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LeslieSD
06-25-2015, 11:53 PM
My friends (who I recently came out to) have asked me some very intriguing questions. So of them I used to think I know my answer, but now not so sure any more.

If you can dress 100% of time, would you do it?

I used to think that I would want to stay in male mode in my daily life, and go out dressed occasionally in my spare time. Now I have made the step of coming out to my friends, and think more about it, I am not so sure. Would I do it? If I had the courage of Isha and came out to all my colleagues, would I want to dress all the time? I am not sure about my answer now. (I don't know Isha's answer too).

If you had that chance, would you do it? How can I find out if I really want to do it in reality (instead of just fantasying about it)? Is the actually doing it the only way to find out?

docrobbysherry
06-25-2015, 11:55 PM
No. But I know I'm a CD and not a TS. However, it took me 14 years to figure that out!

bridget thronton
06-25-2015, 11:58 PM
Yes - would love to be out at work - but I suspect that would only happen if I was 24/7

Bridget Ann Gilbert
06-26-2015, 12:26 AM
For me no, but I'm gender fluid. I definitely have "male" days when it would be too weird to dress femme.

Barbara Black
06-26-2015, 01:02 AM
It took me many years to find out that I wasn't just a pervert that liked panties and nothing more.

AnnaMarie
06-26-2015, 01:07 AM
Not sure. I'd like to, but work pressures and how I have to look for my job may prevent that. In any case, dressing for me takes forever, can't see me doing anything else than putting on a bit of slap, some girly jeans and tshirt if I did it everyday.

Annette_boy
06-26-2015, 01:57 AM
I can and do .But then I am trans gender and have lived as a woman full time for the last 9 years (2006)

Hugs Annette

Rachelakld
06-26-2015, 02:06 AM
No thanks, bad enough shaving occasionally let alone daily

allenred
06-26-2015, 02:35 AM
I will dress 100% of my time if i could.i love to crossdress. cant wait for someone to dress me how they want in my country and in my city.

Marcelle
06-26-2015, 03:31 AM
Hi Leslie,

I would have to say at the present "no". Like Bridgette, I have definite "guy" days where the thought of dressing does not intrigue me. Now, those days have dwindled somewhat and my girl days are likely to stretch out to longer periods once I start my new position and have the latitude to dress when I wish. However, I still feel guy some days.

Hugs

Isha

Kiwi Primrose
06-26-2015, 03:39 AM
There are times when I would love to go out without changing to male but I would never be feminine 24/7. I need the balance in my life - basically male with a great love of wearing soft fabrics and expressing my female side.

Michelle 78
06-26-2015, 03:52 AM
If I could do it all the time apart from at work (which I have no chance of doing there) then it would be very tempting, but it would cause a bit of conundrum,

If I wore my female clothes all the time they would get worn from day to day life because I'd have to wash them more:) and as Rachel said I'd have to shave everything daily.

But on the bright side, I'd have to shop more because I'd need more clothes!!!!! :)

As others have said we all like to have our guy days as well, but I think if I dressed in women's clothes everyday I end up wearing just Jeans and a nice top with a little bit of makeup just like Anna said, which would still be nice.:)

Lily Catherine
06-26-2015, 03:58 AM
Not at the moment. I'm not 24/7/365, and I doubt I have much latitude to do so. Despite already being out to selected colleagues who have openly invoked my female name for laughs above all, they don't have any wish to see me dressed at all.

Being 'Young and Beautiful' wouldn't pull me towards it either just yet. It's an entertaining thought and probably a great relief, that's for sure. Of course, I've got my male days, and I cherish them. But I'm still a long way from allowing myself to dress accordingly whenever I wish rather than by obligation.

GeauxStacy
06-26-2015, 03:59 AM
I would agree with most of the others. There are times where I have guy mode and do enjoy it. It would be nice to show up to work in a nice black women's suit with heels from time to time. :-)

JessMe
06-26-2015, 04:59 AM
Crossdress daily? Not a chance, and here's why: it's a very very tedious process, lots of shaving, more makeup than probably any gg ever (beard cover, etc.), tucking, taping this and that, padding this, stuffing that, etc. I would have to wake up at 3 AM just to be presentable, and I still wouldn't "pass". Nevermind the attitudes that a lot of people have towards TG folks.
...Now, if we're talking about a sea change, where people were more free to be themselves in society and didn't have to fear being ostracized, ridiculed, and loved ones would be accepting... then, yeah, I would wear women's clothing (as fussy and sometimes uncomfortable as they are) daily, but it would come with transition.
In which case most of the issues mentioned above would be negated by hormones, hair removal, surgeries, etc.
...essentially, I would stop crossdressing.

Amy1980
06-26-2015, 05:03 AM
i would love to dress 24/7 as a woman. in fact i cant waite to start hrs

Kate Simmons
06-26-2015, 05:15 AM
I did it for a month once. I found it was a lot of work and maintenance. If I had a good reason to, I would do it 24/7. :)

Sarah-RT
06-26-2015, 05:15 AM
Good question! While I always thought I would if it was possible I don't think I would 100% of the time, I do like being male still but then again I've never had the opportunity. I've told all my close circle of friends apart from 2 which I intend to tell soon, having the others on board has made dressing more comfortable to me and who knows where I might go from here.

In terms of work, I work in the butcher section in a supermarket so dressing while at work would have to many negatives, aside from having a unisex uniform of an apron coat and hat, the girls have to wear hairnets and that just wouldn't work with a wig. I also do a lot of heavy lifting and the cooked food counters get quite hot so when it's busy it's very sweaty, if I worked at the checkouts then I might say otherwise.

And lastly I'm quite lazy at times so having to shave daily etc sounds like a lot of trouble.

Sarah x

Krisi
06-26-2015, 06:33 AM
If I woke up with a woman's body one morning I would accept it and explain to my family and friends that it just "happened", I don't know why. Waking up with a beard shadow and body hair and a male voice each day, the answer is "No." Way too much trouble to shave and apply beard cover twice a day and trying to avoid speaking or coughing.

But, if any of us wanted to dress as a female every day, it's not illegal. There could be problems but you can do it if you're wiling to put up with all the trouble.

deebra
06-26-2015, 06:34 AM
YES, especially if you "pass", but not at work yet.

Traceyjo
06-26-2015, 07:28 AM
No I would not want to dress full time. I would definitely dress much more often than I do now if I was out to everyone and it would be wonderful to do so but it would restict my normal activities that I enjoy as a male too much.

BLUE ORCHID
06-26-2015, 07:56 AM
Hi Leslie, I have been in this program for over 68yrs. I dress for a couple hrs.
every morning and a couple hrs. a couple nights a week.
In my life I feel that I have the best of both Male & Female Worlds.:daydreaming:

Ceera
06-26-2015, 08:01 AM
I don't think I would. I currently identify as a male CD who enjoys expressing the feminine side of their personality on occasion. I dress about once a week, on Saturday nights, go to a club and dance and socialize, and then revert back to male mode for another week. I don't ever see myself trying to transition 100% to a female identity. Work isn't a factor for me, because I telecommute full time and no one I work with ever sees me. I've worked fully Dressed, and as long as I remember not to use my girl voice on phone meetings, no one needs to know I'm in girl mode.

As others here noted, the time it takes to shave all over and do makeup is a consideration. I'm starting to use an eppilator on my legs and arms, and hope to also use it on my body hair as I get used to the initial pain of doing so. If I can get to where I only need to touch up the eppilation once a month or so to remain furless on my arms, legs and at least my upper chest, then I will be much more likely to dress more often.

I'm preparing to move to a new town that is pretty well known for being LGBT friendly, and while making a fresh start there with new neighbors and friends, I am hoping to be out with them and let them know both sides of me - dressing perhaps 50% of the time. But I think the only reason I would consider dressing full time would be if I connected with a new Partner who really, really wanted me to be en-femme full time for them. Otherwise, I prefer to keep my options open for who I might hook up with, and the possibility remains there that I may hook up in a completely straight relationship with a partner that doesn't want me to cross dress at all. If that happens, Ceera can go back in the closet, to only surface on special occasions.

StephanieCLT
06-26-2015, 08:03 AM
That's a very interesting question. I think if I were in a different life stage, then maybe yes. Where I am now (age, family status, work, etc.), it's not an option. However, if I were younger, I'd consider it. However, I don't consider myself TS, but I'd love to be in female garb full time. And who knows, maybe I'd consider more if I were younger. I do believe God made me who I am for a reason, but it's interesting to think about what it would be like to dress and even live as a female 100%. And yes, I'm jealous every day of the things women get to wear, and frustrated as most of them take it for granted.

Jasmine Harris
06-26-2015, 08:18 AM
I will let you know next month. I am off to San Francisco early July 2015. I intend for the 1st time to dress 24/7. I am under no illusions that SF (from what I have read online) is 'ringfenced' when it comes to acceptance. But I stick with my adage; "I’m on a journey and the destination will reveal itself. I don’t need to hurry any more".

Jenniferathome
06-26-2015, 08:28 AM
Not a chance. I'm strictly a part timer.

delwyn
06-26-2015, 08:31 AM
While crossdressing is a part of me it is not something I want to do 100% of the time. I think it would become less special to me if I was doing it full time. That being said, my wife is going away for along weekend and I am looking forward to spending the better part of that time dressed.

ErikaS
06-26-2015, 10:43 AM
For me going full time would not really be an issue. I am wearing women's clothes every day while not really presenting female I feel myself female. I want to present more female and it's a plan as I work thru my family and work issues. I want more Erika time with friends and family it's a slow process. I want more but it's a slow and steady pace.

Erika

Adriana Moretti
06-26-2015, 10:52 AM
dressing 24 hours a day 7 days a week sounds awesome, however for me reality kicks in..and I realize that it is also alot of work, between getting ready,makeup,shaving etc....ive had long stretches of time where I dressed fully, however once in a while my body needs a break, and I get lazy and will take a day off...it's alot of work.....if lazer was an option it might make it easier, but I dont see that happening soon .

Dana44
06-26-2015, 12:05 PM
Ah good question Leslie. I would not do it because I have so many things male that I do. It would be a very hard change.

Sandie70
06-26-2015, 12:21 PM
I might fantasize about doing that, but then reality sets in. Unless I had thousands of dollars to undergo laser and/or electrolysis on my entire body (I get lazy quite often and go without shaving for days at a time), I couldn't go out on my more hairy days. Then there is the issue of wearing a wig at all times, makeup (which I would desperately need not to look like a boy), expanding my wardrobe dramatically, etc. - and considering that I would never transition - then to go full time would be tough.

Oh, and with it taking me several hours each time to get into "girl mode," I think the task of going full time would be overwhelming.

But don't get me wrong... I do fantasize about such a possibility - especially about having a boob job (forms are such a pain).

Natasha V
06-26-2015, 12:24 PM
I would not do it because it is also a special time for my spouse and myself it would loose that magical time we have.

Isabella Ross
06-26-2015, 12:25 PM
Definitely not. Enjoy being a man who dallies occasionally in a dress and makeup...

Badwolf
06-26-2015, 12:26 PM
I like my male mode too.

What I would love more than dressing 100% of the time is the freedom to dress as I please 100% of the time, which doesn't happen. That definitely means that I nurture my female side much more, and I feel anxiety because when I want to dress I can't. Sometimes it would feel EASIER to come out at this stage and transition 100% of the time, and I envy that freedom to be themselves, but I really do believe I'd regret giving up my male side as much as I regret having to hide my female side.

I've gone for long stretches dressed en femme, and I've enjoyed them.

Alexa Lynne
06-26-2015, 01:06 PM
I definitely would, but I would have to go about and get everything done and become 100% female first. I hope I can do that some day, but right now, I will just stick to wearing my clothes at home. I do wear my "Mackenzie" clothes underneath my work clothes. Nobody has noticed, and if they do ask, I will just tell them that I don't want to discuss it, and they can't hound me about it :)

jigna
06-26-2015, 01:51 PM
i would love to dress 24/7 as a woman, but lot of limitations.
Grown up children.
Male personality known to others.
Orthodox typical indian family
So, in brief, I have to maintain my male character in Public at any given time.
No regrets.

CynthiaD
06-26-2015, 01:58 PM
In a word, yes.

Helen_Highwater
06-26-2015, 02:19 PM
In another word, no.

I've spent 4-5 days fully enfemme and it's hard work. As others have said, shaving, makeup and even though I can go into femme mode fairly naturally, maintaining the pose requires concentration. In a little while I'm off for a few beers with the boys and being in femme mode, well it wouldn't be the same dynamic.

In truth, I'd like more time to dress but being part time gives the best of both worlds.

Stephanie_83
06-26-2015, 02:31 PM
No. But I know I'm a CD and not a TS.

Ditto for me - there are plenty of times I enjoy and feel most comfortable in boy mode.

pamela7
06-26-2015, 02:43 PM
a big yes ... except, for rugged manual labour men's clothing is more suitable, then its "under dress to the max"

Julie1123
06-26-2015, 03:03 PM
I'm also a no. The desire to dress even when I'm home alone with no barriers tends to ebb and flow.

claire1d
06-26-2015, 03:22 PM
I certainly fantasized about it, then reality sets in: I am not a "shape shifter" nor young enough to pull that off without leaving my entire life and the people I love behind.
But I would just love to live enfemme for a few days (or even one), maybe one day I will have the courage to try :daydreaming:

OCCarly
06-26-2015, 03:28 PM
You know, today I walked past a mirrored window in a large downtown area, and stopped to look at myself. And even though I looked really good as a middle age guy, standing there in a light grey summer weight suit, with a Brooks Brothers oxford cloth shirt, a Versace necktie, and a Bailey fedora perched on my head, I still wished I was female, and in full female office dress. Now as I write this, I sit at the computer in Aeropostale midi length shorts and a VS camisole bra top, far more comfortable, even though my legs need a shave.

So, yes I would present female full time if I could. But work presents some roadblocks -- like the amount of prep time in the morning, and the kind of people my job sometimes forces me to deal with.

Samantha2015
06-26-2015, 03:33 PM
No. Samantha is a weekend kind of gal only. That being said I've had painted toenails for 3+ weeks now. Nobody has seen them but me and some folks on this forum.
Hope it's not the dreaded PINK FOG creeping in from my toes upward........ :heehee:

carhill2mn
06-26-2015, 03:33 PM
I am "full-time" many days. On those days when I am not, it is because I have chosen not to be "out" to friends and family (a few family members do know) as many would be uncomfortable. Even though some effort is required to present a womanly image all of the time, the results are worth it to me.

Jean 103
06-26-2015, 04:15 PM
Yes. I have been pushing hard to answer this question. If it wasn’t work I would be 24/7. The longest I’ve gone is 8 days and I didn’t want to stop. I go out one or two nights a week and most weekends. I have a number of friends that know me as only as Jean. Dressing and going out is one thing, but making friends, this changes everything. I love my girl (GG) friends and the guys too. Girls you can share things with, guys are, you know different. For me it’s not about fooling anybody it’s about being accepted. I hope this helps.
Love Jean

Kandi Robbins
06-26-2015, 04:24 PM
It is wayyyyyyyy to much work doing this! I spend 10 minutes getting out the door as a guy and at least an hour as a girl. The shaving, the exercising (which I would do anyway) to stay slim, the makeup, all that goes into an outfit and looking as good as I can. Do I enjoy this? You bet! But that's the thing, I look forward to it, it's fun, a release, an event. If I did it 24/7 (which would then mean the potential loss of my wife, children, family, friends, job, etc.), the fun would be gone. I have tried to be open minded about this and who I am and I am more and more coming to the realization, I like who I am (male) and I've never felt "wrong" as a man. I just had the other side of me so I do enjoy being a woman once in a while. It creates this blend of a person I have grown to like very much, a much happier, outgoing and loving version of me!

Sandie70
06-26-2015, 05:17 PM
I would like to add an addendum to my original comment. If I could solve all the headaches and problems of dressing (hot wigs, forms, beard, etc.), then on second thought I would go full on 24 hours a day, all week, month and year.

And why the change of heart?

One thing... vanity.

As much as a pain in the rear it would be to dress every day, I have to admit I make a much better looking woman than a man. Complain as I might about makeup, I can take years off my face. And there are so many beautiful clothes for women that help you hide those bulges. And frankly, sometimes being drab is just plain boring.

So yes, I would dress full time if I could snap my fingers and get into girl mode fast and easy.

However...

Stephanie47
06-26-2015, 06:34 PM
As a man who enjoys wearing female attire on occasion, and, male attire most of the time, it's a big "no." That's even assuming I would be 100% passable. I have ample time to wear women's clothing on a daily basis (except for summer), and, I don't even do that every day. I rather enjoy the unshaven disheveled look.

MissTee
06-26-2015, 06:43 PM
Not all the time, no.

LeslieSD
06-26-2015, 07:19 PM
Thanks for sharing your opinions.

I have been thinking about what my inner self truly want. And often that is a very hard question to answer. The time needed for preparing is definitely one thing that might get in the way. Job perspective, financial situation, and even the city you live in can affect your desired way of living too.

I used to think I have a definite answer to this question. But now I am really not sure about myself. It is interesting that some of you brought up the term 24x7, which I believe implies "living as a woman". In my mind, I am more thinking about "living as someone who would dress as a woman". I admit that I am partially inspired by Isha's pioneering work here. I am more thinking about the configuration of "dressing in woman cloth", but with people around me knowing that I am just dressing that way, not I am not on my way to get an SRS.

The more I think about it, the more I realize that this is more complicated than I thought. This is still a binary gender society. If you are a male, the society accepts you. If you have decided to transit into a female, the society is starting to accept you (slowly, but it is getting there). But what is it that I indeed want? Male, but in female cloth? Occasionally? All the time? Where should the society put me? I guess I have to figure out where I want myself to be in in the first place, because we talk about society. But just to get that answer is very hard, though all you need to do is ask you own heart.

Bridget Ann Gilbert
06-27-2015, 12:41 AM
Leslie,

You seem to be at the crux of the dilemma all of us who fall in the gender fluid area of the spectrum face. I know for myself there are parts of my male identity I genuinely enjoy, especially being a father, but there are those times when I just need to let my feminine side out. How to balance out both needs? There are no easy answers, just a day by day walk through life. My best advice is to keep close to those who are most important to you. Find out the limits of what they will accept from your dressing and seek fair compromise with them. Best wishes.

Bridget

kryss.cd
06-27-2015, 01:00 PM
I wouldn't but then again I only underdress occasionally now. It's been a while since I've worn anything exterior wise.

TrishaLake
06-27-2015, 01:01 PM
I would not. I love to do it when I get the "feeling" but I also like being a guy!

Suzie Petersen
06-27-2015, 06:55 PM
I read the question like this: "If everybody around me, family, friends, work, vanilla world etc, were perfectly OK with me dressing and/or presenting as a woman, would I do it 100% of the time?"

So never mind the concerns of what anyone would say or do, they are already perfectly fine with me presenting as a female if I want.

So then ... No! I would probably not all the time! But, sometimes I definitely would!

I have always said that if I had been born a girl, I would likely crossdress as a guy some times!

In my perfect world image (it is a secret place in my mind! Please be quiet if you enter!!) I could chose my clothes and presentation every morning as I wanted!
In my life, I sometimes work in a suit, sometimes in jeans and a shirt, sometimes in a civilian version of a military uniform.
In my spare time, I am often in jeans and a casual shirt or a t-shirt.

In my "fantasy" world of the What If, I would still dress like described above some days because it would be practical, but sometimes, now and then, I would dress and look as female as you can possibly imagine!

- Suzie

Fany27ab
06-28-2015, 07:05 PM
3 days as a girl 3 days as a boy and 1 day of the week with mixed clothes

Badwolf
06-28-2015, 09:12 PM
Leslie presenting as a woman full time necessitates relaxed days as a woman as well. Jeans a t-shirt and all that jazz. A lot of the potential times can be shaved to more reasonable times.

@Suzie Peterson For me if I was born female I probably wouldn't have ended up crossdressing ONLY because girls can wear it all anyways. I think I would probably have been comfortable in all female clothes. Still ifs ands and buts are all just that, hypotheticals. If wearing a guys t-shirt would be considered crossdressing for a girl I'd probably do it but without any type of existential crisis.

baldy1
06-28-2015, 10:10 PM
I would like to stay in girlie mode 100% of the time when at home but alas that would not happen due to visitors and 100% of the time when not at home thats 200% of the time but alas it is probably only 25% of the time when at home and 1% of the time when not at home so if i had 200% I would actually only have 26% out of 200 if you could have 200 do the maths?

Julie

CarlaWestin
06-29-2015, 06:40 AM
In my life I feel that I have the best of both Male & Female Worlds.

This sums it up for me. I'm a crossdresser. A gender adventurist. There are things that I do in male mode that being in fem would just be a hindrance or distraction. But then, I would love to take on 24/7 for a month or two just for the thrill of it.

kimdl93
06-29-2015, 03:00 PM
For me it's an definite Yes! I would strongly prefer to live full time as a woman, and hope to reach that point in the years ahead. I hope you can do the same, if it's what you desire.

claire_hollinger
06-30-2015, 12:44 AM
I would without hesitation if it weren't for my wife....I think that my children would take it well, but my wife wasn't a lesbian when we met, and isn't now. I would lose her, and for her sake, I repress a lot of my desires. Ideally, we would both be the woman in the relationship, but it isn't going to work out that way. We all make sacrifices for our family, this is mine.

Georgina
06-30-2015, 05:14 AM
No I wouldn't. My work requires protective clothing which is male. I would like to wear female clothes in my leisure time, which I do at home at the moment, but will not, outside home, until we don't have to disguise ourselves as female.

sarahcsc
06-30-2015, 05:27 AM
Most people don't realise that they are dressed almost 100% of the time, it just depends on how you define 'dressed'.

Is wearing a pair a silk knickers underneath your suit tie considered 'dressed'?
Is putting on make-up (a lot of metrosexual males do) considered a part of being 'dressed'?
Is growing out one's hair considered part of 'dressing'?

Most of us find a comfortable compromise between an overt and covert expression of our gender.

For many of us, an overt expression causes more problems than it solves, hence we adopt a covert expression.

I for example, wear a feminine necklace all the time.

I clutch it intermittently during the day without even realising it.

So, am I dressed 100% of the time? Well, that is up to you and me to decide. :)

Love,
S

sometimes_miss
07-02-2015, 01:05 AM
We already have the option to dress as women 100% of the time. The question then becomes do we want to put up with all the potential problems that will arise from doing so. If I were young and could pass as a beautiful woman, with no problems arising just because of what I chose to wear, then perhaps yes; I feel quite normal when dressed as a girl and going about my day as if I were. But that's not the case, I will never resemble an attractive woman; So I'd have to say no.

LeslieSD
07-02-2015, 02:20 AM
Most people don't realise that they are dressed almost 100% of the time, it just depends on how you define 'dressed'.


To me, "dressed" means that to people unknown of me, I would almost be recognized as a woman. I have always looked at people at work who dressed nicely with a lot of envy. I wish I could do that everyday.

By the way, have I told you that you looked wonderful in your avatar picture.



We already have the option to dress as women 100% of the time. The question then becomes do we want to put up with all the potential problems that will arise from doing so.


Being able to pass is one part of the problem. Making that your spouse can accept that is another hard part.

Marie-Claude, France
07-02-2015, 05:13 AM
Definitely, yes. I find myself very attractive as a lady, whereas as a man I don't like myself.
The only problem would be wearing a wig in windy days, which is very common in Southern France...

Claire Cook
07-02-2015, 05:58 AM
In the best of all worlds, i certainly would. As it is, i present as female as often as I can, but most of the time present as male (work, with relatives or friends who do not know,on the golf course with buddies). For me, it is not a question of days when I "feel" male or female, since I always feel like "me". It's a question of which mode of dress is appropriate for the moment.

Karen RHT
07-02-2015, 08:10 AM
I truly enjoy being able to dress as I please inside our home. I would like to enjoy dressing as I please outside our home. If society was good with that, I would wear what I want, when I want, where I want. Unlikely I would constantly wear clothes labeled exclusively for one gender or the other.


Karen

Judith96a
07-02-2015, 09:39 AM
Like others here, I'm a part-timer! So... no, I wouldn't cross-dress 24/7/365. However, I might very well want to dress 24/7 for a few days in a row reasonably regularly! That would really confuse folks. And don't ask whether it would be "live in girl mode with regular boy-mode breaks" or vice-versa because I just don't know.
Having said all that, there's not the remotest chance of it ever being reality for me.

Helen 2
07-02-2015, 10:24 AM
After yesterday, I would say 'no way...it's too much work!' LOL!!
Let's see:
- two hours to get ready for an early dinner and a night out at CC's (a local LGBT hangout)...
- difficulty in finding parking, walking six blocks in 4" heels and then the reverse after...
- getting a run in one of my stockings from an errant screw under the dinner table. 'Screw' as in 'a fastener'. Thank God for Mom and her 'girls always carry an extra stocking or two' training...
- corset beginning to dig into me after a few hours....
- walking another three blocks to CC's, dancing for a few hours and walking back again after...
- ten minutes in the bathroom every time I have 'to go' because there are girdles to remove, stockings to re-adjust, makeup to be re-touched...
- a half-hour removing everything when I got home, by which time my feet and ribs were reeeallly feeling it...

...and do that every day?? I'm with Jenniferathome.... I don't think so. ;o)

Ahh...but it was still wonderful.
Hugs.....

Caden Lane
07-02-2015, 02:14 PM
I keep seeing ladies who say they would, save for the shaving and prep-work. I think such a question assumes certain things; like if you were planning to live full time, you would have taken some efforts to make it easier. In my case, I would certainly take the opportunity to live full-time. I, like many others, find it to be a life-long dream. In recent days, it has had me questioning the very nature of who I am. I've known for quite some time I am far more than a crossdresser, my needs go beyond those of your typical CD. Although I am not sure I would be diagnosable as TS. I feel to..., and i hope this doesn't seem offensive to anyone, but I feel too well adjusted to be TS. I do not seem to have the multitude of Gender Dysphoria issues I've seen other TS cope with through my years. But I do know I do not feel comfortable in my own skin. As a male I feel awkward, out of place, socially inept. As Caden I tend to feel fluid, and confident, assertive and powerful. But given certain things which have come up in my personal life and which I've blogged about, I will be having a series of very frank conversations with my psychologist, to see if perhaps we can get to the bottom of my feelings and thoughts.

Ever & Always,
Caden Lane