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crystal37
03-14-2015, 05:42 PM
Does anyone remember the first time wearing tights or stockings? mine wear stolen from my mum's drawer when I was about 11 or 12 and I thought it was the most amazing feeling I'd ever had, anyway, that was the start of my secret life and till I found d this site I've never spoken about it to anybody so any thoughts would be great x
pamela7
03-14-2015, 05:52 PM
yes, only this January, and it was awesome. Last night was my first wearing them (stockings) all night - loved it!
CDRMolly
03-14-2015, 06:05 PM
Yes I remember,I was 12 or13 I tried on my sisters pantyhose,loved the feeling then and still do 45yrs later !!
Thanks,
"Molly"
Jaylyn
03-14-2015, 06:18 PM
My first time was stockings at around age ten to twelve, panty hose was later around my twenties. Loved them then and have loved them ever since, they just make your legs feel alive.... Smooth and silky.
Angela Marie
03-14-2015, 06:24 PM
About 12 our 13 when I tried on my mothers tights. Awesome feeling. Loved them ever since.
SandraB
03-14-2015, 06:45 PM
Yes on a business trip to the US, I got the courage to go to a Victoria's Secret and buy a real sexy set of red stockings, suspenders and panties. I loved them. Didn't fit so good though and so didn't last nearly long enough as they were fairly stretched when on.
Barbara Black
03-14-2015, 07:01 PM
It was a while before I tried on pantyhose due to the fact that the tendency to run was always a worry. I'm not even sure if I ever tried them on until I somehow purchased some myself.
Yoshisaur
03-14-2015, 07:11 PM
My first time was a few years ago when I noticed a bunch of women were wearing tights and leggings and decided to try them for myself and really liked them.
DeeNile
03-14-2015, 07:29 PM
I am not sure if it was my first time, but one of my first memories would be when I was about 4-5 years old. It was Halloween of 1981 or 1982, and my mom made a home made Spider-Man costume. My parents were friends with our neighbor who also had kids my age. My costume was completed with a borrowed pair of red tights from the neighbor girl. I don't think this led to my cross dressing because I have other vague memories of experimenting with my moms clothing even before that costume.
Janine cd
03-14-2015, 07:49 PM
I was 11 when I first tried on my mom's nylons. I tried in a panty girdle with hose attachments at the same time. I couldn't believe how wonderful it felt walking in that outfit.
Robin777
03-14-2015, 07:56 PM
I was probably around 12 when I snuck out pantyhose from my mom's dresser. I remember what started it. It was panties straight out of the dryer. I found pantyhose later. then I found the girdle and some stockings,boy was that something else.
crystal37
03-14-2015, 07:57 PM
Hi janine,
I know exactly what you mean, I used to run home from school every day after that first time so I could pit my mum's underwear and tights on and try on skirts and everything, I used to love just looking at myself in the mirror and make up soon followed, 25 years later and I'm just as excited by it all too x
Heidi Stevens
03-14-2015, 08:03 PM
It was a pair of tights that really made me want to explore this whole new world of girls/women's clothing. I was in 7th grade and had never really thought anything of female clothes. It's also about the time when I became interested in girls for the first time. A lot of new feelings going on.
The middle school was known for putting on a big play for the town every year with the 7th grade class. We did a production of "The Big Top", a circus play. Those who did not have major parts became extras: acrobats, clowns, etc.
I was an acrobat and needed a pair of tights for my costume. My mom was quite the resourceful woman, asked the woman next door if her daughter had a pair I could borrow. We were both about the same size, so I wound up with a pair of Terry's black tights. The first time I put them on was like nothing any boy clothes had ever done for me! The smooth fabric on my legs was so exciting. Also the thought that Terry had worn these was going thru my head as well!
I had to give them back after the show, but I knew I had to explore other pieces of women's clothes and see if they made me feel as good. Needless to say, mom's closet became my new source for exploration.
I'm still on that trip 45 years later! All thanks to a pair of black tights!
Closeted Kat
03-14-2015, 08:24 PM
about 7 months ago or so. it felt amazing and i didn't know why, but its definitely enjoyable for me still.
-kat
CynthiaD
03-14-2015, 08:46 PM
The first pair of pantyhose I owned developed a huge run from toe to hip the instant I put them on. I instantly realized why they were on sale for 59 cents. The brand is now defunct.
Sometimes Steffi
03-14-2015, 11:59 PM
I was about 12 or 13 when I borrowed my mom's stockings (before pantyhose). I just wrote about this recently. I had been trying on her panties and girdles, but I didn't know how to put the stocking on until I saw Lauren Bacall do it in a movie.
emma-louise
03-15-2015, 04:49 AM
i was around 14 when i first tried on a pair of my mums tights i had no idea how to put them on and put a big hole in them x
Teresa
03-15-2015, 04:56 AM
Crystal,
I remember in my teens finding my sister had stuffed a patchwork cushion with old stockings, some were nearly hold ups then I found her suspender belt and the feeling was complete !
I do prefer stockings to tights, they are slightly more practical for men and they look far better than the tops of tights ! In fact one of my GFs wore two pairs of panties the outer ones to cover the look of tights which she hated !
Teddie
03-15-2015, 07:44 AM
Sure. I was maybe eleven or twelve. And, I'd put on my mom's opened bottom Platex rubber girdle, which of course had garter tabs. And, of course i then had to try some nylons. I was hooked. OBG's and nylons forever.
Diane1950
03-15-2015, 09:57 AM
I tried on my mom's stockings as a preteen (no pantyhose in those days) and they felt so nice! Of course, then I just had to put on her long leg girdle with the built in garters to hold the stockings up.
Barbara Black
03-15-2015, 11:22 AM
I just remembered, I knocked down a girl in the fifth grade, causing her to bleed. I couldn't figure out why her skin looked so ragged, until I realized that she had hose of some sort that had been torn as well as her skin. I felt sorry for her of course, but I had no way to repay her for them, or for her blood.
Jeninus
03-15-2015, 12:14 PM
At age 11 I found some pairs of stockings (that was in the days before pantyhose), adored the feeling and still do. A year or two later, I graduated to a cast-off corselet with suspenders. For the past many years I have enjoyed hold-up/thigh-high stockings. I have difficulty understanding why women -those few who do - frequently don't wear hose, as hose definitely finishes both the look and feel of the clothes. Don't many of you agree that wearing a skirt without stockings just feels wrong?
I can sympathize with the other team to the extent that putting on tights is a pain in the backside, especially as the legs seem to twist and the crotch can sag and the damn things can run during the first wearing, making them expensive for everyday wear. That's where hold-ups bolstered with "It Stays" is the answer.
Truly, as the old hosiery commercial stated authoritatively, "Gentlemen prefer Hanes!" Anyway, WE do, whether Hanes or more upscale products. By the way, I find silk stockings nice, but not a huge tactile improvement over fine nylons.
Kristy 56
03-15-2015, 12:26 PM
Sure do ! I was about 13 and I tried on my sisters girdle with garters and stockings. Soon after my sister went for pantyhose and so did I.
Samantha74
03-15-2015, 06:23 PM
I'd have to guess I was around 11, snooping for Christmas presents and tried on knee highs and a low pair of heels. That was an immediate feeling of happiness.
Dianne S
03-15-2015, 06:28 PM
I don't remember my first time, but I do remember that I loved wearing tights and pantyhose. Ironically, now that I'm much more free to wear what I want, I've come to hate pantyhose and tights. :) I find them hot and itchy... definitely a bare-leg gal now!
Leighcdmd
03-15-2015, 06:31 PM
I was probably 10 and was alone in my Aunt's house. I put on her open bottom girdle and panties. Putting on the "nylons" was a struggle at first but it was my first feeling of total arousal.
Melissa73
03-15-2015, 06:40 PM
oh i can remember like it was yesterday! I was in the 8th grade: And i saw his girl in my class, who was wearing tights and some pretty shoes. i was attracted to the look of her legs via the tights and it stirred up inside. So, later that night, i snuck into my sisters room (whom, lucky for me, was 16 months younger than Myself and similiar size). Anyways, i "borrowed" a pair of her tights and wen to the bathroom.. awwwww i was hooked! my legs looked soft and nice.
BLUE ORCHID
03-15-2015, 07:44 PM
Hi Crystal, That had to be at least 68yrs. ago and I'm sure that it was just as wonderful then as it is now.
Back then around age 4 or 5 I just didn't know why it felt so good.:daydreaming:
Simone.B
03-15-2015, 07:59 PM
I don't know exactly when, but I know when my Mom caught me with a pair of hers on. I had to be around 6 because I remember watching C.H.I.P.S. reruns Saturday after Church, and she caught me wearing a pair in the back room.
Daryl
03-15-2015, 08:35 PM
It would have been mom's girdle and stockings. But I don't remember my exact age at the time.
I would guess somewhere around 12 or 13.
Jeanettew
03-16-2015, 01:39 AM
Mine is sad, i have always loved running my hand down a womens leg who is wearing stocking and loving the feel, but i have never had the guts to trying on a pair of my wifes but i was in teh suppermarket one day a few months ago getting some stuff for work and got some courage to pick up a pair and put them on when i got back to work and then running your hand down your own leg with stockings on teh feeling is fantastic so is teh feeling of them under your trousers
LookingGlass
03-16-2015, 02:32 AM
I remember when I was 9 and we moved back to the town my grandparents had actually retired in. We stayed at their house for a short while, and one of the spare bedrooms had a dresser that was loaded with pantyhose that had just been sitting there. I know that no one else had used them. I couldn't help but try them on whenever I could sneak them. There was even a small sized strapless bra I slept in one night. I think it was actually a training bra. I was in heaven.
Foxy Lady
03-16-2015, 02:55 AM
I was nine or ten when my mom's OBG was laying on her room's floor and I was called to it. I put on panties the girdle and nylons. I have been dressing ever since.
Georgina
03-16-2015, 04:20 AM
I must have been nine or ten when I discovered my mother's seamed stockings and her hookside open bottom girdle. Fifty years later I remain faithful to my girdle and stockings.
Joanncdnj
03-16-2015, 04:59 AM
I was 11 when I first tried on my mom's nylons. I tried in a panty girdle with hose attachments at the same time. I couldn't believe how wonderful it felt walking in that outfit.
This was exactly my first experiences too. Mom would leave them hang on the bathroom door, and I'd sneak in and try them on. the feelings I remember to this day. When I want to treat myself, I wear thigh-highs with a garter belt. Not the most comfortable but wow! they are sexy.
JeanetteX
03-16-2015, 10:49 AM
Must have been 11 or 12 and the feeling was sensational and still is today. I never dress without them and that's why I hate the summer when its too warm to wear them.
Beverley Sims
03-16-2015, 12:17 PM
Tights and stockings became a necessity when dressed for an evening out.
No fond memories of that.
My memories go back to wearing a bra.
CherylFlint
03-16-2015, 12:33 PM
When I put on my stockings, even today, I get a rush.
The thrill of dressing never grows old.
annecwesley
03-17-2015, 05:05 AM
I was 11 and home from school alone in the house when I tried on one of mom's slips and a pair of her nylon stockings. It was wonderful! But Pantyhose were the thing then for younger girls, my schoolmates looked so good in them. Finally I found a pair and tried them on and that was better than the first time I wore stocking. I've been hooked ever since.
Kirsty Louise
03-17-2015, 09:25 AM
It is very difficult to remember things from a very early age but my first cross dressing experience was when I was 4 years old and one of the first thing I put on was stockings. The feeling was so nice and felt so right I remember this clearer than some things that only happened last week. “Stockings WOW”
Kirsty x
Meg East
03-17-2015, 10:11 AM
I must have been 7 or 8 when I tried on mom's castoff girdle and nylon stockings. i was hooked, today it's garter belts not the girdle. I
Ina Girdle
03-17-2015, 10:11 AM
I can not remember the first time for nylon stockings, but I do remember by 10 years old, nylons were part of my ritual when dressing up. I remember being super careful bunching up each nylon and fitting it over my foot and then ever so carefully unravelling it and pulling it tight up my legs and thigh and then fiddling with the garter tabs of the girdle and finally pulling down the girdle legs over the stocking tops. Some of my mom's girdles had rubber grippers around the leg cuff that helped hold them down.
I also had to keep my mouth shut later in life (so I did not expose myself as a cross dresser) when I would watch girlfriends and my eventual wife would almost walk into their pantyhose & stockings and just yank them up, often putting runs in them. I wanted to yell, "That's not how a lady puts her nylons on!", but thought better of it and just let it go.
Ina
Stephanie47
03-17-2015, 10:25 AM
I don't recall how old I was when I first wore stockings, but, they were my mothers. She never wore pantyhose. Of course, in order to wear the stockings I had to slip into her open bottom girdle to keep them up. Back in the day I don't even remember if thigh high stockings had been invented yet.
Dana44
03-17-2015, 10:32 AM
For as long as I can remember I used to put on stockings. Back in 94, I had an operation and woke up with stockings on. I had to wear those stockings during my recovery. I asked them how long I should wear them. They laughed and said I can wear them anytime.:devil: Well that only underscored my infatuation with them. I wear most thigh highs and garter belts. I do not know why women do not do that often. It is so sexy and feminine to have stockings and garter belts on under dress.
Jaymees22
03-17-2015, 10:35 AM
I remember I was 17 and home alone, my mom had just discovered pantyhose and so did I. I got very excited to say the least!! Jaymee
Katey888
03-17-2015, 11:58 AM
Well, this subject has generated a lot of resonance... :D (As I think we might have expected...)
Can I remember the first time? Not distinctly, and while this wasn't my first foray into clothing-not-of-my-gender, I would have only been 8 or 9 when I first tried on a pair of mum's stockings... and from that day forth I was a devoted, pre-pubescent leg-man. And this being the era for the mass-marketing of tights (as we call hose here) my mother soon purchased a pair that she didn't take to wearing immediately (guess she didn't like them) and they were left lying around, undisturbed on a pile of laundry outside my bedroom for... oooh - days before I was tempted. I think she must have bought too small a pair but guess what? :) They were right for me and fit in all the right places... :eek: The resulting excitement was unexpected and quite... unconstrained...
I do think many of us selectively forget the early days and how intense the physical sensations were... and all that associative activity and the pleasurable feelings have certainly left their mark, but it's not the same anymore... Probably just as well really... ;)
Katey x
suchacutie
03-17-2015, 09:43 PM
Yes, like it was yesterday. It was the first day I ever dressed and the stockings were a black/silver fleck and opaque to cover the leg hair, but they made enough of an impression that my wife and I gave her a name and Tina has been with us ever since!
I was 7 or 8, and going to go ice skating with my older sisters. My longjohns were in the wash, and my mom had me wear a pair of my sister's tights. I had a wee tantrum, and put them on with my sisters amused supervision. After we started skating I came to enjoy wearing them!
I love wearing stockings with a garter belt or girdle.
Patrica Gil
03-18-2015, 12:50 PM
Took a pair of nylons from my moms drawer. They felt fantastic. The rest is just history as we all know.
daphne g
03-18-2015, 01:51 PM
my sister was always very dominant and still is, not only to me but everyone
and when i was about 5 or 6 and her being 5 years older she talked me into putting a pair of her tights on
oh what thrill,she had also in the past put makeup on me and showed my mum who told us off and made me take it off
and i think she caught me wearing tights and i got a right good hiding from my dad
i was never allowed to play with my brothers so i always ended with my sister and her friends
i came out to my sister a few years back but she could not remember this with the tights
Fiona Lindum
03-18-2015, 03:27 PM
I think I was about 14 when I first tried tights.Have loved them ever since.
bimini1
03-18-2015, 04:11 PM
Interesting how these experiences are soooo similar. I first dressed at 4. It was some kind of cheerleader bloomers from down in the basement. Then did not do it again until I was 10, pantyhose. Then it was on. I recall it like yesterday. I was at school and my teacher walked by my desk. My eyes centered on her stockinged legs and I swear it was like a light switch flipped on.
I couldn't wait to get home and I knew what my mission was going to be. This is such a commonality we share.
kendra nicloe
03-18-2015, 09:17 PM
oh yes!! I to stole my moms when I was about 12.wow!! it was amazing.still love to wear them
sometimes_miss
03-19-2015, 06:48 AM
Tights, yes. In 4th grade we had to dress up in Revolutionary war era style for a play; black tights, with white sox on the outside of those, going up to our knees. The teacher had recommended black tights because well, I guess she thought of what SHE would wear for that appearance. No one said anything otherwise. So I show up the day of the play wearing black tights, knee high white socks. Every other boy just wore black pants with the socks on the outside. They had all talked amongst themselves, but of course, did not include me in the conversation (I was the class outcast). I had to put up with the sissy remarks about my choice of leg wear for a couple of years, whenever we had a class play, or whenever socks or tights came up in conversation. It's one reason I guess that I have no desire to ever be 'out'. Even at that young age, I learned what people really think and talk about behind our backs.
Vanessa_V_Ed
04-26-2015, 11:15 AM
After many posts I have read...
I am realising that many of us CDs had to overcome two fears before having that first time:
1) Stealing something from a drawer
2) Putting it on in a safe closed place
It is always memorable.
Joahnaxo
04-27-2015, 12:13 AM
Yes!!! I was 9 or 10 years old my mother had left the house and wouldn't be back for a few hours. I took a pair of nude pantyhose from a box of clothes she didn't wear anymore along with a pair of satin panties it felt so incredible. I went on to put on this beautiful black and white dress she only wore a couple of times and a pair of black pumps. The heels were only about 2 inches but I felt great walking around the house for hours.
cooljamespa
05-11-2015, 08:17 PM
I think about the first few times I dressed. I loved the way they felt when I slipped them over my legs. still do
LexiMay
05-11-2015, 08:20 PM
My first experience was with a pair of heels that belonged to my mother when I was 11ish. I also got caught with them at the end of my bed under the quilt that night but it never put me off!
flatlander_48
05-11-2015, 08:55 PM
12 years ago!
The first time I went out dressed (except for makeup) was Halloween 2003. My companion (who would eventually become my second wife) and I went to a showing of Rocky Horror on the Cornell campus. However, the deal was that you could get in free if you crossdressed. Say no more!!
My first wife and I separated a few weeks before. To my surprise, she left behind a dress, a wig, low heeled pumps and a purse. The dress was a bit frumpy, but you shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth. A couple of months earlier I had purchased a matching bra and panty set. I did a homemade set of forms. But, the outfit was only complete when my companion found a pair of thigh length woolen stockings.
DeeAnn
MysteryWoman
05-12-2015, 12:41 PM
I just belatedly ran across this thread, and I'm astounded by the similarities among the responses, which mostly are identical to mine, to wit:
When I was 4 or 5, we lived in an old house that had a single, central walk-in closet in which we all kept our clothes. My mother was in the habit of throwing her nylons on the floor with her shoes. I would sit on the closet floor and fondle the nylons, without understanding why. Then we moved, and the temptation was no longer there in our new house, which had individual closets.
But when I was about 11 I went into the bathroom one day and was compelled to try on her nylons that were hanging on the door knob. I was just entering puberty (of which I knew nothing) and discovered that upon sliding them up my legs I was instantly aroused. Needless to say I've been recreating the experience ever since. I never did adapt well to pantyhose, which are "overly constraining" and don't feel as silky. As the years went by I branched out gradually to full dressing, but nylon stockings are still my "go-to" item of choice.
cheryl reeves
05-12-2015, 01:06 PM
up til i was 2 my mom dressed me as a girl,til my dad put a stop to it.i didnt dress again til i was 17 and home alone alot,it was just my sis's bra and panties and my moms dresses did that til i was 20 and didnt dress for 5 yrs til i was unemployed and staying at home taking care of the kids,it was at that time my son kept saying not the momma in regards to me. then when i told my wife for the 3rd time about me being tg she got me into pantyhose and thigh highs,i was hooked.
Diedre
05-12-2015, 06:13 PM
I was 12-13 and my mom took in sewing and used me as the dress form on some skirts and dresses in my size range. She was all about making money and at first had no qualms with me wearing a panty girdle, bra, nylons and heels for the fittings.
Wearing the nylons was what put me over the top on helping her. I loved sliding them up my legs and then feel them tug on the garter tabs as I walked.
Unfortunately she realized I was liking the lingerie a little too much and mom got a dress form from a resale shop. I had to go stealth from then on.
AnnaMarie
05-15-2015, 05:53 PM
I know it's generally considered that the root of cross dressing is from your childhood. But I don't recall any point in my childhood when this could have happened. For me it started in my early twenties and somehow managed a long spell without the need to crossdress. Now however, the desire is bigger than ever
shelly1
05-21-2015, 11:57 AM
i was 6 or 7 when I first tried on a pair of my sisters tights. I loved the way they felt and have been wearing them ever since.
michellecd9999
05-22-2015, 08:49 AM
My first article I put on was a lovely flowing nightgown (late 1960's). The second was pantyhose (in addition to the nightgown) which was fairly new. One I had the pantyhose on (I has seen how my mother rolled them up the leg by the way) I could loved how my legs looked and could not resist trying on her heels - which fit! All that started me down the road of CDing....
brynnewilliams
05-22-2015, 03:20 PM
I was around 5 or 6. I was playing hide and seek with my sister. I hid in the laundry room and closed the door. I tried on a pair of nude pantyhose when I was in there. That's how it all began.
Alex!
05-22-2015, 03:28 PM
1978. My cousin's tights. Interestingly, her name is Alexandra. Weird, as I never made that connection before.
Jennifer in CO
05-22-2015, 09:45 PM
I was 10, very long story spent 3 weeks with my Aunt and cousins as Jennifer. Naturally had to wear tights to church under my dress. Next time was two years later as part of a school play (they weren't really necessary but I wore them - another story) then to my Grandfathers funeral the next day. The next time they weren't tights but a garterbelt and hose when I was 14. Hooked...lined and sinkered...as the saying kinda goes
NicoleScott
05-23-2015, 10:20 AM
...discovered that upon sliding them up my legs I was instantly aroused.......As the years went by I branched out gradually to full dressing, but nylon stockings are still my "go-to" item of choice.
MW, I like your use of "go-to item of choice". It could describe an item a person "likes" a lot, more than other items, or items that by themselves can excite and arouse, and everything between. For me, these items are my fetish objects, but some people don't like to admit having a fetish. I like stockings in all forms: stockings, pantyhose, thigh-highs, tights, etc. I like how they look and feel, but most of all I like how my legs and feet look in them while wearing high heels (one of my go-to items). Stockings are not a go-to item for me, but I have never transformed without them. Some things are magical for me. Stockings aren't, but they are important and essential to my crossdressing.
I, too, started with one thing and , over the years, branched out gradually to full dressing. To me, the pleasure is maximized when combining those go-to items and supporting them with all the other things that may not by themselves be go-to items.
I started by wearing tights to cover my leg hair. But after shaving my legs and wearing something sheer, WOW.
When I was 8 or 9 I tried n my older sister's girdle and stockings. Once she and my mom switched to pantyhose, so did I.
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