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riancd
05-22-2015, 08:48 PM
seeing everyone elses posts i knew i had to put mine up and keep the positivity ball rolling,

and like i said this is the best week of my life, only to be eclipsed by the day my son was born and the day i got married (even tho we are seperated our love is still strong)

so started off with the long weekend and a camping trip with some awesome friends and no kids so lots of drinking, and getting to be on my boat (not while drunk tho)

then tuesday was my 32nd b-day and the first one as my happy self, so happy i went and bought the cutest dress (im gonna do img links cause i want the story to reflect the pics)
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b54/carey965/IMG_20150521_082145.jpg (http://s17.photobucket.com/user/carey965/media/IMG_20150521_082145.jpg.html)

then wed was work, pretty decent day but nothing extrodinary made some money that sort of thing
but where it really starts to get good is thursday

thursday morn i get all dolled up (that was the day i took /\ /\ /\ that pic) i had to wear that dress cause it was my first time seeing my dr since going full time (i went full time about 3 weeks ago and i was there last about 8 weeks ago) but ya awesome day i took my friend jesse he is a Trans guy who is going to be seeing the same dr as me and can have some bad anxiety so it was to help him get to know them a little and see what it was all about, him and I have a really strong connection seeing is that we both are in very similar situations with spouses that love and support us but cant be in a romantic relationship with a person of the same sex, which has helped us both with moving on especially me, but anyways this DR appt was different my T levels are in the 20's which i never thought would happen so quickly so i stayed at the same level of spiro and was doubled on my E so that was pretty awesome, and the best part was letter i got from them, but there will be more on that in a sec
also me and my wife (but seperated) went out finally for my b-day present from her and got this done

http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b54/carey965/10931172_10153032592908019_8826183342395014334_n.j pg (http://s17.photobucket.com/user/carey965/media/10931172_10153032592908019_8826183342395014334_n.j pg.html)
got my ears pierced yay, so thursday was in the books ready for the best day of the week

woke up went a picked my son up and dropped him off at school, came home got ready and wrote a letter to the MTO (ontarios version of the DMV) hoped in my truck (3500 cummins to be exact i love my truck) took the letter from dr and did this
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b54/carey965/11016786_10153032213588019_2736714996413801509_n.j pg (http://s17.photobucket.com/user/carey965/media/11016786_10153032213588019_2736714996413801509_n.j pg.html)
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b54/carey965/11377154_10153032489833019_5970669831955869614_n.j pg (http://s17.photobucket.com/user/carey965/media/11377154_10153032489833019_5970669831955869614_n.j pg.html)

I HAVE ID SAYING IM FEMALE, I CANT BELIEVE THIS DAY HAS COME im and soooooooo sooooooooo soooooooo happy i havent been able to get rid of the stupid grin on my face all day i now have a drivers licence and health card with my proper sex designation and the name i want to see on my ID for the rest of my life (went from Ryan Bruce George Carey to Ryan B.G Carey) i love my name and the people i was named after so i didnt want to lose that but at the same time i did want to look as female as possible so this is what i came up with and that is all i want, so happy i went out and bought me some super sexy lingerie for when im ready to meet that new person in my life, sorry no pics of that

i cant freaking believe this day is here, and to top it off 19 kids and counting has been officially taken off the air which i have been hoping for forever (if you dont know why look it up they are terrible people)

sorry for the long post i hope you all got to read it cause its just awesome
and i will toss up my new blog entry just for fun, it is also long

https://youtu.be/t4pGff1mkrk

Jennifer-GWN
05-22-2015, 10:26 PM
Congrats Ryan. I'm sure a very happy day indeed.

I take it you're Ontario born... Dang those politicians in NS as I'll be in limbo for a while. Jealous buy extremely happy for you.

Cheers... Jennifer

Ann Louise
05-22-2015, 11:00 PM
You make me smile honey. Life is good sometimes 😊

I Am Paula
05-22-2015, 11:28 PM
Keep the feel good posts coming. Congrats honey, what a big day. Being female is one thing, having the paperwork is another.

PretzelGirl
05-22-2015, 11:30 PM
There is nothing like that first ID. This is a great day!

charlenesomeone
05-23-2015, 03:42 AM
Wonderful couple of days, very happy for you.

Rianna Humble
05-23-2015, 04:27 AM
Great series of events. Just one question, why does your licence expire in 12 weeks time?

becky77
05-23-2015, 04:56 AM
Getting the ID is a special moment.
On a UK driving licence it doesn't say female, the Gender is hidden in some numbers for the Police to read. I love those numbers lol.

riancd
05-23-2015, 05:32 AM
Great series of events. Just one question, why does your licence expire in 12 weeks time?

cause it is just a temp, i will get the new one in the mail with my picture and everything that will be good till 2018


but thanks everyone, i woke up this morn and i kinda thought it was a dream for a second but its not and that grin is back :)

im so happy that ontario has changed their laws with regards to the gender change


Congrats Ryan. I'm sure a very happy day indeed.

I take it you're Ontario born... Dang those politicians in NS as I'll be in limbo for a while. Jealous buy extremely happy for you.

Cheers... Jennifer

i still have to do a bunch more work to get my birth certificate changed, but if you have ontario ID all you need for licence and health card is a letter from your dr and a letter from you and thats it

I Am Paula
05-23-2015, 07:38 AM
Congrats Ryan. I'm sure a very happy day indeed.

I take it you're Ontario born... Dang those politicians in NS as I'll be in limbo for a while. Jealous buy extremely happy for you.

Cheers... Jennifer

I just read somewhere (I can't recall where) that N.S. had dropped the GRS stipulation.

Eringirl
05-23-2015, 08:48 AM
Yah Ryan!! Congrats. Must feel awesome. I can't wait for that day to make the same trip to MTO. Coming soon I hope. It is good that I don't have to wait for birth certificate change as mine is Quebec. Not sure if this impacts passport, as I will need/want to get that changed as I travel quite a bit for work/ pleasure.

Enjoy the new id. Whew who!!! :cheer:

riancd
05-23-2015, 01:08 PM
i think you have to do the birth cert for a passport, my passport is something i need done as well

also here is a pic of my new skirt that i got on my b-day as well

donnalee
05-24-2015, 12:10 PM
I love reading happy threads. I also think your taste in clothes is great and you coordinate extremely well.

riancd
05-25-2015, 07:48 AM
I love reading happy threads. I also think your taste in clothes is great and you coordinate extremely well.

Thank you. I feel like I'm terrible at it i always have to get my girlfriends to be the judge for me. I think it's cause of the ex if she won't wear it then she thinks it's not good or whatever. I'm very self concise about that