Does anyone else here go out at night or early a.m. hours solely to be noticed?

[mirima1992]

I have a near compulsion to draw attention. I go out dressed both conservatively, and what some would consider trashy at best. I crave getting honks and the occasional "hey baby" from passing cars. I pick areas i consider "safe" but I have had close calls where cars have slowed way down and even stopped a couple times and asked if I wanted a ride! I always have an escape route but fear eventually I could regret it. I even film myself a lot of the times, the pickup pictured slowed way down but kept going. Am I crazy??

[AllieSF]

No, you are probably not crazy. You sound like a risk taker and maybe a type of exhibitionist. You get your jollies by giving other males their jollies, at a distance. Is it dangerous? How safe is a safe place? You are making a decision to take a risk, maybe a serious risk. I wish you well, but please own what you do and do not come on here later complaining about the bad experience you had doing just that, or saying that all men are pigs. Pigs like slop. Throw enough slop out there and you will probably attract some pigs.

So, my recommendation would be to find a better way to get that attraction adrenaline high you seem to be seeking. Find some clubs that are "T" friendly and where you can dress, dance and have a relatively safe experience, while being noticed for how good you look, and from the pictures you do have an attractive body. Good luck.

[Sallee]

I have to agree. I can be a risk taker too. but lets not do anything stupid that can be dangerous. Try the mall people will notice you and it is a safe environment. Going to a pick up place is asking for trouble. I have been honked at and gotten cat calls in broad day light. It was fun but not safe. I am much more conservative now in my style of dress when I am out and about.

[Anna H]

I can imagine how thrilling that is, but it looks Super-Risky to me.

The police may offer you a ride sooner or later...and taking off running
may not be a good idea. lol!

I admire your courage. I'm way too chicken to do that myself!

I Do like your pictures! I may have tried it when I was younger and
had nothing to lose.. lol

:)

[ArleneRaquel]

About the only times that I roam enfemme outside after 12am is to go to the local 7/11 which is just across the street. My style of dress varies but is usually conservative this late at night.

[NicoleScott]

Yes, mostly but not solely, and my MO is much like yours. Always a safe escape plan just in case. It's fun to get honks and whistles. I used to pretend to talk on the phone in a phone booth (remember those?). I don't do that so much any more (I mostly stay in - content), but it was a lot of thrills.

[Marcelle]

Hey there . . . not crazy in the sense you are thinking but definitely a bit of an adrenaline junkie and doing what you do gives you a thrill and keeps you going back. Nothing wrong with wanting to get a rush, people do it all the time. However, I would exercise caution even the best laid out tactical escape plans can go bad (been there) and you are not sporting tactical gear and weapons. Trying to run from an angry truck of drunk dudes who just gave you a "hey baby great a&^" only to find out you are a guy . . . just saying sweetie . . . please play safe. Allie has given you some sage advice and I would look into safe venues to strut your stuff.

Hugs

Isha

[Jenniferathome]

Well I'll weigh in with a yes, you are crazy. So you think you are in a safe place dressed like a hooker? Wrong. How well can you run in heels? Not well is my guess. The kind of guys who honk horns and yell out of moving cars are not normal guys. They think women are meat. Imagine the embarrassment of a guy who is first excited by this meat and then sees you are a man. He might like to punish you for that. This is what these kind of guys do.

[Adriana Moretti]

very nice ....how much ?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fGOwZTrUTg

[MelanieAnne]

I have a near compulsion to draw attention. I go out dressed both conservatively, and what some would consider trashy at best. I crave getting honks and the occasional "hey baby" from passing cars. I pick areas i consider "safe" but I have had close calls where cars have slowed way down and even stopped a couple times and asked if I wanted a ride! I always have an escape route but fear eventually I could regret it. I even film myself a lot of the times, the pickup pictured slowed way down but kept going. Am I crazy??

This is not going to end well. I would strongly suggest you carry plenty of pepper spray and bond money!

[GinaD]

You are taking a big risk sweetie. I love to get attention too but any "girl" alone at night is at great risk to victimization by some creeper. Not worth the chance in my opinion.

[LelaK]

Yes, you're crazy, you lunatic.

Let us give you the howls here. You could post your pics in the pic and video section and ask us to howl or give you flirty comments etc. What do you say?

Sample comment: Hey Baby, you're so sweet. Gimme five, baby. You're volcano smoking hot!

Does that do anything for you? It's from my heart, I want you to know.

How about getting on the stage? Local theatre? Night club? You need a controlled audience.

[Krisi]

I think you are being very foolish. Chicago is one of the most dangerous cities in the USA. You are risking physical harm or even death from people who see you and you are risking being stopped by the police as a suspected hooker.

If you have a compulsion to draw attention, walk around in the daytime on city streets or in the park where you're less apt to be attacked or arrested. Safer yet would be to make a video and post it on the Internet.

[Majella St Gerard]

That's a little nuts, you could get hurt. But I understand wanting to be noticed. I think we all go out dressed hoping to be noticed and getting compliments from strangers is great. Walking the streets looking for cat calls is not the right way to do it, it's very dangerous, men get pissed off when they are fooled, be prepared for that. I go to places I feel safe at, with people I know. I get a fair amount of attention when I go out dressed, I don't wear a wig and present as male. I get compliments mostly from women, guy's usually give me a fist bump and say "cool". Most people just look and then go about their business, but I LOVE the compliments. Who doesn't like to hear that they look nice, pretty, sexy or wow nice legs?

[Eringirl]

My two cents worth??? I am very concerned for your safety with this activity. I would suggest an alternative outlet as others here have suggested.

Erin

[MissVictoria]

Like others have said, there is a significant risk with what you are doing. I also enjoy putting on the shortest and tightest of dresses, and my highest heels, but instead of walking the streets, I go to the mall, or to blend in, the casino at night, when the clubs are open. Much safer with security being there.

[Michelle colson]

No I don't, and I think you are putting yourself at risk for physical injury or worse. As others have said try a club if you want attention.

[StephanieDragg]

I love being seen anytime, anywhere !

[Alice Torn]

Living alone, i can understand the strong desire to go out looking WOW, and getting some honks, whistles and shouts. The second time i was out, i went all out, in a short sexy dress, high heels, and walked all over four towns. Got shouted at by a redneck truck, OMG! by teens, honked at, looked at, asked for a battery jump start by a desperate father with kids, who told his kids not to look, at me, while I jumped his car battery.This all in daylight. Please consider daylight, outings, but even they can go wrong, with the wrong knuckle draggers in the wrong place, or a zealous cop. Great advice from everyone here.Daylight is far safer. I know some of us like risks, and crave attention when dolled up. I am a coward about going out lately.

[Taylorhansum]

I am an avid cyclist. I go on early morning rides. I wear pantyhose or stockings on my rides. No one can tell and I fullfill my look at me voice.
I usually wear tan stw pantyhose but sometimes for an extra thrill I will wear my tan cubans with red pinstripe down the legs. Fantastic thrill for me. As for being noticed, I can say for certian that people look at me. If they notice, I don't know. But a thrill none the less.

[Ashley Wray]

Hello Mirima,

I don't think your crazy and think you have a great body to show off, you seem to have the legs for sure!

But I do think you have not taken all of the potential hazards into consideration. I have heard this saying from a few police officers Nothing good happens after 10:00pm! Not that it's literal but to them this is when the action picks up looking for hookers, john's, tweekers and other drug addicts that roam at all hours of the night. Most people here in AZ if they are rolling around at night on foot or not will at sometime get questioned by the police. Even walking to my house from my brothers at night to my house when I had a few drinks as we live close I have had to abort and go back because the police have driven past real slow watching and then stop and wait in a lot to watch a little more and then you know the shake down is coming so I just stay at his place and don't even walk and this is in male mode. I can see how it would be exciting but like all the sound advice given here it is very risky. Think about the pimps looking for a new girl they don't play nice! escape plan or not but what happens if you get away and next time they are ready for you? Like I and others say I can see how it would sound fun and exciting but in my mind when I weigh all of the horrible things that can happen I would definently find a safer venue with similar excitement. Heck go to a strip club En Femme lot's of excited guys, dark so you can blend a bit gotta be just as exciting? Oh and just another thought DO NOT take it to the next level where you actually accept a ride no matter how nice they look or seem just in case you wanted to step up the game! Think if the police decide to bust you as a prostitute it's your word against there's now you have to get a lawyer go to court miss work all to prove you were not doing that doesn't matter weather your guilty or not you still have to go through the motions and if found guilty anyway here you can get sex offender terms for that and have to take classes talk about a life of heck for a little thrill :(

I like your pics though just think it through and be safe :) Oh yeh and who's working the camera? (Personal Bouncer?)

[paulaprimo]

wow, first off you look wonderful and have a fantastic shape! you certainly have those 2 round things to do what you do.
you never know what's in the head of someone and playing it safe can also lead to trouble.
my second time out, and trust me i play it safe, dress to blend and try to stay under the radar, i had a very bad experience
with a guy and certainly do not want another. good to know i'm okay in heels but the last thing i wanted was to be
showing my ID to the cops... be safe and good luck! :)

[Amanda L.]

Hi Mirima
The idea of being noticed as a woman is nothing strange nor crazy as a cd'er. I do tend agree though that you may be taking some unnecessary risks in order to get noticed. Some of the girls before me have expressed some very good concerns about late night excursions. In a bid to try going out I ventured to the centre of a town I was staying at at 3.30 in the morning purely because I wouldn't see anyone and for the thrill of being on the street as a woman. It was so exciting but even in the dead of night a police car appeared and though by that time I was back in my car, I would have had a bit of explaining to do had they seen me crouched beneath my steering wheel.
To get attention from the public affirms your female person but be careful you are not attracting the wrong attention. There are too many Neanderthals who feel their sexuality has been challenged if the woman they admire turns out to be more than they thought and with your look it would be easy enough for them to be fooled.
Stay safe babe
Luv
Amanda

[Kate Simmons]

Not unless I was Charles Bronson in drag Hon.

[char GG]

Are you putting us on??? Seriously????

Your picture reminds me of the song, "Highway to the Danger Zone"

[LesliePinky]

A big yes mirima bath at 9 prpare all
The things in 1 bag , go out at 10 still no makeup on then go to my friends house hen get my makeup done or transform if you will den walk the streets at 12 until 3 lot if good and bad experience but definitely worth it

[CherylFlint]

The only possible end to your silly game is a slab at the morgue. What do you think, everyone out there is playing games? What you going to do if a van pulls-up and three guys jump out with guns and knives?
Ain’t worth it. Why not just sit at home and play Russian Roulette by yourself?
If you want to dress trashy, that’s fine. It just happens to be my favorite look, too, but I do so at clubs and Gay bars, where it’s a whole lot safer than what you’re doing.
Want to get noticed? Do a good job on your makeup and go to the mall. I’ve gotten a lot of looks at the mall dressed in slacks, which I notice and which turns me on.
But doing what you’re doing is a one-way ticket to nowhere.
Stop being self-centered and stupid: use your brain.
Post like this really upsets me. Look, it’s dangerous enough out there without making it more so on purpose.
If you use your common sense you can go out and have a good time, a SAFE good time.
Stay safe and have fun.

[sherri]

I've always had an exhibition streak since my earliest days of dressing, so I understand the thrill, but I cringe to think of some of the risks I've taken that I wouldn't dare repeat these days. Some One was watching over me, I think. If it is important to you to continue indulging this kink, allow me to suggest that you seek a more controlled environment. Most lgbt clubs are pretty accepting of sexy attire and behavior as long as you don't take it too far. Just be careful coming and going. Another idea would be finding an AVS in your area that might be tolerant of such antics. I think as your femininity evolves you will tire of the sleaziness of such a venue, but it is a much safer environment than the streets. Again, just be careful coming and going.

[mirima1992]

:o I still need the rush of "live theater" now and then. Last night this was a chilly outfit at 45 degrees, but I had to take a walk on ladies night. What's the worst that could happen? (kidding)

[Catina]

I agree with you Allie ! Going out alone at night as this person is doing is just asking for trouble ....

[donnalee]

One of the first things I noticed on this site was the pretty obvious exhibitionism of a lot of the members, so I believe that it's a major component of why you do this; thrill seeking is also one.
I don't know your age, and risk taking and exploring what you can do without injury to yourself (and, I hope, others) is a part of youth, but if you're on the street at 1:00 AM dressed like a hooker, especially in 45 degree weather, the expectations of those who see you are pretty obvious,.
If you must do this, confine yourself to clubs or other public venues for safety's sake and wear a longer coat on your way to and from. Don't worry, there still will be thrilling times heading your way.
I spent 20 years of my life working as a professional musician and night is home to me, but it is necessary to have superb night vision and hearing, plus incredible intuition and eyes in the back of your head to be able to own the night. It can be done, but you are assuming greater risk for bodily harm which should only be taken if there is no viable alternative.
I've been there and done that, have several drawers full of t-shirts, and am talking to you like a mother would.
Be safe.

[vicky_cd99_2]

I tend to go out at night. That said it is usually to a gay bar where a girl my size doesn't have to put up with a lot of crap. I get read very easily. The ultimate rush for me is going out in the daylight. I have done that twice. It was better than any drug. My background tends to lend itself to situation awareness. Even dressed my head is up and on a swivel. That is something that was ingrained in me during training. Be careful at what you do and where you go. Never take totally unnecessary risks both with the unruly types or the police. Have 3 plans of action for the situation you put yourself in. I see to many people both guys and girls oblivious to their surroundings.

[Stephanie47]

In my small city there are some main drags (no pun intended) that have signs posted to warn ladies of the night to stay out. If the woman has been found guilty of soliciting she is warned to keep out of some areas. Yes, there are actually official keep out of the area signs. It does not stop them. Of course, many of them look exactly like you in the pictures. Honey, you'll be getting a ride to the city jail. I would love to be a fly on the wall as you explain like the others girls that you were just out for a leisurely stroll at 1 PM. Of course, those drags are well traveled so I don't think you'd get rolled. However, on some of the side streets?? Well, some guys do not want to pay for a woman's service, Shall we say a freebie?

Me? yes, I have taken a walk in a residential area where there is no traffic. I do not go out at 1 AM. I wear a conservative outfit an office worker would wear. A knee length dress. I borrow my wife's raincoat and take an umbrella because I tend to take those walks in the gently falling rain. The umbrella is really a nice shield for my manly face. In those early fall and winter evenings there is foot traffic. So, I cross to the other side of the street.

Do I want to attract undo attention? Nope! You look like a street walker. I try to portray myself as a woman coming home from work. My thrill is to feel the cool air caressing my legs and hipping the skirt of my dress. In my state the laws protect gays, lesbians, transgenders and cross dressers. I may dress as I like. However, dressing like a hooker makes you look like a hooker. And, if you're attracting the same attention a hooker wants to attract... well, you may bear the unintended consequences of your actions.

Be safe, don't be sorry.

And, if you do get arrested what will your wife thinks if you're name appear in the paper. In my grandparents little town in upstate New York, your name even appears in the newspaper for getting a ticket for failing to stop at a stop sign. Darn, would the newspaper have a field day with your booking photo.

[susangirl]

Quite a few years ago, before I was able to go out in open public places ( malls, bars, restaurants ) I was very scared to let anyone she me close up for way to many years. I would drive on the interstate and give the truckers a nice little show. You know, skirt pulled up showing my stocking, garters and panties. Sometimes topless with a pretty lacy bar. The reason I would have fun with the truckers was 1) If need I could always out run them 2) Most of them always enjoyed the show. Close enough to see but far enough not to know I wasn't what they thought. They would get so worked up at the site of girl being sexual through the window while moving at 60 to 70 miles per hour. Fun days. I really enjoyed the attention.

[Aleca]

Not crazy. Sounds like you get turned on doing this but as most have said here that is very risky. You have to be careful where you go, especially at night, especially in poorly lighted areas and then by yourself. I've read too many accounts of TG people suffering harassment or much worse. There is almost always a few people looking to cause trouble. If you must continue doing this I would suggest carrying some kind of concealed weapon.