Why do my GG friends want to dress me up?

[SusanaO]

I have two female friends whom I'm close with (and I mean pretty close, we know VERY personal things about each other, but they do not know I am a CD), one whom is an ex girlfriend (things didn't work out, but even though I still have a thing for her we're good friends now). A few years ago, I dressed up as a girl (heels, mini skirt, full makeup, etc) for a costume party which everyone took as a joke but me. One of them complimented me on my legs and even said I had nicer legs to show off than her. Fastforward to last week...

I'm at their place (they're roommates), and the one that is not my ex is a very touchy girl (non-sexual)... I had my leg up on a foot rest and she complimented me on the boots I was wearing (our feminine sides always find good taste in shoes!), and then she proceeded to ask me if I had shaven my legs. I replied no (and I haven't in some months because I haven't dressed as much as I would like to). She then lifted my jean leg to expose my bare leg. She then asked if she would WAX my legs! Even though deep down I wanted to yell "HELL YES!" I simply asked why. She said they made nice silky smooth legs and that hair grew back thinner as opposed to shaving - which I took as them wanting me more feminine, permanently. As I turned to look at my ex, she had an even bigger smile and added "your chest, too!" (my ex has a thing for feminine guys, go figure). These girls really want to wax me!

My legs are pretty hairy from the knees down, and they do know I do shave them from time to time and that I always keep them nice and smooth during the hot summer months. But I don't think it's that they want me smooth, I feel like it's them wanting to be the ones to feminize me. Do they somehow sense the girl within me? It's worth to note that when I dated my ex, our friends knew I was the caring girl of the relationship :P

When I was in high school and early in college, a two different female friends wanted to put makeup on me - one because she liked my lips and wanted to see me in lipstick, and the other wanted to put mascara on me because I have long eyelashes.

Have any of you been in a similar situation?

[Jaylyn]

My wife fixes my makeup for me but that's as close as I had. Wow you are lucky to have two wanting to feminine you. Enjoy the time.

[Eryn]

They probably sense that you have an interest and, being friends, want to help you explore a bit. They also might be curious about how far you would take it.

Sounds like fun, providing she is good at waxing!

[Adriana Moretti]

because they know....they have that spidey sense

[paulaprimo]

not me...the girls i know wanna put a bag over my head :)

speaking of bags over the head...hey ad, can you relate to that, cough, cough

[Christen]

Adrianna's got in one, they know and you know they know, and they know you know they know you know ... I could go on ..

[PaulaQ]

... because God actually does answer prayers!

Seriously, this was a dream of mine since I was about 10 years old. (Well, until I started transition and things changed.)

[Kate Simmons]

Probably because they want a life sized, living doll. ;):)

[Rogina B]

Why you aren't being more honest with your two friends is baffling...

[Rhonda Darling]

Allow me to say what I suspect most of us are thinking. You're a fool if you let this opportunity slip past! I'd have nailed down a date and time right then and there. This could be either one of the best experiences of your life, or you can make it a missed opportunity that you'll regret forever.

The blunt girl,
Rhonda

[Amanda L.]

Susan
Congratulations love....................you have just won the CD lottery
How do I get this shade of green off me?
Amanda

[stephNE]

I agree with the other comments. You are very lucky, you need to go back to them and see how far this goes! It will be an experience of a lifetime.
It is funny how GG's seem to know.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Susana, So what's the problem??

[CrossJess]

Your lucky you have girl friends that want to do that, many cd men would kill to be in you situation hun, hehe I know how you feel though my best friend Jojo started dressing me when I was 6 we were both the same age trouble is it rubbed off and made me what I am today lol oh well you can't help what you like, female fashion has always fascinated me

[Sharon B.]

Go for it or give their number out to the rest of us.

[shelley johnson]

This could be the best thing that ever happened to you. Do not let the opportunity pass. Have fun.

[JustChris]

Susan
Congratulations love....................you have just won the CD lottery
Amanda

Holy cow! I'm with you there.. I'd love to have that problem. Maybe let them play, enjoy the time but not be to eager if you don't want to totally let them know?

Maybe go along with it, but not be to eager if you don't want to totally come out?

[kimdl93]

Or, I suppose it could be your fantasy. You'll have to tell us which it is.

[LaurenS]

and I mean pretty close, we know VERY personal things about each other, but they do not know I am a CD

Yes they do or are relatively confident you are.

Please don't pass this up, so you can share with us! Let them do the driving. If it's legs, and they already know you shave them, why not? Then see what and how long the next thing is and make another choice. I see no downside here.

I am so jealous. Good luck!

[Mollyanne]

Oh my!!!!! any time you wanna' trade places just let know. Your friends can feminize me anytime they want and I'll stay that way!!!!!!!

Molly

[Andy66]

Probably because they want a life sized, living doll. ;):)

That would be my guess. Lol! It might be fun, I mean if youre into that sort of thing. ;)

[Jamie Lynn]

I have not been in that situation but I will HAPPILY trade places with you!! :)

[Amanda22]

Or, I suppose it could be your fantasy. You'll have to tell us which it is.

My initial reaction as well...

[Melissa_59]

All I can say is "I should be so lucky..."

I've never been in that situation, even though I also attended a Halloween costume party dressed to the nine's once. My makeup was even really good but I didn't do it letter-perfect because I had a feeling that would lead to too many questions from people that I haven't outed myself to. There was a couple there that did know about me though, and one of them said I looked adorable. I'm sure I needed no blush after that.

~Mel

[Jean. Ann]

It does not really matter if this fantasy or reality.

Make it Your reality
Sometimes all you have to do is ask

Jean Ann

[larry]

So I am guessing this thread should be in Fantasy stories ?

[Jean. Ann]

If they are really close friends the ladies will probably
have problem helping you dress and it will be fun for everyone
Most people love have others interested in sharing their activities

Jean Ann

[ReineD]

Waxing hurts. Maybe they want to torture you. LOL :D

But seriously, I think the idea they see you as a life-sized doll approximates the truth. I don't know that we ever outgrow wanting to play with dolls. And it is fairly novel to have the opportunity to feminize a guy. I venture to say that most women, if they are in a long-term relationship with you, likely would not react the same way after a while.

[Beverley Sims]

This is precisely how I started big time.
I had arranged a share house with four females.
They wanted a man and body guard to fend for them when necessary.
At bed time the all wore very fetching pajamas and nighties.
I looked a bit out so one night they started on me and dressing me up became a past time.
I never looked back.

I would go for it if you are that way inclined.

Otherwise, count it as a missed opportunity, that would be sad. :)

[Eryn]

Just to throw a bucket of water on the fun...

After they dress you up and take plenty of pictures and video of you, what then? Relationships change...

[SusanaO]

Why you aren't being more honest with your two friends is baffling...

I know! I think I'm still being scared of being stigmatized by them as being "less of a man" when with them in guy mode but it seems it's all in my head.


This is precisely how I started big time.
I had arranged a share house with four females.
They wanted a man and body guard to fend for them when necessary.
At bed time the all wore very fetching pajamas and nighties.
I looked a bit out so one night they started on me and dressing me up became a past time.
I never looked back.

I would go for it if you are that way inclined.

Otherwise, count it as a missed opportunity, that would be sad. :)


Considering your case (similar to mine), and the claim that they want a life size living doll, it all makes sense! I am not a TG but the occasional CD. I am a man but can be a woman with them.

How did this change your relationship with these females? I assume it was for the better...


Just to throw a bucket of water on the fun...

After they dress you up and take plenty of pictures and video of you, what then? Relationships change...

How right you are! They actually did want to take video of them waxing me. As far as the relationships changing, I think what is keeping me from proceeding is that I still have a thing for my ex, and I would not have come out to her as we weren't too serious. I still feel as if it were coming out to my girlfriend whom I'm not very serious with. However, if she brings out the girl in me, then it would be foolish not to proceed.

On a side note, nice Feynman quote! I too, have read that book :)


Waxing hurts. Maybe they want to torture you. LOL :D

But seriously, I think the idea they see you as a life-sized doll approximates the truth. I don't know that we ever outgrow wanting to play with dolls. And it is fairly novel to have the opportunity to feminize a guy. I venture to say that most women, if they are in a long-term relationship with you, likely would not react the same way after a while.

Yes, the whole wanting to take video of them waxing me is to fulfill their sadist needs :D

You mean react enthusiastic about it, if positive at all?


Or, I suppose it could be your fantasy. You'll have to tell us which it is.

You do have a point. Perhaps I did assume too much because it is my own fantasy. What gets better than two sexy GG's dressing you up? It actually did come across to me as something ultimately sexual.

I guess it's not so much this time these girls wanting to feminize me to some extent, but the fact that over the years girls have always wanted to feminize something about me. Everything from plucking eyebrows to applying makeup to hair styling, and now waxing.


I agree with the other comments. You are very lucky, you need to go back to them and see how far this goes! It will be an experience of a lifetime.
It is funny how GG's seem to know.

Oh believe me, maybe not to today but sometime in the VERY NEAR future I will let them have their way with me.

But that's precisely my question! How the hell do they seem to know? Perhaps the doll playing never dies, but how the hell do they know what guy to doll up?

[Jean. Ann]

What ever the reason or motives go
For it
That is how I started
First was makeup then...

Jean Ann

[PaulaQ]

But that's precisely my question! How the hell do they seem to know? Perhaps the doll playing never dies, but how the hell do they know what guy to doll up?

Some women have a fetish for this type of thing. It's not super common, but it happens in the BDSM community. They look for submissive men they can dominate. Dressing you can be a type of humiliation play. Perhaps after that happens, they have other fun and games in mind, or perhaps that will develop in time.

BTW, I applied to such a group a while back, but they didn't want me. I didn't want to be in the role of a submissive guy in a dress, I wanted to be one of the girls who did the dressing. Sadly, in their mind, my biological origin disqualified me for that.

Anyway, you should totally do this. I expect you will all have a really good time. And who knows where it'll go. Maybe it'll be a one-off. Maybe it'll be a regular thing. Maybe it'll evolve into something else, or maybe they get bored with it.

[NicoleScott]

Let's see - female friends that want to wax your legs, dress you up, put makeup on you. You have nice lips and long eyelashes. You're just bragging, right?

[janetcgtv]

Boy, Just about 100% of cd's would jump at the opportunity of girls wanting to dress us up. Plus to me they can tell their friends. That I would love to be dressed 24/7/365 . they destroy all my male underwear They also tell me from now on I only see women doctors and male underwear is no longer needed. That their friends expect to see me in women's clothes.

Women instinctively sense who we are.

[Eryn]

Just to throw a bucket of water on the fun...

After they dress you up and take plenty of pictures and video of you, what then? Relationships change...

How right you are! They actually did want to take video of them waxing me. As far as the relationships changing, I think what is keeping me from proceeding is that I still have a thing for my ex, and I would not have come out to her as we weren't too serious. I still feel as if it were coming out to my girlfriend whom I'm not very serious with. However, if she brings out the girl in me, then it would be foolish not to proceed.

My fear is that the video will end up on Youtube with you outed to everyone and perhaps in a very negative light.

How about this, tell them that you're not fond of the idea of taking pictures or video but would like to participate if they agree to keep things more private.

If they are just interested in having some fun then they should have no problem with this. If not filming the event makes them suddenly cold to the idea then you dodged a bullet.

[DonnaT]

Waxing hurts. Maybe they want to torture you. LOL :D


Not too far off, I imagine.

They know you shave, they know it can hurt (especially the chest), and I imagine they think it will be fun, as in funny to see you squirm.

Seriously!

[SusanaO]

My fear is that the video will end up on Youtube with you outed to everyone and perhaps in a very negative light.

How about this, tell them that you're not fond of the idea of taking pictures or video but would like to participate if they agree to keep things more private.

If they are just interested in having some fun then they should have no problem with this. If not filming the event makes them suddenly cold to the idea then you dodged a bullet.


If anyhthing they'd probably take a short video clip and upload it on Facebook, which is even more personal as it's within our socia circles, but I don't have a problem with it. It's waxing legs (lots of athletes do it) and not a full dress up.

[Rachel Morley]

Have any of you been in a similar situation?
You bet I have! I totally believe everything you've mentioned. I was nodding my head and smiling as I read your post. Some people might not believe me but what I am about to say is absolutely true. I remember very clearly three times that I have had situations where GG friends wanted to dress me up as a girl. One time was a girlfriend and her BFF when I was in my early 20's. We were goofing around at my girlfriend's house when her parents were out. They dressed me up in some of my girlfriend's clothes (including making me shave my chest and legs)they put make up on me and pulled what little hair I had back into a small ponytail. I also wore high heels, earrings, perfume ... everything! They also took pictures of me. After they were done dressing me we ate pizza and watched TV. I was scared to death her parents would come back home early.

Another time was when I was in my 30's. Like you, I shaved my legs (most of my body actually, as I used to like the smooth tanned look) anyway one time when a small group of us (3 GGs and 3 guys) were having a BBQ in one of the guy's backyards, one of the GGs said to me, "Have you shaved your legs again?" and I said yes. They then went on to say (just like your situation) that tey thought I had nice legs and that they would love to see them in stockings and high heels! Nothing more was said on that occasion until about 3 months later when we had a costume party in one of the GGs houses and she almost insisted that I have to come to her party dressed up as a woman. I kind of joked that I didn't think that was a good idea as I would suck at putting on makeup and what do you think happened? .. she volunteered to do my make up and help me pick out some clothes! I did go to the party dressed up but I didn't stay dressed up all night. I chickened out.

Lastly, my wife! I met her online on a TG forum 10 years ago so she knew all about me before we even got together. She likes my girl side and thinks it's fun for us to go out together as "two girls" ... to mainstream places, no less! She has has helped me develop my feminine side to such a great extent. I am totally living the dream!

Anyway, in my experience your situation totally does happen! IMHO if you seem either a little bit girly and you are non threatening to them, or perhaps they sense that you're open to having a little bit of fun and they think it will also be fun for them then it can and does happen if the right people get together. If you don't do this you will be kicking yourself for the rest of your life for having missed a golden opportunity! To be feminized and dressed up as a girl is every CDers dream come true. Don't worry about having to put up some false resistance, remember they want this to happen so just treat it as a fun thing to do and say something like "ok, I'll try anything once!" :) Go for it!

[Turbotranny]

Lucky to have such friends

[Nadya]

Isn't that a fantasy of every crossdresser? I've never had this problem before but I didn't grow up with sisters or have many girly women as friends.

[Beverley Sims]

Suzana,
It deepened our relationship and the girls became more sharing with everything we did.

For one I always shared their clothes and we were good buddies.

Boy/Girl relationships were always good too. :)

[Christie ann]

Why? Because it sounds like fun for all concerned?

[Badwolf]

Feel free to draw your own lines if you need to, but don't live only in fear.