View Full Version : Couple of quick quesions if you don't mind
AnnaMarie
06-21-2015, 01:58 AM
I'm just curious ladies after lots of reading on here:
What age group are you?
30 or under
30 - 40
40 - 50
over 50
and if you are married are you out to your SO?
Myself - in my early 40's and not out to my wife :(
Danica F
06-21-2015, 02:01 AM
30-40. I am married and was out to her before we were married.
Sandie70
06-21-2015, 02:06 AM
I'm way over 50, all on my own and fancy free (no SO to be out to). But with the legs of a 30 YO, the mind of a 40 YO and the wisdom of a teenager (in other words... I never grew up completely) I don't know if any SO could handle me (lol).
Maxie
06-21-2015, 02:07 AM
43 and out to my wife
Robyn-aus
06-21-2015, 02:19 AM
50 and out to my wife and daughter[20]
Donnagirl
06-21-2015, 02:35 AM
48 and out to my wife.
Jazzy Jaz
06-21-2015, 02:51 AM
30, out to my gf.
Jane G
06-21-2015, 02:59 AM
Hi there I'm in my fifties now. My wife uncovered my crossdressing in our early 20's. Probably should have told her before we were married, but we got through the her finding out stage a long time ago.
I'm way over 50, all on my own and fancy free (no SO to be out to). But with the legs of a 30 YO, the mind of a 40 YO and the wisdom of a teenager (in other words... I never grew up completely) I don't know if any SO could handle me (lol).
LoL I'm never planning on growing up either.:daydreaming:
Foxy Lady
06-21-2015, 03:43 AM
Way over 50 and the wife knows and help.
Martina
06-21-2015, 03:50 AM
I'm 70 and out to my wife.
Jessie James
06-21-2015, 04:18 AM
Sub-30 with no SO.
Jessie~ ☆
Marcelle
06-21-2015, 04:27 AM
Hi AnnaMarie,
Over 50 and out to my wife.
Hugs
Isha
JessMe
06-21-2015, 04:36 AM
31 and out to my girlfriend
Teresa
06-21-2015, 04:49 AM
AnnaMarie,
Don't be frightened to add 60 + life doesn't end there, in fact some members are just contemplating transition !
I'm 64 and have been married for 41 years, the traumatic coming out to my wife happened twenty years ago ! The rest of my family now know .
I really don't feel my age, Cding is as enjoyable now as it ever was, in fact it's possibly better because I now fully accept it as part of me , no shame or guilt . I'm wired like it and nothing is going to change it .
alwayshave
06-21-2015, 05:29 AM
Mid 50's, live with fiancee and out to her.
iGenny
06-21-2015, 05:43 AM
Over 50, married almost 30 years, closeted. (Side note - didn't start until about 3 years ago.)
Maria 60
06-21-2015, 06:03 AM
I'm in my early 50's and came out to my wife one week back from our honeymoon, almost thirty years now.
Claire Cook
06-21-2015, 06:19 AM
I'm 70 and out to my wife.
Add two years (in a couple of days...) and this works for me.
countrygirl
06-21-2015, 06:36 AM
34 and out to family but they do not want to see me dressed.
Ally 2112
06-21-2015, 06:57 AM
40 to 50 out to my x wife and x girl friend the only 2 people i have told
Trish
06-21-2015, 07:05 AM
I'll be 67 next month. My wife has known about my crossdressing since before we were married, 43 years ago. I do dress in front of her when I want, and she buys me fem items as gifts. I got a top and dress for Fathers Day.
Crystal Beth
06-21-2015, 07:07 AM
45 happily married and out to wife
GinFizzieLizzie
06-21-2015, 07:09 AM
30 to 40, unmarried
Yoshisaur
06-21-2015, 07:11 AM
I'm under 30 currently not married and it's still a secret from my girlfriend.
Sarah-RT
06-21-2015, 07:16 AM
24 and single
icantwait24
06-21-2015, 07:27 AM
42 married, out to my wife and now her close cousin. (Since friday)
Krisi
06-21-2015, 07:28 AM
Well over 50 and out to my wife but nobody else.
Glendy
06-21-2015, 07:37 AM
I'm 63 and out to my SO after she found out about a year ago.
Dianne S
06-21-2015, 07:39 AM
40-50 and separated. I disclosed to my wife as a CDer before we were married. I'm transitioning now and while that wasn't the main factor in ending our marriage, it was a biggie.
CostaRicaRachel
06-21-2015, 08:02 AM
57 single. 3 of my friends know.
One is a girl I once dated knows. She didn't know it when we were dating.
The last time I spoke with her, the subject came up (Caitlyn) She said she sill can't
believe it. She doesn't care, we're still friends, but I don't think she would ever
date me again.
Cheryl T
06-21-2015, 08:12 AM
Over 50 for sure...
Married happily to a woman who accepts, participates and completely shares who I am and what I do.
Lucky beyond belief ...
jasminetv2
06-21-2015, 08:13 AM
over 70 and out
Nadine Spirit
06-21-2015, 08:35 AM
43, married, and she has known for as long as I have. I am also out to about 10-15 others.
Lauri K
06-21-2015, 08:40 AM
45, married and out to my wife, also a few close friends.
I am also out to a few million or so people who drop by here
To put it into perspective I am fortunate, as so far everyone I have met or disclosed that I am a CD to has been nothing but supportive :hugs:
Michelle 78
06-21-2015, 08:49 AM
35 - 40, Single and only my Mother knows so far.
Raychel
06-21-2015, 09:41 AM
56 and out to my wife and everyone that lives in my house.
Michelle Crossfire
06-21-2015, 09:44 AM
40-50. Wife is supportive, but non participatory
Linda Leigh
06-21-2015, 09:45 AM
Hi AnnaMarie,
I am over 50 by quite a bit and I am out to my Wife
Brandi01
06-21-2015, 09:46 AM
57' married and out to my wife. She has been very supportive.
Tiffany_74
06-21-2015, 09:48 AM
I'm 40-50 (really 41), and I don't have a SO, although if I did, I think it would be hard to keep it from her - I'd always be complimenting her outfits / shoes :o
STACY B
06-21-2015, 09:50 AM
49 OUT,,lol Been out from the gate,, Not Good at Lying :yt:
Adriana Moretti
06-21-2015, 09:55 AM
30-40 ( although you should never ask a girl her age.....and I certainly dont act my age LOL ).....and single (by choice) just dating other CD's and men @ the moment having fun... ...no headaches, no asking for permission, no rules, no responsibilities , no health insurance, no retirement plan LOL... ...wait....that part is not too funny....
Melissa73
06-21-2015, 09:57 AM
i have to say 41/42 in sept aND DIVORCED...... (nOT DUE TO cding, but marriage enabled me to come out! after she came out as being gay).
Amber-Sue
06-21-2015, 10:00 AM
Almost 70 wife knows and supports me in all areas, what a great woman she is
Dusty815
06-21-2015, 10:02 AM
I am over 50 and out to my wife.
Dusty
Sarah Beth
06-21-2015, 10:07 AM
I'm 63 been married almost 42 years and my wife found out after we had been married for about four years. So she has known for a long time but wasn't always ok with it.
Meg East
06-21-2015, 10:10 AM
I'm 65 and out to my beautiful wife.
jigna
06-21-2015, 10:23 AM
I m 56, married with 3 children, wife support occasionally.
Permission limited to wear only undergarments
flatlander_48
06-21-2015, 10:49 AM
66, yes, yes
DeeAnn
Melody Phillips
06-21-2015, 10:57 AM
I just turned 50 in march. I am married. My (super understanding, wonderful) wife knows and accepts my feminine side. She is standing by me as I start my transition.
Natalie cupcake
06-21-2015, 10:58 AM
I am 30 to 40 out to my wife and 4 good friends.:battingeyelashes:
SometimesJen
06-21-2015, 11:24 AM
Mid-40's and out to my 2 SO's and 1 good friend. They're all supportive, and occasionally go shopping with me. I also have several casual friends & acquaintances through my church who, although they don't know, wouldn't be at all surprised.
Karen RHT
06-21-2015, 11:28 AM
I turned 68 (just a number) today, and happily married for over 40 years. Wife knows and is supportive, but has limits. She's not comfortable with the idea of me going out into the real world while dressed. I'm attempting to raise her comfort level with that.
Karen
Robin777
06-21-2015, 11:52 AM
Over 50 and I have been out to my wife before we were married 35 years ago.
Vicky Peters
06-21-2015, 11:55 AM
Over 60 and my wife knows.
Stephanie A
06-21-2015, 12:10 PM
Over 60, and not out to my wife.
jennifer easton
06-21-2015, 12:11 PM
I'm 65 in body,and it lets me know every morning geeees! how ever I'm eighteen in my head, I'm out to my GF of 20 years have been since 05 and her whole side of the family, but no one on my side knows ( I don't think anyway
Sarah Louise
06-21-2015, 12:18 PM
Like you - 40s - not out to my wife. Want to tell but worry about the consequences.
Samantha2015
06-21-2015, 12:19 PM
In my 40's. No wife or girlfriend. :sad:
Guess I'll have to be my own girl for now :battingeyelashes:
CynthiaD
06-21-2015, 12:48 PM
66.
Yes, she knows about it. I wear a dress more often than pants, so it's hard to miss.
grace7777
06-21-2015, 01:29 PM
51, always been single, no girlfriend, and an out to 4 people, who are not cd/tg/ts.
thecddj
06-21-2015, 01:57 PM
42, out to my girlfriend, contemplating telling family
Kiwi Primrose
06-21-2015, 02:22 PM
78 and shared with my wife for many happy years.
Suzanne F
06-21-2015, 02:29 PM
50 and out to everyone except work
Suzanne
joandher
06-21-2015, 03:29 PM
Nearly 70 wife knows but dose not want anything to do with it ,started at age 5
Stevann
06-21-2015, 03:58 PM
65 and out to my wife
DonnaT
06-21-2015, 04:01 PM
Over 50 (+10) and out.
Kandi Robbins
06-21-2015, 04:12 PM
I'm old as dirt (over 50).
Very happily married to a woman I adore and who knows about Kandi, but only recently (married over 29 years).
suzzi
06-21-2015, 04:22 PM
51 and it's my little secret! Been dressing since I was 9 or 10
Jean 103
06-21-2015, 04:48 PM
Over 50 out to wife like way out separated. Also out to boss and I don't know how many others as I'm out
Love Jean
Michaelasfun
06-21-2015, 04:49 PM
53 and out.
AnnaMarie
06-21-2015, 04:54 PM
Interesting - thanks for everyone who's posted. I expected the majority of ladies on here would have said they are out and happy and I suspect more because where it didn't go well when they told their SO they may not be on this forum anymore for many various reasons. I'm a little surprised that there aren't many younger members here though.
Andrea_cd
06-21-2015, 05:24 PM
44 out to my wife for the last 6yrs and 3 very close friends
Tracii G
06-21-2015, 06:13 PM
62 ...No SO and out to a few special friends and not out to others
Chardonnay Merlot
06-21-2015, 06:35 PM
i'm in my 40s, single for now...BUT, I am out to my friends and I disclose to prospective suitors immediately.
Jilmac
06-21-2015, 07:14 PM
Well over 50, widowed, out to my SO, go out socializing en femme whenever the opportunity arises
PattiL
06-21-2015, 08:47 PM
Late 40s - not out to my wife.
Robin414
06-21-2015, 08:54 PM
I'm in the 40 - 50 group and out to my wife and pretty sure my kids (just adults now but at home still). Think I'm out to a couple neighbors as well but by accident! 😯
Heidi Stevens
06-21-2015, 09:05 PM
Hey Anna, I'm 59 and out to my wife. Don't know if the neighbors have seen me or not. Had their chances.
kimdl93
06-21-2015, 09:42 PM
Exceedingly late late, post 40s....and yes I'm out to my wife.
cheryl reeves
06-21-2015, 10:22 PM
49 soon to be 50 and my wife knew before we were martied going on 27 yrs now.
jeanieinabottle
06-21-2015, 10:26 PM
Nearly 65 and have had this special part of me for as long as I can remember but for most of my life kept it a secret. Did not come out to my wife whom I adore until I came to like and accept myself a number of years ago. Now things are just hunky-dory. My wife now understands and believes in me. She has actually borrowed a dress or two on occasion. Also she now never runs out of panty hose. And when she needs her roots done or her hair streaked, she knows I'm always there. She knows the benefits. Lucky both of us.
Billie Jean
06-21-2015, 10:31 PM
Over 50 and currently divorced. I was out to my ex and my daughter's have seen me dressed. Billie Jean
2B Natasha
06-21-2015, 11:51 PM
Late 40's. And out to my wife and just about everybody else also.
docrobbysherry
06-22-2015, 12:08 AM
Over 70. And, out to my adult daughters and ex. No one else.
U mite have asked if we r closet dressers or not. That makes a big difference. I consider myself one.
32 out to my wife and in the closet
DanaR
06-22-2015, 01:23 AM
Over 50 and out to my wife.
jaye_cd
06-22-2015, 03:30 AM
44 and out to pretty much everyone
mbmeen12
06-22-2015, 03:42 AM
Over 50
yes SO knows
and no one knows other than a few gurl friends
Vintage4sarah
06-22-2015, 05:20 AM
I am in my mid 60s and I am cautiously out with my wife. She has never seen Sarah except for a couple photos.
Amymonroe
06-22-2015, 10:12 AM
I'm 41y/o and have been out to my SO since the day we were married. I'm out to my step sister and some friends and that's about it.
Angie G
06-22-2015, 10:25 AM
AnnaMarie I'm well over 50 (67) And yes my wife knows and buys things for Angie.:hugs:
Angie
Megan b
06-22-2015, 10:43 AM
Late 40's and divorced. My ex wife and children as well as my sister all know.
stacey.eyes
06-22-2015, 01:08 PM
Over 50 and out to my wife, although only for the past few years.
kelly0
06-22-2015, 01:14 PM
43 years old
married (she knows)
just does not participate in my dressing..........yet....;-)
kayegirl
06-22-2015, 01:59 PM
Over 50 and definitely out to my SO, and a lot of other people besides.
Hilde_Morales
06-22-2015, 02:05 PM
I am 36, out to my GF (she was so vocal about her groovy attitudes to gender-fluidity that I showed her a pic of me dressed on our third date) and a handful of people as my confidence grows (none of my family, so far).
delwyn
06-22-2015, 04:54 PM
Sixty-three and married. My wife knows but does not participate-yet.
Ms Jennifer
06-22-2015, 04:59 PM
Over 50 and never even been with a woman
sometimes_miss
06-22-2015, 06:56 PM
>50. Wife discovered my crossdressing >10 years ago, I had left out an article of women's clothing. It was either: Tell her I was a crossdresser, or let her continue to believe that I was having an affair. In retrospect, I should have gone with the latter. Seems most women will tolerate one episode of infidelity better than the idea that their husband is a sissy. Having no positive outcomes to telling relatives and friends about my crossdressing, I no longer tell anyone. Or ever plan to.
BLUE ORCHID
06-22-2015, 08:08 PM
Hi Anna Marie, I'm 72.5yrs. old and Married 51.5yrs.
My:love:wife has known sense we got married over the years she's been off and on
with my dressing, Right now it's a DA/DT kind of thing she knows that I dress every night
but just don't want to see me while I'm dressed, She knows about everything.:daydreaming:
aussie cd
06-22-2015, 08:12 PM
51 and out to my 2nd wife of 13 years for 12 of them - 1st didn't know
Giselle(Oshawa)
06-22-2015, 08:16 PM
60 yrs old and out to my wife of 31 yrs since 2011
she is somewhere between tolerant and supportive
i thank God for her everyday
cd_dominique
06-22-2015, 11:54 PM
I'm almost 39 and, as stated on here, i came out to my wife about 3 weeks ago.
Diane Smith
06-23-2015, 12:41 AM
Over 50, and never married (but came close a couple of times). I have been out to two SOs in the past. One took it fairly well within limits, and the other ... didn't.
- Diane
Taylor186
06-23-2015, 12:14 PM
I'm over 50 and also out to my wife.
DaphneMiller
06-23-2015, 03:47 PM
Early 40s, out to my wife. She doesn't want to see me dressed, but she has helped by buying some make up and other little bits and pieces.
Cara Lacey
06-23-2015, 08:14 PM
61 years old and out to everyone. My wife is very supportive!
53. Out to my wife about 20 years ago (we've been married 32). I am in early stages of transition now, and she plans to stick by my side. I am so, so fortunate.
Lacey New
06-24-2015, 05:33 AM
Over 50, married and in the closet. Wife does not know and neither does anyone else except some SA's might suspect and one SA in a Dress Barn sold a dress to a guy who paid cash.
Georgia Rose
06-24-2015, 05:53 AM
66 - started about 7 years ago when my wife was away caring for family for some months. Outed to her a few days after she got back. She is accepting but loves the fact that she can now discuss clothes with me and really takes notice of my opinions.
Tina B.
06-24-2015, 06:24 AM
Two decades past that, over 50 mark, I've been out to the wife almost that long.
She is very supportive, and loves to shop for Tina, I've been dressing around her, for around 40 years, I told her about it five years into the marriage when the urge to dress came back after a long absents, and yes I told her before I started to dress again.
In fact, she took me out and bought me everything I needed to start the day I told her about my need to dress and how it was effecting me, trying hard not to dress. I'm still in the closet, but it's a very nice closet, with a nice yard, all available to me when ever the mood strikes.
And what with birthdays, Christmas, anniversary's, and just her love of surprising me with a new article of women's clothing from time to time, has me with a much larger wardrobe that a closet dresser really needs, but the lady knows how to keep me a very happy old lady.
CarlaWestin
06-24-2015, 06:42 AM
Closing in on 60. Feel and look more like 30-40. Out to the wife who evidently enjoys being old and hating it.
Staying healthy and having the time of my life.
desertrider
06-24-2015, 07:29 AM
38. Out with the SO. Sort of out in general, in the front yard, around town some, but I'm not up for the month of ribbing I'd probably get about it at work (nor from my brother for that matter). They're great people, bro too, would accept it I'm sure, but I have no need to go there right now. SO is generally supportive but not actively interseted. She's gone out with me a couple of times, but it makes her really uncomfortable; she doesn't like to stick out, so I'm impressed she tries...I'm sure a few of my more experimental guy outfits are really not her cup of tea either (of course, she started out a total preppy dresser; one of the few arenas we come at over a divide - Summer does not do lace or frills, no matter her place on the gender spectrum at that moment =)
nancy walters
06-24-2015, 08:01 AM
Age : 46
Common-law wife knows everything . She bounces between DA/DT and buying me clothes at the thrift shops . She's more into it during the winter , when I'm fully shaved.
I've pretty well told all the SO's since High School about my "hobby" . Only ever got outed by one - and she was the little tramp who cheated , ripped me off and is on her 4th husband by 40 years old.
RachelB.
06-24-2015, 10:23 AM
Over fifty and out to my wife.
Judith96a
06-24-2015, 11:03 AM
Over 50, not out to my wife (or anyone else)
kathtx
06-24-2015, 12:27 PM
Just past 50. Married 29 years this summer. Wife has known all along. Transition in progress, one step at a time.
BillieAnneJean
06-24-2015, 12:37 PM
Over 50.
Started very late in life.
Discussed it with my SO before starting.
Janet Bern
06-24-2015, 12:45 PM
72 yrs old
reb.femme
06-24-2015, 12:52 PM
Hi AnnaMarie,
I get really uptight with questions relating to or being categorized by my age. Only because it tells the world I'm 55....Damn, given the game away now! :heehee: Yep, I'm in with the oldies, but I like to think of it as being a more mature member of the population. At least I got here, many don't, so I count my blessings.
Married and out to my wife for the last three years.
Rebecca
Stephanie_83
06-24-2015, 01:54 PM
early 30s and out to (and accepted by!) my awesome girlfriend
Teressa
06-24-2015, 03:18 PM
I'am 50 something.
fun4metoo2004
06-24-2015, 04:10 PM
Over 50, not married. Divorced in 97, ex wife never knew.
She is has passed away now as well.
Kristy 56
06-24-2015, 06:45 PM
Over 50, out to wife who is not supportive,DADT relationship. :)
NZ_Dawn
06-24-2015, 07:04 PM
early 50+ but can behave like a teenager, wife knows, kids don't.
SharonDenise
06-24-2015, 07:05 PM
Over 50, widowed and came out to my wife while we were still dating.
Babbs
06-24-2015, 08:31 PM
over 50 and not out
Roberta Lynn
06-24-2015, 08:33 PM
68, My very understanding and supportive wife, of 48 years, has know since before we were married.
Carroll
06-24-2015, 08:47 PM
I'll be in the "Over" 50 category in a few days, wife has known since we first met 17 years ago, supportive, along with my kids
TrishaLake
06-24-2015, 08:48 PM
49 out to wife 3 years
Jacqueline1965
06-24-2015, 08:58 PM
49, married and out for 27 years.
Chibi
06-25-2015, 12:58 AM
24, single and out to most of my friends.
SandraB
06-25-2015, 01:01 AM
Over 50.
Married and told my wife in February this year
phlover
06-25-2015, 02:56 AM
I'm over 50, married and not yet out to my SO.
BTW, would you please compile statistics about the replies?
I'm really curious in what position I'm as a CDer.
Ellaxo
06-25-2015, 03:58 AM
Under 30
AnnaMarie
06-25-2015, 05:30 AM
I'm over 50, married and not yet out to my SO.
BTW, would you please compile statistics about the replies?
I'm really curious in what position I'm as a CDer.
Yes, I'm going to do just that when I think the replies have stopped :)
Karine
06-25-2015, 06:37 AM
In my early 30's. In long terme relationship with girlfriend who does not know.
SamanthaSometimes
06-25-2015, 06:40 AM
60 years old and wife discovered my CD after 35 years of marriage. She is non accepting, doesn't want to see me with any feminine trapping and DADT has kept the marriage in place.
Trinity Sue
06-25-2015, 11:46 AM
I am 57 and out to my wife for 20 years:)
madcitycdph
06-25-2015, 12:18 PM
42, out to my wife, working with a therapist to introduce the cd'ing into our lives together
suchacutie
06-25-2015, 12:27 PM
Turn 65 today...married 42 years. My wife and I discovered Tina almost 10 years ago, and she, taught Tina how to be a girl!
Ceera
06-25-2015, 12:31 PM
50+, widowed. Live with my 19 year old daughter and am out to her.
When my wife was still alive, she knew I was bisexual but faithfully monogamous, mating only with her, and she knew I underdressed with ladies panties for the last few years of her life. I didn't go beyond that until after she passed away.
A young 70 years old. Out to many, but these arte people that have a need to know.
Jodi
Lynn Pennington
06-25-2015, 03:31 PM
My s/o hates it and doesn't want to hear or see anything related to it.
Sometimes I sure miss the old days when I lived alone. In my 50s with little alone time.
Lynn
Deborah447
06-25-2015, 09:45 PM
Mid-thirties, single
Stephanie47
06-25-2015, 09:52 PM
Over 50. My wife knows of my cross dressing, but, is not supportive. It's DADT.
Lacy PJs
06-25-2015, 10:38 PM
Over fifty and yes, my other half knows about my dressing.
Lacy PJs
Rachel Lea
06-26-2015, 07:29 AM
50+ closeted but dressed with a bad makeup job at the moment
Half-CD
06-26-2015, 07:37 AM
Under 30. I told my SO when we met about 5 and a half years ago, she's was fine with it and we've been together since :)
Kimmi_S
06-26-2015, 07:55 AM
Over 50 and yes my SO knows all about my dressing in fact she is totally supportive...it's so fun when we go shopping
Kimmi
reb.femme
06-27-2015, 10:37 AM
Is there to be a column in the stats for those that are over 50 but wish to be in the under 30 category? If so, put me in there please. I may be getting old but I categorically refuse to grow up and act maturely.....so there. :heehee:
Seriously, oh to be thirty years younger (would make me 25) with my experience and knowledge....:daydreaming:
Rebecca
Natasha V
06-27-2015, 11:16 AM
45 yrs old wife accepts and enjoys company of my other half. She loves her more then me.lol but we enjoy shopping quality time and the dressing. To the point where she misses my other half when she fades for awhile.
Over 50 and out to the wife.
Hugs, Bria
pamela7
06-27-2015, 12:26 PM
over 50 n out
vallerie lacy
06-27-2015, 01:25 PM
I'm 68 and my wife of 37 years has known and supported me since before we married. How did I ever get so lucky?
ashley-fl
06-27-2015, 04:58 PM
27 married and wife doesn't know.
Stephanie101
06-27-2015, 06:02 PM
Well over 50, SO is tolerant most of the time. Love being me...
Tristessa
06-27-2015, 06:10 PM
40 and out to my wife
marsha leanne
06-27-2015, 08:52 PM
62 (did not want to say that) and out to wife before we married 20 yrs ago. in dadt, but given time and space to dress. would so much like to add marsha to the relationship.
Jennifer H
06-28-2015, 03:59 AM
Well over 50, my wife found out obout 30 years ago and it nearly broke up the the marriage. It is never talked about.
weyburn
06-30-2015, 09:48 PM
I am over 50
Am a widower.My wife really didn't openly know I dressed although we did role play a couple of times in the bedroom
Fany27ab
06-30-2015, 10:16 PM
Sub 30
And my wife knows about me before we was a couple
LydiaG
07-01-2015, 12:55 AM
I'm 24. My girlfriend knew before we started dating. We share clothes all the time and she helps me and supports me.
Annajose
07-01-2015, 04:15 AM
Just turned 50, wife discovered about 5 years ago. I should have come out to her way earlier.
Although I am getting older, I still refuse to grow old!
Jackie7
07-01-2015, 08:07 AM
69 going on 19 , out to my wife and to most of our world. Trying to learn how to dress and act my age, lol.
Marie-Claude, France
07-01-2015, 04:33 PM
I am over 50, married and out to my wife
She knows but she does not like...
Jennifer0874
07-01-2015, 04:39 PM
40 married and out to my wife.
I was also out to my ex wife.
Michelle_Diane
07-01-2015, 10:20 PM
Hello AnnaMarie
I'm 53 winters young and married but sadly not out to my wife.
Love Michelle D.
Suzie Petersen
07-01-2015, 10:54 PM
Over 50.
Out to wife when we started dating 35 years ago, so well before marriage.
Had to stop dressing 8+ years ago when it all blew up. Now never talked about it and no hope left.
Sallee
07-01-2015, 11:25 PM
68 and out to wife, but not real comfortable with it
AndreaSC
07-01-2015, 11:59 PM
40-50 I am married...told my wife after we got married, she asked me if I was gay. She thinks that I quit. ;)
JocelynJames
07-02-2015, 05:49 AM
40-50 and out to my wife
Anne-Sofie
07-02-2015, 05:34 PM
22 and single.
RobynT
07-12-2015, 05:17 AM
Over 50 and single. I have a fantastic SO that knows and is completely supportive....:)
Lacey New
07-12-2015, 06:28 AM
Over 50, Not out to my SO. Only to a sales associate at Dress Barn who knows that an anonymous gentleman came in ad tried on and bought a dress with cash
Sandra-Bumstead
07-12-2015, 08:16 AM
59 yrs, not out to anyone, wife would be very upset if she knew, so a tough spot for me. Already have other marital difficulties.
Sandra
krissy
07-12-2015, 08:55 AM
Hi, i m 57 im out to my wife she cant stand it but tries and her girlfriend and my ex wife she told all my ex friends and her family that one hurt but this marrage has lasted 38 years:cheer:
donnaS
07-12-2015, 09:12 AM
45. My SO knew about two months into the marriage. My ex knew it all (ended from her drug abuse) she threatened to tell everybody. I had to be prepared to own it. Told my wife and explained she threw away my fem clothes, not the ex's as she thought. We still laugh about that. My wife is so supportive, very lucky to have her!
Jessica5536
07-12-2015, 02:06 PM
33 married.
My wife doesn't know.
I'm just starting to come to grips with this myself and want to know what I think about it before sharing with someone else.
Even if I was ready to share, I don't really know anyone that I would feel comfortable speaking to about it.
Angela Marie
07-12-2015, 02:41 PM
I'm 61. I told my wife on our second date about 8 years ago. She does not go out with me but is very supportive.
Nancie64
07-12-2015, 04:59 PM
Pushing hard on the 70 mark, but oh well. My SO of 12years has known since before we were married. My sister in law found out by accident when we we out in Vegas maybe 8 years ago or so. Dressed for Haloween and she thought I was all to comfortable and she started asking questions. She loves that she knows and even finds an outfit now and then for Nancie. My ex also knows since I was dressing before we got married. :hugs:
irene9999
07-12-2015, 05:56 PM
I'm 34, not married
OCCarly
07-12-2015, 06:08 PM
Over 50, married and fully out to my wife. Her youngest brother is gay, she has another sibling who is MTF transgender, and she has several gay male friends, so this is just life as usual for her.
DeeDeeB
07-12-2015, 07:30 PM
50++ Still married for half of that - my wife has given me jewelry for father's day.
Dee :fairy1:
SashaJade
07-12-2015, 07:58 PM
33 and told my wife in the first month of dating.
kelliboots
07-12-2015, 08:32 PM
I am with Sandy70 about the teenager part...lol.... I 50 and Married and she knows.
Abby Kae
07-12-2015, 08:50 PM
33, married, just starting out (for both of us). It's been an interesting few days.
sue ellan
07-13-2015, 08:30 AM
80 yrs old and out to my so
sue ellan
life is like a roll of tp. the closer to the end the faster it goes.
melissalynn
07-14-2015, 09:58 AM
55 and out to my SO
Wandacdmn
07-17-2015, 07:14 AM
I'm in my 50's, married for 30 years. There was a rather wild time for us in which I told her I liked dressing and I used her clothes. She was ok with that but didn't want to see. One time she whispered a fantasy of dressing me. But things have changed and now she thinks it's a threat to her and when I recently mentioned how fun a maid costume could be, she insisted I get therapy. So now I don't bring it up anymore.
leannejacobs
07-17-2015, 07:43 AM
40-50 and out to my wife
Josieone
07-17-2015, 09:27 AM
30-40 and out to my wife
Dana44
07-17-2015, 10:47 AM
Hi AnnaMarie,
60+ out to my girlfriend. Good support from her and sometimes I feel so girly.
Take Care.
Dana
CherylFlint
07-17-2015, 10:50 AM
First wife freaked about my dressing.
I’m now over 50 and married to a women who calls the shots, in other words she lays-out what she wants my to wear and I wear it.
I told her on our first date that I liked to dress, so she had me over to her apartment that Saturday morning where I dressed in the bathroom.
The first thing she said to me when I walked out was “Let me help you with your makeup”.
When we go out to the mall or to eat she’s the one that does the ordering.
She’s been at the point where she’ll pick-out the outfit, do my makeup and then one of her friends will “drop by”.
She says her friends envy her.
It’s been a trip but the most important part of the whole equation is that your Significant Other has to be behind you and support your dressing 100%.
51 and out to my girlfriend, though she hasn't seen me dressed yet save for one photo taken of me at a recent Trans Pride march. She's supportive in theory (and has even given me a few items of clothing) but she's a bit uneasy with it in practice. We don't live together at the moment and I'm not sure, if we did, that she'd be accepting of me dressing regularly while at home.
Athena_
07-17-2015, 11:27 AM
40 to 50.
My wife knows, but is not supportive. Strictly DADT.
erica2054
07-17-2015, 11:39 AM
over 60 and out to my wife
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