Wondering what she is thinking

[tommi]

As I posted in an earlier thread about children accepting
My wife keeps bringing up the ts classmates of my son
as she is not accepting I wonder what type of reaction. She wants

I feel for the girls and am proud that there classmates accept them
And she seems to as well but her reactions to me in the past makes me wonder
About what she is hoping to get out of me.

I am very closeted at her insistence
I do not pass and I make her uncomfortable and she doesn't accept me
Doing it

Earlier this summer she told me of a coworker who was moving because
Of there family not accepting there tg son
I told my wife that my only issue there was age of the child and was it a mother forcing it wanting a daughter instead of a third son

[Katey888]

Tommi - perhaps a simple conversation will reveal your wife's intentions...?

But that depends on the nature of your relationship and - as you say - whether she has any expectations or preconceptions as to what your reaction will be. I'm afraid only you can be the judge of whether to open that conversation or not - but asking her is probably the only way to find out... you just may not like the answer...

Tough call... :thinking:

Katey x