Don't know what to do

[MissVictoria]

I've been offered an opportunity from my wife to get dolled up and have a night on the town tonight. I almost never have a weeknight alone to dress, what with work and kids and everything else that comes along with life. I usually go to the casino on Saturday night, and cherish that once weekly event. Due to some scheduling issues, I now have tonight (Wednesday) off and no kids in the house. My wife works late tonight and early tomorrow, and has blessed me with an evening out to enjoy myself. She has even picked out the outfit she would like to see me in. My problem is, I have no idea where to go. All of the clubs at the CT casinos are closed on Wednesdays. I can't seem to find anything in NYC that appeals to me, at least beginning late enough that it gives me time to get there and enjoy it, as it takes over an hour to get there. (If I were going to NYC, I'd be looking at an eta of about 8/830). I don't want to go to a movie, because frankly, I don't want to sit in the dark after getting all girly. I need help! Where can I go to hang out, on a Wednesday night? I will now end my #acceptingwifeCDproblems rant.

[kimdl93]

I don't know the area, but how about going to dinner and a theatrical performance? Maybe Some LGBT friendly bars? And if you get an early start, how about some shopping...you might be over dressed,but what the heck.

[audreyinalbany]

we should all have such problems...

[BillieAnneJean]

Such a problem to have! You must be somewhere other than a big city like Hartford.
Here in Grand Rapids there are two places open through the week. One is a non binary gender club, the other is a non binary gender bar. One is LOUD, the latter is subdued. Perhaps you can find one of each somewhere in Connecticut.
During the day, if you haven't yet, try the Samuel Clements home tour and the almost adjacent Harriet Beacher Stowe home tour. I love being enfemme and in a group of soon to be gossiping patrons.
Why does it seem like the ladies consider it their prerogative for a day of fun but that when for a guy and more specifically a guy dressed as a woman, that is to be denied?
As long as each are mutually supportive of the relationship, doing nothing that the other would take justifiable offense with, why isn't it acceptable both ways? Sure some on this site are doing things their SO would have reason to oppose. But what about the majority of us who are in no way doing anything to harm our relationship?
Imagine how many just run of the mill faithful to their CDers would be so much happier and APPRECIATIVE of their SOs if going OUT enfemme was encouraged now and then.
Sometimes it seems that our duty as men is like that of a mule, pull the plow until we can't.
Your SO is a keeper. Just make sure that she never has any reason to regret it!

[I Am Paula]

My solution in similar situation has always been to take myself out to dinner. Go to the best place in town. Women dining solo will always be given a table with their back to a wall. Splurge like crazy, and just enjoy people watching. If they say the raspberry soufflé takes an extra twenty minutes, just have another glass of prosecco and enjoy the moment.

[Krisi]

Restaurant, mall, just walk around the city. Use your imagination.

[bridget thronton]

Dinner and a museum?

[Judith96a]

I like Paula's idea. Take yourself out to dinner and take your time about it!

[Jackie7]

I'd probably take a stroll around the East Village, have dinner in some trendy little restaurant, and take in the 10pm show at the Slipper Room.

[Adriana Moretti]

In NYC there is the famous Stonewall bar ( the birthplace of the gay rights movement) and a few doors down is the gay club monster, both are big cd hangouts..... but it IS a freezing cold wednesday right after the new year , i wouldnt expect anyplace to be jumping, especially on a weds, weds is concidered the slowest retail day of the week. Oh east of eighth is a good resturant in nyc to hit ( cd friendly) There is triangles in danbury...but that will prob be a ghostown too

[DonnaT]

Not a lot to do in Danbury.

What would you do if you went out for the night with your wife? Could you do this (these) alone?

Are museums and tourist mansions open at the time you'd be out.

Shopping and dinner.

[Jorja]

Come on, even a girl in the frozen tundra of Ohio can find something to do on a Wednesday nite.

[Dana Nichole]

Lots of great suggestions here. I wish I had this problem.

[Suzie Q]

I only wish that my wife would offer me such a choice! I would love for her to suggest that I dress and go out!