Funny comment, tiny step

[Sissyboy2]

The ther day at Kohl's my wife saw a dress that she liked. It was like a gold with black spots and was more one the shorter end. I thought it was funny when she said to me out of nowhere that, that would be a dress that I would wear. I just nodded my head yes (it would have been better if I would have said, Yes I would love to wear that dress.) and then we just walked on and never said anything else. Like I have said before she knows I have interests in dressing and does like when I wear panties. I have slowly started to wear camis under a shirt when I wear panties, but she has yet to actually see the camis on me.

I felt this was a big tiny step. With me though its kind of confusing becuase right now everything is just sexual dressing. So i don't even know what I want. Im not pushing it too hard because we already have another fetish that we kind of partake in. So I don't want to drop too much on her even though it is already out there.

I just thought it was a funny comment, and all I could do is laugh and shake my head.

[nikki2014]

My Wife and I joke about things like that all the time. Even though she knows about my dressing she still has yet to see me in any of the clothes. Had my wife said something like that to me my comment back to her would be "I'd look way too hot in that dress". We both would've gotten a laugh out of that. You know you could always go back and get the dress for yourself. Just a thought. :)

[Sissyboy2]

Yeah my wife too has yet to see me in anything other than panties. She saw the cami under my shirt but that was about it. I would have loved to say a comment like that.

[Jackie7]

Well you could have suggested trying it on and asking her how it looked on you. Or you could go back by yourself and buy it in what you think is your size, take it home to try on and get her advice on how it looks. It's hard to know from your short report but it does sound like she is at least as ready for the CD game as you are, maybe moreso.

[Laura28]

My wife does that as well when out shopping she will say what do you think? When I say whatever she will say I am asking Laura lol .

[Tammy Lynn Tx]

Laura28, my wife and I shop together quite a bit and she sometimes slips and makes a comment like "you'd look good in this" or ask what i think about some outfit. we both do it without thinking and catch ourselves and laugh.

[Natasha V]

Yep, I know the feeling all too well ...too funny but we have fun shopping.

[kimdl93]

Your wife's comment could be read a number of ways. Don't assume too much.

Regarding going from panties to camis, from my experience, incrementalism works to some extent, but wives are not frogs in a pot of water. Each increment, like adding a cami may add unanswered questions and unspoken concerns. It may be better to talk about changes before implementing them.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

My wife and I don't share the same taste in clothing, I am more on the side of short skirts and short dresses, she is much more conservative. She would have said, "this is a dress like you would wear", and I would have said "do we have time for me to try it on" LOL!!!!

[Beverley Sims]

Don't contribute to the advances, just agree and see where it takes you.

[Lori Kurtz]

Why not just open a discussion about it? She already seems to be, to say the least, tolerant of your CD interests. It sounds like there's a good chance that you could have some productive sharing of feelings and opinions that could lead to some things you might enjoy together. You say you already have a fetish that you share together. There's no law that limits you to just one fetish, y'know. And I think a shared fetish is way better--both in terms of contributing to a healthy relationship, and in fun--than an individual, solitary fetish.

[Paula_Femme]

Hi Sissyboy

I think Lori has nailed it! You and your wife already share another fetish, or fetishes, so I would say the door to an honest and heartfelt conversation is open; communication is key in any relationship, but especially in an "alternative" or non-traditional one.

Open and honest communications will allow you both to discover what you want/need, as well as your boundaries and limits... hopefully you'll be a good match! :battingeyelashes:

You didn't say what your other fetish is, but for what it's worth, I first "got into" crossdressing in a serious way with a girlfriend in my early 20's - I'm now in my mid 50's! - whilst we were exploring BDSM; she decided to "dress me up" one day while I was doing some chores around the house... the rest, as they say, is history! :heehee:

Good luck to you both!
Paula

[Kevyn53]

My wife doesn't joke about things like that. If she says, "You'd look good in that", she thinks I should try it on. She's actually a pretty fierce shopper when it comes to my wardrobe. Eventually, I'm trying for a whole Lauren Bacall look.

[Eryn]

When Mimi says that something will look good on me I really want to try it because she has a good eye. Of course, she usually says things like this when we're shopping and soon will both be in the dressing room trying things on!

[Andrea_cd]

Shopping with my wife is painful for me even tho she has seen me completely dressed when she is shopping for clothes I am the husband who tags along and stays quite , mabey one day she will include me in her shopping but for now I am happy with where we are