Emma Beth
10-26-2014, 07:59 AM
I've finally gotten the worst part of the move out of the way and we are now safely home for two days now.
While we drove across state lines I kept expecting her to continue our discussion that I started a few months ago, but it didn't happen. My heart is aching a little because my wife seems to have chosen to delay this a lot longer than I would like. But, we are still inside the time frame that she gave when we began our talk.
However; with unpacking and settling in, I'm willing to wait just a little longer. But I'm not going to give it very long before I gently approach the subject again. The reason is that I will not hide this and we can't hide it at all.
If we have any chance at remaining together into our golden years, I need to remove this one factor to change the odds of seeing my golden years in the first place. Even if we don't stay together.
So for now, I will have to wait and deal with wanting to paint my toes, among other things, and not being able to for a little while. The business of settling in and getting our lives back together will help cope with most of my issues.
On the brighter side, my Family is excited to have us back home and I'm looking forward to almost all of the changes that are on the horizon.
I'm looking forward to spending some time with my niece over the next couple of weeks, as she will be staying with all of us for two weeks. I'm getting to know my youngest Nephew pretty fast, and my sister is just the greatest.
Thanks for "listening", and I hope to have good news from my Wife real soon.
Love and hugs,
Liz
While we drove across state lines I kept expecting her to continue our discussion that I started a few months ago, but it didn't happen. My heart is aching a little because my wife seems to have chosen to delay this a lot longer than I would like. But, we are still inside the time frame that she gave when we began our talk.
However; with unpacking and settling in, I'm willing to wait just a little longer. But I'm not going to give it very long before I gently approach the subject again. The reason is that I will not hide this and we can't hide it at all.
If we have any chance at remaining together into our golden years, I need to remove this one factor to change the odds of seeing my golden years in the first place. Even if we don't stay together.
So for now, I will have to wait and deal with wanting to paint my toes, among other things, and not being able to for a little while. The business of settling in and getting our lives back together will help cope with most of my issues.
On the brighter side, my Family is excited to have us back home and I'm looking forward to almost all of the changes that are on the horizon.
I'm looking forward to spending some time with my niece over the next couple of weeks, as she will be staying with all of us for two weeks. I'm getting to know my youngest Nephew pretty fast, and my sister is just the greatest.
Thanks for "listening", and I hope to have good news from my Wife real soon.
Love and hugs,
Liz