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jemima_bates
06-22-2015, 03:37 PM
Hey,

Back on the forum after quite a break.

I was prompted to post after seeing a gorgeous GG (GGG?) on the tube on the way home tonight. She was wearing a leather knee-length pencil skirt (not tight, but flatteringly cut) with a black blouse and heels. She looked fantastic - an office look, but sexy with it. I made a mental note to try and recreate the look next time I dress.

And it got me thinking - where else do we take inspiration from when putting looks/outfits together? Living in London, the tube is always good for observing what's in fashion. Also, as you can probably tell from my avatar, I like to dress quite 'glam', and love short dresses and heels, so nights out in the West End, or in Essex, where the girls still get quite dressed up, always give me ideas for future combinations.

Of course, many of you will prefer a much more 'every day' look - the dresses and heels are just my personal tastes.

So, where do you take inspiration? Do you take tips from GGs? Keep up with what the fashion magazines dictate is the right 'look', or are you plowing a lone furrow with your own unique style?

Jemima
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Secret Drawer
06-22-2015, 04:38 PM
Someone a long time ago on this site said "You can't be envious of ALL women, so pay attention to the ones you do envy." This has worked great for what inspires me. I keep my eyes open and pay attention to what it is that makes me envious. Trying to re-create whatever it is (that I can.) I love the 50's hoopy dress and skirt style, but it is summer, so now certain sundresses and light skirts are inspiring me. I have been paying extra attention to what to wear under sheer or thin material, seems some just let it be while others do a white or skintone slip, which seems more sensible for me... Of course the beach makes me envious too... not all set with being stuck with knee length board shorts... Oh well.

Samantha2015
06-22-2015, 04:51 PM
Short skirts & high heels are a good start.:) Whenever I shop online I just look for what I think will look good on me.
I don't think about if some movie star wore a similar outfit or not. I have no idea what's in style this season and don't really
care. Whatever it is it probably wouldn't look good on me anyway. :battingeyelashes:

Krisi
06-22-2015, 04:53 PM
I mostly take inspiration from my wife. Other women I see on the street and TV have a small impact.

kimdl93
06-22-2015, 05:19 PM
I confess there is nothing unique about my style. I observe what I like on other women and, try to honestly imagine if it can work for me. Over the years, through much trial and error, I've developed a reasonably reliable sense of what will be flattering.

Stephanie_CD_64
06-22-2015, 05:57 PM
My wife is the biggest inspiration I have. I love to emulate her. I just wish my legs looked half as good as hers.

BLUE ORCHID
06-22-2015, 06:01 PM
Hi Jemimi, When a particular attractive GG catches my attention I make a mental picture
and dissect the parts and try to recreate that look the next dressing session. :daydreaming:

sometimes_miss
06-22-2015, 06:17 PM
Mail order catalogs and magazines. They try to put together stuff that will look so good that it will sell. If I have stuff similar to what's in the ad, I try that combination. Of course, there isn't much in my size, so there aren't a lot of outfits that I can even attempt to try.

ErikaS
06-22-2015, 06:55 PM
Piniest and mail order catalogs and cosmopolitan oh most of all other girls. my wife and I are working on my style.

Erika

Cassandra*
06-22-2015, 06:58 PM
There's a dress store in my town and I try to catch the light so I have to stop just to look at the beautiful gowns. I just wish I had the body for what they sell. Always the brides maid as they say. When ever I pass by stores I window shop and say I will some day stop in and shop. I'm not afraid to go in and buy dressed as a guy when they ask I tell them coming home from work and treating my self to a new dress or so. Any one with a sense of style has my attention. Shop on girls and enjoy being yourselves.

Kate Simmons
06-22-2015, 07:08 PM
I'm always aware of the current trends but usually come up with my own unique look. :battingeyelashes::)

AngelaYVR
06-22-2015, 07:34 PM
Classic styles of dressing have influenced me. Just yesterday I spent the day out in my favourite flared linen skirt, a form fitting navy knitted top, 3" blue suede sandals and my big sun hat. I got so many compliments from women that perhaps I influenced some of them!

brynnewilliams
06-22-2015, 07:57 PM
My preferred look is a pair of sky high heels, a lacy little black dress, and a pair of sheer pantyhose. Ive always preferred the going out look over the everyday look. Growing up, this is what always caught my eye, Dresses, heels/wedges, and hosiery.

flatlander_48
06-22-2015, 08:06 PM
If I were to say, it would probably be my mother. Somewhere I mentioned the other day that I would classify myself as stylish, but not necessarily in style. That actually would characterize my mother. She had a classic sense of style where nothing was too short there or too low-cut here. Those anomalies were just never part of the plan. Everything she wore just sort of came together. I don't really remember that she deliberately taught me about color, patterns, styles, etc. but I was certainly aware of how she dressed. She was always very particular about things with a strong preference for quality over quantity. Basically she was pretty uncompromising about how she should look and the image that she wanted to project. Over time, the majority of my choices mirror all of the above.

To briefly provide a bit of insight as to her character, she always had a thing for crossword puzzles; the harder, the better. However, the telling factor was that she always did them in ink and rarely, rarely made a mistake.

DeeAnn

Heidi Stevens
06-22-2015, 08:40 PM
Most of the regulars on the site know my personal look is soccer mom chic. I'm happy looking like a well put together lady who's out and enjoying life in general. If I do dress up, I keep it simple, not a lot of fru fru. My wife is the main influence in this look and I love watching other ladies my age and make mental notes on their wardrobe.

Katie01
06-22-2015, 09:09 PM
Being in Hawaii I'd say a cute bathing suit and especially bikini bottoms. It inspires me to keep things nice and flat and my bikini line neatly trimmed.

Adriana Moretti
06-22-2015, 09:47 PM
"...I get my inspiration from real photos .i use google image search in a unique way ..and i use wacky keywords together like " girl ice cream summer" or "snow heels classy girl" just wacky keyword word combos...the combos pull up interesting real pictures of girls in action..living life on the streets, .....and I draw inspiration from them ....for style, makeup, accessories etc....they say a photo is worth 1000 words...and I agree...even a photo as simple as this tells me something about this summer...

Madilyn A.
06-22-2015, 09:54 PM
The fashions and makeup look from the 50's

Marcelle
06-23-2015, 05:19 AM
Hi Mimi,

After a bit of trial and error, observing women in and around my age group, I have developed my own sense of style which works for me. When doing something more formal it is likely to be a dress/skirt or dress pants. Everyday wear tends to be jeans and tops or capris in the summer.

Hugs

Isha

Bridget Ann Gilbert
06-23-2015, 08:03 AM
I take inspiration from several sources. I've always been attracted to the professional/office look. It goes back to my days as a temporary clerical worker and I loved what the executive women would wear. I also get inspiration from Pinterest and have several boards for dresses, outfits, jewelry, etc. I've recently become fond of vintage 50's style dresses. A lot of those are being sold by Etsy vendors.

Bridget

Badwolf
06-23-2015, 04:35 PM
I like lots of different types of looks, so I do get ideas from everywhere. Nightclubs in South Beach, malls, subways (tube) when I'm places that have them. Even TV.

I do lean towards heels a bit, and skirts are definitely a HUGE plus for me since they are less andro, but I'm working on everyday looks for fun.

Planning to go out does require a bit of attention to finer details of just looking smashing, you need to fit the atmosphere a bit.

jemima_bates
06-25-2015, 04:36 PM
Mail order catalogs and magazines. They try to put together stuff that will look so good that it will sell. If I have stuff similar to what's in the ad, I try that combination.
Good thinking s_m; it's not just the item for sale, but the whole combination.


"...I get my inspiration from real photos .i use google image search in a unique way ..and i use wacky keywords together like " girl ice cream summer" or "snow heels classy girl" just wacky keyword word combos...the combos pull up interesting real pictures of girls in action..living life on the streets, .....and I draw inspiration from them ....for style, makeup, accessories etc....they say a photo is worth 1000 words...and I agree...even a photo as simple as this tells me something about this summer...
Also a great idea! And Adriana, I love that photo - you're right, it really is evocative of a certain summer feeling. Although I wouldn't really dress like those girls (festival favourites Hunter wellies aren't really my thing) there's something about that look that is really attractive to me. Maybe it's 'cos I think it might say more about their personalities. Me - I'll stick to the heels.

Jemima
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Alice Torn
06-25-2015, 05:37 PM
I take mine from a number of beautiful women i have seen, or known, or pictures of them. Certain GG's i went to school with, or in other venues, that i never forget. And, always, in dresses, or skirts, tops, hose and heels, with great legs.

Stephanie_83
06-25-2015, 05:48 PM
...interesting real pictures of girls in action..living life on the streets, .....and I draw inspiration from them ....for style, makeup, accessories etc....they say a photo is worth 1000 words...and I agree...even a photo as simple as this tells me something about this summer...

Definitely! There are a few "street fashion" blogs that I follow as well - I keep an eye out for both men's and women's fashion points that I'm drawn to, but I'm always jealous of the range and diversity of styles women can wear. I tend toward the bohemian/ slightly hipsterish look, but I love to look for other styles to try for.

Ally 2112
06-26-2015, 08:41 PM
I like the 50's look the office look and now being older a everyday girl in a dress or skirt .I guess i have many favorites and try not to limit myself to just one :)

Anne-Sofie
07-03-2015, 02:01 PM
I always look around when I'm in public to girls that stand out. I love the sexy but elegant look. I look what is standing in the windows of female stores.
Also what people are wearing on in movies and series.
I'm always scanning my surroundings for nice outfits to copy and wear.

Anne-Sofie
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Marie-Claude, France
07-03-2015, 03:50 PM
My inspiration comes from classic music concerts. It is common nowadays for musicians to dress in black, and I admire the gowns of the ladies in choirs and orchestras. I study how they are dressed, and I try to purchase the same, adapted to my age and morphology.

I have to confess that one of my highest dreams would be to sing in a concert as Marie-Claude. But unfortunately my social environment is not prepared for that.

pamela7
07-03-2015, 03:53 PM
Mostly it's sexually provocative/attractive that inspires me - the classic short skirts etc.
I realise this is mutton(ram) dressed as lamb, but I like it.
If it has flare/flounce, the look appeals, that's stage 1.
Stage 2 is how I feel wearing it, if that's not right then it does not work.

I enjoy now shopping, catalogues, a whole area of life I ignored for too too long. It seems a gurl can never have too many clothes/shoes!

Sandie70
07-03-2015, 04:14 PM
I have become the consummate girl watcher. For the most part, I've discovered that maybe 70% of the women I see don't have a bit of fashion sense. In fact, their choice of clothes range from "I want to look as sloppy as possible" to "I don't care how much of my underwear and cellulite you see" to "Don't you love the bulges this darling spandex outfit reveals?"

And then there are the others. Great coordinated outfits, shoes and a spark of fashion sense that screams "I am woman... check me out!" LOL

Yep, my inspiration are the ladies that care about themselves. And from them I take what I can... noting everything they wear to how they comport themselves.

Teresa
07-03-2015, 05:31 PM
Jemima,
I wonder if any GGs get inspiration from seeing CDers pictures, we all know some of the stunning pictures on certain web sites !

jemima_bates
07-04-2015, 04:39 PM
Jemima,
I wonder if any GGs get inspiration from seeing CDers pictures, we all know some of the stunning pictures on certain web sites !

Well... I haven't considered that possibility, but, I guess you never know. Stranger things have happened.

Not quite the same thing, but it's startling to see how many makeup videos there are on Youtube (other video-streaming services are available, natch) of GGs creating a 'drag' look. Half of the drag tutorials seem to be done by GGs. Inspiration/imitation causing inspiration.

Jemima x