Millie.Graham
08-12-2015, 02:57 PM
So it has been a while since I posted. I finally came out to my wife earlier this year and it didn't go so good. My wife and i have been working on life together and and have restored or marriage and friendship to a place we both missed being at. Though I am firmly in a DADT relationship, the week before the trip I am currently on she told me, "I love all of you, just the way you are. I don't know if you are broken or not. But I know it is not my place to fix you if you are. I love you.".
So with that I find for the first time in my life I feel free to be me. It is such a wonderful feeling. I packed up a skirt and a pair of flats, hose, nail polish and a few other essentials when I left for the trip I am on now. I have spent the last couple of evenings in my room dressed and working. I just can't put words to the joy , calm and peace I have felt. Best I can do is to say that I am free, and it is wonderful.
It got even better this afternoon! A meeting let out early and I found myself with some unexpected free time and after much internal debate I screwed up my courage and decided to go to a Dress Barn that I saw near by. I walked in and an elderly lady greeted me and pointed me to some dresses that would fit me and she found a free dressing room for me and left me to myself. I found a couple of dresses to try on. After trying them on I found I was not happy with my first round of selections (also I was nervous, shaking wreck).
As I started my second round of searching this wonderful SA came over and asked if I needed any help. I explained kind of what I thought I was looking for in a dress. She spent the rest I was at the store with me. She helped pick out a several dresses and offered to let me continue to use the dressing room I was already using (very front of store) or move to one in back if it would make me more comfortable. She wanted to see me in the dresses, because she want to make sure my dress fit and complimented me (I had explained I was a little lost as this was my first dress ever).
I opted for the back dressing room. She really put me at easy and continued to bring me dresses as I tried them on and critiqued them with me. We eventually narrowed it down to 2 dresses and I had to make the tough choice to narrow it to one because I really liked both, but both weren't in my budget or avaiable suitcase space. I finally selected a nice blue print dress which I totally love and am enjoying. Dress Barn in California, Maryland (not a typo there is a town by the name of California). Totally awesome SA there who made this trip beyond words great!
I am considering posting a picture, but don't know if I have the courage for that one yet and I don't have a wig or makeup. Also I plan to chronicle my coming out to my wife experience in more detail because I believe sharing those experiences here are important. It was only through some of you ladies here that I was ever able to wrestle my dressing to the ground.
-Millie
So with that I find for the first time in my life I feel free to be me. It is such a wonderful feeling. I packed up a skirt and a pair of flats, hose, nail polish and a few other essentials when I left for the trip I am on now. I have spent the last couple of evenings in my room dressed and working. I just can't put words to the joy , calm and peace I have felt. Best I can do is to say that I am free, and it is wonderful.
It got even better this afternoon! A meeting let out early and I found myself with some unexpected free time and after much internal debate I screwed up my courage and decided to go to a Dress Barn that I saw near by. I walked in and an elderly lady greeted me and pointed me to some dresses that would fit me and she found a free dressing room for me and left me to myself. I found a couple of dresses to try on. After trying them on I found I was not happy with my first round of selections (also I was nervous, shaking wreck).
As I started my second round of searching this wonderful SA came over and asked if I needed any help. I explained kind of what I thought I was looking for in a dress. She spent the rest I was at the store with me. She helped pick out a several dresses and offered to let me continue to use the dressing room I was already using (very front of store) or move to one in back if it would make me more comfortable. She wanted to see me in the dresses, because she want to make sure my dress fit and complimented me (I had explained I was a little lost as this was my first dress ever).
I opted for the back dressing room. She really put me at easy and continued to bring me dresses as I tried them on and critiqued them with me. We eventually narrowed it down to 2 dresses and I had to make the tough choice to narrow it to one because I really liked both, but both weren't in my budget or avaiable suitcase space. I finally selected a nice blue print dress which I totally love and am enjoying. Dress Barn in California, Maryland (not a typo there is a town by the name of California). Totally awesome SA there who made this trip beyond words great!
I am considering posting a picture, but don't know if I have the courage for that one yet and I don't have a wig or makeup. Also I plan to chronicle my coming out to my wife experience in more detail because I believe sharing those experiences here are important. It was only through some of you ladies here that I was ever able to wrestle my dressing to the ground.
-Millie