wife or SO, so no problen there. Yoou are not alone in this, my friend. It can be hid, and you can do alright.
BLUE ORCHID
05-09-2014, 07:47 PM
Hi Allison, It really sounds like things are going down hill fast, I would get some legal advice soon.
Allison_Leslie
05-10-2014, 08:32 AM
it's yay or neigh with my family. I have to decide what's more important and it's just knowing that I would lose them to this if I came out again after they thought I got over it.

So it's simply one final brave step to take or not to take. no need for legal there. but thanks for the advice everyone.
Beverley Sims
05-10-2014, 01:04 PM
Allison,
There are some things families cannot grasp and dressing and transgenderism is right in there.

Your therapist may have some advice for you.
femaletrouble
05-14-2014, 02:28 PM
I have to hide it all from my dad, brothers and sister, too. I they found out, it would be ugly. I have never had a wife or SO, so no problen there. Yoou are not alone in this, my friend. It can be hid, and you can do alright.

im in the same postion i havent told any of my family, i once told a female friend i was close to but she found items related to transexuals an she finished with me soon after that