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Mistyjo
06-01-2015, 06:57 PM
I don't know where I will land in terms of being where I want to be... but I have gotten to a point where I am less worried about it. It is more about what makes me happy, and so what if I like traditionally-male things, but want to have a female body? What's the big deal if I want others to interact with me as a female, but I still have a lot of learned male behavior... as long as I am happy?
I think the goal isn't to become something you're not. It's to become who you want to be -- or even just learn to express who you are.

LexiMay
06-01-2015, 07:07 PM
I see myself being much more open about who I am and I see myself having an overly large collection of high heels and pretty flats as I have a shoe addiction. 😂 other than that I don't expect much to have changed, I'll be in my 40s before I can make any real change!

Lexi x

kimdl93
06-01-2015, 07:20 PM
If you're happy with the place you're at today and the direction your headed, then that's fine. There's got to be a balance between present and future happiness. You reach a point in life where you realize that your time on Earth is limited.

But I would also submit that one also needs to strike a balance between what makes her happy and consideration of the well being of others in her life.

sometimes_miss
06-01-2015, 08:13 PM
I really don't anticipate any changes. I just semi- retired, so I'm not working at all for a while. Which is a nice change, I've been working since I was 13. And this is the first time since I was 12 that I'll have the whole summer off. Can't wait.

Kate Simmons
06-01-2015, 08:39 PM
Running the place probably. :heehee::)

char GG
06-01-2015, 08:45 PM
In a villa in Italy.

Rachelakld
06-02-2015, 03:52 AM
Villa in Italy, next to Char? sipping vino on my deck next to my wife, actually will do that soon as I win a few million with LOTTO

donnalee
06-02-2015, 06:38 AM
Since I have achieved my most important goal, that of becoming an old curmudgeon, albeit in a dress, I have to think about it and get back to you

Michelle Crossfire
06-02-2015, 08:24 AM
This sounds like a typical job interview question. I stopped trying to predict where i will be in 5 years, because, for some reason, it never turns out that way. Too many things beyond my control come into play for one reason or another.

Sara Jessica
06-02-2015, 08:33 AM
On the cover of Vanity Fair?!?! ;)

Rhanda
06-02-2015, 08:36 AM
Five years? I don't even buy green bananas.

Rhanda

scarletcd
06-02-2015, 09:05 AM
Married to my long term partner and a clearer understanding of my Gender Identity :)

Amanda77
06-02-2015, 09:18 AM
Right were i am and want to be.

Jodi
06-02-2015, 12:19 PM
At my age, I'm hoping I will still be on this side of the sod.

Jodi

Pat
06-02-2015, 01:22 PM
Why leave it to chance? Let's all make a lunch date. How about Amsterdam?

Rhian
06-02-2015, 01:25 PM
Living on my own and hopefully out to the world.

Cheryl T
06-02-2015, 01:36 PM
Retired, traveling a little and enjoying this part of me to a fuller extent than is possible at the moment.

CutieJulie
06-02-2015, 02:12 PM
Perfect world: living as a girl with a girlfriend or boyfriend. Possibly self employed.

Reality: still scared to transition and still working in the same place.and alone.

Bria
06-02-2015, 03:06 PM
I'll be at least semi-retired and have more time to work on the house and do some traveling with my wife, oh and just maybe more time to be Bria!

Hugs, Bria

OCCarly
06-02-2015, 03:14 PM
Owning a vacation condo in Palm Springs and dressing openly when I am there.

cheryl reeves
06-02-2015, 03:29 PM
no clue for life keeps throwing curveballs at me and my wife

ErikaS
06-02-2015, 03:36 PM
Well lets look into the magic eight ball .. I have no idea but things are always looking up and around the bend somewhere.

Erika

Jenniferpl
06-02-2015, 05:57 PM
Retired and traveling the country.

Sometimes Steffi
06-02-2015, 09:48 PM
Retired, and free to be me more often.

justmetoo
06-02-2015, 10:21 PM
moi aussi
retired and enjoying life with more free time! :)

Judith96a
06-03-2015, 10:59 AM
(Semi)-retired and enjoying the relative freedom time-wise. However, it might mean even less opportunity to dress up!

Beverley Sims
06-03-2015, 11:38 AM
I think I will be still searching out the snow around the world and going to West Hollywood for Halloween.

Karen RHT
06-03-2015, 12:08 PM
I see myself out in public wearing the clothes I choose to wear, and doing the things I choose to do with total confidence. :) Oh yea...I'll still be retired.


Karen

LucyNewport
06-03-2015, 03:28 PM
I see myself happy and fulfilled. Whatever it takes.

Sarah-RT
06-03-2015, 04:20 PM
I had up until last week gotten quite comfortable and accepting of who I think I am. I've been single for about 7 years and have very minimal luck with women so in one way it has allowed me to explore myself without fear of tip toeing around an SO

Last week I was on vacation and met a nice girl, it was probably the best connection I've had with a girl in quite some time and not once while I was with her did CDing cross my mind, I've noticed this before in earlier parts of previous relationships before the desires come back.

I likely will never see this girl again as she's from another country but I can't stop fretting about the next girl I meet and how I don't want to have to reveal this part of me and now wish I wasn't this way. So 5 years from now.. I'm unsure..

XemmaX
06-03-2015, 04:55 PM
No idea, still with my partner i hope and maybe having a family.

CarlaWestin
06-03-2015, 07:35 PM
I'm hoping I'll still be on track with my six year plan.