Coming Out in a Doorman Building

[maryellen]

Having just told my law firm colleagues that I am trans and will be going full-time, I now need to tell my high-rise condo management. There is a lot of information and resources for employer guidance (my firm is hiring a consultant). I expect building management at my condo to ask for guidance in training their staff as well. For my part, I just want them to be pleasant to me and continue to let me in. Is anyone aware of resource materials for this situation that I can bring to their attention? I am also interested in anyone's experience in similar situations.

[arbon]

Where you work I can understand but I don't think you would need to offer any guidance / training for the doormen where you live. The more you treat it as normal and not a big deal the more they will do the same.

[Jorja]

I have never lived anywhere we had a Doorman. I tend to agree with arbon, as long as you don't make a big deal about it, they won't. Make sure you have your ID with you so you can prove you are who you say you are if needed.

[Persephone]

Congratulatios, Mary Ellen! You have taken a wonderful (and scary) big step!

Like the others, I don't think you need to worry about the apartment building staff. Just let 'em know.

Hugs,
Persephone.