If you were a girl.......

[CarlaWestin]

.....would you be super feminine or, would you be kind of a ruff and tumble tomboy.

I think I would be both but, lean more towards sexey and elegant.

[deebra]

Definitely feminine, but not to the point where you couldn't wash the car or cut grass; and sexy, you bet, would never miss a chance to enjoy wearing all those nice clothes over a curvy female body.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Carla, If I was a girl I would probably be a FtoM Crossdreser .:daydreaming:

[Tomara]

Tomboy , I'm pretty happy in my life the way it is and I like doing the things I do so I wouldn't see too many changes overall.
Of course Tomboys can get prettied up from time to time too .

[Tabitha_Lynn]

Probably both.

I enjoy outdoors so I would definitely stick with that. But, I would definitely love my girly time.

[Lily Catherine]

I would probably look feminine but possess tomboy behaviors either way. And I would probably not mind being addressed as 'bro/dude' either. :lol:

[Donnagirl]

Reckon I'd be changing from tomboy to 'tart'.. Short skirts, high heels... Age appropriate - nah!

[Claire Cook]

I' d be me ... Just your average sweet young (:daydreaming:) thing.

[Lauri K]

I would be very feminine, with no desires to mow grass or rip in to a car repair....

Possibly would wash the car in my bikini just to distract traffic :tongueout

[Jorja]

There is a time and a place for everything. I am a ruff and tumble tomboy when I want to be and a girly girl when I don't want to be a tomboy.

[Ceera]

I think in that case I would be just a bit toward the tomboy side in my behaviors, in that I would still do things like make furniture in a wood shop or fix things around the house or mow the lawn. But when going out and about for social reasons or shopping I would dress in a stylish, somewhat sexy way. As Ceera my taste in women's clothes tends to what would be appropriate for a successful businesswoman my age or maybe 10 to 20 years younger than my actual age, and I don't think that would change much. But if I was a genetic girl, and assuming I had a fairly normal female figure to go with it, there are a lot of styles I could wear that I avoid today because they don't look good without a slender waist and flat, smooth skinned and hairless tummy.

[Krisi]

I don't think I have any experience to base an answer on. Besides, what we are is based on our past experiences and I have an extensive past as a male doing what would be considered "tomboy" if I had boobs and a vagina.

That said, in my next life, I plan to be a hot chick with a thriving Internet business with no need to get my hands dirty.

[Jaylyn]

I think I could be both. Just depends on my mood that day. Definitely some days a Tom Boy and others a hot gal the is super sexy and enjoying the gals life. Probably an even time match of both.

[Teressa]

I am sure I would be ultra feminine. Probably work at sephora. I wish.

[Lorna]

I'm sure "both" is the answer. Back in my youth, women did most things while wearing skirts or dresses so no reason why I couldn't do those same things now. However, women slowly realised that they could do many things more easily/comfortably while dressed in less feminine clothes. I imagine that's what I would also quite quickly find. Even so, my dressing enjoyment comes from the feminine things so there would still be plenty of those.

[pattyjones954]

I would be very feminine and sometime a tomboy cut the grass

[Amanda M]

Google Helen Mirren. End of story!

[AnnaMarie]

Defo NOT tomboy, I'd be cutting the grass in heels and a dress!

[Sarah-RT]

Fairly feminine but as others have said, not afraid to cut the grass or get dirty.

Sarah x

[Dana44]

I would be a can do girl. I would definitively wear jeans and boots cutting grass. So, tomboy... No. But a girly girl that can do.

[Lori Kurtz]

If I were a girl--meaning a female who is not anywhere near as old as I am--I would be smart and funny and sexy. I'd be proud of my body, I'd love wearing the kind of clothes that show it off to best advantage, I'd enjoy the effect that I would have on men, and I'd get a thrill out of giving men pleasure.

[ErikaS]

Both. I enjoy my female time and want to be more but it's the love of just being who you are I like the tomboy stuff but want to be pretty also.

Erika

[Gwinnie]

I would be a super feminine version of scarlett o'hara

[aprilgirl]

A combination of the two and extremely independent.

[jigna]

Still I would join this group

[kryss.cd]

I'm a huge gearhead so I'd probably be a tomboy.

[Tristessa]

I'd almost certainly have been a female bass player in a 90's alt metal band (hence my screen name) - for me, the perfect combination of ultra-femme and rocking out with the bros.

[Dianne S]

It depends on my mood. I usually dress in unambiguously feminine clothes like dresses and skirts, but not crazy over-the-top girly styles. Today, though, I was in a hurry so I'm just a jeans-and-t-shirt gal.

[natalie_cheryl]

I'd be ultra femme never wear pants just dresses and skirts

[Cheryl T]

Definitely not a Tom Boy...
If it was Ultra Feminine at 0 and Tom Boy at 10 I'd be about a 7 with 2 inclinations.

[rockerreds]

As femme as possible.

[KittyD]

Hmm... I guess I would just be me! Slightly unusual odd and boat rocker :D

Kate :tongueout

[Michelle 78]

Both if I can have that answer!! I love being girly but I won't be scared of getting my hands dirty now and then..........but not after I'd had my nails done!!!

[Dianne S]

I won't be scared of getting my hands dirty now and then..........but not after I'd had my nails done!!!

:) Oh, I can so identify. On Saturday, I went to my mom's and spent two hours assembling an IKEA MALM 6-drawer chest (http://www.ikea.com/ca/en/catalog/products/40053930/). The IKEA stuff is really well-designed, but still... 2 frustrating hours and much chipped nail polish... gaaah...

I was also wearing a shortish skirt and totally unsuitable sandals, which maybe wasn't such a good idea...

[Giselle(Oshawa)]

i'd probably be as mixed up and confused as i am as a biological male.

[Yoshisaur]

i would mostly be the same, except I would put way more effort into how I look.

[Hilde_Morales]

Tomboy , I'm pretty happy in my life the way it is and I like doing the things I do so I wouldn't see too many changes overall.
Of course Tomboys can get prettied up from time to time too .
Realistically, I'd be a Tomboy.
Tomara sums my feelings up pretty well. The freedom to wear it all might well take away some of the impulse.

[OCCarly]

+1 on the bikini car wash thing. Only I would throw a pair of my favorite low cut shorts on over the bikini bottom. Just because. :devil:

[Tracii G]

I would be both just like I am now.

[Jorja]

:) Oh, I can so identify. On Saturday, I went to my mom's and spent two hours assembling an IKEA MALM 6-drawer chest (http://www.ikea.com/ca/en/catalog/products/40053930/). The IKEA stuff is really well-designed, but still... 2 frustrating hours and much chipped nail polish... gaaah...

You realize that those put together items require being a rocket scientist on steroids, right?.:eek::devil::doh:

[Julie1123]

I think Kaylee from Firefly about sums it up for me. :) Except for the liking guys part that is. Would still prefer women.

[NANNETTE]

Very girly and very feminine. I would mostly wear dresses, skirts and pantyhose. If I wore pants they would be very elegant and feminine and would be part of a pants suit.

[Lori31]

Feminine and girly all the way!

[Dianne S]

You realize that those put together items require being a rocket scientist on steroids, right?

After I moved to a new place in October 2014, I furnished it almost completely with IKEA. Once you assemble 3 Malm dressers, 3 Billy bookshelves, 3 Malm beds, 3 Malm desks, 3 task chairs, a kitchen table, a coffee table, two side tables, a TV stand and a seven-piece dining room set... you understand the Zen of IKEA. Or you go insane. Or both. In my case, I think both. I can almost build one of these (http://www.ikeahackers.net/2013/12/hex-key-maze-picture-3.html).

[TrishaLake]

I would be back in the 50's girl, total retro dress , lingerie and skirts...love that look on a women...

[phylis anne]

both tomboy and maybe if I was feeling wild a shameless little hussy

[Kelly Greene]

I would be a feminine up to the point of wearing pink. I would do everything I do now, only in nice cloths and makeup. I understand that I would have a large dry-cleaning, bill but thats life.

[Jazzy Jaz]

I would dress very feminine and sexy but i would still totally be me.

[victoria76]

Definitely I would dress sexy! :)

[Joni T]

Don't know, I'm a CD'er not a GG.

[Diane Smith]

Girly all the way. If possible, my feet would never come closer to the ground than the height of my 5" heels, and I'd have my nail technician on call 24/7 to fix the smallest chip in my polish.

- Diane

[Princess Ludwyna]

I'd be feminine most of the time.

[prene]

I would be fairly feminine, but not afraid to get a little dirty.

[Marcelle]

Hi Carla,

I don't think it would change much for me as I would have made the same life choices including joining the military as I wanted to ever since I was a child. I would dress according the social situation but would probably still spend most of my time in comfortable clothes (jeans and tops), I wouldn't have to worry about slathering on a ton of make-up and could just get up, wash, fix hair and go (what a blessing that would be). I would still be independent as I am now, would still like my active life (hiking, running, skydiving, boxing, etc.). I supposed if I married (man or woman) we would still share the chores (inside and outside) so I don't think I would consider myself more feminine I would just be genetically female vice genetically male.

Hugs

Isha

[Jeri Ann]

I just finished replacing 92' of fence in the back yard. It was dirty and hot work. I absolutely hate doing things like that. However, I do like outdoor things like boating, fishing, hiking, gardening, etc. So if I could be a girl full time, I would always look and be as feminine as the situation would allow.

Jeri

[docrobbysherry]

Carla, isn't that a bit like asking, "If u were a duck, what color would u be?"

Maybe u mean what kind of female would we imagine we,d be?

[sarahcsc]

Most likely quiet and demure.

As a boy however, I was rambunctious! lol

[Mollyanne]

No brainer for me------A GIRLY GIRL!!!!!!!

Molly

[Stephanie_CD_64]

I would be ULTRA-feminine 90% of the time, but I would not be afraid to break a nail.

[sometimes_miss]

It's hard to know. Most likely the first few years I'd spend indulging mostly in female specific behaviors, but it's possible that eventually I might get the urge to go back to boy stuff like riding a motorcycle, sports cars, flying, etc.. I base it on the knowledge that the things that I now enjoy when I get to do girl things would probably become routine and even feel like I'm doing chores. I don't think a lot of women really enjoy washing and setting their hair, doing make up, shaving their legs, carefully cleaning their piercings and earrings/studs, cleaning their bracelets, or painting their nails. Then add in how many times I've heard women complain about their bra being uncomfortable as well. Women really seem to feel their life is a whole lot harder than a man's life, because like so many other things the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I don't think it's harder, but I can see how it would appear more time consuming. Laundry is another thing, as a guy almost everything goes in one load except my white and light colored shirts. Girls have to separate delicates, lingerie, hand wash stockings, etc., and wind up hanging their stockings, bras and other stuff up to dry all over the house.

I'd be an 'average' girl. Sometimes enjoy getting really dressed up fancy, but also wearing casual stuff too. The one difference from how some of my girlfriends over the years behaved; as a guy I know how good a woman can look in clothes that show off her figure. I wouldn't be wearing for lack of a better word, 'loose' clothing. To me, a woman who is fit and takes care of herself is a thing of great beauty, and that's what I'd work my butt off to be.

[Michaelasfun]

I'd be one of those cutoff & tshirt girls when workin outside, then clean up real nice to go out ala bright colored dress, makeup, and press on nails ( I can't seem to avoid breaking real ones ).

[kimdl93]

I would be me, not over the top in any respect. I would do what needs to be done, without really thinking about whether it was a gender associated task.

[Judith96a]

Mmmmm... Interesting question. I can't imagine that I would have played any rugby! However, I suspect that I would have still been rather geeky in my interests. So perhaps I would have been a girly girl with occasional tomboy moments.

[StephanieH]

I'd try to make Taylor Swift look butch. There wouldn't be enough lace in the world to contain me.

[bimini1]

Both. That's what's up with the whole freedom of being female. You have the freedom to express both sides of the coin with minimal fallout. Our neighbors have two teen girls and they are both athletes. You see them around the neighborhood playing lacrosse, volleyball all sweaty.
And then you'll go to party at their house and the girls will show up in heels, makeup. And you just go to yourself wow it must be nice.

[DanaR]

I'd be a girly girl.

[weyburn]

I would be a super feminine girl and probably very submissive
Can only wish and dream

[Victoria Demeanor]

If I was A girl:
Well I would love to think That I would be wearing dresses and heels all the time and be a real girly girl, but I do have to take clues from my sister and think about my own inner soul.
Like my sister I probably wear dress in my youth,well er um ya I did try hers on a couple of times. Like her thought and at my age now I probably would be wearing more jeans then dresses.
How ever I do believe that I am dual souled so if I was a girl I would be more then likely trying to explain to my husband right now that I wanted to dress like a guy and hang out in a sports bar.....

[alwayshave]

You mean I'm not a girl ;-). Of course super feminine.

[Anne-Sofie]

I would be girly and elegant. Lots of skirts and heels because that would work with the job I do now. I would not mow grass or clean a car, but I'm not doing those things in my male form either.

[Savannah_Skye]

I lean towards girly-girlm dresses, skirts, heels, etc. Sometime...just to be honest:)..I would not mind being wonder woman!!

[Ally 2112]

I would be a little of both .There are times i have to do the get dirty stuff and times where it is all girl time :)

[claireforever]

Id like to be a girly girl also I just love beng feminine .

[Candice June Lee]

Both, feminine sexy and dirty. Gojng out and being feminine, sexy, provacative at times. But usually more on the comfy side but working dirty and somewhat sexy. With some flirtation thrown in for good measure.

[Natalie cupcake]

I would be feminine for the most part. But if I had to I guess I could get some grease under my nails!:heehee:

[Alexa Lynne]

I would definitely be super feminine. Out in the mall, wearing my low cut shirt with tight shorts and letting all the other females look at me wishing they could have me. . LOL

[ShelbyDawn]

I'd run the spectrum from end to end; girly-girl all lace and frills to jeans and boots when I pull my Harley out for a ride. OK, I don't have a Harley, but since we're dreaming, I thought I'd throw it in. :)

[BillieJoEllen]

There was a period of time a number of years ago that I got to dress almost every day for almost seven or eight weeks During part of that time I spent almost three weeks totally fem 24/7. I never tired of being feminine or what it took to get there. Would I ever get tired of the things I'd have to do? I don't really know but I don't think so.

[Emily_3]

I'd be whatever the situation calls for, girly girl, but not afraid to get covered oil, sawdust or metal shavings, oh and since we're dreaming I must still be able to fly, mid length dresses are a must :daydreaming:

[5150 Girl]

I'm a girly girl, but, still acknowledging that sometimes you have to roll up your sleeves, and get dirty.

[Kate Simmons]

I'm most definitely a tom boy Carla but I clean up nicely when I'm going out to have fun. :battingeyelashes::)

[Cjackcd]

I'd be the girl in a dress wearing chucks with bright colors, hairband, and always feminine.

[karenpayneoregon]

When I use to cross dress it was feminine and sexy as my male identity was off the charts for being macho which was to compensate for not being female at that time.

[Robin414]

Good topic for conversation! I think I'd be the Tom Boy but a sexy Tom Boy to be sure!