The Boy vs The Girl

[ShadowWarryor]

These were from today.

Such confusion, I like complimenting my body. Only problem is that these random urges to look girly only last a few minutes, and I shortly resume back to my normal state of mind.

[Andy66]

Holy crikey! Youre beautiful ...er... dude. :ft:

[ShadowWarryor]

Lol thanks. The weird thing is I enjoy being called beautiful. I'm pretty sure I have both a boy and a girl side rather than just one >.< I don't know, it's a rather confusing situation really

[Andy66]

I do too, but I view it more as being in a boy or girl mood. You can be in different moods at different times, right? Meh, I dont know. Ive sort of quit trying to analyze it, and just go with the flow.

[Tracii G]

Just go with what gender feels right at the moment.
Andy is right go with the flow.

[CarlaWestin]

Whoo, Dude! I just checked your profile picture. I think you crossdress MtF pretty good.

[ShadowWarryor]

Andy66- that is completely it!! Lol and I'll just go with the flow like ya said, plus its near impossible to predict or analyze.
CarlaWestin- Uh I'm not MtF lol I have a girl body. I'm FtM.

[Donnagirl]

Holy crikey! Youre beautiful ...er... dude. :ft:

I certainly agree... You look great in both modes!!!

[KellyJameson]

Maybe the answer lives in who you like to look girly for.

[Sallee]

I like it "Just go with the flow"

[Dana M]

Shadow,
You look great in either way you present. Just continue to do what feels right to you.

[LenGray]

I agree with Andy and the others, just go with it :) I enjoy dressing as a guy some days and a girl on others. Just go with what feels right to you, however long it lasts or whatever you look like.

Regardless of whether you wear heels or a beard(or both!), I think you are a beautiful person :)

[DW]

Just be you. Dress the way "you" want.

[ShadowWarryor]

KellyJamson- You could not be more right. Being bisexual I have a tendency to look girly so my boyfriend isn't looked at as weird. I'd rather take all the negativity than bring him into this mess.

Thanks everyone. Lol I have been going with the flow, might as well have a little fun out of a bad situation, makes it far better XP

[Andy66]

You think being gender fluid is a bad situation? I think its the best of both worlds, cutie pie! :hugs:

[Stark]

Join the club, Shadow. Sometimes it's great, and other days, like today, I have a really rough time with the fact that neither of the two boxes fits.

While at one level I'm pleased about the strides trans folks are making, and all the positive media we've gotten lately, at another level I get tired of not seeing myself reflected in the "So-and-so was assigned [gender] at birth, and has transitioned to [other accepted gender]" narrative. :(

Stark

[LesliePinky]

lovelyyy u have the shoulders that i love.........., so hard when you have broad shoulderss lol, if you feel girly then go dress upp, no one can stop u kissess

[ShadowWarryor]

Lmao thanks ya!! Love knowing that I'm not alone XP