If They Only Knew

[Kristy 56]

Yesterday I was having lunch at work (predominantly female workplaces) when a few of the ladies at the table began discussing their recent dress purchases for an upcoming event they were going to. The discussions revolved around heels or flats,what color heels or hose,dress too short,too revealing,bought a camisole to go with it, my boobs too big to wear it etc. It was such an enjoyable moment to be in the midst of this GG discussion. I felt like one of the girls .As much as I would've loved to jump in the conversation and give my advice it wouldn't have been wise on my part. Instead I just thought to myself what dress and accessories I would've worn . If they only knew my story :)

[tifftg]

I love those moments. From time to time I have questions like how did you make that choice or weigh in with oh there are so many options to consider, etc.

[Teresa]

Kristy,
I would have dropped myself in it by saying something, I just can't help myself !

[Beverley Sims]

On a similar occasion I did jump in and gave advice on what to wear, the next week I went to a club with the rest of the girls.:)

I didn't come out or expose my desires, they thought I should give a practical demonstration of my dress sense.

Sadly I had to give all the clothes and lovely wig back to the owners. :(

[lingerieLiz]

I love to shop with women. Since I wear fem clothes including bras they know who I'm shopping for. It is a lot of fun to go for cocktails and discuss what was purchased.

[MissTee]

I had a similar experience the other day. A close female friend/colleague who knows I'm into skin care was showing me the results of her regimen -- one I had recommended and she was delighted with. Another female worker came up to see and then another and then . . . we had a small crowd. We chatted favorite products for about 15 minutes or so and then dispersed. My friend/colleague later circled back to me and said my recommendations had generated a lot of interest with the ladies. Then she gave me a quick hug and said thanks, and we went about our day. Nice.

[Elisa Lace]

I usually love those subjects. If I can chime into any girl subject, then I will do so while trying not to be completely overt about it. The other day a colleague of mine said she wanted to cut her hair so I went on and told her that "this or that" wouldn't look too good on her and that she should have it cut "this way". No eyebrows raised or anything, but I kinda let my inner female self breathe somehow.

Then again, sometimes girls DO give me the look when I chime in and I just say that I've been too much time living among women (having studied psychology and what not). It happened once a colleague was having some hard time walking on her high heels and I told her to shift her balance towards her toes lol. I think that time I told her something along the lines of "oh, it's just physics" and she just laughed.

[Kristy 56]

Thanks everybody for your responses. I think next week I'm going to ask them how those dresses worked out and take it from there. :)

[CherylFlint]

Lucky you.
It's telling that they felt comfortable enough to be discussing such things in front of you.
Good for you.