Worrying you may out yourself if

[heathr1]

you fall menally unwell in the future and your inhibitions disappear?

Do others here worry about this?

[Katey888]

Well, it's surely a possibility - and maybe even a probability as life meanders on... :thinking:

Do I worry about it?

No.

Quite sometime ago I stopped worrying about things that I have zero chance of influencing... that includes (but is not limited to):

- The earth being incinerated by a freak solar flare...
- My house being flattened by a crashing airliner... :eek:
- My proclivity to appear female from time-to-time being accidentally discovered by someone who knows me...

Pretty low on the list is the likelihood of me going 99% fruit-loop and dressing without realising it... but if it happens I probably won't care anyway... :D

Katey x

[Samantha2015]

https://youtu.be/ZmZdqsCW8vM

Seriously though I'd worry about it more coming out of anesthesia if I have surgery, saying
something about my dresses or heels

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Heathr, That used to be the furthest thing on my mind till you brought it up now.:daydreaming:

[LexiNexi]

It happened to me when I was on Ambien for insomnia. I don't even remember dressing up, as I woke up the next day not wearing anything, which is normal. My GF thought I was losing my mind. Technically I kind of was. Ambien is one hell of a drug.

[I Am Paula]

Number one rule- If caught in a zombie apocalypse, make sure you are wearing clean underwear.
Honestly, don't worry too much, if you're that far gone, nobody will care about your presentation, and the new straightjackets are quite sexy.

[Maria 60]

It's a thought but why worry about it now and why not deal with it then and enjoy our healthy years.

[Belle Cri]

Something not unlike that happened to me. One day flat on my back in the hospital in ICU wondering what in the hell happened. When I got back, even though it has been at times frightening, I thought, what the hell, I could be miserable and dead now. So lets try happy and content before dead this time and see if that works a little better. It has. It was precisely that that made me question the inhibitions and they started to disappear.

[Kelsey21]

I probably would be more worried about a "momentary" lapse of judgement, say, at the annual golf tournament, where one ends up having one too many wobbly pops and saying something.

[kimdl93]

If you accept the premise and indeed be me mentally ill, people will assume it's a manifestation of the illness. Hence, no problem.

[larry]

Not really. If that happens I probably would not know anyway.. I do however worry (think) sometimes of falling downstairs in my heels or while on the treadmill in my ladies workout wear and the medics showing up. hehehe

[Pat]

Would it be a case of "mental unwellness" or an onset of clarity? If you spent your whole life wanting to wear women's clothing but hiding and living in fear of "discovery" then suddenly said, "Screwt" and started living as you wanted to -- which side of the line is mental unwellness?

[Teresa]

Heathr1,
I don't worry unduly about it but I think my wife may have concerns that if I lose my marbles she will have a problem with it all getting out of hand !

[Stephanie47]

The thought has occurred to me, but, not in the sense of someone finding out as I lay in the emergency room fully en femme resulting from an accident or stroke when I'm out for a walk. Or even home alone and my son or daughter finds me laid out on the floor. I find myself expressing support and concern about a friend's grandson transitioning to granddaughter. It does run through my mind, "Why is he so supportive and knowledgeable?" I figure I'll have to deal with it when it does occur. Several years ago a nosy next door neighbor family violated my privacy by watching me in my backyard. I overheard them talking about it when I was working near the fence (en drab). I thought they had told some neighbors, as it was their nature to run with the mouth. I never detected change in behavior with other neighbors. Either they were not told or they did not care. The episode just made me be more cautious during certain hours of the day about relaxing in my backyard.

[Sarah-RT]

I figure if my inhibitions were gone I wouldn't have to worry, i guess that's what self of acceptance is in a way, lowering your inhibitions without using legal highs :drink:

Sarah x

[Robin414]

I think if I came to that point I wouldn't care either! That said, my mom always said 'wear clean underwear just in case your in an accident! Now that means a properly fitting bra! 😆

[Krisi]

I'm with Samantha. I worry about what I might say coming out of anesthesia. I worry a lot less now that I'm out to my wife.

[CynthiaD]

Why worry? I'm totally nuts already. Crossdressing is the only sane thing I do.

[ChubbyLeahCD]

I worry about dental procedures because I'm afraid I may out myself.
Having outpatient surgery in a month and worries about being too loopy and telling my wife or the nurses and doctor.

[Badwolf]

I worry about it, but not to the point where it dominates my life in any way.

I like to control when and how people that are important to my life find out as much as possible, so a bit of control is important to me at this stage in life.

But the worry isn't about accidental issues. People already think I have enough odd ways of thinking of the world that I can live with it. If it's a mental break of any kind then honestly I'll have bigger things to worry about than anybody thinking I do this without a physiological issue.

[Danika Jane McKenzie]

God, there are so many things. Lol. If I leave a cute dress, some sexy underwear or a toy or 4 out in the open and I have friends over and they see it. Which has happened once. I left out some panties and a friend saw them. I said they were from a previous conquest of the opposite sex. Lol. Or if I didn't get all the makeup off. Or my hairless body. Or my painted toes. The list goes on and on. Maybe I should just leave it all out in the open and be happy!