maya1love
12-03-2014, 11:11 PM
Hi everyone:
I wanted to share with you my experience of starting a Meetup group for Tgirls. I, like many other crossdressers and transgender people, have often struggled with the question of how to find a suitable partner. (There are so many posts on this forum about that very topic!) I happen to be seeking a man who likes a crossdresser, but I appreciate that many here are seeking genetic women as partners, or even other transgender people.
I decided to start a meetup group where single Tgirls could meet admirers in my city (Toronto). I wanted something that was low maintenance to run, and so I've kept the focus on dinner meetings. I choose dinner venues which are friendly to trans people (usually within the LGBT village) and it's up to members to RSVP and show up. I started the group 2 months ago, and there are already 45 members of the group. They are comprised of 29 people who identify as trans, 13 male admirers and 3 female admirers. Some of the trans ladies themselves identify as admirers of other trans ladies! We have already had 2 dinners where 8-9 people showed up each time.
I don't know how long I will be interested in running this group, or whether people will lose interest. But my thought is that if, at least, one couple meets through the group, it will be worth it! I share this in case other members of this forum want to start something similar where they live. I think that we are moving to the next stage in our development as trans people, and that is to not be shy to seek out meaningful romantic relationships. Information about our meetup group can be found here: http://www.meetup.com/GTA-Single-T-Girls-and-their-Admirers/
I wanted to share with you my experience of starting a Meetup group for Tgirls. I, like many other crossdressers and transgender people, have often struggled with the question of how to find a suitable partner. (There are so many posts on this forum about that very topic!) I happen to be seeking a man who likes a crossdresser, but I appreciate that many here are seeking genetic women as partners, or even other transgender people.
I decided to start a meetup group where single Tgirls could meet admirers in my city (Toronto). I wanted something that was low maintenance to run, and so I've kept the focus on dinner meetings. I choose dinner venues which are friendly to trans people (usually within the LGBT village) and it's up to members to RSVP and show up. I started the group 2 months ago, and there are already 45 members of the group. They are comprised of 29 people who identify as trans, 13 male admirers and 3 female admirers. Some of the trans ladies themselves identify as admirers of other trans ladies! We have already had 2 dinners where 8-9 people showed up each time.
I don't know how long I will be interested in running this group, or whether people will lose interest. But my thought is that if, at least, one couple meets through the group, it will be worth it! I share this in case other members of this forum want to start something similar where they live. I think that we are moving to the next stage in our development as trans people, and that is to not be shy to seek out meaningful romantic relationships. Information about our meetup group can be found here: http://www.meetup.com/GTA-Single-T-Girls-and-their-Admirers/