Crossdressing Mistakes How Many Have YOU Made ??

[Adriana Moretti]

In YOUR crossdressing journey & experience how many mistakes have you made ? What lessons did you learn along the way? Sometimes you can waste your money, I try to chalk that up to a lesson learned. We all learn from our mistakes, what did YOU learn? What mistakes have YOU made? Your answer does not have to be tied into money sank into crossdressing, it could be something you learned in public, something you learned later in life you wish you knew or did earlier...What did you learn? What mistakes did you make?

Here is what I learned...or some of my mistakes..I'm sure I will think of more, what are YOURS ?
. Pink lipstick is not for me, neither is blonde wigs
. Covering your brows and drawing them is not my specialty nor do i need to
.3 to 4 1/2 inch heels are perfect for the real world more like 3 ish ..no need for anything over 5
. Long acrylic nails can make it difficult to apply your makeup with your fingers especially in the under eye area or TEXT for that matter.
. Wig swatches may look different in person that goes for size charts too
. Makeup products do not work the same for everyone . What works for one girl may not work for me
. When walking in heels watch out for potholes


I'm sure I will think of more...how bout you? What mistakes have you made? What have you learned from them?

[JayeLefaye]

My only mistake was buying too many pink dresses in thrift stores at the age of 50 and thinking that they would blend when I was out in public:-)

Jaye

[RADER]

Well the dress I recently bought on line from Romans, looked great in the catalog.
I got it, put it on, and did not think to well of it.
Now that I have worn it around the house a few times, I think it will
go into the goodwill bag. I just do not like the way it sits on me.
It did not cost that much since I had a coupon that gave me free shipping
and 30% off the price. I think it was about $ 20.00 for it.
That is the only one I can think of for now.
Rader

[Ceera]

A 'cleavage creator' is fine for a short term use, like a photo shoot, but very uncomfortable after a few hours. I get better value from a push up bra and some silicone 'chicken cutlet' pads, and the latter is a LOT more comfortable!

Never use a cotton ball or cotton pad for applying foundation - the cotton fibers inevitably come off and spoil the makeup.

No matter how cute the wig is, if it's too tight, don't buy it! A standard size cap will never be comfortable on a large sized head. Keep shopping, and don't 'try to make it fit'.

[Eryn]

Don't get 15 miles down the road and realize that your bra and forms are still sitting on the bed at home. :doh:

Mimi said "Let's go for it!" and we had a great day shopping and dining out even being somewhat flat-chested.

[Michaelasfun]

Then there's the old "buying breast forms that are way the heck too big" problem...modeled 'em, saw how outlandish I looked, and returned 'em for about half that size and things looked more sensible..

[Mistyjo]

I have made a lot of mistakes but my wife has helped me learn from most of them like how to apply makeup and which colors work best for me
Some that I learned on my own are. Not all shoes fit the same and moisturizer is a must for shaved legs

[lingerieLiz]

Oh lord we don't have enough room to iterate all of them and I was lucky enough to have sisters that taught me a lot of things.

Don't force yourself into clothes that are just not going to fit. If you are a 16 that size 12 is not going to fit.
Shoes and bras are the same in that if it is uncomfortable when you put it on it will hurt terribly 3 hours latter.
Natural looking wigs that match your real hair may not be your best fem look. Some of us look better in other colors.
Speaking of colors learn what colors look good on you. The seasons of color works.

[Beverley Sims]

Do you mean yesterday or in the last week? :)

One thing I do know is, dark wigs are not suitable for me as I am of fair complexion.

I was naturally honey blonde and a slim build when I was eighteen.

[MonctonGirl]

Gosh. my mistakes, too many to mention - most I have forgotten. But here's a few:

- put makeup on without enough light - so when other people see that bronzer it looks pretty obvious I'm a dude. Got made pretty quick by two people.
- Buying clothing "too young" for me.
- Putting on fake nails before doing makeup or getting dressed - big mistake.
- Putting too much glue on nails - took an hour to pry them off - glad I was not in a hurry - one dot is enough!
- Not carrying some extra fingernail glue in my purse.

- Parking in a controlled lot that was not well marked. Had a boot put on my car and en-femme had to get back
to my hotel room to get a credit card to pay the $300 to get the boot taken off.
Thankfully it was on Halloween and they didn't think too much of it.
But had I not been wearing makeup and women's clothing I would have protested a bit more.

[Kate Simmons]

I tend to even make "mistakes" work for me and use them as learning experiences. :battingeyelashes::)

[GretchenJ]

Just some that popped into my head.

1. Like Eryn, don't find out until you are almost at your destination, that you forgot to bring your purse, since you are not used to carrying one.

2. Remember to transfer your wallet to your purse, since that will contain your drivers license in case you get pulled over.

3. Remember that your bug out bag should contain sneakers.

4. When filling in my eyebrows, less is more.

5. Matching tops to bottoms is still a major challenge - being somewhat colorblind does not help either.

6. Getting the wig just right is a major pain.

7. Cobblestones are the enemy.

[Karen RHT]

I've made lots of mistakes, and learned several things from my crossdressing experiences. Perhaps the best lesson I learned was to take it as it comes, not let it consume you, and enjoy.


Karen

[Pat]

I don't make mistakes, I just gain experience. ;)

People have mentioned cobblestones and potholes, but it's also important to be aware of manhole covers -- two things about them: (1) they have holes in them that are larger than the typical high heel is wide, (2) wet steel is slippery.

My other bit of experience is rather hard to put delicately but a potentially important safety tip -- if you wear a corset laced tight your insides are compressed. And things inside your insides are also compressed. Or perhaps "pressurized" is the more correct word. To steal the punchline of an old joke, the corset might not make you feel any younger, but you may do a childish thing... (Not a blue joke - more of a brown one, if you follow. Eeew)

[LucyNewport]

OMG - I have made so many mistakes over the years! They usually come in a few categories: bad makeup, faulty tuck job or wardrobe malfunction.

Most recently I wore a generally comfortable pair of flats out only to realize that the left one chaffed my ankle until it bled. That's the difference between wearing them around the house and trying to walk 2-3 fast miles in them!

[debbeelee1]

I thought I made a crossdressing mistake once, but I was mistaken!

Seriously, mistakes are learning experiences. Last winter, I learned the hard way not to go out in open toed shoes when there's a snowstorm coming!

[Claire Cook]

I tend to even make "mistakes" work for me and use them as learning experiences. :battingeyelashes::)

Oh, Kate, don't we all! Hmmm, where do I start ...

1. Always check that your boobs are in the right place (I've had one drop on several occasions)

2. Keep your keys in your purse (I didn't and drove off without my purse ...)

3. Make sure your pants are zipped up when coming our of the dressing room ("Ma'am, you might want to close your zipper...")

I'm sure there are others ... things my mother never taught me ....

[Dianne S]

1. Like Eryn, don't find out until you are almost at your destination, that you forgot to bring your purse, since you are not used to carrying one.

This! And especially don't realize you've forgotten your purse after you've entered a parking garage and realize you have absolutely no money to pay for the exit ticket. Luckily, my kids scraped up $1.25 in coins from the car which was enough to ransom the vehicle and let us leave! :)

This was in my early days before 24x7 living and I wasn't used to grabbing my purse on the way out.

[Stephanie47]

One thing I've learned from experience or the experience of my daughter is to carry two sets of car keys. When my daughter was a new driver she locked her car keys in the car twice. I had to get someone to take me to her with a second set of keys. Whenever I am out en femme I make sure I have a second key on a chain around my neck. The last thing I would ever want to happen is to call home for a another key to be driven to me. I'd probably walk home before that, but, to walk home ten to fifteen miles? In heels? That goes along with having a change of male clothing in the truck.

I've bagged the idea of wearing fake nails. First, I can never find nails for my thumbs. I've noticed women generally do not have super long nails. Most of the women I observe have nails that come to just the end of their finger tips. Functionality. They're a pain to put on and take off. Just wear attractive clothes, look stylish and attention will be drawn away from your hands.

[Jazzy Jaz]

I'm currently with a group in Tibet and the other day a few towns back I was shopping with one of the guys and I spotted a very nice patent fucshia purse, it was absolutely priceless in my books. I didn't have a way to ditch him so I decided to come back for it later. Our group had dinner and when I returned the shop was closed. I decided to wake up early and go to the shop in the morning before we moved on to our next town. I waited for an hour and a half and although most of the other shops opened this one remained closed. Now I cant stop thinking about that purse and wish I would have bought it when I saw it and said it was for my gf or whatever would have worked. Theres many other times I've seen things in stores and decided to come back for them only to find that they're gone when I return.

[cheryl reeves]

my biggest mistake was not fully opening up to my wife and wasted a lot of yrs that i could be cheryl

[Kate Simmons]

Actually, I avoided a lot of potential mistakes by observing my now ex wife for several years while we were married.:)

[Ceera]

Another mistake I learned from. Never assume you'll always be able to keep your purse with you.

I went to a dance at an Anime convention as Ceera - the very first time I had ever been fully en-femme in downtown. I was day-tripping the convention, because it was in my home town. So that evening I drove to the convention hotel, parked in a parking garage two blocks away and went in, with my ID, money and car keys in a small purse, along with some stuff for repairing my makeup or nails if I needed it. I was wearing a nice blouse and skirt which of course had no pockets. When I got to the dance, they were announcing a strict 'no purses or bags in the dance ballroom' policy. They expected everyone to leave their stuff in their hotel room, and only need to carry their hotel keycard. The line to get in was half a block long, literally, so there was no way I was going back to my car to leave my purse there! Even if I did, what was I to do with my car key? I had to tuck my driver's license, credit cards and keyring down the front of my waist cincher, and leave the rest unattended in my purse, wrapping the purse in my sweater and leaving it under a table near the door! Fortunately, no one messed with it.

So, lesson learned. When I am out and about, the most essential things I need - my ID, money, one credit card, and a spare key for my car - go onto a tiny pass case that at worst I can tuck into my bra between my boobs! And I often just leave the purse and my house keys locked in the car and in an old shopping bag in the pile of re-usable bags behind my seat. I also got a 'hidden pocket' that I can wear around my waist under my skirt, or on its lanyard around my neck and shoulder but under my blouse, if I want to keep my cell phone with me, or don't want to reach into my cleavage to pay for my drinks.

[Cheryl T]

Mmm made a lot of mistakes over the years...

1. Valves need to be purged. Closets should be left alone.
2. Try on things before I buy. What looks good on that size 0 model doesn't always translate to women my size.
3. Steps, 4" heels and a floor length gown = a potential problem and trip to the E.R. unless there's lots of practice before a public appearance.
4. Check your form's adhesive before going in a pool or hot tub. Didn't realize the actually FLOAT !
5. Hot tubs and makeup make for a messy face....

[sometimes_miss]

Mistakes, wow, too many to count. Sizes; women's clothing doesn't follow any set of numbers. And don't even get me started on half sizes. It's a crap shoot every time I order a new item whether it will fit, be too small, or too big, or made like garbage, and that seems to apply to all merchants. Shoes are a particular problem. Some large sizes, say, 14-17 are actually made to men's size feet. Pleaser has some of those. But Pleaser also has the 'Funtasma' line which is strict woman size, and runs small at that. So you can't even rely on one brand to remain constant.

Throwing away something, thinking I could replace it. Nope. Woman's clothes are style/year specific. What you buy this year may not be made again for 20 years. See it, buy it, get extras because you probably won't see it again, ever.

Wash new items ALONE with a color catcher sheet. I've never had a men's garment where the colors ran. But I recently ruined a couple of pairs of panties because of a new red pair that ran, leaving ugly large spots on the light blue ones. Won't make that mistake again.

Wishful thinking won't make that one size too small cute dress expand to fit a bigger body, and I'm not going to magically lose weight. Buy the right size or don't buy it in the hopes of 'someday it will fit'.

Put bras, stockings, panties all in their separate lingerie bags. They make special bra holders, one for each bra. Otherwise you'll wind up stretching your bra straps out prematurely. Oh, and hang bras to dry by the band over a towel over the shower rod. also you don't have to wash your bras after each wearing. Lots of girls don't. They last much longer that way. Oh and bras? Find one that fits perfect and get a bunch of them. For anyone else who's barrel chested, this one fits me perfectly: http://www.shopnational.com/p/2-Pack-Lace-Keyhole-Bras?trk=
That's all I can think of off the top of my head.
Of course, never, ever purge.

[Mink]

just one:

becoming a crossdresser in the first place!

zing!

[CynthiaD]

There are no mistakes, only learning experiences! I sometimes regret not going full-time 24/7 in my teens. But when I think about the reasons I didn't, I'm sure they were good ones. (Actually, crossdressing was illegal most places when I was a teenager.)

[flatlander_48]

I've been fortunate not to have hit any of the above (yet). However, one that wasn't mentioned...

I now have a couple of shoulder bags and a couple of hand bags to choose from when I go out. However, I really have to work at remembering to take the bag with me when going to the restroom. You have to get a key to use the women's at the joint where the Rochester Grrlz hang out. A couple of times I've gone to get the key, entered the restroom, sat down and THEN remembered that my purse with car keys, house keys, credit cards, money, etc. was still sitting out where I left it. It's almost a Rosanne "Staple it to your butt..." moment...

DeeAnn

[irene9999]

There's been lots, cheap wig that doesn't blend with my face, poor makeup application,etc. I'm getting better though!

[kimdl93]

Your comment about heels and potholes reminds me of the longest 15-20 yards of my life, attempting to maintain my balance, composure and ankles as I crossed a cobblestone street.

Most of my mistakes have been wardrobe related....and have long since made it to Goodwill. Other than that, I've tried any number of eye shadows, but being blonde and blue eyed, the pallet that works seems to be fairly narrow...Browns, beige and rose. So much for the green, blue and metallics!

[TrishaTX]

Starting out a did a few professional makeup sessions, but I did not listen enough. I am still not great at makeup. Now I belly wear any because my wife does not seem interested. The hardest moment for me, was quite awhile back when I dressed to do to my first bar party in Manhattan on 14th street. I had a professional make up etc but i street parked a block or so away and had to walk. That was my first time doing that...those 1000 feet too two hours in my head, once in the near, I ordered vodka( i don't usually drink hard liqueer just to calm down). The night went well and I enjoyed the party but that walk was hard, and who knows how I looked walking:) lol

[Elisa Lace]

Insisting on zipping up dresses that used to fit perfectly 10 years ago and: 1) having the worst time of my life trying to unzip it and 2) actually breaking the zipper... Oh, the dress was my mom's. Now that happened 5 years ago... but I'll never force myself into someone else's clothing again...

[Diane Smith]

1) Long, skin-tight, sequined gowns are for prom and Vegas showgirls. You don't need 25 of them in your wardrobe.

2) No matter how many hours you have practiced around the house, going outside and walking real distances on city streets in heels will be much harder and more painful than you expect.

3) Buying clothes, shoes, wigs and makeup in real stores and trying them on is about five times more likely to get you something that actually fits and looks good on you, compared to online shopping.

- Diane

[MonicaMarie]

All of them! Well, except for white shoes with black stockings... At least I've always known about that! It's still a work in progress and I have many more mistakes to make, but hopefully they're getting less frequent!

[CutieJulie]

Agreed dont buy clothes that are smaller then your size Or you could get stuck in them lol

[Michelle789]

I'm TS, but I much of this applies to someone who is transitioning to live full-time as a woman. We make the same mistakes too.

Mistake Numero Uno. Buying a wig online without ever trying it on. This is the worst mistake I have ever made. The wig might look nice on the model who tries it on and in the photo, which was probably engineered to look really nice, but when I got the wig it looked absolutely horrific on me. I will never, ever, ever repeat that mistake again. I always try on a wig before I buy it, and see how good it looks on me. Preferably all made up so I don't see 5:00 shadow interfering with the look.


Buying clothes and shoes that don't fit, because I bought them online. Although I would always say to buy your wig in person and try it on, under some circumstances buying clothes or shoes online may be necessary. Maybe you live in a really secluded area and the nearest clothing stores are 100 miles away, or maybe you need an extra large size that you can buy only online. Maybe you want a specific shoe that is only available online. However, I have made mistakes buying clothes and shoes online. I now only buy clothes, shoes, makeup, and anything else I need, in person while trying everything on. I am lucky that my clothes and shoe size is available in most regular stores like Target, Sears, Nordstrom's, Ross Dress for Less, Steinmart, JC Penney, Macy's, so I don't have a need to buy online. I would say this, buy online only as a last resort. Otherwise, buy in person.

[Dana44]

The second time I put on makeup. put way too much concealer around the bottom of my eyes and upper cheeks. It looked like a mask on my face. LOL. A GG had her eyeballs bulging out looking at me at a restaurant foyer. Yeah, I learned from that. Getting way better on my makeup. My SO got me some fine pencils for my eye liner. Blue and brown. Much easier to put on.

[Teresa]

As far as the wife is concerned is my big mistake is that I CD ! Can't do much about that one !

[Rhonda Darling]

Visited my dad's gravesite at Arlington Cemetery in full Rhonda mode. No problem getting in or parking. But the walk across the soft grass in 4" spike heels, not so much. I learned a cheap way to aerate the lawn, but walking upright in a dignified, "nothing to see here, folks" manner eluded me. Standing only on the ball of your feet, unable to put your heel down, is a challenge best left unmet.

[Donnagirl]

Check the addressee before you press send on an SMS picture of you all frocked up and pretty... Check it then check it again!!!

[XemmaX]

tits too high, bad eye make up, wig stuff. the list goes on crossdressing does feel like a constant learning experience.

[Sarah-RT]

The biggest mistake I've ever made was "making do" with clothing I bought that didn't fit because I was too nervous to return it or try and figure out my size.

Also, not getting breast forms sooner

[hope springs]

For some reason I forget to check the sleeve hole size. The part of the blouse/shirt that fits under your armpit. The shirts fit perfect and after I wash them they get real snug under the armpit. So even if it fits everywhere else check the pit area, it may be too tight. I guess the the distance from the top of shoulder to armpit is shorter on women.
Also echoing what someone else said.... Take your time and try lots of stuff on. Early on I had a " don't press your luck" attitude and if something kinda fit I bought it and left. I'm learning shopping is an epic event, patience is required. Also learning to mix and match outfits is key. So grab stuff from one store and try it on with stuff from another store. Women must have astounding memories. My wife can recall the locations of various outfits from multiple stores

[Bridget Ann Gilbert]

My biggest mistake is evident in my profile pic. I never should have pinned my wig up. I looked so much better with it down, but it seemed a good idea at the time.

[CherylFlint]

My biggest mistake by far is so much ahead of any of the others it’s like none of the others even count.
So, my biggest mistake of all is not asking for help early on.
One time, when I was around 13 years old, I finally worked up enough nerve to walk into a lingerie store. I just wanted to “look around” and maybe buy a garter belt and stockings but as soon as I walked in this bell rang and this gorgeous young woman, 22 or so, said “May I help you?”
So I freaked and said “Just looking” and turned around and left, in a hurry.
I’ve regretted that moment all of my life. I wanted to say that I want to dress like a girl and need help but I was too afraid and, face it, embarrassed. I was embarrassed that the saleslady would be able to “see through me”.
Stupid me.
And that mistake has cost me a lot of money but, even more important, time. I’ve wasted a LOT of time doing the wrong things when I could’ve saved myself a lot of time and money.
So, my biggest mistake? Not asking for help early on.

[CarlaWestin]

Hands down the biggest crossdressing mistake was getting married the second time, thinking she was telling the truth about acceptance.

Second, thinking that there is actually a kimono that is labeled L that will fit. Evidently L in japanese means size 0.

[Brandy Mathews]

I use Roamans alot too, really like their clothes.
Bree

[NicoleScott]

Crossdressing, like most other aspects of life: if you're not making mistakes, you're not trying hard enough.
Where do I begin.....?

[Sarah Doepner]

How many crossdressing mistakes have I made? How many are there? I'm sure there are a few that I haven't gotten around to, but I'm working on them.

[Megan b]

My most resent mistake happened just the other day. I decided that I going out for the day as Megan, so I showered and shaved extra close, did my makeup. I pick out a navy blue tank and white capris and I was gone for the afternoon. Had a very enjoyable day, felt pretty good about myself. But when I came home and cleaned up, I realized I forgot to shave my chest. Thank goodness that my top was not low cut. (lol) I shave it regularly thankfully but I wish I had not forgot. Still had a good day enjoyed seeing and chatting with all my SA friends.
But my biggest mistake ever was thinking that my (ex) wife would get use to this side of me and just see it as part of me.

[chinabrown]

I have used liquid foundation instead of a creme.

I need more coverage to look flawless. don`t want my skin looking ruff like a man.

[Karolyn]

A few of my mistakes:
- Buying too many clothes at your size when you know you are going to start a diet
- Assuming that if a cloth I try in a given store and in a given brand is at the right size, all other clothes from the same brand will be
- Wearing high heels for several hours outside, with no backup, and realizing that sweating make you slip in them and it becomes really painful
- Blue eyeshadow when it is your first time doing makeup
- Same deal with red lipstick
- Not blend the foundation properly, looks like a mask
- Too much blush, and mostly on the front part of the cheeks, that looks bad
- Wearing or removing clothes while wearing makeup and stain the fabric (close to impossible to remove)
- Starting with too large breastforms (38D for a beginner, really bad for the back, 38B is much more reasonable)

- And the main mistake: hiding my CDing for a decade!

[Joansometimes]

TOOOOOOOOOOOOO many to count. LMPCAO!!!!!!!! Oh if your wondering what LMPCAO means it means Laughing My Panty Clad Ass Off. Something I came up with on my own. If you want to use it you have my permision to do so.

[Meganfla]

Every mistake is a learning experience, I've learned a lot in a very short time too.

[bimini1]

Not making sure that my nails are the absolute last thing I do before hitting the door. They must be the last thing or I end up smudging them doing something else. Even if they feel dry to the touch. If you try to pull up some high waist spanx they are gonna smudge.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Adriana, I have learned that if you are going to wear pantyhose keep your hands and nails nice and smooth.:devil:

[mbmeen12]

Dressing in the morning and mowing in male mode in afternoon....24 hour lipstick works really well and someone pops in/ comes over.

[Linda Leigh]

2 zillion mistakes LOL

[Tina955]

My biggest mistake, was not changing my body to match my brain and to fill out my clothes properly.

Tina

[AmberN]

Finding out the hard way how to shave your legs.

[Christen]

OK, here's mine;

If you are going shopping for dresses or bra's, don't wear a tight fitting top that rips your wig off while the sales assistant is helping you with a fitting.
I was embarrassed, she was very comforting.

Oh, number two. When wearing heels keep a very good eye out for spillages on supermarket floors.

And I just realised these are not Crossdressing mistakes, there are just normal issues you have to deal with.

xx

[Lily Catherine]

Oversized clothing has been my flaw many times.
Also, till recently, not going all the way to make-up. I used to avoid leaving any traces but have realised something was severely lacking when I didn't put on the stuff.
And then trying to tie my wig into a bun to better suit some of my more formal dresses. It doesn't work that way, apparently.

[Jennifer B]

Lots of mistakes it's a constant learning process.
1. Guessing a clothes size that will fit me rather than measuring and working it out properly. I've wasted too much money doing this.
2. Buying cheap breast forms. The quality ones are worth the extra.
3. Over applying makeup and not bothering to educate myself about what works and what doesn't. And then being disappointed with the results.

and the big one...

4. Not facing the issues I had with my crossdressing when I was young and accepting it. I wasted a decade and more (back when I had the body and the bones for it) when if I'd been more confident I could have gone out En-Femme day after day and totally passed.

[Savannah_Skye]

I was in my third floor apartment lounging in an office skirt/blouse/heel combo and realized I left something in my car; so got about a flight of stairs down and enjoyed a little draft up my skirt. Then it hit me I was wearing a skirt, but no wig and very flat chested though, and of course right at that moment, my downstairs neighbor's door started to open. So I decided to take two stairs at once, only to trip because I was in heels and a pencil skirt. So I learned to check myself before going outside and learned to shorten my stride when running in heels.

I think the biggest lesson though as been self acceptance partly from coming here!

[Aleca]

My biggest mistakes, or most regrettable choices in CDing perhaps first of all not dealing with this at an earlier age, not accepting when I knew this could go on a lifetime and get thrown into marriage like so many of you, not getting counseling when I had the money to do so, getting myself stuck with the wrong crowd of people and purging thousands of dollars of clothes. I thi,k a lot of this speaks to the majority of people on here too.

[bstewart9901]

I always forget to take the size stickers off the bottom of my shoes. It drives my gf crazy. I will always say my real mistake is not dressing more when I was younger (not that I'm that old yet!)

[lynda]

hi girls, my big mistake was not relizing this was more then crossdressing to me, I really feel like a women inside, and wasted years denying it, now at 65 , I have found some peace in who I am, and now I don't push it no more, I just dress any way I choose and blend in,like any gg dose.nothing over the top mostly jeans and womens tops. and I am happy to just be me. hugs love Lynda long live the sisterhood

[Sandie70]

So far all my mistakes have been at home and not in public. This leads me to think of the old question, "if a tree falls in the woods and no one is around when it happens, does it make a sound?"

I guess my mistakes are like that tree. If no one saw them, did they really occur?