What Did You Not Find Out...

[Melissa_59]

Saw a Reddit thread today that asked the question: Married people, what did you NOT find out about your SO until after you were married?

I expected to see at least one "crossdress" reference but to my surprise there were none.

Not sure it it's that rare, or if people are just not saying anything about it.

Anyway - weird.

~Melissa

[Tinkerbell-GG]

Melissa, I'd bet they're not saying anything as its still very stigma loaded.

[Beverley Sims]

Tinkerbell has it, we must not forget the stigma problem and remain within our circles as much as we can.
Only broadcast it to the friendly natives.

[amy101]

I informed my wife well before we got married that I crossdressed however I did fail to mention the possibility that I may be a farther to severel children from my time over seas

[sometimes_miss]

Not sure it it's that rare, or if people are just not saying anything about it.
Being a crossdresser is commonly considered a negative thing for a guy to be. And as such, it's not something that a wife or even ex wife usually wants anyone to know about, that she 'picked' a girly guy as her mate. So you're not likely going to find someone advertising to the world that she has a crossdresser as a mate.

[Adriana Moretti]

IMO ( Which matters very little) the CD population on re-edit is very young....most still live with Mom