ashleymcculloch90
01-05-2015, 09:45 PM
Today was my first meeting with my new psychologist. I hated explaining myself to him. But he was very nice and understanding.
He did say that he thinks I should not hide my femme side form my 3 and a half year old little girl. My wife almost killed me when I told her that.
My wife's reason for not telling my little girl is "I don't want the image of her dad to be ruined, you are her father not her mother and I don't want her to get made fun of in school because her father is a crossdresser"
My Dr.'s reason for telling my little one is because "children at that age don't have predispositions on how a person should act or look. That is instilled in them by outside prospectives. Is she is made to understand that it's ok at the young age then she won't know any different. She maybe a bit confused, but a child can be confused by not all 4 legged animals are not dogs. It could be a dog, or a cat, a cow, and so on. You just have to teach them. "
And here I am standing in the middle trying to figure out which I agree with more. As both make fair points.
Any thoughts or advice would be helpful
-Ashley <3
He did say that he thinks I should not hide my femme side form my 3 and a half year old little girl. My wife almost killed me when I told her that.
My wife's reason for not telling my little girl is "I don't want the image of her dad to be ruined, you are her father not her mother and I don't want her to get made fun of in school because her father is a crossdresser"
My Dr.'s reason for telling my little one is because "children at that age don't have predispositions on how a person should act or look. That is instilled in them by outside prospectives. Is she is made to understand that it's ok at the young age then she won't know any different. She maybe a bit confused, but a child can be confused by not all 4 legged animals are not dogs. It could be a dog, or a cat, a cow, and so on. You just have to teach them. "
And here I am standing in the middle trying to figure out which I agree with more. As both make fair points.
Any thoughts or advice would be helpful
-Ashley <3