suzanne
04-13-2015, 01:00 AM
Lsst Friday, I booked the afternoon off from work to have a bit of girl time. I put on a flirty black chiffon skirt, plain white top, gray cardigan and 4inch heels. No wig, makeup or boobs. There was no mistaking me for trying to pass as a woman. I got into my car and set off to some of my favoerite dress stores. This season, there doesn't seem to be many items in my size, shape and style, but a girl has to try, doesn't she? The first store, I found four dresses to try on, but on my way to the fitting room, the comments started. "OMG, where did you get those shoes! I love them!" Right away, everyone in the store wss talking about them, mostly about how they just couldn't walk in them. Anyway, the dresses were a no-go, so it was off to the rest of me excursion. I admit, it was mostly social, as I just wanted to yak with my favorite SA's, who treat me more like a friend than a customer. Coming out of the last store, I paused at the curb to let a car pass before crossing to the parking lot. The car stopped, so I stepped off the curb. Suddenly, there was a honk and I looked up. The driver, who looked like an old man with his wife beside him, was giving a thumbs up signal??? There was some glare from his windshield, so it could have been something else. I didn't acknowledge it and kept proceeding toward my car. Criminy, I couldn't tell if he was being positive, negative, sarcastic or even threatening.
It reminded me of an earlier incident, where someone wolf whistled at me. I never saw who it came from, and I didn't look around. I just kept walking. I'm pretty sure I want nothing to do with someone who would do these things, as would most women who experience an unwanted advance. I felt creeped out and now I can't imagine how any woman appreciates that kind of attention. Which is a bit sad, because I sometimes see women who I would like to compliment for their outfits snf maybe ask where they bought, but don't want to be that creep
It reminded me of an earlier incident, where someone wolf whistled at me. I never saw who it came from, and I didn't look around. I just kept walking. I'm pretty sure I want nothing to do with someone who would do these things, as would most women who experience an unwanted advance. I felt creeped out and now I can't imagine how any woman appreciates that kind of attention. Which is a bit sad, because I sometimes see women who I would like to compliment for their outfits snf maybe ask where they bought, but don't want to be that creep