Feelings.....

[thecddj]

When we wear breast forms for whatever reason, how do you all feel when you have to take them off??
If its for bed or your other half doesn't like you wearing them or that they still don't know that you dress or you have to take them out to go out the house.
I for one wear forms and have seen a few posts on a few forums saying "if you wear forms you want to be a woman"
I honestly don't want to transition but love wearing forms, i love the feel and how they are on my body but still want to me a man (if that is understandable???)
I do feel like something is missing when i take them off.

how about you ???

[Jenniferathome]

Forms are creating a shape I can not get close to any other way. They are a tool. That's it

[Alice_2014_B]

I have to admit that I would like to have real ones for like a day, I'm talking about a day that I'm off work.
Of course I would have to go out in girl-mode if I had them for a day.
:)

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi DJ, I'm just a guy that loves presenting as a lady and the forms are a MAJOR part of
my presentation, when I get undressed it's always sad to have to take them off.:daydreaming:

[Krisi]

The "if you wear forms you want to be a woman" statement is just someone's opinion, it carries no weight (no pun intended). I wear forms and I wear hip and butt padding. I wear a wig. It's a bit disappointing when I take it all off but there's no hidden meaning, I just like looking and (physically) feeling like a woman.

Why we all do this is a big question and I don't think anyone knows. Some folks are willing to guess, but their reason may not be the same as my reason or your reason.

[KayMcLaughlin]

Like most of this, I think there's a HUGE range of "OK" answers to this... Everyone is going to have their own subtly nuanced experience.

For me, it hurts taking them off. It's one of the most blatant bits of transformation into Kay or back away from Kay that I do. I almost cried, dressing back down after my first time out and about in the world.

I think that feeling of grief is becoming less intense as income to better terms with the idea of fluidly flowing from one gender to the other, and working to accept and incorporate both into my life.

[I Am Paula]

When I had just begun transition, and was still wearing forms, it was devastating to take them off. My mind knew they were not real, but also saw them as part of me.
I've had my implants for almost a year now, but my forms are still in a box in my closet. I had about ten pairs over the years, and they helped me keep my sanity while I was still too much in denial to begin transition.
Please do not underestimate the psychological value of forms for those that need them.

[Sarah-RT]

I take them off for bed but will on occasion sleep in them, I dont feel bad taking them out too much but wish I didnt have to at times. I used to get a serious kick of wearing them but that has worn off to now where my outfit feels incomplete without them

Sarah x

[kimdl93]

I don't want to give the impression that breast forms have magical, mystical powers. In some of us, in some manner, breast forms to contribute mightily to a sense of completion. I do feel a small sense of loss or deprivation whenever I can't wear mine..I don't want to exaggerate it, but it's there. I would prefer their permanent presence, but I haven't yet figured out how I'm going to make that work.

[I Am Paula]

Kim, I think to those suffering from GD, they do have magical, mystical powers. I was grasping at straws trying to keep it together, and somehow having my forms helped me thru' it.

[CynthiaD]

I hate taking off my forms, and I hate not being able to wear them all the time. They make me feel normal.

[Krisi]

Paula, since you've had "real" boobs for a year, what are you planning on doing with the "fake" ones? Wearing them for Halloween?

[Michelle 78]

I like to wear mine of course but as Jennifer said they are just a tool and an important part of presenting as a Woman, I don't get a kick out of wearing them. Of course we would all like to have the real thing.

[kinkyboots]

Many men wish they had breasts too, and I'm fairly certain non of the one I've talked to about it CD at all. I'm a breast man myself, if i could get away with it i would dressed up or in male mode. In my dream world it's normal or either sex to have them, but that's just a fantasy.

[KayMcLaughlin]

So... Is feeling grief and sadness when the breast forms come off a pink fog thing, normal sadness at having a fun thing end (for now), or a potential symptom of GD? Wondering, after the comments about "denial" above...