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litlejohn
01-08-2015, 02:21 AM
Not really sure where I should of posted this, but I wanted brag to someone.
I'm out only to my wife. After 20yrs+of marriage I told my wife about my cross dressing. That was just over 3 yrs ago. After the initial shock and feeling of betrayal, she has been understanding and at most times supportive of my dressing. She even bought me panties 2 valentines ago.( wish it would be every yr)GREED
I appreciate all she does. Right before Christmas she spent extra time with my son away from home so I'd have more alone time. I tell her of any big purchases before i buy and she has never had an issue other than maybe wait til next payday. A few months ago she even dressed up with me. We had on killer short dresses and sky high heels+5(at home), it felt good.

It is truly the little things she does in support of me that mean the most. Her buying me an extravagant gown would be awesome, however going shopping with her and her asking "would she like this", might as well be the dress to end all dresses.
I understand the fear of coming out to a SO after yrs of hiding. It has worked out for the best for me and wish I could of had the courage of doing it from the beginning. I didn't realize I needed it as much as I do.

Dressing has become a big part of who I am since coming out to her. I'm still all I was before to her and hopefully better based on her reaction. I hold her and my kids above all my desires although sometimes I'm sure I've taken time for me that would of been spent on them. She hasn't called me out on that so it must not of been to much.
My wife is my best friend ,lover,mother of my children,and confidant, girlfriends would probably be pushing it.
She is absolutely the best person I know.

Hell on Heels
01-08-2015, 02:48 AM
Hell-o LJ,
Congrats on your successful reveal. I'm Wondering what you bought her for valentines day?
Whatever it was, she probably deserved more.
I'm only a few months into life after a reveal, and things seem to be moving in the same direction
as you.
Keep it going!
Much Love,
Kristyn

prene
01-08-2015, 03:00 AM
GREAT STORY.

I AM ENVIOUS.

You are one lucky person

charlenesomeone
01-08-2015, 05:55 AM
Wonderful story, thanks for sharing, and another you are lucky. Enjoy that wonderful lady.

scarletcd
01-08-2015, 07:19 AM
Sounds like you have both really worked things out :)

Yeah it's the little things that I always appreciate. Since I am Trans/GF just using the correct pronoun or name is enough.

BLUE ORCHID
01-08-2015, 07:45 AM
Hi LJ, It sounds like you are so lucky to have such a wonderful wife, Just be careful
not to overwhelm her with this program, The ball is in her court now.:hugs:

MsVal
01-08-2015, 07:58 AM
You paint a very kind, very loving picture of your wife and your relationship. Her understanding, acceptance, and support are certainly reflective of your appreciation.

Thank you for my early morning grin.

Best wishes
MsVal

justmetoo
01-08-2015, 08:51 PM
Congratulations! Sounds like your wife is great, and you're pretty good yourself.