Crossdressing and ""gender""

[mechamoose]

My youngest child, a tall (6'3"???? at 13??? wtf??) strong guy who at this stage in his life is quite het... While big, muscular Dad walks around in A line skirts and pretty shoes.

I long ago accepted that I wasn't 'hetero-normal'. If I liked YOU, I don't give a a rats a$$ what bits you had. I liked YOU. Are you willing to kiss? Are you willing to swap tongues?

That is all about THEM, not about their gear.

We (gurls?, boyz?) are not like the rest of them. We didn't intend to be that way.. we just WERE.

I get questions from my closest friends about 'poofy' clothing... painted nails. long *messed up* hair.

I have had to answer "I'm not experimenting.. I'm letting things OUT", this isn't a phase, this is revealing parts of me you haven't seen before.

I *know* the guys will accept me (Anyone ELSE play Cards Against Humanity? It gets pretty damn revealing)

We are a special kind of human. We GET how things feel to the 'other' side. That is a blessing, not a curse.

We have the right, room, and reasons to 'cross the streams' and not be the slightest apologetic about it.

I often get into what I refer to as 'Guardian Mode'. I go to PFLAG meetings. I try and bring cake & flowers to our noobies here. I LIVED through being a big sweaty guy who loved pinks and have no way easy to express that.

You need to be YOU. Are you a genetic girl who feels like Conan? A genetic boy who feels like Heidi Klum?

YOU (WE). HAVE. THAT. RIGHT.

I'm kind of )*&^Z$9z TIRED of apologizing for who i am and why I look/dress the way I do.

(Pardon me, I'm busy pulling the *numbsh!t* out of my feathers)

<3

- Militant Moose

[natalie_cheryl]

Well said Madame moose! Oh and I love cards against humanity its is very revealing and super fun to play

[kimdl93]

No need to apologize. As noted many times, we are literally borne this way. It's not a character flaw. We are not pedophiles and don't prey upon women in bathrooms. We do have productive lives, good kids, long term relationships.

My son recently told me about cards against humanity. Sounds like a crazy game.

[mechamoose]

CAH is the first game I have felt *embarrassed* about liking. It brings out BAD things.

Soo much fun.

[Nikkilovesdresses]

God I like your style. I wouldn't want to p*ss you off though :)

[Kate Simmons]

I never apologize for who I am MM. If someone doesn't like what they see, tough bananas I say. :battingeyelashes::)

[Katey888]

Happy New Year MM!!! :cheer:

Starting 2015 the way you mean to go on, then....? :lol2:

For some reason I have a visual representation of you as a kind of local, pink and frilly Massachusetts version of the Tasmanian Devil... :)

:pinktornado:

Protective Headgear Must Be Worn !

Katey x

[kimdl93]

CAH is the first game I have felt *embarrassed* about liking. It brings out BAD things.

Soo much fun.

My sons and his college buddies get pretty involved from what he described...hilarious, maybe revealing some rather dark perspectives on humanity...in a socially acceptable way.

[mechamoose]

...This rant brought to you by the letters C, D and stupid comments from my upstairs neighbor.

I'm better now, honest.

- MM

For Katey:

238733

[kimdl93]

Pretty tame as rants go. I just found it interesting!

[Beverley Sims]

I was speaking to a deer husbandry officer the other day, he had a 12 pointer on his wall along with other specimens....
How many points do you have?
How many are you trying to make? :)