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steff9271
06-28-2014, 08:16 AM
Over two years ago my wife and one of my sons walked out on me after emptying my bank account and telling everyone how I beat my wife and also abused my children, yes they went all out to ruin me for some reason. How much of this nastiness was born through me being a transvestite I will never know, I did however find out later that she had been meeting with a local lad for sex in hotel rooms. I was devastated to say the least, I went downhill fast and tried on 2 occasions to take my own life. Luckily I was unsuccessful. After moping around and feeling sorry for myself for a while I got together with a girl called Julie. I was out dressed when I met her and we clicked straight away. Julie never met my male side until 6 months after we met so I know 100% she not only tolerates me dressing she loves it and wants me to dress as much as I can! we have been in a relationship for a while now and must say it's totally fantastic having someone who loves me for who I am. I love her dearly and just wanted to let everyone know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I hope the picture I uploaded is on here as I would love to introduce you all to my beautiful girl Julie......I LOVE YOU JULIE XXXXXXXXX

Alice Torn
06-28-2014, 08:56 AM
Wow! A rare story with a happy ending! You are so fortunate now, after that horrific experience.

Diane Douglas
06-28-2014, 09:29 AM
Very nice story Stef. :clap:

I like happy endings.

pattyjones954
06-28-2014, 10:20 AM
great story love happy ending

Megan Thomas
06-28-2014, 10:35 AM
Congratulations. May you both be very happy together for a long long time to come.

Annaliese
06-28-2014, 10:51 AM
That is a beautiful story, the two of you together two beautiful people in love.

Amy Fakley
06-28-2014, 10:59 AM
your story is so inspiring! thank you for sharing, made my morning :-)

S. Lisa Smith
06-28-2014, 11:18 AM
Very nice!!!

Ressie
06-28-2014, 11:43 AM
I thought all along you'd Be the death of me
I met one tonight who wants What's left of me

Brooks and Dunn

AnneC
06-28-2014, 11:54 AM
I wish you all the happiness you deserve.

Katey888
06-28-2014, 11:55 AM
Steff - so happy it's turned out right for you in the end... :cheer:

You do look a sweet couple... I'm happily envious of you... :D

Katey x

Samantha_Smile
06-28-2014, 01:21 PM
Gratz.
I know how it can feel to be depressed, never any suicidal ideation, but I feel ya :)

Glad to see the result of your bounce-back

Rhonda Darling
06-28-2014, 01:27 PM
You look like two happy GGs to me. What. A great direction your life took after driving so close to the edge. It goes to show that there may well be something/someone entirely unexpected around the corner. Had you succeeded in killing yourself, you would have robbed yourself and Julie of the relationship that has grown. You are both clearly meant for each other.

Great story.
Best,
Rhonda

Lizzy66
06-28-2014, 02:08 PM
What a lovely storie, I am so happy that things turned out for you after all of the negative.

Suzanne F
06-28-2014, 02:42 PM
Congratulations! We never know what good things are ahead for us!
Hugs
Suzanne

Megan b
06-28-2014, 09:44 PM
I love happy endings. I'm happy for you. It gives me hope, thank you.

steff9271
06-29-2014, 03:01 AM
Thank you so so much for all the lovely replies girls. Its heartwarming to knw there are people out there that care. I am so looking forward to my future now, a future of pretty clothes and beautiful shoes :) thanks again Ladies xxxxxx

Marcelle
06-29-2014, 05:11 AM
Hi Steff and what a great story with a wonderful happy ending. I am glad to hear you found your way back from the dark to live in the light again. BTW you make a very cute couple.

Hugs

Isha

Jenny Gurl
06-29-2014, 05:28 AM
Great Story with a happy ending. Two kindred spirits meet, two less lonely people in the world. Congratulations!!! I hope you both have many happy years ahead. Never forget to treat her right, she is a rare find.

Dana3
06-29-2014, 06:35 AM
Great Story. What one will abuse? Another can certainly use!

But in the words of the late but great Richard Pryor, once you find someone that loves you, truly loves you and accepts you for who and what your are?

DON'T SCREW IT UP!

BLUE ORCHID
06-29-2014, 06:40 AM
Hi Steff, It's like the old saying goes, When one door closes another one opens.

Majella St Gerard
06-29-2014, 07:07 AM
Good for you, karma will get the ex sooner or later. Enjoy life.

Claire Cook
06-29-2014, 07:20 AM
What a wonderful, heart-warming story -- thank you so much for sharing. I wish you and Julie all of the best!

MissTee
06-29-2014, 07:42 AM
. . . a future of pretty clothes and beautiful shoes :daydreaming::c9:

What a touching story! Thank you for sharing.

Stephanie Miller
06-29-2014, 08:56 AM
This gives hope to all of us going through hard times. Thanks for posting.
But you forgot to mention what venue you were at when you found her. And most importantly....
DOES SHE HAVE A SISTER? I'm on the next flight over! :D

xPrincessx
06-29-2014, 09:32 AM
Hey beautiful :) finally on here lol, thank you all for your lovely comments I met Steff over 2 years ago we have been together 2 years this year.
She is the light of my world I'd never change her for the world xxx

Shelly Preston
06-29-2014, 11:09 AM
Steff,

I want to thank you for sharing this with all of us.

It warms the heart to hear your are both so happy together. I do hope others realise life can get better after a sad time

Best wishes to you both for the future xx

Shelby
06-29-2014, 02:59 PM
Steff - I am so glad to hear that life is finally working out for you and how lucky you are to have found such an amazing woman, wish there were more women like Julie out there.

Julie - You truly are a rare treasure. Your open-mindedness and compassion for others has to be your greatest strength.

PattiAllison
06-29-2014, 04:00 PM
This is a beautiful story! Just goes to show that no matter how bad things seem, it does get better with time.

shawnsheila
06-29-2014, 04:39 PM
Both very beautiful ladies in that pic :) I am glad you are still with us and have shared your story. I hope this helps any of us gals who may have rash thoughts because the current situation seems dire... there is always a light at the end of the tunnel if you can weather the storm

Beverley Sims
07-02-2014, 12:24 AM
Steff and Julie,

May the fairytale never end.

Tracii G
07-02-2014, 10:52 AM
I'm happy for you both and may you have many happy years together.

samantha rogers
07-02-2014, 02:59 PM
My God, I love this. I so wish we heard more stories like this. A girlfriend of mine is a bartender at. Tg friendly bar and awhile ago began to talk with a gg customer. They are now engaged. Happy endings do happen.
Thanks for sharing!

sometimes_miss
07-02-2014, 11:25 PM
Glad things worked out for you in the end. It's stories like yours that keeps us all going, hoping for a similar miracle.