Michelle789
08-11-2014, 06:12 PM
Today marks the one year anniversary of the day that I fired the psychic.
Friday marked the one year anniversary of the day that I finally had the talk with her about my gender issues, which turned out to be a big fiasco, and triggered me to finally dump her. For 14 long months prior to that I felt like I needed to talk to someone about my gender issues, and I felt like she being a psychic would have been able to pick up on something. Instead, she picked up on nothing, and said absolutely nothing to me, other than to "man up" and to keep pressuring me into dating and getting married.
On August 8, 2013, I finally got the courage to talk with her about my gender issues. Here is a recap of her 30 minute long, anger-filled tirade. Keep in mind that she yelled and screamed the whole thing.
1. Being a woman sucks.
2. Women have PMS. (she emphasized the letters PMS)
3. She told me how menopause sucks.
4. She didn't want to have daughters, because she didn't want her daughters to go through what she went through. Btw, she ended up with two daughters and one son. If I was her daughter and I overheard her saying that to me, I would feel hurt beyond belief and not want to talk with her ever again.
5. She told me that my soul is male, that I have more male energy, and that she saw more male reincarnations in future lifetimes.
6. She told me that I was ungrateful to be a man.
7. That men have it 75% easier than women.
8. That it will always be a man's world, and that chauvinist men will always dominate women.
9. She asked me if I was attracted to men or women, and when I told her women, she said "so you want to be a lesbian woman". (Oddly, as it turns, out I am currently in a relationship with a transgender man, and I might be straight or bi) (She was sounding really sarcastic when she said this one)
10. Eternal damnation is real, and that is the sad truth. (she sounded really frantic when she said this one)
11. That gender confusion comes from the devil, not from God. Why can't people just accept the gender they are born with? (It felt like we were having a MAJOR earthquake)
12. How the Gays and Lesbians are responsible for Obama's re-election. (She said this 3 weeks earlier as well)
13. How the government likes to make clones of everything. (I think she was referring to the medical processes involved in transition)
I just stared into space for 3 hours completely dazed and confused.
Three days later, on August 11, 2013, I finally got the courage to fire her. The following day, I drove to her house to return some candles, and to give her severance pay, and I have not seen nor spoken with her ever since then.
This was a huge step that I took to getting some real help for my gender issues. Three weeks later I joined the forum. Eventually I started seeing a therapist, and started going to a support group, and started venturing outside the house as my authentic self. I feel like I am in a much better place today than I was a year ago.
P.S. The psychic has no idea what it is really like to be transgender, and what kind of discrimination TG people face, and all she could say is how being TG comes from the devil.
Friday marked the one year anniversary of the day that I finally had the talk with her about my gender issues, which turned out to be a big fiasco, and triggered me to finally dump her. For 14 long months prior to that I felt like I needed to talk to someone about my gender issues, and I felt like she being a psychic would have been able to pick up on something. Instead, she picked up on nothing, and said absolutely nothing to me, other than to "man up" and to keep pressuring me into dating and getting married.
On August 8, 2013, I finally got the courage to talk with her about my gender issues. Here is a recap of her 30 minute long, anger-filled tirade. Keep in mind that she yelled and screamed the whole thing.
1. Being a woman sucks.
2. Women have PMS. (she emphasized the letters PMS)
3. She told me how menopause sucks.
4. She didn't want to have daughters, because she didn't want her daughters to go through what she went through. Btw, she ended up with two daughters and one son. If I was her daughter and I overheard her saying that to me, I would feel hurt beyond belief and not want to talk with her ever again.
5. She told me that my soul is male, that I have more male energy, and that she saw more male reincarnations in future lifetimes.
6. She told me that I was ungrateful to be a man.
7. That men have it 75% easier than women.
8. That it will always be a man's world, and that chauvinist men will always dominate women.
9. She asked me if I was attracted to men or women, and when I told her women, she said "so you want to be a lesbian woman". (Oddly, as it turns, out I am currently in a relationship with a transgender man, and I might be straight or bi) (She was sounding really sarcastic when she said this one)
10. Eternal damnation is real, and that is the sad truth. (she sounded really frantic when she said this one)
11. That gender confusion comes from the devil, not from God. Why can't people just accept the gender they are born with? (It felt like we were having a MAJOR earthquake)
12. How the Gays and Lesbians are responsible for Obama's re-election. (She said this 3 weeks earlier as well)
13. How the government likes to make clones of everything. (I think she was referring to the medical processes involved in transition)
I just stared into space for 3 hours completely dazed and confused.
Three days later, on August 11, 2013, I finally got the courage to fire her. The following day, I drove to her house to return some candles, and to give her severance pay, and I have not seen nor spoken with her ever since then.
This was a huge step that I took to getting some real help for my gender issues. Three weeks later I joined the forum. Eventually I started seeing a therapist, and started going to a support group, and started venturing outside the house as my authentic self. I feel like I am in a much better place today than I was a year ago.
P.S. The psychic has no idea what it is really like to be transgender, and what kind of discrimination TG people face, and all she could say is how being TG comes from the devil.