Update

[Rebekah_uk]

Hi everybody

Wanted to give you all an update, I told my wife in early February and things are going very well. I have just completed reading "My Husband Betty" to learn some more about myself, my wife is going to read it after me. Our communication on the subject is great and we are now at that stage. Where because of two small children we have to work out some rules for Rebekah time. Now I just have to pluck up the same courage when I told my wife. To buy some stuff whilst in guy more

Rebekah

[Teresa]

Rebekah as everyone says small steps and keep testing the water ! I'm glad you are progressing ! None of us like it when it goes pear shaped !

[Katey888]

Good news Rebekah - nice of you to share your progress with us... :D

It's funny, but I have no problems buying stuff in guy mode - perhaps we could come to a deal? I'll buy stuff for you - you tell my wife? :lol: Just kidding... :)

You'll get to it - just remember you're a customer whose money is as good as anyone else of whatever gender... There was also some useful work done on UK retailers by Davina in CS&B section (here: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?211688-UK-Retailers-Cross-Dressing-Policies) and there's more advice there if you're prepared to just read the threads... :)

Have fun when you do it - think of all of us behind you when you do it - spiritually.... like something out of Ghostbusters... ;)

Katey x

[Jaylyn]

Rebekah it is a big weight lifted when the wife knows and even better feeling when they support and understand. Just keep on being up front with her and you'll be fine. Do what's best for your kids though something's I didnt want my kids to know and wife agrees, just keep working together. Be sure to give and take as time progresses....

[Joanne f]

Hello Rebekah,
nice to know that things are looking good for you both , the only thing I would say is that just remember the book is not you it just deals with the type of person you may be as everyone is an individual that is where this forum comes in handy as it will give a bigger perspective on the subject but it does have that added fear to start with for the wife/so of how far things can go but that is where your talking to each other comes in to play .

[Beverley Sims]

Rebekah,
It is nice to see a good update and if you don't push it progression should be good.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Rebeah, Now that the ball is in her court, So to speak just don't overwhelm her with this
if you rock the boat too much you may be thrown overboard.