update

[tiffanynjcd24]

Hey how is everyone doing today? Me i am doing alright. I am hanging in there. I figured out what i want to do. I am going to stay in IT. I am going to stick with business intelligence\web. I feel as with business intelligence thing i am doing, i know i can get a job. It takes time and practice. But i know this is what i want to do. Its like i need to be positive. For instance, i can get a qlikview developer job being that i have exp (btw i got an interview on friday) or business analyst. However if i am going to do something else within IT, it is going to hurt my career in business intelligence field.

As far as relationships goes. I am thinking of looking for a straight/bi/pansexual girl, trans, and sometimes men that supports my lifestyle. But i am willing to be friends with them first.

Now with transition thing. I would never do it. I am thinking to myself and ask myself this question: "If i love my self and i am happy with my body and happy with the fact i like dressing up as a girl part time or when i feel like it, why would i want to change it?" I know i am a cute guy and gorgeous girl. It just that i been frustrated with my job lately and i said things with out thinking. By the way, I'm not going to transition, i am just going to stick with crossdressing

(I am still thinking about transition)

Anyway i feel better and that is what counts

[Beverley Sims]

Tiffany, it is nice to read an update from you.

I agree do not rush into things, be patient, you do have a whole lifetime ahead of you.

Don't spoil it by making rushed or bad decisions.

IT is one of those professions that is hard to get into and be successful.

If you are already there it is easier to keep pace with changing technology.

You are always getting to experience new ideas so that is a wise choice.


Stay there and stay well. :)

[tiffanynjcd24]

Right now, my manager is having me doing BI tech support when i was originally hired to do BI application development. I am a resource for one tool and that is it. There is no growth in the company i am at. I think about leaving the IT field for good

[Jaymees22]

Thanks for the update, looks like you want to take your time on your gender side of things and with your relationships. Thinking things through is important both career wise and with your personal life. Hugs Jaymee

[tiffanynjcd24]

Yes it not really easy especially my contract is about to end in my current job. I am just unhappy being that there is no growth in the company doing what i am doing. I am happy with doing business intelligence