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rah
03-05-2015, 10:19 AM
This one is for closet crossdressers, for whom cding is private and don't wish to tell there secret to anyone just like myself.
How often you crossdress?
When do you crossdress?
Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.

Gypsy Sam
03-05-2015, 11:18 AM
Number of times CDing: 1-2x per week
When: Days off differing than my wife. Part of me time.
Clothing: Purchased at thrift stores,grocery, usually with other non descriptive items.
Length of time: Adolescence, and late 20's-now.

Mood enhancement and creativity stimulate the desire to feel the fabric while enjoying the look.

ClosetED
03-05-2015, 11:32 AM
From my screen name, I guess I qualify.
How often: 1-2/month
When: when wife allows Ellen time and leaves home for extended time, she knows but doesn't want to see or be involved
Clothes: my own, bought on-line and a few items at store tossed in with other items, occ borrow items to complete a look
Duration: 44 yrs
Scale of desire: this gets complicated and changes over time as does goal. Many threads here have gone over this. Many, but not all, have a younger period where sexual release is involved. Then the goal is often inner peace/calm/happiness/thrill and may explode in trying things out (i.e. pink fog). And some may move to needing it less and plateau in what to do, with still having an inner peace and acceptance of this is just who they are and it is right. I love how I can transform myself but do not need to do it every day-just knowing or looking at pics how I can look when I want to is often enough satisfaction to feed my desire.
Hugs, Ellen

Stephanie47
03-05-2015, 11:57 AM
How often you crossdress?
I have to answer this with a qualifier. As a retiree with a working wife I have the opportunity to dress whenever she goes to work. She does not have to work Monday through Friday. She takes off whenever she wants. The days she does work, I get about seven hours a day to be en femme. With that qualifier and my schedule of other things that need to be done, I usually dress one to four days per week. This week it's probably going to be two days. I could have dressed more, but, cross dressing is not a compulsive disorder for me. When I first retired all I did for several months was to be en femme five days a week, and, frankly nothing outside of my home and yard got done.

When do you cross dress?

Usually from 8:30 AM to 3 PM, Monday through Friday, when I choose to be en femme.

Do you have your own clothes, etc?

Oh, yes. My wardrobe is contained in seventeen Xerox boxes, a large storage box and a file box. At last count per my Word document I have 111 dresses. I do have a love for slips and slips and more slip. I have over 400 full slips and numerous half slips. I have some floor length night gowns, numerous bras and panties, a nice selection of shapewear, a stockpile of hosiery, and, probably more than a dozen pairs of heels.

How long have I been cross dressing?

Well, I started in my early teen years. I do not count the times I caressed and tried on my mother's full slip that she hung to dry in the sole bathroom in our apartment because that was just to feel the nylon fabric. There was no intent to appear as a female. When I expanded to wearing my mother's dresses, slips, bras, panites and girdles I consider that cross dressing. That was more than fifty years ago.

My desire now?

It all depends. I cross dress for stress relief. I enjoy and need to shuck off the male person and enjoy the escape to the other side of me. Some days I really enjoy the male side. Some days the female side needs to come out and play for the day.

Barbara Black
03-05-2015, 11:57 AM
I'm not so sure that I don't want anyone to find out, but I certainly don't want to be 'exposed' suddenly. I underdress every day, but seldom get to dress outwardly, about once a week, when the wife, who is totally unsupportive and doesn't want to see it, goes shopping. I've been closet dressing for about fourty-five years, outwardly, on occasion, for maybe two or three. My clothes are mine own, but very limited, after the last purge out of frustration. I kept mostly underwear, one sweater, one blouse, one skirt, only because i couldn't find them during the purge. I hate purging, I'm so sorry to have thrown all of my nice skirts and blouses away, and all for nothing, I could never quit dressing.

CountessVF
03-05-2015, 12:20 PM
I dress about 3 times a month by myself and whenever the mood to play strikes the wife.

Got a mixture of my own clothes and some of her stuff.

Been trying stuff on since I was little. Desire seems to fluctuate. Like with most things I like variety. Sometimes I enjoy being the fire breathing macho man, other times it's fun to play dress up.

BobbyRay
03-05-2015, 12:23 PM
How often you crossdress? When do you crossdress?
For me it depends on what you mean as I wear a nightdress to bed most nights. However with my current living arrangements I never know when my housemates are going to be out so finding time to properly femme up with makeup etc is difficult and I only manage it every couple of months or so.
I crossdress most when stressed but I still do it even when I'm not.

Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
I started by borrowing my sisters clothes but know have my own which I keep hidden in my closet. I buy my clothes online from retailers who cater to men and women. Most of the sites I used have a good returns policy so if something doesn't fit or suit I can send it back for very little to no money.

How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.

I've been crossdressing since I was about 12 so approximately 15 years.
I couldn't give you a defined number as the urge to dress varies from day to day but I would say in general it's less intense than it was when I was younger but it's there more often. This is possibly because as I have got older I have more comfortable with it and no longer try and suppress the urge to dress in the same way as I did in the pst.

Vikky
03-05-2015, 12:32 PM
Hi Rah
How often
As often as possible, almost always when the SO is out of the house for a while. Can be 3 or 4 times a week.

When do you CD
I dress whenever I can, mostly when my SO is out or an hour+. Sometimes I just wear a bra and slip under drab for a short time, other times it is the full set if she is out for 2 hour +. Currently my SO is away for a few days Joy!!! Vikky time!!! I also underdress sometimes when out and about – dog walking, shopping etc

Do you have your own clothes
Yes, about 15-20 items (bras, slips, skirts, tops, one wig) plus tights, thigh highs. I have no shoes yet. I buy online, athough my SO has bought a few items from charity (thrift) shops. Make up doesn’t interest me – I have a beard anyway.

How long have I been CDing
Occasional, very amateur attempts since teenage years and then about 18 months ago (aged 67) thought if I don’t do it properly now I never will.

My desire now
To dress as often as possible and expand my wardrobe. I find I am in a state of bliss when dressed, given up trying to explain it.

Vikky

Jaylyn
03-05-2015, 12:40 PM
How often you crossdress?
Let me first say I'm only closeted in that I don't go out in public dressed. My wife knows and helps but I try and be a man for her and not dress too many times in her presence. We have done some dressing together to enhance our sexual activities. ( maybe more mine than hers). I am retired and she is still working so I can dress when I want during the day anytime I want. I sometimes keep my toes painted in the winter months a bright red and seem to dress more in the winter time as I don't have as many activities outside the house.
When do you crossdress?
Mostly during the day when I choose to stay at the house and sometimes I underdress when I run errands during the day.
Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
Yes I have my own makeup ( my wife has helped me buy and she will buy me some if she finds some thing knows I would enjoy) I have my own clothes such as dresses,skirts, hose, heels, panties, and some tops. I can wear many of my wife's outfits and she tells me to help myself. Those that are loose fit me but those of hers that are tight I can't wear.
How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.
Been dressing since I was a small child. My mom tried to dress me like a girl as she wanted a girl for her first child. She had sewn some flour sack dresses before I was born but dad put a stop to that and I didn't start back till I was around the age of 12. Sneaking into my moms hose, her girdles, and basically any slips or material she had that was soft n silky. They felt good against my bare skin. I have always loved the makeup part and used to play in moms makeup when dad was working. She would let me but always cleaned me up before he got home.
My desire to crossdress now is on your scale maybe a 5-6. I enjoy it but it's not my greatest desire. I do it to fulfill a deep need and enjoy to this day getting dressed up. Maybe two or three times a week and then may go a week or two without wanting to, but the urge to has never left me.

savannaxdrsser
03-05-2015, 12:48 PM
Hi! i try and crossdress at least once a week, but it is difficult since my wife is always around, usually she leaves for work earlier than myself, so i take that morning time to dress and enjoy, the problem with that is getting everything out, using makeup and then having to put everything back and make sure i go to work with no signs.
I have a number of my own things, would have more if i had a better hiding place, i love heels and would have dozens if i could hide them
I started when i as around 12, been doing it on and off ever since, my desire these days is like an 8!:battingeyelashes:

Christi
03-05-2015, 01:02 PM
Hi Rah

Similar to other replies I dress as often as I can when my SO isn't home although she does know that I CD. Today is a day when I am alone and been enjoying Christi.

I have had my own clothes for most of the 45+ years that I've been dressing. In the early years, mid teens to early 30's I would get clothes from any place (Friends, family, strangers, clothes lines, etc…) that I thought I could steal without getting caught. At some point, I realized that theft would lead to getting caught so I started to purchase the clothes at stores, yard sales, etc… Still buying my own either at a store or online.

Desire, for me, seems to come and go. At times I want to wear something every day, and then I can go days without any desire. Not sure why???? Having read the other posts, it might be connected to stress. I will need to monitor that.

I do know that I will always dress on some level on a regular bases. I did my last purge about 2 decades ago. I believe that I desire to "Go out" for whatever reason as a passable female.:daydreaming:

docrobbysherry
03-05-2015, 01:37 PM
I've been dressing for 17 years.

I have a semi full of ladies things stored at 3 different addresses. :eek:

I dress about 5 or 6 times a month now. Mostly outings. However, I consider myself a closet dresser. I do try ons to prep for those outings all the time. But, since I'm not dressing completely, those don't count in my book.

I would say because of my recent increase in outings and my complusion to do more picto stories, my dressing is on the rise!:battingeyelashes:

immike
03-05-2015, 02:02 PM
I dress in secrecy,for many years,using mothers clothes.I wait for her to go to work,then spend hours in her closet,trying on dresses,skirts,blouses,blazers,all her
business suits&her many pairs of shoes&heels of different heights

audreyinalbany
03-05-2015, 02:37 PM
I dress on average a could of times a week, but then usually only for an hour or two. I usually have some time usually during the week while the wife is at work. please don't use your Mother's/sister's/wife's clothes. In addition to being kind of a violation of their privacy, it's just kind of tacky. Go to a thrift store and buy your own stuff. After the first couple of items, it gets easier.
First started cross dressing pre-school…..alright…I was a little kid, I couldn't go to thrift stores so I had to go through my Mom's stuff. But it was pretty much on-again-off-again until the last ten years or so.
The desire still comes and goes. Lately i've been in a kind of 'latent period' where I haven't felt the urge so much, but it's definitely still there.

Lacy PJs
03-05-2015, 06:22 PM
Like some others here, I am out only to my better half. She willingly participates and since we are nowhere near the same size, I have my own little collection of clothes. As to how often I dress, that depends. Most of the time it's in the late evening. I'll get ready for bed in some babydoll PJs and read, listen to the radio, etc. Every once in a while, I'll pull on a leotard & tights during the day if I know I'll be home for an extended period of time.

As to how long I've been dressing... that goes back a long way. Probably first really started about 35 years ago but I can remember messing around with my mother's nylons when I was a lot younger but never really put them on. There was some kind of fascination though.

Frequency seems to have leveled off now that I'm older. Probably 2, maybe three times a week with the PJs and maybe once a month with most anything else. And, like many others I have no desire to "go public" so things will pretty much stay the way they are right now. Every once in a while, I think about enhancing my wardrobe with some fun, extra things like boots, some shoes, maybe even a wig but haven't ventured down that road yet.

In short, I guess I'm happy with where I am.

Lacy PJs

iGenny
03-05-2015, 06:48 PM
How often you crossdress?
1-2 times a week, usually only a couple hours at a time.

When do you crossdress?
When I get home from work, while my wife is at work.

Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
I have my own, I shop thrift stores, Target, Kmart, Kohls on line and at the store.

How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.
Almost 4 years (and I'm 58). My desire is a 5. I don't go nuts if I can't, but I'm so happy when I can.

Lily Catherine
03-05-2015, 08:13 PM
How often you crossdress?
Whenever I get the opportunity to (work from home, weekends when nobody is home. Within one week, it can go from 0 to 3 times a week.

When do you crossdress?
Usually when nobody is home. That's the first and foremost requirement. Otherwise, I return from work in women's jeans extremely often because men's garments usually run too large for my extremely thin frame

Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
Sneaked in a bra and thong + petticoat before, the rest belong(ed?) to my mother and other female relatives. Some run slightly large. I also own a pair of leggings as winter wear on vacation (excuses, ha!)

How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.
Since 11, but only went all the way as late as 16-17. So that's 8 years (turning 20 this year). Would rate as 8 where 8 is a high desire, though I have come to terms with my limited opportunities. My make-up skills are still in bad need of practice. And technique.

Closeted Kat
03-05-2015, 08:51 PM
how often? whenever no one is around for long periods of time, usually just wearing stuff with no makeup
I crossdress when no one else is around and i'm in the mood. When people are gone alot i do it at first alot then i just do it when the mood strikes.
i have my own clothes (i'm rather on the large size) I got them on ebay and some stuff tossed in with normal grocery shopping
how long have i been dressing? well i had a patch of depression non-cross related other stuff, then stopped all together when the depression was controlled, then about 6-7 months since i got the urge out of no where and a friend suggested i try it and not feel ashamed as there are lots of people that do it around the world.
my desire now is a little less than when i started as some of it was that first rush of pink fog when you try it and unexpectedly enjoy it, now its settled out and i feel good with how things are able to flow as the mood and time work out.
-kat

sometimes_miss
03-05-2015, 09:12 PM
How often: Daily.
When: About 95% of the time when I'm home. I shower, a touch of perfume, and change to girl clothes. I generally only dress as a guy when I have to go out somewhere. I don't 'underdress', because I know the possibilities of what may happen if I have an accident and wind up in an e.r..
Do you have your own: From age 8 to 18, I borrowed my sister's clothes. Since then I've always purchased my own girl clothes.
How long: Since I was 7. Desire comes and goes to a degree, but I feel more comfortable dressed as a girl so that's what I do.

RADER
03-05-2015, 10:43 PM
How often you cross dress?
Well since I retired, most of the time at home. I under dress with panties 24/7 now for
over 10 years. A bra now for about 70% of the time for about 6 years. The forum has
given me a lot more confidence than I ever had before.
I wear womans jeans every day, I love the stretch and feel of the jeans, and they look better
on me than guy jeans.
I like to wear a dress or a skirt around the house, and I try to have a dress day at least one
or two days a week. I would never pass, so I do not go out of the closet dressed.
My wife was OK with my dressing, and would pick things out for me to wear, She passed almost
two years ago now, I do miss her.
Rader

Ms.Kenadie
03-06-2015, 03:52 AM
How often: As much as possible, still have a teenager at home. I underdress almost every day to varying degrees, i.e. panties, panty hose or thigh highs. No bras as I am way too hairy for all of that as of now.
When: anytime the urge strikes and conditions allow.
I have my own clothes. Online shopping is great.
How long: age 7 or so. 8 on the scale.

Kenadie

WhitneyCD
03-06-2015, 04:46 AM
I only get to dress a few times a month on the rare occasion that I have the house to myself. I have actually called in sick to work just so I could stay home and dress. I have a few of my own outfits but I usually borrow them. I have been dressing about 10 years now.

dominique
03-06-2015, 04:50 AM
I'll answer your questions in order:
Not as often as I used to as circumstances prevent dressing.
Any time I'm left alone for a long period of time
I've got my own clothes, I just buy normally in shops no hassle
I've been dressing for abt 30+ yrs, my desire ebbs and flows but sometimes I can feel the pressure building. Just now I' m a 7.

Lacey New
03-06-2015, 08:04 AM
I crossdress whenever I get an opportunity. Both my wife and I work out of the home so my opportunities are very limited to times when she is gone or travels (that's heaven for me). On a regular basis, I may get to wear panties for a few hours every few days when she goes on errands. I do have my own clothing. I go shopping when she travels. I have been crossdressing for over 20 years and on a scale of 1 to 10 - hard to answer. Somedays when I am engaged in other matters, the urge is nil. On other days when I see a well put together woman or a particularly appealing dress or read a good story about a pleasant shopping experience, then the urge comes on strong.

MysteryWoman
03-06-2015, 09:28 AM
First of all, I'm not 100% in the closet. I have a DADT relationship. But I think my wife has convinced herself that I've stopped, so I behave as though I'm totally in the closet. Having stipulated that:
How often: Whenever I get a chance (see below)
When: My wife is out for a hair, nail, or doctor's appointment, or a predictably long shopping trip
Clothes: I have my own, which I obtain both by just buying them in a store or getting them on line (which means I have to have reliable tracking info on the shipment). But for short sessions I usually use some of my wife's, which fit me reasonably well.
How long: 60 years(!). My desire is as strong as it's ever been (about an 8)

DonnaP
03-06-2015, 10:30 AM
:heehee:Well for me started as teenager using some of sisters things eventually got married found out soon enough that women know when there clothing is touched even when you use the things stored in another closet that have not been worn in ages kind of laid blame on son at time and Mom let go at my request don't embarrass him puberty?? Then decided to buy some of my own first on line make sure your home on delivery and now I shop at many stores I love Macys. I dress any chance I have even if only for a few hours makes me so relaxed I'm in my sixties and have not lost the urge all though I do get worried she may find my things in basement.

NicoleScott
03-06-2015, 11:48 AM
How often - has varied widely over the years,, from 4 or so times a week (when single, living alone) to long periods (married with child) of limited opportunities.
When - when I have a day off, home alone, mid-morning. Otherwise, early evenings, especially after work when I was single.
Crossdressing Rule #1 should be: get your own clothes. How you get them is a different matter, as most of us borrowed or stole things when starting out. An argument for a different day. But yes, get your own.
I obtained whatever I could however I could when I was young - no money. no car, no privacy, etc. Now I get most of my clothes, shoes, and wigs online while getting makeup, jewelery, and accessories in stores.
How long - I recall having an attraction to women's things by age 5-6. Lipstick around age 8-10. High heels (sister's) early teens, makeup late teens, full transformation early twenties.
Desire intensity - very low to very high. It may be a 5 on a given day when the opportunity to transform presents itself. Along the process of transforming, beginning with makeup, it goes up and as the transformation is complete, it's a ten. At the end of the session, it suddenly drops to zero. Hmmm....

Tina_gm
03-06-2015, 12:05 PM
This one is for closet crossdressers, for whom cding is private and don't wish to tell there secret to anyone just like myself.
How often you crossdress?
When do you crossdress?
Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?
How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days.

how often- a few times a week for maybe an hour or 2 after work, and the occasional longer periods when my wife is away for the day visiting family or friends.

I own a few things, plus some of what my wife has.

While my 1st time was around 22, it wasn't until 2 years ago that I began to really open myself up to active CDing. so about 28 years of super secret and very very rare CDing.

I can't really put a desire number of actual CDing. but of just accepting and being myself, that is increasing. I can't really put a solid number on that either though.

Sarah Louise
03-06-2015, 02:58 PM
I crossdress about once every 2-4 weeks. The desire waxes and wanes.

I crossdress when then house is empty or, if my wife's at work, before my son wakes up (behind a locked door).

I have a small bag of my own clothes. My wife's are 3 sizes too small. Shame though, she has a great wardrobe!

I've crossdressed since about 6, indulged a lot as a teenager, retired from it in my 20s and started again in my mid-forties. I'm probably a 3, but it varies.

Ally 2112
03-06-2015, 07:58 PM
I crossdress about 3 or 4 times a week
I have my own clothes and have for years
Been doing this longer than i can remember
Im at about a 7 on the scale of things

Alice Torn
03-06-2015, 08:17 PM
Being one of the tiny few on here, who never had a lover or wife, you would think i would dress all the time i am home in my apartment. When i had roommates, i was desperate to dress everytime i was there alone. But, for some reason, having my own apartment, i only feel like dressing several times a month! I used to get most clothes at thrift stores, but ebay is where i shop most now.. I am low income, don't have much to eat, so, i must only buy the cheapest bargain, but quality lady stuff, and less of it , as my situation gets more difficult financially. I would like to go out once in a blue moon, but the small town are here, is dangerous for being outed. and at six foot six, i stick out like a totem pole. If i had a wife, and had the desire to dress, i am sure it would be a different story.

Jessie James
03-06-2015, 09:37 PM
"How often you crossdress?"
-Usually once or twice a week.

"When do you crossdress?"
-Later at night, when everyone else is asleep.

"Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them) or you steal from your sister/gf/mom's closet?"
-Yes, I have my own clothes. As of right now I just have one outfit including a bra and some panties. I purchase them online exclusively.

"How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days?"
-I remember very vaguely that I tried on bits and pieces of clothing and used makeup when I was very young, imitating my mother and sisters. Another time when I was around 4 my older sister dressed me up in a dress, wig, makeup... the works. I never dressed again until about 6 months ago when I finally accepted myself as a CD. Right now the urge is a 5-7 most days, although I can imagine it being a 10 if I didn't underdress in panties daily.

Jessie~☆

Sarah-RT
03-06-2015, 10:01 PM
Depending on if I'm in the mood to dress, I'll do it daily or every other day, usually for a week or two and the desire goes away.

I usually do it in the evening, after 9-10 when everyone goes to bed.

All my clothes are my own, when I was a teen I used to wear my sisters clothes or sometimes my moms. I had a gf give me clothes one time as well.

I've been dressing on and off for about 10 years. My desire to dress in the last year or two has been crazy high, and to go full girl, wigs, forms, the works. Having a job greatly helps this compared to when I first started

JeanetteX
03-07-2015, 05:18 AM
I'm living on my own which means I have all the time and space, especially since I lost my job a few months back. My desire to dress has only increased since then and I now do it at least 3 times a week, usually friday til sunday. Most of my clothes I buy online but occasionally in a store if I feel confident enough as a private dresser. Been dressing since my childhood and am now in my 40's and stil loving every moment of it, in fact I'm still growing and learning. Didn't do much makeup in the past, it's only now that I have started to really experiment with it.

Deane
03-07-2015, 06:31 AM
I dress almost every chance I get. Most mornings I have 30 minutes to a couple of hours before work, and often during the day or evening I'll dress to some extent. I don't do makeup, so I can in and out within a few minutes, and my wife knows so I don't have to hide it from her. In the day or evening I have to be careful about visitors (kids are grown but one is rather needy and comes over a lot). I'll sometimes underdress, but I don't even count panties as underdressing (I always wore briefs, many of the panties pass for such), and I never know when I'll get a hug from a kid so I try not to wear a bra if one will be around. I can wear stockings/garter under my jeans without a problem, except that it's hot here in FL and that becomes uncomfortable fast.

I have my own clothes, have for several years since I came out to my wife, in my own closet (practical solution to my getting up earlier than her, ALL my clothes are in a separate closet from hers). I've tried on lots of her stuff, have to be damn careful not to damage anything though! Most of my stuff I got new, online or from Wallyworld for the most part, but some are hand-me-downs from my wife.

Michelle 78
03-07-2015, 06:41 AM
How often?
Normally around 3 or 4 times a fortnight, sometimes more

When?
I have the house to myself

Do I have my own clothes?
A big yes, I love shopping and I have more Girl clothes than Men's, I did start out borrowing my mothers years back.

How long have I been dressing? and on a scale of 1 to 10?
Been dressing on and off for 25 years since I was 12, my desire changes daily, normally 7/10.

EllenJo
03-07-2015, 07:01 AM
First let me say that for the last 2 years my wife has accepted my cross dressing as long as I don't leave the house. I have underdressed in panties for 20 years and wear pantyhose and camis under my work clothes on a regular basis especially in the winter. I usually get up in the morning and put on a skirt with a cami or blouse until I get ready for work. I also dress most evenings when I get home. So I guess the answer to the question is that I dress daily before and after work.

Yes I have my own clothes. My wife is very petite and of course I am not. I keep my things in my closet and dresser. I love to shop and even though I shop in drab, I try things on and don't care if the SA knows they are for me but I never leave the house in female attire.

I have been dressing off and on for 47 years. There were times when I dressed more than others and went long times without dressing at all. However as I got older and my 2nd wife became accepting I dressed more and more. Through it all the urge never went away. On the scale I would say that these days I am an 8 or 9.

My wife does not want me to leave the house dressed and since I don't wear make up or a wig, I can change back to drab if someone comes to the door. I am fine with her wishes.

Hugs
Ellen Jo

Stockingluvr
03-07-2015, 07:57 PM
How often you crossdress? I underdress every day. Minimum is panties, but in the winter I will almost always wear pantyhose or tights. Painted toes when I can
When do you crossdress? Lately it's been as often as possible. If I am alone for an hour or more I will throw on a bra, pantyhose and a dress and heels. I wear slips to bed with my SO, she's ok with it. When I sleep alone, I wear vintage chiffon baby dolls.
Do you have your own cloths (how do you buy them). I buy my own. I will frequent Goodwill once ever two weeks, if nothing more than for the experience of trying on new dresses. Lately, I've purchased underwear from Winners (a store in Canada), and I've scored some lovely high waisted panties that I love.
How long have you been crossdressing for & on a scale of 1-10 what's your desire to crossdress now a days. I've been putting on panties since I was a teenager but the desire was there when I was 5. Like many others, I have purged and fought the desire over the years. But at 51 yrs, I am determined to enjoy every moment and fight the guilt instead. My desire scale is 10 for sure.

herwannabe
03-07-2015, 11:25 PM
How often? -----everyday
When? ---------When I get up and when I go to bed
own clothes? ---Yes, more than my wife. and I buy them and she buys them for me.
first time? 10 yrs old. on a scale? 11

Raquel Maire
03-15-2015, 01:42 PM
How often: Once a week and its all out , makeup, outfit and pictures. Each week improving on my look!!!
When Saturdays for two to three hours
Own cloths Yes, Have mini skirt, very short tiger print mini dress, have pearls , bracelets, loop earrings, red wig, black stockings with five inch black pumps. Undergarments include three pair of black, red, tiger print G string lace panties, black bra and waist clincher.


The outfits are what I like and have fun mixing and matching Like to look as sexy as possible

Jeanettew
03-15-2015, 07:09 PM
Hi evreyone.

How Often, I am new to this and try at least once a week to put on a dress even if its only for a few minute - when home alone.

Where, At home when my wife is out or if i go away on buiness i take soem cloths with me then i can dress in my hotel room.

Own Cloths I buy on line Ebay and i try to buy a compete outfit everytime, Dress, underwear and stockings to match

How long, 6 months and my desire to crossdress is everyday but if i can only do it once a week makes me happy would like to one day spend a few hours dressed

Yoshisaur
03-15-2015, 08:42 PM
Recently I started crossdressing again after a two month break, and I find myself putting on women's clothing daily. I dress during the mornings and afternoons when most of everyone in my house is not home and sometimes at night because I stay up super late.I have my own clothes now and order most of it online, no more stealing my sister's stuff and them freaking out trying to find it.

Current desire to dress I would say 9-ish