SusanaO
09-21-2014, 11:16 PM
I do. Not just majority, but vast majority. 95% of my cell phone contacts, Facebook friends (that I actually talk to), close friends, and even less closer friends are all women.
I was a very shy kid, and usually only had one or two friends at a time. This continued until middle school, where I went from a small grade school to a large middle school. It was there that I really started to learn to talk to people. However, in the 8th grade, I noticed something... I had more fun hanging out with girls. It was fun with the guys; afterall, going through puberty and noticing girls (and most importantly talking about them, and internet porn was born), getting into competitive sports, getting taller, etc, but somehow I was more at ease when I was with a few GG friends I had made. I never paid much attention to why, I just went with the flow. High school was the same; I had two close male friends, but by then the amount of girls I hung out with far exceeded the guys. And boy, did that play a role helping me get my first serious girlfriend!
I'll just make a note that while my freshmen year in college (before dropping out, only to return later), I wasn't very social because of my overly-attached gf, but I later realized part of the reason she became overly-attached was the fact that a lot of women wanted to befriend me, especially the some of the few female engineering majors. For some reason, I was the go-to study buddy, and I wasn't even a good student. During the following years after leaving after just one year of college, I became very social. I made friends left and right, but the ones that actually stuck for a long time were the girls. It go to a point where my male buddies would hang out and not invite me. But I didn't (and still don't) care because I have more fun with the girls. I came back to college, and sure enough, some of the ladies in my major come to me to ask how I went about a particular problem.
Here's something I should point out: out of every wonderful relationship I have had with a girl (whether it was friendship, dating, and whether or not the relationship still exists), it has been SHE who initiates conversation. I still don't know why; sometimes I wonder if it's because they sense my girly side, or if because they sense I can often be a jerk (I can be when I let my logical side dominate), and as you know, women love jerks. I actually had one GG friend tell me she started talking to me because she thought I seemed like an ***hole. Another possible reason is they simply get the impression that I'm very confident. I recently learned that I'm dyslexic, and in retrospect I believe my shyness as a child came from being unable to formulate spoken words as a result of my dyslexia. But, I believe, I have gotten lots of practice over the years and though I may not be the first to speak in a conversation, I love giving solid opinions.
I have never asked a girl for her number, but they're always willing to voluntarily give it to me. :D
Any of you ladies the same way? Do you feel GG's sense the woman inside your otherwise male persona?
I was a very shy kid, and usually only had one or two friends at a time. This continued until middle school, where I went from a small grade school to a large middle school. It was there that I really started to learn to talk to people. However, in the 8th grade, I noticed something... I had more fun hanging out with girls. It was fun with the guys; afterall, going through puberty and noticing girls (and most importantly talking about them, and internet porn was born), getting into competitive sports, getting taller, etc, but somehow I was more at ease when I was with a few GG friends I had made. I never paid much attention to why, I just went with the flow. High school was the same; I had two close male friends, but by then the amount of girls I hung out with far exceeded the guys. And boy, did that play a role helping me get my first serious girlfriend!
I'll just make a note that while my freshmen year in college (before dropping out, only to return later), I wasn't very social because of my overly-attached gf, but I later realized part of the reason she became overly-attached was the fact that a lot of women wanted to befriend me, especially the some of the few female engineering majors. For some reason, I was the go-to study buddy, and I wasn't even a good student. During the following years after leaving after just one year of college, I became very social. I made friends left and right, but the ones that actually stuck for a long time were the girls. It go to a point where my male buddies would hang out and not invite me. But I didn't (and still don't) care because I have more fun with the girls. I came back to college, and sure enough, some of the ladies in my major come to me to ask how I went about a particular problem.
Here's something I should point out: out of every wonderful relationship I have had with a girl (whether it was friendship, dating, and whether or not the relationship still exists), it has been SHE who initiates conversation. I still don't know why; sometimes I wonder if it's because they sense my girly side, or if because they sense I can often be a jerk (I can be when I let my logical side dominate), and as you know, women love jerks. I actually had one GG friend tell me she started talking to me because she thought I seemed like an ***hole. Another possible reason is they simply get the impression that I'm very confident. I recently learned that I'm dyslexic, and in retrospect I believe my shyness as a child came from being unable to formulate spoken words as a result of my dyslexia. But, I believe, I have gotten lots of practice over the years and though I may not be the first to speak in a conversation, I love giving solid opinions.
I have never asked a girl for her number, but they're always willing to voluntarily give it to me. :D
Any of you ladies the same way? Do you feel GG's sense the woman inside your otherwise male persona?