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Lena
05-27-2015, 09:06 PM
Out of curiosity, what do you wear to bed nightly? Who sees it? Do they approve or disapprove? if sharing your bed, what do they wear?

My wife is somewhat accepting and will allow moderate undies and maybe a cami. she won't tolerate a nighty and she only wears t-shirt night shirts.

Kate Simmons
05-27-2015, 09:08 PM
Night shirts and nighties. I sleep alone. :)

Rachel Morley
05-27-2015, 09:39 PM
We both tend to wear our "birthday suits" for most of the year but in the winter we both wear girly PJs or she wears girly PJs and I wear a nighty.

Dianne S
05-27-2015, 09:42 PM
Usually a T-shirt in summer and flannel nighty in winter. Yeah, I'm boring. And I sleep alone so don't require approval.

Isabella Ross
05-27-2015, 09:45 PM
Lacy nightgowns with panties every night. Sometimes more feminine than my wife, who has heat issues! Makes me sleep so well...

Laura28
05-27-2015, 09:49 PM
Birthday suit for and sometimes a bra with forms

DonnaT
05-27-2015, 10:24 PM
Nightgown, seen by my wife and son. Maybe a neighbor or two, when I've stepped out on the deck.

My wife wears PJs.

cheryl reeves
05-27-2015, 10:25 PM
a nighty,or t shirt and bedpants/bed shorts

Michelle (Oz)
05-27-2015, 10:28 PM
Male t-shirt and boxers - de rigueur for DADT but I have my femme time during the day :)

Rachelakld
05-27-2015, 10:33 PM
nude, better for cuddles :)

SharonDenise
05-27-2015, 10:57 PM
Once the girls left the nest, I starting wearing nightgowns to bed nightly. At first mainly nylon because I love how it feels. I have felt the advantage of cotton in warm weather and now have a lot of each. My wife fully accepted what I wore to bed.

Donnagirl
05-27-2015, 11:01 PM
Nightie and panties, bought by the wife for me...

PaulaQ
05-27-2015, 11:14 PM
Nekkid.

I try to wear lingerie or at least a nightie, but if my BF is over, it just ends up on the floor...

I think I need to up my game a bit.

Nadya
05-27-2015, 11:23 PM
I almost always wear some sort of yoga pants and panties. It's really a nonissue but I've never really thought about wearing anything more than that. I might have to ease my fiancé into that thought.

AmyVanessa
05-27-2015, 11:29 PM
A cute cotton stretch cami and panties. Sweats during the real cold winter nights, nothing on really hot summer nights

Gretchen_To_Be
05-27-2015, 11:43 PM
Thigh highs under Victoria's Secret satin PJs. My wife bought the PJs for me so she's OK with it.

Barbara Jo
05-28-2015, 12:05 AM
Panties and a nightgown. :)

i live alone.

Kiwi Primrose
05-28-2015, 12:16 AM
Knit sleeveless nightie most nights, I have a selection of lengths but really prefer long.
Special occasions - satin embroidered nightie, also sleeveless.
My wife sees and approves. We have been sleeping together for over 50 years and never tire of each other.

Eryn
05-28-2015, 12:24 AM
I try to wear lingerie or at least a nightie, but if my BF is over, it just ends up on the floor...

The sexiest lingerie is only made to be worn for 15 minutes, tops! :)

Me, a nice soft, comfy nightie. Mimi and I buy ours together and have similar tastes.

Amanda77
05-28-2015, 12:37 AM
Nightys. Long with sleeves in winter and short sleeveless in summer, all satin. I too sleep alone so no problems at all.

Mistyjo
05-28-2015, 12:42 AM
I wear a silky nighty all the time
My wife , kids and anyone else that's around
My wife and kids do i can not speak for everyone else
My wife t shirts and PJ pants and silky nighty

Teresa
05-28-2015, 12:58 AM
Lena,
I wear a satin nightie every night , my wife knows because I asked her but she avoids trying to see me, she gives me ten minutes or so to get settled in bed, she she wears short sleeved PJs.
I have a feeling of the two she would prefer me to wear a nightie rather than underwear, obviously no forms !!

njcddresser
05-28-2015, 01:33 AM
Usually cotton camisole. Sometimes panties sometimes not

RachelB.
05-28-2015, 01:50 AM
I usually wear a nightgown and my wife wears ether a gown or pj's depeding on the time of the year.

bridget thronton
05-28-2015, 02:06 AM
Night gown sometimes matching wife's

Marcelle
05-28-2015, 03:29 AM
Hi Lena,

Guy only in bed so shorts and t-shirt. It is the one hard and fast boundary we both agreed upon early . . . only one lady in the bedroom and it not me :)

Hugs

Isha

Foxy Lady
05-28-2015, 03:30 AM
Bra and panties and panties for my wife.

pinklilly211
05-28-2015, 06:46 AM
My wife buys my nities, So that's what I wear!!

icantwait24
05-28-2015, 07:09 AM
T-shirt and panties for me!

CarlaWestin
05-28-2015, 07:14 AM
Bra, forms, panties and nightie. And sometimes, more!

Katey888
05-28-2015, 07:23 AM
Just my wedding band and a wicked grin... :D

Katey x

Amy Lynn3
05-28-2015, 07:51 AM
I'm divorced, so no problem wearing what I want. My female sleeping attire consist of several colors of Shadowline nightgowns and panties.:daydreaming:

Meg East
05-28-2015, 08:03 AM
For both of us usually panties and a nightie. A couple of nights ago I slept in my shorts and wifey asked if anything was wrong.

LucyNewport
05-28-2015, 08:36 AM
Sweat pants and a t shirt. Sometimes more layers, sometimes fewer. Our apartment (3rd floor of a rowhouse) hits some real temperature extremes.

ErikaS
05-28-2015, 08:37 AM
Panties and a sleep shirt vs.

Sissy_Michelle
05-28-2015, 08:44 AM
Lena,

Mostly wear my panties and an XXL t-shirt. My wife doesn't want me to wear a night gown because she gets too hot. She wears panties and a nightgown for the most part or flannel pajamas during the winter months. We haven't tried a cami or a short nighty. I am happy with the t-shirt and panties and so is she.

@--}----
Michelle

Stephanie47
05-28-2015, 09:05 AM
I wear a ratty old tee shirt that has been through the washer/dryer too many times. It is really comfortable. On the bottom I usually wear a white Vanity Fair nylon brief.

Bobbi-cdnm
05-28-2015, 09:15 AM
I wear nighties, usually cotton but sometimes nylon with tiny straps. My wife bought many of them for me and continues to be a supportive partner.

Barbara Black
05-28-2015, 09:23 AM
I'm fully underdressed now, day and night, including forms. I wear a nylon nightie since I started dressing in front of the wife again. Her only comment on my new nightie was that it looked small on me. I opened the button in front and it looks much better, but still too narrow at the shoulders. But this one (purple), is silkier than the pink one. I hope to find a silk one some day!! ooooohhhh. ha ha

CONSUELO
05-28-2015, 09:52 AM
For me the only acceptable night attire is a long nightgown. I prefer the classic gowns by Olga and Shadowline but these are hard to find these days. Thankfully there are many other brands that make long, feminine gowns with lots of lacey decoration. I don't like to wear knickers in bed as that just feels like too much clothing for me and I like to stay cool at night. Parter favours shorter night gowns but also very feminine style.

Dena
05-28-2015, 10:56 AM
nightgown and panties, wife in her birthday suit.

Lacy PJs
05-28-2015, 12:12 PM
...classic gowns by Olga and Shadowline but these are hard to find these days...

Shadowline has their own web site and those gowns are available there.

Lacy PJs

DonnaT
05-28-2015, 12:33 PM
Amazon.com has the Shadowline gowns/peignoirs as well.

alwayshave
05-28-2015, 01:00 PM
Most nights I sleep in the buff and my fiancee always wears very feminine night gowns, on occasion I will wear a nightgown or slip.

Dana44
05-28-2015, 01:33 PM
In the hot summer, only in the buff. yet in the cold winter, nighties. indeed. No panties though. Nice to give the lower part of your body a rest.

pamela7
05-28-2015, 01:53 PM
all year round both with nothing on - birthday suit / in the buff. On occasion we go to bed dressed, but that for fun, not to sleep. ;-))

Linda Leigh
05-28-2015, 03:06 PM
Night Gown and Panties bought by my wife with me.

Athena_
05-28-2015, 03:14 PM
DADT marriage, so big t-shirts and boxer briefs for me. When my wife was away on a business trip, panties instead of boxer briefs. When I am away on a business trip, nightgown and panties for me!

Confucius
05-28-2015, 03:28 PM
My wife and I wear matching long gowns, always satin or nylon. In cold weather we just add a cotton t-shirt.

jasminetv2
05-28-2015, 03:32 PM
Matching black bra with forms; thong panties; and slip.

OCCarly
05-28-2015, 03:55 PM
Cotton camisole or tank top and yoga shorts or boyshorts panties. In the old days before I was out to my wife I typically wore a tank top or muscle t-short over briefs, and skipped the top in the summers, so this is just a feminine adjustment to an existing routine.

Cheryl T
05-28-2015, 04:14 PM
Depending on the weather either a nightgown, chemise, baby doll or pj's along with panties and bra with my forms.
As for company, yes, my wife and she doesn't mind. In fact she has bought me at least a few of my nightgowns.

She generally wears something similar though we never do the "matchy matchy" thing.

Tracii G
05-28-2015, 04:15 PM
Panties or guy underwear that look like panties anyway.
A shirt or pj's drive me nuts in bed way too much fabric to deal with.

Alex!
05-28-2015, 04:30 PM
I wear boxers.

Diedre
05-28-2015, 05:00 PM
I wear Sheer Energy STW pantyhose and either a silk or nylon gown. My wife has satin or silk PJs. We usually change early and have a cocktail to unwind. She is fine with my attire.

susan jackson
05-28-2015, 05:08 PM
Chanel #5

Hey - didn't another girl once say that?

Andrea_cd
05-28-2015, 05:29 PM
Nitey bra forms and panties my wife is fine with me sleeping en femme

Steph_CD_62
05-28-2015, 05:34 PM
Depends on the night.
About 1/2 the time I am wearing a t-shirt and sleep pants
The other 1/2 I am wearing a long nylon nightgown, sometimes with bra.
Wife knows, not thrilled with it but accepts me for who I am and what I wear.

Melissa73
05-28-2015, 06:51 PM
panties, bra--- and a nightgown... :) and sleeps alone

Amari
05-28-2015, 07:02 PM
Wife and I both wear panties only. I add a long sleeve camisole in winter, she adds a a long sleeve polo shirt. I would prefer to wear a nighty but that's too much for her.

Lauri K
05-28-2015, 07:11 PM
I am in the buff year round, wife too........best way to sleep / rest....:heehee:

Robin777
05-28-2015, 08:57 PM
I usually wear a night shirt or a nightgown and panties. Lately I have been wearing a nightgown. The wife wears a night shirt.

NicoleScott
05-28-2015, 09:24 PM
T-shirt and boxers.

Ellie52
05-28-2015, 09:36 PM
Ladies satin PJ's for me. My wife wears a cotton nightie.
We also have satin sheets, but that wasnt part of the poll.

Ellie

Adelaide
05-28-2015, 09:46 PM
I sleep naked and love the feeling of my long hair on my skin....

Sandie70
05-28-2015, 09:46 PM
Nothing except 8 oversized pillows and Egyptian cotton sheets. Although, I do have my eye on a beautiful, silken baby doll online.

terrianncd
05-28-2015, 10:38 PM
Nylon or flannel nighties. I know you're thinking...flannel really...yep it's cold at night at 7800'. It was 25f last night.

PaulaQ
05-28-2015, 10:57 PM
T-shirt and boxers.

That's lesbian lingerie, FYI! ;)

StacyCD
05-29-2015, 12:21 AM
Bra and forms. Nylon panties and satin nightgown. SO in pjs.

kaylyn
05-29-2015, 12:50 AM
Panties and a shirt nightly unless it's super hot then no shirt, winter time either silk lacy nightgown and panties or vs pink pajamas and panties, my fiancé and she doesn't care at all. Most of the time I wear sexier bra and panties than she does lol

Tracii G
05-29-2015, 02:08 AM
I wear Sheer Energy STW pantyhose and either a silk or nylon gown. My wife has satin or silk PJs. We usually change early and have a cocktail to unwind. She is fine with my attire.

Really? You wear pantyhose to bed?
That is hard core

Diedre
05-29-2015, 05:19 AM
Why is wearing pantyhose anymore hardcore than those who state they wear thigh highs, yoga pants or bra with forms? This is a poll, not a judging exercise.

Claire Cook
05-29-2015, 05:28 AM
Always panties (sometimes they come off!). Sometimes my guy top if I'm too tired to change. My faves -- and my wife's -- are Soma sleep T's -- we bought ours together and both wear them. Sometimes my nightie. Yes, she likes the soft stuff....

Georgina
05-29-2015, 05:36 AM
I live alone and I always wear a nightgown which, depending on the seasons, is either sleeved or sleeveless.

Bobbi46
05-29-2015, 07:41 AM
usually nothing at all year long except for satin panties.

Ceera
05-29-2015, 07:51 AM
I virtually always sleep in the buff. I don't generally like having any sort of clothing on when in bed. I do occasionally dress up in my forms, bra and a nightie, just for an hour or two as I relax, but then I change because I don't want to risk damaging my forms. Seriously considering getting a set of forms that advertise they are safe for sleeping in - then I might wear them, glued on, and maybe a very skimpy nightie, on occasion.

sometimes_miss
05-29-2015, 07:57 AM
I managed to find this style a few years ago, and bought it in every color they had. They're my nightly pj's.

246143

Maxie
05-30-2015, 12:44 AM
Tea tree hydration cream all over.

DanaR
05-30-2015, 12:51 AM
Nightie and panties, my wife has bought of them for me...

Leah R.
05-30-2015, 12:55 AM
Usually boxer briefs and a tshirt, but lately I've been wearing pantyhose and a tshirt... And very soon it will be a nightie and panties, I'm building my wardrobe

Natalie cupcake
05-30-2015, 06:48 AM
Satin nighty, panties and silk sheets. :daydreaming:

stacycoral
05-30-2015, 06:51 AM
Most night i wear a silky mini gown, and yes my wife know i am wearing it, and doesn't care hugs.

Jenniferpl
05-30-2015, 06:56 AM
Winter time cotton print sleep shirts. Sometimes satin. In the warmer months cotton cami's. Always wear panties.

Wife knows and seems to have no issues in what I wear to bed.

Robyn2006
05-30-2015, 07:30 AM
Usually my little white, lace nightgown, aphrodite breast forms, and a little lipstick.

Billie_M
05-30-2015, 07:39 AM
A nice comfy nightie. Wife and I buy ours together and have similar tastes. Sometime we even match.

Kandi Robbins
05-30-2015, 09:44 AM
T-shirt (male) and panties. The wife is Ok with it.

I haven't tried to push the boundaries, simply because I am quite content with what I have.

Lacy PJs
05-30-2015, 11:27 AM
246143

Now THAT'S my style! If only they would fit this "wide body!" Envious for sure.

Lacy PJs

lostinmyworldcd
05-30-2015, 01:01 PM
When I could , i wore lacey panties and a Camisole Built in Shelf BRA ...... I have sleep in sheer elegance pantyhose before too .......

Jeri Ann
05-30-2015, 03:16 PM
Only panties.

TrishaLake
05-30-2015, 05:20 PM
The same for me

Angie G
05-30-2015, 08:31 PM
I wear pj's, teddys, shorts & top sleep wear, hight gowns. Simetimes just a bra&panties.With my night forms. My wife right next to me in her pj's:hugs:
Angie

mechamoose
05-30-2015, 08:41 PM
If I'm not naked, I'm doing a cami/top slip and panties.

That is 99% of nights. That other 1%? I'm doing "boyshorts".

I own one set of 'boyshorts', and they are black and pink.

}:>

- MM

Heather_Shirly
05-30-2015, 09:47 PM
I wear all sorts of things to bed.

I have a favorite long black satin halter top gown I wear to bed often. Sometimes I wear my satin PJs other times I sleep in silk or satin chemises or slips.

Rarely to I wear Cotten and I ALWAYS wear silk tap shorts.

My wife is somewhat accepting and doesn't care what I wear to bed anymore but I don't push it hence the satin PJs as those are a guy mode type of PJs.

I am actually very greatful for my wife and her acceptance of me and what I want to sleep in.

Leighcdmd
05-30-2015, 11:31 PM
Vanity Fair or Shadowline nylon tricot nightgown and full cut nylon briefs.

Tracy Hazel Lee
05-31-2015, 12:25 AM
During the winter months, my regular underwear briefs under black satin La Senza PJs... Warm nights, just the briefs.

Unless I missed any others, I am amazed that only one other person mentioned satin PJs!

charlenesomeone
05-31-2015, 03:12 AM
T shirt, genie bra, pals forms, panties.
Sometimes a nightie.

Julie cd uk
05-31-2015, 05:30 AM
also a wife that accepts but does not encourage, although she has bought for me, usual odd acceptance. so every night im in satin camisoles or longer nighties and of course it feels so lovely.:)

Trish
05-31-2015, 06:18 AM
I have been wearing nightgowns to sleep in, for more years than I can remember.

Michelle123
05-31-2015, 09:21 AM
I have been following this thread for some time, to see if anyone would post something similar to what I enjoy wearing when I do sleep en fem. And I have come to the conclusion that I must be the "weird one out" here.
It may seem extreme, but when I do sleep in feminine attire for bed, I love wearing my open bottom corselette, all nylon full cut panties, and sheer rht, or ff seamed stockings. Sounds rather restricting and uncomfortable right? And I guess it is, or was the first few times I did it, long ago. Now however, I am used to it, (although I don't sleep enfem very often). And as uncomfortable as it sounds, I just love feeling that tight "hug" of my corselette all night. And the wonderful feeling of my sheer nylons on my legs too.
But I must admit, when I do wear my things to bed, I rarely get a full nights sleep. I usually wake at some point during the night, excited at the look and feeling of what I am wearing, and I must "get relief". I am curious if there is anyone else here that dresses for bed in a similar manner. Or am I really that unique?

sometimes_miss
05-31-2015, 10:28 AM
It may seem extreme, but when I do sleep in feminine attire for bed, I love wearing my open bottom corselette, all nylon full cut panties, and sheer rht, or ff seamed stockings. Sounds rather restricting and uncomfortable right?
Nope. You're quite comfortable wearing them, in fact it probably makes you happy to wear them. That means psychologically comfortable, which is just as, if not more than important than physical comfort. For many years, I would stay crossdressed all day, and wind up falling asleep wearing day wear. Only in the last 10 years have I been able to change into girl pajamas to sleep. And I fall asleep when my head hits the pillow, so when I need to set the alarm, I have to make sure I set it before I lie down.

jazmine
05-31-2015, 12:22 PM
I usually wear panties, pantyhose and a nightie.
Lately I've been putting my hair in pigtails, since it's reached that point in length to be able to do so.

Beverley Sims
05-31-2015, 11:47 PM
Satin PJ's for me, cotton and flanellette tend to grip and strangle me.

Some might think that's a good thing. :)

Pink Susan
06-01-2015, 04:18 AM
Cotton panties and another pair more lacy and silky over them , sheer tan pantyhose , full slip , and a nightie over that depending upon the season .
I love Winter best , snuggling under the covers and feeling my nylon covered thighs is just pleasure and emotional comfort