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junetv
01-12-2015, 11:50 PM
I was talking to my mother about the problems that I'm having with my wife. She said, "why don't you just leave her?" I said if I do, she threatened to let everyone know about my crossdressing, which I can take, but I don't think my parents can handle with their place in Korean society (it's a small world for them). My mom said, "these days crossdressing isn't so bad. A lot of people do it." It brightened my spirits knowing my mom supported me. She would rather that I not crossdress, but knows I cannot stop. :)

on another note, i dropped a ladder on my foot and I think i broke a toe. It looks like I won't be able to wear heels for a while :(

Diane Smith
01-13-2015, 12:11 AM
I don't have any advice about your family situation, but about 15 years ago, I broke two toes on one foot and found that wearing modest (3"-ish) heels actually made them feel better while they were mending. It was a great excuse to wear heels out to the store and such.

- Diane

Alice Torn
01-13-2015, 12:43 AM
I hope the toe is not broken. I broke a big toe in a bicycle accident. It took over a year to stop hurting, and is much larger than the big toe on my other foot now. It is harder to put on high heels , even though it was 18 yrs ago. Hoping yours heals faster, better. It sounds like things will be better in time, hoping the marriage can be salvaged.

justmetoo
01-13-2015, 08:25 PM
It's good to know your mother supports your happiness.
Ouch! I hope your toe heals quickly!