OK then, how many would crossdress for 1 MILLION if you can't tell about the money?

[sometimes_miss]

The previous thread was way too simple. How many would do it if you could never, ever tell anyone about the money? All you could tell them is that you're a crossdresser, and you love it, you like dressing like a girl, and like behaving like a girl. No other explanation. That's it. Everyone will know. This is especially interesting for all of those who believe they will typically lose marriage, friends, family & children, job, etc.. Who will risk it all? Especially knowing the horrific odds of ever finding a female mate ever again?

[Alice Torn]

I will have to sleep on this one. But, i am leaning on not going for it. The social stigma and ridicule would be lifetime. No, i would not do it, but was tempted to. Being poor.

[Marcelle]

Hey there . . . for me it would be easy as my wife knows, most of my friends know, my family knows and work knows. So not an issue.

Hugs

Isha

[CarlaWestin]

I would take the million over female companionship in a heartbeat. Enough with high maintenance low return on investment farce of female companionship, already!

[Sara Jessica]

I thought the original question was lame. Like there's anyone in these pages who wouldn't take the dough. The money gives an easy "excuse" for outing oneself.

Yours however is a bit more interesting. I think those who'd take the million, myself included, would find that the world utterly fails to explode. That fears prove to be unrealized.

Then again, this comes from someone who has a healthy dose of caution when it comes to outing herself in her inner circle. Therefore, a grain of salt is mandatory.

[ambigendrous]

Did we have a time warp and we're watching an episode of The Millionaire?

Anybody remember that show? :D

[Beverley Sims]

I would just move to a different area, the money would help me do that.

[suchacutie]

I don't respond well to dares, so I'd have to be in desperate straights to redpond to this one. Tina's statis cannot be purchased.

[MissTee]

Hmmm. No one would know money is involved? To anyone observing, wouldn't that be just like coming out to the world?

[bimini1]

For me that would be equivalent to hell on earth. I've often said gimmie a million and I could invest it to make it last a lifetime. I would not live beyond my means. I've wanted to just 'drop off the grid' for quite some time. I couldn't do my family like that though. If I had no family then yes I'd do it and then.....drop off the grid.

[chelyann]

this makes it a little more interesting .. i like Beverley's idea , i would still do it

[CrossJess]

Everyone knows about me id have nothing to loose, on this question though i wouldnt see the point in taking the money because if i couldnt tell anyone then the moneys useless...... the one thing id use that money on is private health care for my dad who has cancer the money would make his last days a bit easyer, so no i wouldnt have the money if i couldnt tell anyone

Oh and to sara jessica, was there any need for calling someones topic lame? Thats not very nice, there was nothing wrong with the original topic it was only a simple question

[sometimes_miss]

Hmmm. No one would know money is involved? To anyone observing, wouldn't that be just like coming out to the world?

Yes. The question is, would the million dollars be worth the potential turmoil that might ensue? For while it might be enough to make up for job loss, or moving, the question remains if it would offset any interpersonal problems it might cause?


Oh and to sara jessica, calling someones topic lame is not very nice, there was nothing wrong with the original topic it was only a simple question
Yes, but it was a pink fog question; we already knew the answer; At least in America, almost anything will be forgiven for the pursuit of money, and as long as the cash was seen as the incentive, no one would care what he dressed up as; girl, gorilla, banana, etc.. It's like how most people see actors who crossdress for a movie or play, they're not doing it because they want to, they do it for the money. And that's the difference.

[Diane Smith]

Please send information on how to sign up for this deal. :)

- Diane

[SabrinaEmily]

My friends and family know I'm trans, and they either know or should know that me deciding to live as female is a possibility. Maybe it's different for those who hide in the back of the closet and don't even accept themselves.

I don't have a marriage or children to lose, I have more reasons than the million dollars not to be concerned with losing my job, and I'm not interested in a relationship where I'm not completely accepted and loved for who I am.


Hmmm. No one would know money is involved? To anyone observing, wouldn't that be just like coming out to the world?

Exactly right.

[typhoidmary]

I don't have a marriage or children to lose, I have more reasons than the million dollars not to be concerned with losing my job, and I'm not interested in a relationship where I'm not completely accepted and loved for who I am.

pretty much exactly what my response would be.
I'd more or less be getting paid for doing what I do already.

[natcrys]

Since most my friends know.. my two only concerns are 1) my job, which is in relatively conservative field.. so even in the Netherlands.. it might pose a problem. And 2) my parents.. who would probably (after the initial shock) be more worried about me.

So having a million dollar.. or euros (that's worth a bit more.. :p ), would go a long way in taking those worries away. I'd still have to bite through the apple in telling my parents.. but mentally.. knowing I had a million would back me up tremendously. :)

[Teresa]

Does anyone know who posed the original question on Twitter ? maybe it was genuinely on offer !

I still say I would sneak my little message in somewhere saying, " I'm doing it for the money ! What's your excuse ? "
Maybe get it printed on some Union Jack panties and across the bra !
If someone admits to reading it, what are they doing there ?

[Katey888]

Hmmmm... I think this might be the last of the 'Million Dollar Question' threads for a while...

I believe I would still do it... it's a great deal of money for most people...

To me, it proves the old saying: "We're all prostitutes - the only real question is: 'How much..?'" - every man or woman has their price... generally there are not enough mad billionaires around to fund any experiments... shame.... :)

Katey x

[Erica Marie]

For a million dollars, a person could easily hide out and dress in secrecy or move to a different area where no one knows them or where it is socially a bit more acceptable. With a question like this there is so many variables. But it is still fun to dream about. Who wouldnt want a million dollars.

[kimdl93]

What possible difference would that make? I wouldn't tell anyone if I had a million dollars under any circumstance.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Lexi, I would probably have to build a lot more closets.

[Roxie]

Do you know how many clothes that would buy? I would do it in a heartbeat ! If you need to find Roxie look in the mall

Hugs,Roxie

[Mollyanne]

HA, Oh yeah I would!!!!!!!! As it is my friends either have all moved away, are dead, don't know themselves or any one else either, as far as my family goes small, VERY SMALL, wife would say adios, see ya. I am retired so the job issue is moot. As far as the money goes; I WOULD GO FOR THE SRS, BREAST IMPLANTS, FACIAL RE-CONSTRUCTION, VOICE TRAINING, SOME PERMANENT MAKE-UP AND LAST BUT NOT AT ALL LEAST; A NEW WARDROBE!!!!!! THEN IT WOULD ALL BE WORTH IT!!!!!

Molly

[AnneC]

I liked the first question better.

[Cheryl T]

Write the check...I'll cash it tomorrow!!

[NicoleScott]

What possible difference would that make? I wouldn't tell anyone if I had a million dollars under any circumstance.

Others would perceive it differently. "I did it for the money" is different than "I have an internally driven compulsion to wear women's clothes".

As for the second part, I agree. Fortunate are those who live in states that don't require outing yourself when winning a lottery.

My answer: Yes

[Ressie]

Looks like some here are assuming they'll get the money as soon as they agree to do it. I assumed the original deal was getting the money after a year a CDing. So if I had to keep the million a secret and CD everyday without letting anyone know why, could I let them know once I got the 10 thousand it was all for money? That's right, there's no way I let everyone know how much I really got!

Either way, I'll do it. I have nothing to lose except my manhood :)

[Sara Jessica]

Oh and to sara jessica, was there any need for calling someones topic lame? Thats not very nice, there was nothing wrong with the original topic it was only a simple question

Newsflash, I'm honest. I didn't call out the OP, only said the question was lame. How about if I add IMHO? Notice I didn't reply to it? This hypothetical situation though has a bit of teeth to it, that one would really have to think it through as to the cost versus benefit, risk versus reward.

The first question allows someone to play it off as a lark and once the million is collected after a year, they can retreat back to the safety of their closet. The second one requires that one be in it to win, so to speak. You have to walk the walk for an entire year without disclosing the money. That could easily make it a non-starter for many in the closet.

Bimini had the right idea in saying that one could do pretty well for themselves by investing the million rather than squandering it. It'd make for an interesting decision to say the least.

[susancheerleader]

Why are there two threads with the same subject?

Anyway.

Look at what some people go through on a reality tv show for money.
I think wearing a dress for a year is easy!

[Sissy_Michelle]

For a day, week, month... For a million dollars and I couldn't tell anyone it was for money? Too easy. I would do it though I know it wouldn't be permanent. After awhile I would revert back to my under dressing, albeit on a more permanent basis. It would be fun.

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[Deedee Skyblue]

me, me, me!!! Where do I sign up?

Deedee

[flatlander_48]

There was no time period mentioned, so I will respond this way. For a definable period of time, probably so. For an indefinite amount of time, probably not.

[riancd]

my wife is not the most understanding about this and im pretty sure most people who dont know for sure have a idea so ya all the way, i would probably do it for 5000, i did it at work on halloween for 100 bucks

[MissTee]

I still don't like that idea of being bought. For any price. I'd rather make it on my own.

[Susan Stevens]

I would. I would keep notes or a journal, documenting everything that happens, the good, the bad and the ugly. Then with my wife, write a book about the experience. Too bad someone beat me to the punch, now I've got to find a new reason, lol.

[sometimes_miss]

Boy people want to make this complicated. O.K. then. You get the money AFTER the year is up. If you say anything about the money, to anyone, ever, you get nothing.


Why are there two threads with the same subject?
Completely different question. First thread was a gimme; this one isn't.


Write the check...I'll cash it tomorrow!!
You'd only get the cash if you finished out the year. The 'escape clause' doesn't exist; and you can never tell anyone about the money, or you forfeit the deal and have to pay back the amount. This question was simply about whether we would feel a million dollars would be enough to outweigh the problems that we all know could potentially cause our lives to implode.


my wife is not the most understanding about this and im pretty sure most people who dont know for sure have a idea so ya all the way, i would probably do it for 5000, i did it at work on halloween for 100 bucks
Like the original thread, halloween gives you an escape clause. For this stated scenario, there is none. Anyone asks, you simply have to admit you're a crossdresser, TG, TS whatever, or just say nothing; and most likely the aforementioned options will naturally be assumed about you.


There was no time period mentioned, so I will respond this way. For a definable period of time, probably so. For an indefinite amount of time, probably not.

O.K., sorry; For a year, just like the other thread, I kind of figured that most would have already read that thread and understood the difference I was creating from that one; after all, crossdressing for oh, five minutes in a closet hardly would qualify for the 'prize', now, would it. After the year, you can do whatever, back in the closet (if you can), remain out, move to a foreign country and resume being in the closet if you want, whatever. You just cannot ever tell anyone about the money for crossdressing for a year deal. EVER. Anyone asks, you have to tell them you won it gaming or something. If anyone finds out, it will automatically be attributed to you telling someone (after all, you are the only one who knows) and you have to give all the money back, including paying back anything you've already spent.

[VickiTheGamer]

How many would do it if you could never, ever tell anyone about the money? All you could tell them is that you're a crossdresser, and you love it, you like dressing like a girl, and like behaving like a girl. No other explanation. That's it. Everyone will know. This is especially interesting for all of those who believe they will typically lose marriage, friends, family & children, job, etc.. Who will risk it all? Especially knowing the horrific odds of ever finding a female mate ever again?
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Not worth it to me. My GF is a dream come true. I have had but one single dream that was always a constant all my life from when I was a little kid to now. That was to have the perfect person in my life. At this point in my life, I feel I have found her. No amount of money would be worth loosing her.

[giuseppina]

My answer is the same as the other thread: Not interested. I am not for sale. ;)

[Judith96a]

I still say I would sneak my little message in somewhere saying, " I'm doing it for the money ! What's your excuse ? "
Maybe get it printed on some Union Jack panties and across the bra !
If someone admits to reading it, what are they doing there ?

I like your thinking Teresa!

Personally, if the premise is "would a cool million that you can never tell anyone about compensate for the negative consequences of throwing open the closet door", then the answer is "when I was young, free / lonely & single / miserable possibly, but not now". Some things just can't be bought and that's all that money is good for - buying things!

Now if I could use the million as an "excuse", and get a $10,000 advance to hire someone to convincingly play-act "persuading" me (while I feign great reluctance) - that might be a different story.

P.S. We are talking about bars of gold-pressed Latinum and not Roubles, aren't we?

[bridget thronton]

Would still be awfully tempting - clothes are clothes

[Pumped]

$1,000,000 is not enough for me, I would want enough to improve my lifestyle. $1 million would go faster than most people think. Make it $10mil and then we can talk!

[Saepe]

How does no one ever find out about the MM? Suppose I go buy a Lamborghini, are my friends and family just going to assume it was donated anonymously? Do I have to build a web of lies?

I suppose that's not the spirit of the question, though. My family's not super supportive, so they'd shy away at first. Then they'd miss me and welcome me back, even if it took the full year for that to happen. I, meanwhile, would be happy as ever, just differently so.

[NicoleScott]

Of my friends, I could tell you now which ones would have nothing to do with me if they found out I crossdressed. Of those, I can tell you now which ones would be back when they saw I had money.

[missmars]

I will do it.

[sometimes_miss]

How does no one ever find out about the MM? Suppose I go buy a Lamborghini, are my friends and family just going to assume it was donated anonymously? Do I have to build a web of lies?
As I mentioned, it would be easy to claim you won one of the minor prizes in a lottery. I think one of the powerball prizes is a million for five of six numbers without the powerball number with it.

Of my friends, I could tell you now which ones would have nothing to do with me if they found out I crossdressed. Of those, I can tell you now which ones would be back when they saw I had money.
Funny; I also know people like that, identified between periods where I had lots of extra cash, and times when things were not so good. They're no longer my friends.

[Miss Trudy]

For me it wouldthis is an easy one, yes! I am pretty much full time now and everyone knows so what do I have to lose? I do understand for most this is a serious dilemna and love all your answers and reasons. Guess I have it pretty good, with or without the million bucks.

[Saepe]

As I mentioned, it would be easy to claim you won one of the minor prizes in a lottery. I think one of the powerball prizes is a million for five of six numbers without the powerball number with it.

I must have missed you saying that. Sorry.

I'm still unsure how easy it would be, knowing my family and friends. Which lottery did you play? How come I've never seen you play before? Where's your ticket? Why is the prize pot still so big? et cetera