What kind of man are you?

[ReluctantDebutant]

Have you ever been around a group of guys and the discussion turns to attractive woman? Inevitably that conversation will bring up an age old question; what kind of man are you, a breast man, an ass man, or a leg man. Meaning which one of those female physical attributes attracts you more than the others. However it might be more appropriate on this site to ask a different question. Are you a bra man, a panty man, or a hosiery/heel man? These objects alone can cause discussion threads on this site to have pages in the teens and can last for months. But is it any wonder why? Look how closely the garments cover their corresponding body part often taking on the shape of that body part. Such a close association between clothing and body part could blur the line that separates them in some men's minds. That natural male attraction toward parts of the female anatomy is getting channeled into affection for bras, panties, and hosiery/heels. I would not say the clothing replaces the anatomy it would just have to piggyback it in a way.

So. What kind of man are you? And any thought on the association?



Hosiery and heels are together because of the effect they have on the leg but they can be separated.

[Katey888]

What an interesting thought, RD... :)

For me there isn't any surprise that there would some connection between what I find attractive in a GG and what I try to emulate... so yes, I think there's a close association for me. Personally I've always been drawn to an attractive pair of legs and all the accessories that tend to go with them... so yes, heels, nylons... high-heeled boots... strappy sandals... Anyway - before I get totally distracted... :o - yes, I like those aspects of what GGs wear and those physical attributes too... of course, it helps if the entire package is well proportioned, and I think that's always a matter of personal preference too, of course...

Possibly not for everyone, but we may also be back to that varying conundrum of what drives and motivates each of us...

Nice to ponder on a quiet weekend though... :D

Katey x

[Stephanie47]

Actually I've always enjoyed the entire package. My personal preference for myself are the breasts. I enjoy my 42C-44C figure. I'm six foot even and 190 pounds, so I do not appear top heavy.

[JessicaJHall]

I'm with Steph.. the whole package, and the packaging is very important. But I'm going to date myself (not go on a date with myself.. different forum I'm sure), but to quote Father Guido Sarducci, "Imma butta man".

[Tracii G]

Its the people not the clothes.
Thats what kind of "person" I am.

[Emi_]

I'm the kind of man who wears a dress and who is married to a wonderful woman who meets all my needs. I appreciate beauty in many forms and appreciate different aspects about different people and things. This makes me a complete person and frees me from labels and prejudice.

On a related note, counselor Mark Gungnor describes the male mind in terms of boxes and labels. The male mind is predominantly geared to sort information into different categories and to separate categories from each other. Thus, the male mind operates like a set of boxes, each designated to hold a certain discrete set of thoughts, ideas, actions, etc., and to label each box appropriately to keep those categories clearly defined. This type of sorting behavior can be seen in posts like this and others that try to define a particular set of behaviors or attitudes and fit them to a specific category of behaviors that are associated with cross-dressing.

[CherylFlint]

It's always been legs with me.

[Requal Jo]

The attraction for me is the whole package as the beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, when conducting the quick summing up my eyes go to the breast, then legs.

[Tiffany Jane]

My wife and I both no I am a breast man. So little surprise when I showed her my forms. More important, I am more concerned about a woman's intellect. What good is all the looks when you can't have a decent conversation with them.

[Simone_40]

Panty man for moi.

[ReluctantDebutant]

I'm the kind of man who wears a dress and who is married to a wonderful woman who meets all my needs. I appreciate beauty in many forms and appreciate different aspects about different people and things. This makes me a complete person and frees me from labels and prejudice.


Its the people not the clothes.
Thats what kind of "person" I am.

Obviosly there is more to a person woman and men alike than just their physical appearance. For a true human relationship to occur far more things have to happen for people to be right for one another. And physical attraction is lease among them. But when this question arises its not about relationships it is just about attraction and nothing more. It is about what catches the male eye to a woman he fines attractive. Since humans are still visual in nature and have yet to evolve telepathic or empathic abilities it is still going to be the outer beauty that one will first notice rather than any inner mental or emotional beauty. Which I agree are ultimately the more important aspects of a person. It is only human to be attracted first by physical beauty for both sexes.

The whole package is important of course the question deals with which is prime among the three even if it wins by a sliver.

[samantha rogers]

" I'm not much of a man, by the light of day..." Lol
Sorry, I couldn't resist. Apologies to Tim Curry.
But, seriously? It may be corny, but I look at the eyes...if I see what I am looking for the rest doesn't matter.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi RD, I like to savor in the whole package bur the breast soon draws my attention then the legs & heels.

[Anna H]

But, seriously? It may be corny, but I look at the eyes...if I see what I am looking for the rest doesn't matter.

Me too. i just assumed nobody would get that.

:)

[CynthiaD]

I like wide hips. I don't know what that makes me. My favorite thing in femme attire? Breastforms!

[Wildaboutheels]

The way men's Brains interpret their VISUAL input is what drives CDing for 99% of the CDers on the planet. It also accounts for the lopsided ratio pf MtF/FtM. [easily confirmed with even the most cursory of web searches] The P&V gallery supports this beyond any shadow of a doubt along with ALL the other data this site offers. [#S] Of course people are free to ignore this mountain of evidence. [aka... REALITY] And no, People don't have to live in the RW, but it sure makes life a lot tougher than it needs to be.

I've been a leg guy since I discovered Oville at the ripe age of...

Our VISION - in that it allows men such easy slam dunk visits to Oville - IS one of man's greatest advantages over women.

It IS why CDing is so addictive.

Our VISION is the reason why the vast majority of CDers "enjoy" the same kind of outfits a hooker, porn star or centerfold would wear.

FACT: I did take the liberty of posting my ONLY thread to the P&V gallery. [SOMEone needed to do it right?]

"Show us your best Granny dresses and Flats"

...with the expectant results.

Over FIVE HUNDRED VIEWS with one response.

ONE.

But no picture to go with it.

It's not complicated.

[candykowal]

I have had my own breast since my preteens and wore training bras when I was young.
So, it is no wonder I have been someone interested with breasts and the foundations that encompass there realm.
I suppose you can call it a male fetish, but since I have my own bust, it has been a necessity to relate on a similar scale.

[Heidi Stevens]

I follow the sage words of Fernando Llamas: The breasts are for the baby, the LEGS are for the man!

[Babbs]

breast man..... but like the old J Geils song goes..."first I look at the Purse" lol

[UNDERDRESSER]

Well, if asked about which part of their anatomy gets my attention first, probably the butt. And the bits that flow down from there. Quite like them to well proportioned, but really I've never had that drooling fascination most guys seem to have for big breasts. None of this really matters if she isn't intelligent enough to hold a decent conversation though.

It can be summed up by a video, search the term "girls who read"

[LelaK]

The only kind of man I think of myself as is a hu-man. Ask me what kind of girl or angel I am. I'm a compassion admirer.

[im-sparkles]

Im not a man! except for one part lol

[Seana Summer]

When I was young.......... I liked all female parts..........If they were on display I would happily take a look without prejudice.

Now that I am a bit older and the hormones have died down, I like a womans brain the most. So what kind of man am I? I guess that makes me a mature one....

I kinda miss being immature!!

[EllenJo]

I like all of the parts put together in a certain way. Short petite woman with cute butt, great legs, small breasts, and a sassy personality. Gee sounds exactly like the woman that I married.
Hugs
Ellen Jo

[Laura J]

In a woman I like the person as a whole. The looks are secondary.

When I am dressing I am trying just to look like a properly proportioned an appropriately dressed woman.

[Kris Avery]

The only kind of man I think of myself as is a hu-man. Ask me what kind of girl or angel I am. I'm a compassion admirer.

Perfect.that's absolutely perfect.

[CarlaWestin]

I have been someone interested with breasts and the foundations that encompass their realm.


Hi Candy!

Yep, breast and foundation man here. I just love having and wearing them and I truly love the feel of holding a woman as her femininity fills out fabulous foundations. I wonder if one particular female at work knows that I know she's wearing a Rago style 9057 extra firm body briefer under her tantalizingly see through uniform blouse?

[Jocelyn Quivers]

Legs are one the first area's that get's my attention so by default I will go with leg guy/girl, especially since when I first met my wife her summer dress and legs were the first thing that caught my attention (along with her busting me checking out her legs:o) quickly followed by her smile, and everything else. So a true definition would be a "totality of circumstances" guy. Defined as of course legs, and everywhere is important, but demeanor, attitude, presentation etc. also play a very large and equally significant part.

[ReluctantDebutant]

I guess I would have to say for myself that I am a Leg man. Hosiery was my initiation into CDing. Any young woman wearing a skirt hosiery and heels can catch my eye. But lately seeing large cupped bras at the store can get me gaping as if I was looking at a young Anna Nichole Smith in a baby tee. I am exaggerating but it leads me to my main question; Is the seemingly endless discussions here about bras, panties, hosiery/heels reflect the typical male fascination with breasts, butts, and legs? I think so.

[Marcelle]

Hi RD,

Well I am going to venture over into the corny aisle along with Sammie for a second . . . its the smile that gets me all the time. It is what attracted me to my wife and I believe you can tell a lot about a person from their smile. However if I had to go with a part of the anatomy . . . it would be legs.



I follow the sage words of Fernando Llamas: The breasts are for the baby, the LEGS are for the man!

LOL Heidi . . . second giggle of the day for me.

Hugs

Isha

[SamanthaSometimes]

I'll answer the question from the standpoint "Which physical attribute attracts me more than the others first". In other words, inspection from the very first glance is usually the context of guys discussion. Legs in heels. Unfortunately, sightings are seasonal and wane with colder temperatures. It's good living in the South with longer warm periods.

[Krisi]

I'm a "breast man". As Jerry Seinfeld said, I have legs.

[Renee Elise]

Legs do get my attention...love the complete ensemble of a shapely, voluptuous woman. I'd say 60/40 favorability to legs / caboose :).

[Sometimes Steffi]

D. None of the above. I think the face and hair are the most important

[LeannS]

face, hair and how she smiles

[Kate Simmons]

When it comes to a woman I consider and appreciate the whole "package" and that includes who she is as a person. From a CD point of view I'd hope others appreciate me in the same way. ;):)

[candykowal]

Hi Candy!....

Hey Sister!
I KNEW you would say breasts! *giggle*

[Dora]

The butt is what gets my attention

[ClosetED]

Legs first, hair second. For just eye catching - the real best part is under the hair.
Ellen

[6inchheels]

I've always loved feet in sexy shoes, but feet are only fun along with nice legs and a big round caboose. My wife has the perfect rear end.

[ReluctantDebutant]

A pretty face with a charming smile should be able to warm any cold hearted man but alas no corresponding clothes for the face. But then perhaps make-up?

[Kaze_]

When it comes to women, I'm an ass man. I love the shape a pair of panties makes on a nice buttocks.

That does not cross over into my CDing though. I guess its because it hard to make them fit/look the way I want. I'm much more into hosiery and shoes.

[Claire Cook]

I'm finding that the more I dress and am out and about, the more I look at women differently. I used to ogle boobs and butts like most guys. Now I take in as others have said the whole package -- how do her clothes work in terms of her body shape? Sometimes when I'm out men (and women) will look at my boobs. Now I know how women feel when they are ogled. Sure they are there and probably the most obvious thing about my body (except maybe those too broad shoulders...) -- but I'd rather be noticed for my smile and being me.

BTW, I have never have been comfortable being in a group of guys discussing a woman's boobs and butts.

[KittyD]

I guess I'm pretty dull about it all... Uhm I more interested in "Can they make me laugh"
The human body, form & shape is what it is. You get what your given, up to you if you want to change to suit...
I kinda like a bit of everything I guess - don't really want to limit myself LOL :D

[Stephskk]

Legs, legs, legs, followed closely by Ass, ass ass.

[Sarasometimes]

The posterior/hips! Of course her personality matters right after that.

[Badwolf]

I can't boil it down to one thing that does everything for me, but I definitely know its Eyes and Butt that get me going more than anything else.

It can kind of explain why I like a good pair of women's jeans, high heels, and a few other things.

[jennigrace]

I'm an APT man (you can fill in the body parts). So I guess you're right I'm really a panty guy and that covers the first part of the APT.

[wanda66]

Legs, breast and hair.just love apair of legs in a pair of hi heals..!!

[AngelaYVR]

It varies by day and woman of course but overall I love a nice bottom.

[cassandra54]

It doesn't matter to me about physical attributes. What I get from a woman that I find attractive is a certain vibe that tells me she is sexy and probably very hot in bed. Of course, that being said, I am not attracted to women that are overly obese, or just plain aesthetically challenged.

I like to look, but not stare.

[Beverley Sims]

I am a female admirer.
I love and respect women for all their attributes.
No matter how constructed. :)

[Laura28]

I would say it is the face first, nothing more pretty then a beautiful face. Then i would say her energy level i love a woman who is full of life and like to be busy. Now if your refering to a woamn just walking down the street who i would not know, again the face legs and boobs. LOL

[ReluctantDebutant]

I am surprise that there have been few pairings. Is there a correlation? Does it mean that if you like a pair of legs you like a pair of stockings, a pair of buttocks and a pair of panties, a pair of breast and a....... Why is it just a bra and not a pair of bras it holds two things while a pair of panties really covers one thing? I mean come on "a pair of buttocks" who says that? I had to pull that one out of my... well... buttocks just to keep the theme going. Guess it is like parking in a driveway but driving on a parkway.


Back to my question Do they always pair up or are there some odd combinations out there like a breastman but a stocking CD?

[Della]

It depends on the attire. The question is what in the female's clothing draws my attention, and what is beneath it to give it it's appearance. If I had to pigeon-hole my answer, I notice breasts of a certain size on someone of a certain build, so, a breast-man, but not any breast. But for me, the bra doesn't do it by itself. The shape and feel below is as important, if not more important. My attraction for women doesn't correspond exactly to the clothing I would choose if I could pick only one thing. My preference, again if I had to choose one article, would be a bikini.